Examples of modern slavery

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Fathers and mothers being divorced or separated may limit the freedom

of their common children if the parents decide where the children may

remain, with father or mother, instead of father and mother at the

discretion of the children. All children have a Divine right to

freely see both, mother and father, whenever they want and to live

with whomever they decide themselves. Parents often decide when, how

often and under what circumstances children may be allowed to see the

other part of the parted parents. The one part of the parents who

gets legal support for the children quiet often is using his legally

strong position to force the other part to live in a certain way, at

a certain place, to pay a certain amount just to be allowed to see

his / her children. The love between the children and the leaving

part of the parents, often deprived from legal rights as a parent, is

abused to manipulate both children and leaving partner or take

revenge - at the expense of the children and at the expense of

painful Karma to be expected in a later situation or later

incarnation by one or both parties of the parents involved.

 

Children do limit the freedom of their parents by remaining

financially dependent on their parents longer than necessary. Many

modern children in the western world start studying for many years

without earning an adequate amount of money to cover all the expenses

of their studies and living. They sometimes decide to stay at home

until 25 or 30 years of age or longer, even while having a job, at

the expense of missing experiences they could make in the world away

from home. Sometimes it may be laziness or economical reasons,

because it may be cheaper or easier to have everything done by mom or

dad, rather than do it themselves. It may be easy to leave the

responsibility to their parents, but at what expense ? It is a Divine

duty of anyone even young children after 12 to 14 years of age to

seriously start working toward becoming free, financially free as

well. Many children use their studies just to avoid or postpone

actual working for a living for another several years. Children after

the age of 10 to 12 years shall be responsible enough to take care of

themselves even for several days in a row without the parents being

at home, every once in a while but at least a few times a year. They

need to learn to grow up and become mature, responsible for

household, their own belongings, washing, cooking and more, including

to take care of other family members. When, if not during this time

of life can they learn to do all this. The best opportunity is under

the loving guidance of mother and father during their early teenager

years. The best time is during their early teenager time. Being a

host for guests - children - is beautiful, but one day the time of

being a host may be over and parents have other lessons to learn in

life. Parents may need freedom to travel to other countries, learn

other jobs or activities, even permanently move to other areas or

countries to find and realize new valuable lessons for their own

spiritual growth. While at the same time being a guest may be

attractive as well for children, but one day they need to learn to be

absolutely free, self dependent and practice to become themselves

hosts for other visitors, their own future children or any one else.

This means that they need to learn to work to cover their own

expenses of living, as well as the expenses of living for another few

persons. This should be accomplished with 20 years latest. If they

want to study or change their job, this can easily be done at their

own expenses at any later time when really needed and beneficial for

all. Children may often keep their parents at home, telling the

parents that they are afraid, or ill, or need help, just because they

may lack of responsibility and willingness to take care of

themselves.

 

to be continued...