Withdrawl from sensual desires

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Allow yourself to be what God made of you. Either a man or a women,

and be it with all your heart, soul your body and all your emotions,

including all experiences that include being male or female. Study

your action, reaction, your emotional and mental behavior and

continuously learn from all your self-observations. Study the

reactions and actions, the expressions of love and emotions from your

partner and strive to behave in a more and more spiritually loving

way time after time.

 

Learn to practice whatever you do fully consciously - mentally and

emotionally present. Live and observe HERE and NOW what you

experience HERE and NOW !! if you do whatever you do consciously

aware and fully concentrated on the present action, you may learn

much more intensely and much faster, than when you do things mentally

or emotionally absent. Until you may realize it's time to go ahead,

to apply all your experiences in the next higher, more subtle and

more spiritual form of existence.

 

Do whatever you want to do, but do it with love and improve your love

steadily.

 

All this applies of course for all other sensual experiences and

pleasures we often strive to repeat again and again. Many people are

addicted to several sensual pleasures because they are closed or

blocked for any metaphysical experience. Mankind has lost for

hundreds or even thousands of years their capability to see, feel and

be fully conscious and aware of any metaphysical reality.

 

Think of the true nature of your various desires. You may have wanted

for years a particular toy, a particular vacation, or anything else.

How often did you think of the object of your desires before you

finally got it ?? how often did you have " day-dreams " and being

mentally or emotionally absent while with your beloved ones because

you were thinking of the objects of your desires.

 

When finally your desires became fulfilled, how long did your true

happiness joy deriving from the fulfillment of your wish last. May be

you have dreamed of a very particular and new car. When you got it,

you may have been proud of it, showing it to many or all your

friends. But how long did this joy last. May be a few weeks or

months, if at all. Then the new car became a car. Just another car

like millions on earth. Just an example ... but replace this car by

any other object you may have wished for many months or years.

 

When you fulfilled your wishes, how many hours did you have to work

to afford the object of your wishes, and how many hours do or did you

have to work every month just to keep the object of your desires

alive and running. May be you got even into debts with your bank or

with friends, you may have lost your financial freedom just to make

your wishes come true.

 

Then once you have the object of your wishes, how anxious have you

been or still are of loosing it, getting it stolen, broken,

damaged, .... how many hours did you lose your peace of mind and

often peace of family as well, just for the sake of having now this

wish fulfilled.

 

Any wish you have, may one day come true. But the true nature of such

wishes may be so powerful to create the need for another incarnation,

even several incarnations if needed, just to have all of your wishes

come true. God fulfills all the wishes of his children - physical

ones as much as spiritual ones. Any happiness and joy coming from any

physical wish will surely vanish one day. Just remember you are but a

guest on this planet and anyone living here will surely die one day -

sooner or later - so all your objects you have collected to fulfill

all your desires and wishes may be lost trough your sudden death.

Learn to make free and wise use of all objects you truly need, but

never allow objects to make use of yourself. Be free.

 

.... to be continued