Help with Alcoholism

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Dear Friends, My Father has a very serious drinking problem and he has been doing this for the last 25 years. My mother has been dealing with him patiently for so many years directing all her efforts in raising the children to be successful. Now that me and my sister are outside India, the pain that she is still going through is heart wrenching and makes me cry in pain. There are numerous occasions when she cannot even talk on the phone as my father had just come home drunk and is on a tirade against my mom, me any every body else.I would consider my mom deeply religious and she believes in Shirdi sai baba. I know she might be burning some bad karma but is there anything that could alleviate her pain. She confided in me saying that she would like to see pandaripuram with dad and prays Shree Shirdi Sai Baba to change my dad. Is there anyway

we could make him stop his drinking. We considered rehab centers but there is just no way he would come go near it as his ego is way too strong to admit his problem. No matter what he is my dad, and I hate to see him slip away like this and his health has deteriorated with diabetes and heart problems. Any spiritual guidance or advice from the children of amba so that I could bring joy to my divine mom. Thank you, Venkat

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Dear Venkatji,

 

I empathise with your situtation.It is unfortunate that your father

is turning to such unhealthy paths as an addiction.

 

You should meet Swamiji(Rajagopala Swami) for a sure shot solution.

He has cured some cases like this when approached by family members.

 

It is all because of your father's past vasanas that he is behaving

like this also his karma with alcohol is not yet over.

 

You can however cheer up as it can be recitified by Swami Rajagopala.

 

If I advice you to do some mantra or visit some temple or do

Gayathri mantra , it will take lot of time and lot of burning of

karmas in your hand. Also you mention that your father is not

interested in ameliorating his condition. This fiurther compounds

the problem. For a fast solution you should meet swami Rajagopala

and seek His help.

 

His contact information is in the first file of the group.

 

Please look into it.

 

Hope this helps...

 

My prayers are with you and your family. Do not worry you have taken

the first setp toward Amba and She will take thousand steps into

your heart and heal your heart of the pain.

 

Jayosthu Paraamba!

 

Shreeram Balijepalli

 

Rajarajeshwari_Kalpataru , venkat Pulsani

<vpulsani> wrote:

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> Dear Friends,

> My Father has a very serious drinking problem

and he has been doing this for the last 25 years. My mother has been

dealing with him patiently for so many years directing all her

efforts in raising the children to be successful. Now that me and my

sister are outside India, the pain that she is still going through

is heart wrenching and makes me cry in pain. There are numerous

occasions when she cannot even talk on the phone as my father had

just come home drunk and is on a tirade against my mom, me any every

body else.I would consider my mom deeply religious and she believes

in Shirdi sai baba. I know she might be burning some bad karma but

is there anything that could alleviate her pain. She confided in me

saying that she would like to see pandaripuram with dad and prays

Shree Shirdi Sai Baba to change my dad. Is there anyway we could

make him stop his drinking. We considered rehab centers but there is

just no way he would come go near it as his ego is way too

> strong to admit his problem.

> No matter what he is my dad, and I hate to see him slip away

like this and his health has deteriorated with diabetes and heart

problems.

> Any spiritual guidance or advice from the children of amba so

that I could bring joy to my divine mom.

>

> Thank you,

> Venkat

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