Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 Dear Gurujis, My sister is carrying and she is facing lot of problems from in laws especially Father and Mother in laws. Even her Sister in law is so bad. Both want more dowry and whatever jewels my Sister has got during her marriage they are not giving her and they pass some bad comments about us. So she is undergoing lot of mental torture when she is carrying. The husband is caught between and he does not have the courage to tell his Father that he is doing wrong. Please suggest some remedies for her and guide us. My sisters details are ...Name.... Asha HG .....Sex.... Female .....Date of Birth.... 17/12/1982 .....Time of Birth.... 16:12:00 .....Country.... INDIA .....Place.... MYSORE .....Latitude.... 12:18:N .....Longitude.... 76:39:E .....Zone Time.... 82:30:E My Brother in laws details are like this and his timings I am not sure. ...Name.... Srinivas .....Sex.... Male .....Date of Birth.... 1/10/1982 .....Time of Birth.... 12:0:00 .....Country.... INDIA .....Place.... TUMKUR .....Latitude.... 13:21:N .....Longitude.... 77:5:E .....Zone Time.... 82:30:E With love Mohan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2009 Report Share Posted May 30, 2009 Dear Mohan Garu, This is truly sickening. It is all the more distressing that she is also carrying! She is verily the swarpa of Divine Mother. I will pray for her.I also request all Group members to pray for her. Please take her under your umbrage (or where she feels comfortable).This is not only for her safety but for the safety of the child in the womb. The horoscopes have been seen and there might be pariharas which might have to be done.Future of the marriage depends on the husband here. The husband must be strongwilled and human enough to understand what she is going through and support her.There is no point supporting parents who are evil.This is not sanathana dharma. First things First: 1. Bring her to her parental home or to your household, where she feels comfortable and relaxed.This is first priority.If you fail here, there is no point.Insist on this even if she says she is willing to suffer.Most Indian women have a 'victim pyschology' which does no good for them. 2. Forget about dowry and jewellery and other issues.Life of your sister and the child in her womb is most important at this stage.Those can be tackled later.First concentrate on her pregnancy.Let her have a healthy,spiritual and beautiful baby.(Read my older postson how to rear a spiritual and highly intelligent baby prenatally itself.Also read my posting on Garbharakshambika.).Divert her mind as much as possible and you can console her by words saying that everything will be alright.Keep up your efforts to make her happy while she in her pregnancy. 3. After her delivery, talk with her husband personally and in privacy.Not before his parents.Narrate all the woes of your sister(even if he knows it.)Be open.Try to understand him and his mindset completely.If he is a really good person, he would seperate and set up a household where he and his wife can live away from those pests. 4. Remedial measures astrologically can also be done but if the horoscopes don't match and if certain destined things have to happen, not much can be done purely through astro-remedies but through greater upasana and bhakthi alone and for that your sister must be hale and healthy,anyways. 5. If nothing works out, stricter measures can be adopted.Sama-danda-bhedopari.There is also gruhini act and other legislations to prevent such atrocities to happen(jewellery being withheld,verbal and physical abuse,etc).But these can be the last resort and do not shirk from taking it all out.All this is an affront on Womanhood and it is a grave sin. Follow these logical 5 steps, which I have given.I can just pity you and give a few astro-remedies and wash my hands but that would not help your sister.Moreover, remedial measures are to be done very scrupulously with abundant faith and not with an undercurrent of despair,gloom and fear of what is going to happen in the future. For everything, Amba is here. I as her brother am here to help too. Do not worry, Amba has started to look into this matter. May She shower all happiness to your sister. Yours yogically, Shreeram Balijepalli Shaktheyem , " Mohan Kumar HG " <mohan88hg wrote: > > Dear Gurujis, > > My sister is carrying and she is facing lot of problems from in laws especially Father and Mother in laws. Even her Sister in law is so bad. Both want more dowry and whatever jewels my Sister has got during her marriage they are not giving her and they pass some bad comments about us. So she is undergoing lot of mental torture when she is carrying. The husband is caught between and he does not have the courage to tell his Father that he is doing wrong. Please suggest some remedies for her and guide us. > My sisters details are > > ..Name.... Asha HG > ....Sex.... Female > ....Date of Birth.... 