Question-37 - A DIFFICULT QUESTION - what is your opinion for a situation

[Guest guest]

HARE KRISHAN ,HARE RAM

 

could you pelase share your views for a situation .

 

1. you are 33 years old

 

2. You are like Ganga Putra Bhisham Pitameh , but it is not known to

the society that you have taken oath of Lord Hanuman " that i would

not get marry if i would not be able to achieve some thing " and

unfortunately you could not acheive that thing .That is only known

to you that you have taken oath .

 

3. A girl of 20 years who lives near your home (village) and says

you that i love you and i want to marry you . please accept me .and

that girl is friend of your neice . She met with you at the first

time.

she is enough mature as She says you that " i know you since one

year i am impressed with your secrifice , education ,..... aur main

prem bhav se aapko apna pati banana chahti huin .kya aap mera hit

nahin karoge . ie She needs your help as She has some problems in

her family " .

 

4. You are in spiritualism sice 3 years and Your Kundalini Maan in

in awakened state as you experience the flow of electricity often.

 

5. You are working as Indian Government Officer

 

what would you do . this is the real situation with someone so

please apply all the concept of spiritualism , Sri Mad Bhagwad

Geeta , your own personnel experience, Knowledge of Mahabharat,

Ramayana ,............................ and please share your opinion

that if you are in that situation than what would you do and WHY .

 

THANKS IN ADVANCE TO ALL THE SADHAKAS

 

HARE KRISHAN ,HARE KRISHAN ,KRISHAN KRISHAN ,HARE HARE ,HARE

RAM ,HARE RAM, RAM RAM ,HARE HARE

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, " jitendra kumar " <jtin_ja wrote:

Dear Jeetu Bhai,

 

Namaste!

 

It is said it is better to marry a girl who loves you than the

girl whom you love. My personal opinion " YOU GO AHEAD AND MARRY "

provided ofcourse you do not come into any problem with her family.

I hope it is genuine feeling from her side and not escapism from

what she is going thru in her family.

About our shastras practically everyone was married and since

you have not succeeded in your motive in achieving what you have

wanted to achieve - who knows maybe after your marriage to her

you would be able to achieve what you could not achieve. So all

the best in advance (in case you decide to marry).

 

With warm wishes,

 

Sudhakar

HARI OM TAT SAT! Cheers! )

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, " spbyoga9 " <spbyoga9 wrote:

> who knows maybe after your marriage to her

> you would be able to achieve what you could not achieve. So all

> the best in advance (in case you decide to marry).

>

Very true sudhakarji,

 

When karmic debts (like marriage/kids etc) are pending, no amount of

sadhna would lead to kundalini jagaran/moksha. This i have seen in

practical terms with many sadhakas.

 

your advice is correct... the person should go ahead and marry the

gal, if the circumstances are in favor

 

aum

[Guest guest]

HARE KRISHAN ,HARE RAM

 

>

> It is said it is better to marry a girl who loves you than the

> girl whom you love.

 

Thanks M.S Thimppa Sir Ji , AUM Sir Ji , Sudhakar Sir Ji for the

answering my question by HEART . THANKS

 

 

i never thought that your statements could bring some change in his

mind , because HE had firmly decided not to get marry

 

Sudhakar Sir Ji , how do you know that He was in love with someone

before .

 

Thimppa Sir Ji

 

exactly you are right that the word " No " should have come from his

mouth in those situations , if there was something wrong .

 

AUM Sir Ji your statement is really thoughtfull . but i am in

confusion .

 

that is it necessary that it is Karmic Debt(marriage , child,...) .

is it not possible that this situation is created by the Lord Sri

Krishan for Him to perform Niskam karma .

 

eg once a drunkered was lying on the road and He was trying to get

up , but He could not . everbody was watching the show. i took him

ionto the auto and left to his house. and i had only one thing in my

mind that i am loving my God. is it necessary that it was my karmic

debt .

 

so please please please further write all the conditions with

respect to that situation wheater it is Karmic debt or it is for the

Niskam Karma .

 

i would further clear the question .

 

HARE KRISHAN ,HARE KRISHAN ,KRISHAN KRISHAN ,HARE HARE , HARE

RAM ,HARE RAM, RAM RAM ,HARE HARE

[Guest guest]

, " jitendra kumar " <jtin_ja wrote:

Dear Jeetu Bhai,

 

Namaste!

 

I really did not know, maybe my answer seemed like that, or you

can say - just a lucky guess?

 

With warm wishes,

 

Sudhakar

HARI OM TAT SAT! Cheers! )

 

> Sudhakar Sir Ji , how do you know that He was in love with someone

> before .

>