tamade Posted October 26, 2008 Report Share Posted October 26, 2008 Dear Learned members. pls help my friend. His details are as below - Friend's details - DOB-16/06/1980, TOB - 02.37 PM, POB- Miraj (Latitude: 16° 49' 60 N, Longitude: 74° 37' 60 E). His wife's details are - 09/08/1986 , 7.20 PM, Ahmdbad, Gujarat(23.02N, 72.37E) His marriage happened on 23rdmarch 2008, but has failed miserably, wife no longer staying with him now for the past 4 months, my friend & his parents are living in fear, as his wife & her parents may falsely employ the existing draconian marital laws which are biased to great extent in the favour of women....... kindly let us know what lies in future for them- 1. Is there a break-up in their husband-wife relationship.......? 2. Does my friend have a second marriage yoga........? 3. My friend's advocate has suggested him to file for a divorce petition by 15th November, how long will the case go......according to astro-analysis........? 4. What advise you would give to my friend to file for divorce or NO....? 5. How long u foresee this problem in my friends life.......he & his parents are becoming more worried day by day & fear for a false legal action, which is prominent these days.....since laws r biased towards women.....when he will be free out of this problem of this relation.......?? 6. what special prayers/ kriyas, you would advise my friend.....to come out of this relation safely without any shelling out of money.? Group, kindly help me by analysing on my friends astro-details & giving your valuable guidance, i cant see his declining health & m worried for his future, also his parents r under tension........hence guide plese... Please reply point-wise........on tamade123@gmail.com awaiting ur guidance.... high regards, thank U awaiting thank U Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
astro_tech Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Dear Learned members. pls help my friend. His details are as below - Friend's details - DOB-16/06/1980, TOB - 02.37 PM, POB- Miraj (Latitude: 16° 49' 60 N, Longitude: 74° 37' 60 E). His wife's details are - 09/08/1986 , 7.20 PM, Ahmdbad, Gujarat(23.02N, 72.37E) His marriage happened on 23rdmarch 2008, but has failed miserably, wife no longer staying with him now for the past 4 months, my friend & his parents are living in fear, as his wife & her parents may falsely employ the existing draconian marital laws which are biased to great extent in the favour of women....... kindly let us know what lies in future for them- 1. Is there a break-up in their husband-wife relationship.......? Yes. 2. Does my friend have a second marriage yoga........? Yes 3. My friend's advocate has suggested him to file for a divorce petition by 15th November, how long will the case go......according to astro-analysis........? Period between August 2009 to August 2010 - there can be some mild positive developments for settlement; and the outcomes will depend upon the thinking of the girl. Period from Sept 2010 to April 2012 appears to be quite favorable for settlement and getting relieved off from married life problems. 4. What advise you would give to my friend to file for divorce or NO....? As per his wife's chart, there are great chances that from June 2009 to March 2012 - her thinking towards present marital bond may change. And she may become interested in patching up. Astro-advise on such matters can only be fruitful; when there is personal consultation and understanding of the nature and circumstances. Further, in my personal opinion, such decisions should not be taken merely on the basis of astrology. The reason behind this separation is nothing but the age-gap of 6 years i.e. the girl is lacking maturity and trying to dominate instantly. While your friend is not ready to surrender for reasons he consider minor and foolish. Astrologically, both of them have marital problems till July/August 2009, and, thereafter, things will start improving. So, if your friend, HIMSELF, understands that the present situation is based upon silly arguments over minor issues; he may also think of giving his wife some time which could lead to patch-up during the period August 2009 to August 2010. Otherwise, he can opt for another marriage possible between Sept 2010 to April 2012. On personal basis, (without any astrological base), I would always recommend to look for amicable settlement and re-union. Around 90 percent of failed marriages are only because of mis-understanding, ego and lack of maturity. It is very easy to break any relationship; while it may take years to build a new one. And, off course, it also speaks upon your social status. 