Guest guest Posted January 2, 2007 Report Share Posted January 2, 2007 The opposite to love is not hate, but judgement. When we judge another as a threat to our needs and desires, we fear that person. We see them not as they are, but through our interpretations. We separate ourselves from them. And when we judge another as the answer to our needs and desires, we think we 'love' them. But we only love their behaviour and their form. We see them not as they are, in their essence, but through our interpretations. And again we separate ourselves from them. We judge another to prove we are more worthy. We judge because we are afraid to meet another as an equal. We judge, lest in seeing others to be what they truly are, we feel we are not who we truly are. Yet any judgement is but a judgement of oneself. It is an admission that I am not what I truly may be knowing that what I see in the other is also in me. When I know who I am, I know who other people are, and judgement is no longer necessary. No judgement can be given of the being of another, and my being needs make no judgement. When we see another as they are, without any judgement of how they are, then we see them through the eyes of compassion. This is true love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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