17/12/1982 > ....Time of Birth.... 16:12:00 > ....Country.... INDIA > ....Place.... MYSORE > ....Latitude.... 12:18:N > ....Longitude.... 76:39:E > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > My Brother in laws details are like this and his timings I am not sure. > > > > ..Name.... Srinivas > ....Sex.... Male > ....Date of Birth.... 1/10/1982 > ....Time of Birth.... 12:0:00 > ....Country.... INDIA > ....Place.... TUMKUR > ....Latitude.... 13:21:N > ....Longitude.... 77:5:E > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > With love > Mohan > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2009 Report Share Posted May 30, 2009 Dear Mohananna, We all we definitely pray for you! May Amma bless your sister to give her strength! Vivek Shaktheyem , " para_anuloma " <para_anuloma wrote: > > Dear Mohan Garu, > > This is truly sickening. > It is all the more distressing that she is also carrying! She is verily the swarpa of Divine Mother. > > I will pray for her.I also request all Group members to pray for her. > > Please take her under your umbrage (or where she feels comfortable).This is not only for her safety but for the safety of the child in the womb. > > The horoscopes have been seen and there might be pariharas which might have to be done.Future of the marriage depends on the husband here. > > The husband must be strongwilled and human enough to understand what she is going through and support her.There is no point supporting parents who are evil.This is not sanathana dharma. > > First things First: > > 1. Bring her to her parental home or to your household, where she feels comfortable and relaxed.This is first priority.If you fail here, there is no point.Insist on this even if she says she is willing to suffer.Most Indian women have a 'victim pyschology' which does no good for them. > > 2. Forget about dowry and jewellery and other issues.Life of your sister and the child in her womb is most important at this stage.Those can be tackled later.First concentrate on her pregnancy.Let her have a healthy,spiritual and beautiful baby.(Read my older postson how to rear a spiritual and highly intelligent baby prenatally itself.Also read my posting on Garbharakshambika.).Divert her mind as much as possible and you can console her by words saying that everything will be alright.Keep up your efforts to make her happy while she in her pregnancy. > > 3. After her delivery, talk with her husband personally and in privacy.Not before his parents.Narrate all the woes of your sister(even if he knows it.)Be open.Try to understand him and his mindset completely.If he is a really good person, he would seperate and set up a household where he and his wife can live away from those pests. > > 4. Remedial measures astrologically can also be done but if the horoscopes don't match and if certain destined things have to happen, not much can be done purely through astro-remedies but through greater upasana and bhakthi alone and for that your sister must be hale and healthy,anyways. > > 5. If nothing works out, stricter measures can be adopted.Sama-danda-bhedopari.There is also gruhini act and other legislations to prevent such atrocities to happen(jewellery being withheld,verbal and physical abuse,etc).But these can be the last resort and do not shirk from taking it all out.All this is an affront on Womanhood and it is a grave sin. > > Follow these logical 5 steps, which I have given.I can just pity you and give a few astro-remedies and wash my hands but that would not help your sister.Moreover, remedial measures are to be done very scrupulously with abundant faith and not with an undercurrent of despair,gloom and fear of what is going to happen in the future. > > For everything, Amba is here. > I as her brother am here to help too. > > Do not worry, Amba has started to look into this matter. > May She shower all happiness to your sister. > > Yours yogically, > > Shreeram Balijepalli > > Shaktheyem , " Mohan Kumar HG " <mohan88hg@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gurujis, > > > > My sister is carrying and she is facing lot of problems from in laws especially Father and Mother in laws. Even her Sister in law is so bad. Both want more dowry and whatever jewels my Sister has got during her marriage they are not giving her and they pass some bad comments about us. So she is undergoing lot of mental torture when she is carrying. The husband is caught between and he does not have the courage to tell his Father that he is doing wrong. Please suggest some remedies for her and guide us. > > My sisters details are > > > > ..Name.... Asha HG > > ....Sex.... Female > > ....Date of Birth.... 