5. How long u foresee this problem in my friends life.......he & his parents are becoming more worried day by day & fear for a false legal action, which is prominent these days.....since laws r biased towards women.....when he will be free out of this problem of this relation.......?? Whenever a girl comes under such circumstances, her parents suffer the Most; and under such immense tension, anybody would like to be aggressive and use each and every mean to WIN. Therefore, just give a Humanitarian thought to present circumstances and suggest your friend's parents to be calm, cool and polite. Leave the matter over your friend to decide; do not rush for immediate solutions for such important and personal matters; And take decisions as per his Understanding of the facts and circumstances, instead of moving on the directions of Astrologers, Advocates and Friends. 6. what special prayers/ kriyas, you would advise my friend.....to come out of this relation safely without any shelling out of money.? Group, kindly help me by analysing on my friends astro-details & giving your valuable guidance, i cant see his declining health & m worried for his future, also his parents r under tension........hence guide plese... Please reply point-wise........on tamade123@gmail.com awaiting ur guidance.... high regards, thank U awaiting thank U Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uner Mohan Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Rajshekhar jee, Your advice is very practical. I appreciate your approach. You are not misguiding people. My view is not much weightage should be given to the Advocate's advice. He would be more interested in his business. Best Regards.....uner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
astro_tech Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Dear Uner Mohan Thanks for your kind words. Best Wishes and Happy Deepawali Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uner Mohan Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Rajshekhar jee, Thanks for your good wishes. I reciprocate & also wish along with my family a very happy, joyous & safe Deepawali to you, your family and all other members & their families as well. Long live this forum! With Warmest Regards........uner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tamade Posted October 27, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Dear Rajsekharjee, Thank You for ur practical words of wisdom & guidance..... I checked out with my friend, whether he wishes to reconcile it ...however, he told, that there is no such scope since his wife has already declared in front of their family friend that the marriage was forced upon her by her parents against her will n wish.....thus, if a girl of 23 can say such statements, it clearly means that she is firm in her resolve not to reconcile or even allow anyone to do so.....the most amazing thing is even after alleging her parents for forcing the marriage onto her, she finds solace with her parents.....& hence is there for the past 4 months.....anyways that is her excuse to get rid of this relation..... What I & my friend fear is for the long trials which may start if his in-laws initiate any legal proceeding against my friend....So in this regard, I would like to know, whether u see any long running legal battle,after astro-analysis, into which my friend shall be dragged for no fault of his....If so, by doing what prayers & to what GOD, he can safely come out of this situation without being required to shell out any money .....If possible please put light onto this.... High regards...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
astro_tech Posted October 27, 2008 Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Dear Rajsekharjee, Thank You for ur practical words of wisdom & guidance..... I checked out with my friend, whether he wishes to reconcile it ...however, he told, that there is no such scope since his wife has already declared in front of their family friend that the marriage was forced upon her by her parents against her will n wish.....thus, if a girl of 23 can say such statements, it clearly means that she is firm in her resolve not to reconcile or even allow anyone to do so.....the most amazing thing is even after alleging her parents for forcing the marriage onto her, she finds solace with her parents.....& hence is there for the past 4 months.....anyways that is her excuse to get rid of this relation..... During the current situation, no one would like to reconcile. had it been so, he would not have suggested you to seek any advise on this. Whether one wants or otherwise, things and troubles have to be faced and endured. Irrespective of what currently appears, I firmly believe that during the period June 2009 to March 2012; the girl is very very likely to agree for an outside court settlement - whether for mutual divorce or reunion (chances are more for re-union). So you can suggest your friend to have patience and watch. What I & my friend fear is for the long trials which may start if his in-laws initiate any legal proceeding against my friend....So in this regard, I would like to know, whether u see any long running legal battle,after astro-analysis, into which my friend shall be dragged for no fault of his....If so, by doing what prayers & to what GOD, he can safely come out of this situation without being required to shell out any money .....If possible please put light onto this.... Period till July 2009 is not much favorable; and that is why I suggested to remain calm, cool and polite. Thereafter, from August 2009 to August 2010, you can try looking for amicable settlement; whether it be patching up or mutual agreement for divorce. I think that the matter is very likely to be finalized before March 2012. High regards...