Dealing with blame and accusation

[Guest guest]

When someone blames you, you feel a heavy load on your head, and when

you talk about it you spread the unpleasant feeling all around you.

At that moment wake up and see you are Being and nothing can touch

you. This is all just a drama that you yourself have created. You

have gone through this over and over again. All the accusations you

face in your life are your own creation. Knowing this, you feel free

and light.

 

Owning responsibility for all your experiences in life makes you

powerful and will put an end to grumbling, planning counterattacks,

explanations, and a host of negative tendencies. Owning full

responsibility makes you free.

 

When someone blames you, directly or indirectly, what do you do?

 

* Do you lodge it in your mind and get emotionally upset?

 

* Do you dismiss it and the blamer altogether without taking a lesson

from it?

 

* Do you talk about it with people and waste your time and others

time and money?

 

* Do you pity yourself and blame your shortcomings?

 

* Do you blame the other person?

 

* Do you generalize and eternalize the problem?

 

When this happens, you are not living up to the knowledge.

 

Do you laugh at it and not even take notice of it?

Do you treat it as a non-event, not even worth talking about, let

alone taking any action?

Do you treat comments and accusations as passing clouds and more of

an entertainment?

Do you discourage dwelling on unpleasant and negative moments?

Do you remain nonjudgmental and absolutely unshaken in your space of

love?

Outwardly you may be clam, but do you also remain centered and calm

within you, not even taking pride in your growth or wisdom?

 

Then you are a pride to your master.

 

You cannot take credit for loving Guruji or any wise person. You have

no choice at all as it will happen against all odds!

 

To love someone whom you like is not a big deal at all.

 

To love someone because they love you, gets you zero marks.

 

To love someone whom you do not like, means you have learnt a lesson

in life.

 

To love someone who blames you for no reason shows you have learnt

the art of living.