17/12/1982 > > ....Time of Birth.... 16:12:00 > > ....Country.... INDIA > > ....Place.... MYSORE > > ....Latitude.... 12:18:N > > ....Longitude.... 76:39:E > > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > > > My Brother in laws details are like this and his timings I am not sure. > > > > > > > > ..Name.... Srinivas > > ....Sex.... Male > > ....Date of Birth.... 1/10/1982 > > ....Time of Birth.... 12:0:00 > > ....Country.... INDIA > > ....Place.... TUMKUR > > ....Latitude.... 13:21:N > > ....Longitude.... 77:5:E > > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > > > With love > > Mohan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2009 Report Share Posted June 2, 2009 Dear Shree Ram, Thanks for your reply and from all others. My sister and Brother in law are going to meet my Father on coming Saturday at my Cousins place. Even I am going to talk to them. We dont have a mother and his in laws are tking advantage of my Fathers condition and trying to extract more. They live seperately but he wants my father to speak to him, but when my Father speaks to them they speak so cheaply and they are third class People. My Father thought the guy was good and has job in good company like Biocon. This guy doesnt want to give up his Father at the same time knowing his Father Faults he has no corage to tell him. He told me he will tell him slowly but from what I have seen for the last one year he is not firm. His Father drinks everyday but he cant rectify all such things. What is the use being good, good for nothing. Mohan Shaktheyem , " para_anuloma " <para_anuloma wrote: > > Dear Mohan Garu, > > This is truly sickening. > It is all the more distressing that she is also carrying! She is verily the swarpa of Divine Mother. > > I will pray for her.I also request all Group members to pray for her. > > Please take her under your umbrage (or where she feels comfortable).This is not only for her safety but for the safety of the child in the womb. > > The horoscopes have been seen and there might be pariharas which might have to be done.Future of the marriage depends on the husband here. > > The husband must be strongwilled and human enough to understand what she is going through and support her.There is no point supporting parents who are evil.This is not sanathana dharma. > > First things First: > > 1. Bring her to her parental home or to your household, where she feels comfortable and relaxed.This is first priority.If you fail here, there is no point.Insist on this even if she says she is willing to suffer.Most Indian women have a 'victim pyschology' which does no good for them. > > 2. Forget about dowry and jewellery and other issues.Life of your sister and the child in her womb is most important at this stage.Those can be tackled later.First concentrate on her pregnancy.Let her have a healthy,spiritual and beautiful baby.(Read my older postson how to rear a spiritual and highly intelligent baby prenatally itself.Also read my posting on Garbharakshambika.).Divert her mind as much as possible and you can console her by words saying that everything will be alright.Keep up your efforts to make her happy while she in her pregnancy. > > 3. After her delivery, talk with her husband personally and in privacy.Not before his parents.Narrate all the woes of your sister(even if he knows it.)Be open.Try to understand him and his mindset completely.If he is a really good person, he would seperate and set up a household where he and his wife can live away from those pests. > > 4. Remedial measures astrologically can also be done but if the horoscopes don't match and if certain destined things have to happen, not much can be done purely through astro-remedies but through greater upasana and bhakthi alone and for that your sister must be hale and healthy,anyways. > > 5. If nothing works out, stricter measures can be adopted.Sama-danda-bhedopari.There is also gruhini act and other legislations to prevent such atrocities to happen(jewellery being withheld,verbal and physical abuse,etc).But these can be the last resort and do not shirk from taking it all out.All this is an affront on Womanhood and it is a grave sin. > > Follow these