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tamade Posted October 27, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 27, 2008 Dear Shri Sharmaji, I and my friend checked with his lawyer, the advocate is saying, that, considering the technicality, we have to file for a petition before the completion of 1 year, ...if we do it after 23rd march 2009, it will be too late & the only basis with my friend will be divorce on basis of cruelty by his spouse which is very difficult for a man to prove, however very easy for a woman to prove, considering the biased laws....Hence, it is for sure that by 15th nov. 08, my frnd will get into legal actions, he has to before they start, as advised by the advocate....... In such case, if astrologically, the period becomes too tough for him & his parents, what special prayers or s/ kriyaas you will advise him.....?? i cant see the declining health of uncle auntijee......i wish n pray to almighty, unki woh balaa , i.e. daughter in law, jald-se jald tal jaaye, let her go away from their lives immediately...i wish i could do some black magic & perish that evil girl....anyways, GOD save my friend n his parents........ actually, sir, the girl is now very happy, coz auntijee had a talk with her...that time she sounded very happy for the separation.....now her parents r trying to be villains by demanding huge some of money, & threatening that if my frnd n his parents dont give them money they will drag my frnd into false legal actions...so we r more worried.... sharmaji, i sincerely thank U for ur timely & prompt advise...u r most free n welcome to give ur practical & valuable guidances, as n when u feel....i shall also be referring u in future as n when required, hope u will guide us even in future.... thank U high regards...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
astro_tech Posted October 28, 2008 Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Dear Shri Sharmaji, I and my friend checked with his lawyer, the advocate is saying, that, considering the technicality, we have to file for a petition before the completion of 1 year, ...if we do it after 23rd march 2009, it will be too late & the only basis with my friend will be divorce on basis of cruelty by his spouse which is very difficult for a man to prove, however very easy for a woman to prove, considering the biased laws....Hence, it is for sure that by 15th nov. 08, my frnd will get into legal actions, he has to before they start, as advised by the advocate....... In such case, if astrologically, the period becomes too tough for him & his parents, what special prayers or s/ kriyaas you will advise him.....?? In that case, your friend may file the petition but keeping an open mind for re-union when any such attempts are made from the other side. i cant see the declining health of uncle auntijee......i wish n pray to almighty, unki woh balaa , i.e. daughter in law, jald-se jald tal jaaye, let her go away from their lives immediately...i wish i could do some black magic & perish that evil girl....anyways, GOD save my friend n his parents........ No comments. actually, sir, the girl is now very happy, coz auntijee had a talk with her...that time she sounded very happy for the separation.....now her parents r trying to be villains by demanding huge some of money, & threatening that if my frnd n his parents dont give them money they will drag my frnd into false legal actions...so we r more worried.... I have already commented: Therefore, you can take suitable action to safeguard your interests and expect for a change of mind during the period mentioned above. sharmaji, i sincerely thank U for ur timely & prompt advise...u r most free n welcome to give ur practical & valuable guidances, as n when u feel....i shall also be referring u in future as n when required, hope u will guide us even in future.... thanks for your kind words. thank U high regards...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vamsikg Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 Hi Please tell when i will get marriage: Place of Birth: Khammam, Andhra pradesh Time of Birth: 1: 00 AM Date of Birth: 14-9-1978 Please tell when i will get marriage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vamsikg Posted October 29, 2008 Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 Hi Please tell when i will get marriage: Place of Birth: Khammam, Andhra pradesh Time of Birth: 1: 00 AM Date of Birth: 14-9-1978 Please tell when i will get marriage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nimi Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 I think Sekhar's advice is very humane and practica; Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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