Boyfriend/Girlfriend - A Big No !!!

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I don't think a bf/gf relationship is a cool

thing(within or out of Sahaj). Because to handle a

relationship with the opposite takes a lot of

maturity. In Sahaj, you are still guided and practice

detachment and wisdom when you know not to cross a

line. However, bf/gf relationships outside Sahaj are

even more risky.

 

As long as it is a sort of a pre-marital courtship

wherein both get to know each other, and the affair

culminates into marriage, well and good. In this case,

either or both may be Sahajis or non Sahajis.

 

However, certain lines (Maryadas) are not to be

crossed/broken - before or after marriage - Sahaji or

non Sahaji.

 

I fully agree with others on the forum. And, since

Mother is there to take care of us, why worry about

getting involved ? The moment we get a left sided

catch (if you look carefully at the chart of the

subtle system, the left side of Emotion is connected

to the Mooladhara Chakra), we should do shoebeating,

balancing and footsoaking etc and come back and

establish ourselves in the Sahasrara.

 

Also, Sahaj helps in providing detachment, which also

leads to increased vibrations(expanding Agnya), which

also keeps us established on the truth.

 

In Sahaj, we sometimes marvel at the beauty of what

Mother has created around us when we look at the faces

of other Sahaji brothers and sisters. Their faces are

peaceful shining, glowing from the innermost core of

their being, and though you may be as peaceful,

tranquil and attractive to look at as the other one,

you still cannot but humbly appreciate at what the

divine can do, as to how beautiful everything and

everyone can be.

 

This is the love of God Almighty - of the purest form.

 

 

Of the highest order.

 

A love which is full of attachment and full of

detachment - simultaneously.

 

Paradoxical, ain't it ??!!??

 

Love, hugs and shiploads of vibrations for you all.

 

Regards,

 

Rajan

 

 

 

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