logical 5 steps, which I have given.I can just pity you and give a few astro-remedies and wash my hands but that would not help your sister.Moreover, remedial measures are to be done very scrupulously with abundant faith and not with an undercurrent of despair,gloom and fear of what is going to happen in the future. > > For everything, Amba is here. > I as her brother am here to help too. > > Do not worry, Amba has started to look into this matter. > May She shower all happiness to your sister. > > Yours yogically, > > Shreeram Balijepalli > > Shaktheyem , " Mohan Kumar HG " <mohan88hg@> wrote: > > > > Dear Gurujis, > > > > My sister is carrying and she is facing lot of problems from in laws especially Father and Mother in laws. Even her Sister in law is so bad. Both want more dowry and whatever jewels my Sister has got during her marriage they are not giving her and they pass some bad comments about us. So she is undergoing lot of mental torture when she is carrying. The husband is caught between and he does not have the courage to tell his Father that he is doing wrong. Please suggest some remedies for her and guide us. > > My sisters details are > > > > ..Name.... Asha HG > > ....Sex.... Female > > ....Date of Birth.... 17/12/1982 > > ....Time of Birth.... 16:12:00 > > ....Country.... INDIA > > ....Place.... MYSORE > > ....Latitude.... 12:18:N > > ....Longitude.... 76:39:E > > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > > > My Brother in laws details are like this and his timings I am not sure. > > > > > > > > ..Name.... Srinivas > > ....Sex.... Male > > ....Date of Birth.... 1/10/1982 > > ....Time of Birth.... 12:0:00 > > ....Country.... INDIA > > ....Place.... TUMKUR > > ....Latitude.... 13:21:N > > ....Longitude.... 77:5:E > > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > > > With love > > Mohan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2009 Report Share Posted June 2, 2009 That is precisely why I have asked your sister to seperate her husband from that environment.Please follow the steps which I gave you. Also, do the 25 names archana in the group files(or better still ask your sister to do it). Many factors are to be seen apart from just Athmakaraka (and the Mathrushapa) like Badakesham,Karakaamsham and even Trimshaamsham(for hidden subconsious enemies).This is all apart from Janmalagna chart,Chandralagna chart,suryalagna chart and Navamsa chart deliniation.A check for avayogas,Ashtakavarga Bindu points and their relative strengths must also be studied and then a proper remedy must be given. Someone mentioned Rudra-Namakachamakam.But then she is a lady. Rudram is a vedic mantra which has to be first learnt with proper chandas,then it has to be said daily by her(without caving into her depression) and moreover her constitution must be able to handle the chant's fiery energy. Just because Moon as athmakaraka is involved and is affected terribly does not mean, one should start Rudra Namaka chamaka. Astro-remedies is another elaborate and complex science and not all who practice know it thoroughly.(Even reference books are very few on the subjects). Following aspects are to be seen for doling out an astro-remedy: 1. The native; after a careful study of his or her chart. 2. Stree-jathaka vidhi(here in this case) is quite different from Purusha Jathaka vidhi(especially for parihara) 3. Influencing factors of kith and kin surrounding the person. 4.Purity of the person involved(this also means physical purity) 5. Mantra chakra to be seen(whether certain mantras or remedies would work for the person or if there is any argalam or locks involved) 6. Gocharam and Kala/Apa factors.(All dasas including Vidasa and Sookshma dasa have to be seen). 7. Angaparimanams during the time of revealing the remedies and appropriately changing or adjusting the remedies on the spot.Only a very intuitive astrologer would know this science as proposed by Varahamihira.(This would mean for example, some factor is seen, say seeing the 12th house from Athmakaraka and then Ishtadevatha nirnaya is taken and then Kuladevatha nirnaya is seen from the 2nd house of Vimshaamsa and then some advice regarding Kula and istha devatha is being rendered but at the time of saying it some omen occurs then the Angaparimanas of the parihara have to be seen.This is similar to Ashtamangala Prasna of the keralites.)It is this intricate science which has made me able to give near 100% accurate remedies for some of the Jathakams I see. 8. Prashna Jathakam must be cast also for remedial moment. 