Guest guest Posted December 11, 2005 Report Share Posted December 11, 2005 Namaste to you, Thank you for the below mentioned. Yes with Gods Grace i will try to do the same. She is actually physically able to do her studies. With Devis grace she topped her class for the first time in Maths and Science as I said she is an avergae student/child. yes you may put it in your link but now without the names Thank you once again. Pranam, XYZ( Your sister ) Group Owner <para_anuloma wrote: Dear Ma, Iam fine thankyou. You can certainly develop your girl's intelligence. Just approach the problem(if at all you think it is so) in a 7- pronged way. 1.Mentally 2.Physiologically 3.Physically 4.Emotionally 5.Logically 6.Creatively 7.Spiritually. 1. Mentally:YOU: Keep giving her positive responses to every small intellectual thing she does. And keep giving her challenges(like puzzles,crosswords,etc) suitable to her age and then praising her for work done well. Help her too. SHE: Ask her repeat positive affirmations everyday before going to bed hundred times and after she wakes up similarly.The affirmation should be very positive and inspiring like " IAM GROWING MORE INTELLIGENT AND CONFIDENT DAY BY DAY IN EVERYWAY " (Such types are called Emile Coue affirmations).Ask her to maintain a log book and write either this affirmation or someother pertinent affirmation like(IAM GETTING THE FIRST RANK IN MY CLASS/GRADE) 15 times.This way the auditory and kinesthetic memory will be impinged with the idea subconsciously. 2.Physiologically: YOU:Buy some Accupressure book(Best book I can suggest is HEALTH IN YOUR HANDS by DEVENDRA VORA VOLUME 1 AND 2) online or through some source in the Internet. And strengthen all the endocrine glands of your child(especially pineal,pitutary and adrenal glands).Give her good brain food like healthful substances having Vitamin B and Vitamin C. SHE:Ask her to develop a taste for good food and apply brahmi oil to her hair(Best is Brahmi Amla oil which is very fragrant and will improve her hair volume,thickness and sheen arresting hairfall).Also introduce her slowly to sound health principles based on Accupressure and ask her to press all points in her palm and soles every night before going to sleep and after getting up. 3.Physically:YOU:You have to set an example in physical exercise for your child to emulate.Do simple yoga for flexibility and walking or mild jogging for aerobical circulation. SHE:Ask her to do the same.Only a healthy body will harbour a healthy mind. 4.Emotionally:YOU:Just know that life is not a bed of roses(I know you know this with the loss of child/children during miscarriages you had) and so do not expect successes with your child all the time without forcing her or slapping her or abusing her phsycially if she failed or did not make the mark.(It will make her all the more reserved and 'shy' to fail which is not good for success.She will always try to be cautious and never dare intellectually. One can dare to fail but never fail to dare.) SHE:Train her not to bother much with her failures and say that everything can be infinitely improved in all ways. 5.Logically:YOU:Logically think through situations.Peruse a book in this regard " STRAIGHT THINKING ,CROKKED THINKING " -ROBERT THOULESS is a good one.This will help clear mental cobwebs. SHE:Train her in this but not too rigidly and make her rock-logic with no belief in God or divine. 6.Creatively:YOU:Becreative yourself for your children to evince interest in it.Buy books by Dr.Edward De Bono. For a start buy " USE OF LATERAL THINKING " or " thinking for the new millineum " by him SHE:Allow her to express creatively drawing,painting,dancing etal. And also make her think laterally with de bono books. 7. Spiritually: YOU:Prayers by yourself to Mookambika for this will help SHE: Ask her to do the mantra for Hayagreev OM HASOOM HAYAGREEVAYA NAMAH SWAHA Before a photo of Hayagreeva 108 times twice daily. These 7 ways will fully make your Devika blossom into a brilliant child much beyond your expectation in a few months of putting into practice.You will see the difference in a few months. I need your permission to post this in my group(and maybe yours too) as it is a common problem faced by many young parents these days. Hope this much helps... Yours yogically, Shreeram Balijepalli Namaste, How are you? I know you must be surprised to read the subject, well it is nothing to worry about. I have an elder daughter of 13 years ABC. It is about her. I need a big favour actually, She is an average student with good attitude towards all. I am concerned with her studies and i know that Gaytri Mantra is the Best for such a worry . She is a good girl too. Please can you help me in any way to help her with her studies any pooja or a Mantra where she can chant each day before going to bed or beofre leaving the house to go to school? Please i would appreciate it, as a Mother i am little worried i need her to do here best with a good concentration in her work, as this age is a bit ofturmoil for a growing up teenager. i think you know what i mean right? I shall await eagerly for your reply. Thnx, Your sister , XYZ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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