The Law of the Garbage Truck

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How often do you let other people's nonsense change your mood?

 

Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive

employee ruin your day? However, the mark of a successful person is

how quickly one can get back their focus on what's important. David

J.Pollay explains his story in this way.

 

Sixteen years ago I learned this lesson. I learned it in the back of

a New York City taxi cab. Here's what happened. I hopped in a taxi,

and we took off for Grand Central Station. We were driving in the

right lane when, all of a sudden, a black car jumped out of a parking

space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks,

skidded, and missed the other car's back end by just inches!

 

The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused a big

accident, whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at

us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean he

was friendly. So, I said, " Why did you just do that? This guy almost

ruined your car and sent us to the hospital! "

 

And this is when my taxi driver told me what I now call, " The Law of

the Garbage Truck. "

 

" Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of

garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of

disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump

it. And if you let them, they'll dump it on you. When someone wants

to dump on you, don't take it personally. You just smile, wave, wish

them well, and move on. You'll be happy you did. "

 

I started thinking, how often do I let Garbage Trucks run right over

me? And how often do I take their garbage and spread it to other

people: at work, at home, on the streets? It was that day I

said, " I'm not going to do it anymore. "

 

Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. Love the

people who treat you right. Forget about the ones who don't.

 

*Believe that everything happens for a reason*.

 

Never let the garbage truck run over you.