9.The astrologer must himself/herself be pure and of nishta.Before a Jathaka sputam, the astrologer must pray and do puja/upasana of his or her own ishtadevatha and kuladevatha to guide him/her in the reading to effect a remedy.If the case is serious certain 3 days are recommended. Following 9 factors must be considered and carefully a remedy suggested.Now tell me how many astrologers follow this pattern and why most of the astro-remedies fail.Whatever little has succeeded is due to some of the factors mentioned above coinciding and the honesty of the astrologer (and the intensity with which the native has performed the remedies). That I why I first entreated upon you to first follow those logical steps I had given and then we can approach the problem para-logically. Someone was talkng about distant healing and sending vibrations,etc.This depends on the person who is sending such vibrations.Unless he or she is of a great yogic capacity,nothing can happen drastically.However, group prayers would help and that is why I have asked all members to pray for your sister.(This also adds to the punya of the person who is praying to some real 'stranger in suffering' with no recompense and this is what Amba wants from a treu devotee.To pray without any selfishness for the welfare of others, to help as best as one can others who are in turmoil.) Yours Yogically, Shreeram Balijepalli Shaktheyem , " Mohan Kumar HG " <mohan88hg wrote: > > Dear Shree Ram, > > Thanks for your reply and from all others. > > My sister and Brother in law are going to meet my Father on coming Saturday at my Cousins place. Even I am going to talk to them. We dont have a mother and his in laws are tking advantage of my Fathers condition and trying to extract more. > > They live seperately but he wants my father to speak to him, but when my Father speaks to them they speak so cheaply and they are third class People. My Father thought the guy was good and has job in good company like Biocon. This guy doesnt want to give up his Father at the same time knowing his Father Faults he has no corage to tell him. > > He told me he will tell him slowly but from what I have seen for the last one year he is not firm. His Father drinks everyday but he cant rectify all such things. What is the use being good, good for nothing. > > Mohan > > > > > Shaktheyem , " para_anuloma " para_anuloma@ wrote: > > > > Dear Mohan Garu, > > > > This is truly sickening. > > It is all the more distressing that she is also carrying! She is verily the swarpa of Divine Mother. > > > > I will pray for her.I also request all Group members to pray for her. > > > > Please take her under your umbrage (or where she feels comfortable).This is not only for her safety but for the safety of the child in the womb. > > > > The horoscopes have been seen and there might be pariharas which might have to be done.Future of the marriage depends on the husband here. > > > > The husband must be strongwilled and human enough to understand what she is going through and support her.There is no point supporting parents who are evil.This is not sanathana dharma. > > > > First things First: > > > > 1. Bring her to her parental home or to your household, where she feels comfortable and relaxed.This is first priority.If you fail here, there is no point.Insist on this even if she says she is willing to suffer.Most Indian women have a 'victim pyschology' which does no good for them. > > > > 2. Forget about dowry and jewellery and other issues.Life of your sister and the child in her womb is most important at this stage.Those can be tackled later.First concentrate on her pregnancy.Let her have a healthy,spiritual and beautiful baby.(Read my older postson how to rear a spiritual and highly intelligent baby prenatally itself.Also read my posting on Garbharakshambika.).Divert her mind as much as possible and you can console her by words saying that everything will be alright.Keep up your efforts to make her happy while she in her pregnancy. > > > > 3. After her delivery, talk with her husband personally and in privacy.Not before his parents.Narrate all the woes of your sister(even if he knows it.)Be open.Try to understand him and his mindset completely.If he is a really good person, he would seperate and set up a household where he and his wife can live away from those pests. > > > > 4. Remedial measures astrologically can also be done but if the horoscopes don't match and if certain destined things have to happen, not much can be done purely through astro-remedies but through greater upasana and bhakthi alone and for that your sister must be hale and healthy,anyways. > > > > 5. If nothing works out, stricter measures can be adopted.Sama-danda-bhedopari.There is also gruhini act and other legislations to prevent such atrocities to happen(jewellery being withheld,verbal and physical abuse,etc).But these can be the last resort and do not shirk from taking it all out.All this is an affront on Womanhood and it is a grave sin. > > > > Follow these logical 5 steps, which I have given.I can just pity you and give a few astro-remedies and wash my hands but that would not help your sister.Moreover, remedial measures are to be done very scrupulously with abundant faith and not with an undercurrent of despair,gloom and fear of what is going to happen in the future. > > > > For everything, Amba is here. > > I as her brother am here to help too. > > > > Do not worry, Amba has started to look into this matter. > > May She shower all happiness to your sister. > > > > Yours yogically, > > > > Shreeram Balijepalli > > > > Shaktheyem , " Mohan Kumar HG " <mohan88hg@> wrote: > > > > > > Dear Gurujis, > > > > > > My sister is carrying and she is facing lot of problems from in laws especially Father and Mother in laws. Even her Sister in law is so bad. Both want more dowry and whatever jewels my Sister has got during her marriage they are not giving her and they pass some bad comments about us. So she is undergoing lot of mental torture when she is carrying. The husband is caught between and he does not have the courage to tell his Father that he is doing wrong. Please suggest some remedies for her and guide us. > > > My sisters details are > > > > > > ..Name.... Asha HG > > > ....Sex.... Female > > > ....Date of Birth.... 17/12/1982 > > > ....Time of Birth.... 16:12:00 > > > ....Country.... INDIA > > > ....Place.... MYSORE > > > ....Latitude.... 12:18:N > > > ....Longitude.... 76:39:E > > > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > > > > > My Brother in laws details are like this and his timings I am not sure. > > > > > > > > > > > > ..Name.... Srinivas > > > ....Sex.... Male > > > ....Date of Birth.... 1/10/1982 > > > ....Time of Birth.... 12:0:00 > > > ....Country.... INDIA > > > ....Place.... TUMKUR > > > ....Latitude.... 13:21:N > > > ....Longitude.... 77:5:E > > > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > > > > > With love > > > Mohan > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2009 Report Share Posted June 7, 2009 Hi Mohan With related to your message I feel that there is a greater need for you to destroy the evils. Shaktas never have fear because for the evil they are able to destroy it using the shatkarmas. In my understanding shaktas and shaivites are people who never fear of evil or other persons in their lives. Shakta system has various deities which are like kinetic energy instantly they destroy the enemies. Prathingira is one which should be able to help you. In my persona life when ever i was suffering from evil a simple prayer to the goddess has brought results in like 24 hours, although I pray only when there is such a desperate situation which needs divine intervention, otherwise I feel that whatever I am suffering is my prarabdha and does not need a divine intervention. But against adharma I recommend using divine interventions especially according to shakta sampradayas. thank you rakesh Shaktheyem , " Mohan Kumar HG " <mohan88hg wrote: > > Dear Gurujis, > > My sister is carrying and she is facing lot of problems from in laws especially Father and Mother in laws. Even her Sister in law is so bad. Both want more dowry and whatever jewels my Sister has got during her marriage they are not giving her and they pass some bad comments about us. So she is undergoing lot of mental torture when she is carrying. The husband is caught between and he does not have the courage to tell his Father that he is doing wrong. Please suggest some remedies for her and guide us. > My sisters details are > > ..Name.... Asha HG > ....Sex.... Female > ....Date of Birth.... 17/12/1982 > ....Time of Birth.... 16:12:00 > ....Country.... INDIA > ....Place.... MYSORE > ....Latitude.... 12:18:N > ....Longitude.... 76:39:E > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > My Brother in laws details are like this and his timings I am not sure. > > > > ..Name.... Srinivas > ....Sex.... Male > ....Date of Birth.... 1/10/1982 > ....Time of Birth.... 12:0:00 > ....Country.... INDIA > ....Place.... TUMKUR > ....Latitude.... 13:21:N > ....Longitude.... 77:5:E > ....Zone Time.... 82:30:E > > With love > Mohan > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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