Guest guest Posted October 19, 2005 Report Share Posted October 19, 2005 Dear Jagbirji, I am interested to know your take on this issue. Personally, I feel that activities like these will reduce Sahaja Yoga to be a place for matchmaking and will demolish the innocence and principle of Shri Ganesha. All Sahaja Yogis are like brothers and sisters and if we promote such initiatives, we end up going against our Mooladhara. We simply need to imagine what harm this can do in the future. Regards, Anuj > --- sahajamatch <sahajamatch> wrote: > > > JSM, > > > > We introduce a new to you: > > sahajamatch > > ----------------------- > > Dear Sahaja Yogi's and Yogini's > > > > If you are a Sahaja Yogi of marriageable age, and > > were wanting to > > explore options to marry another Sahaja Yogi, but > > were not able to do > > so for various reasons, here is YOUR platform, where > > you exercise > > YOUR > > RIGHT to be YOUR OWN GURU. > > > > Here you may post your matrimonial profile, and view > > other sahaja > > yogi's profiles, communicate, and make your own > > decision if you would > > want to marry that person. Yes! Let us be as own own > > masters and be > > able to talk to each other. > > > > I am waiting for your suggestions. Remember, this > > forum is created > > for you and you are welcome to air your views. > > Ofcourse with each > > right there is a responsiblity. Lets keep this forum > > an honest, > > decent & friendly one. > > > > God bless you all, JSM. > > Love....Prerna. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Music Unlimited > Access over 1 million songs. Try it free. > http://music./unlimited/ > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2005 Report Share Posted October 19, 2005 Anuj,this is the owner of sahajamatch My name is sahajboy. I see I got a friend in krytodanny??..or what ever is his true name.pLEASE RESPOND TO HIS questions...here,I'll copy/paste for you. Thank you Daniel. Jai Shri Mataji!! sahajboy Dear Mahesh I also observe with pleasure that you have included all kinds of useful links (matrimony sites) on your own webpage .. http://www.shalstudios.com/links_of_use.htm If you regard these sites where people are looking for marriage as,,evil,, and nonsahaj culture,may I ask you why you are making a living out of them(as a wedding photographer?)..maybe because you need their money?..Are you aware that the last marriage puja was in US,and I am banned to enter US for the next 10 years?..Also,are you aware that my passport was confiscated by the romanian officials because was expired for 12 years(while I was in the US..)..so I can't travel anywhere in the world for the marriage pujas?..are you aware that EVEN if I could,it could not be possible for me to obtain a marriage questionare from my local leader,since I post in this very forum(Jagbir's) and they hate me for it? daniel , " kriptodanny " <kriptodanny> wrote: > > , mahesh khatri > <maheshkhatri> wrote: > > > > This New group should be closed immediately. Prerna you need some > meditation. Ask Shri Mataji's forgiveness for indulging in antisahaj > activities. Shri Ganesh is not going to like it and it could be > dangerous for you to play with fire. > > > > Jai Shri Mataji > > > > Mahesh Khatri > > > Dear Mahesh > I would humbly like to ask you couple of questions.. > 1.Is marriage ,,indulging in antisahaj activities,? > 2.Is looking for a marriage partner the same thing as,,flirting,, and > destroying ones innocence? > 3.Do sahaja yogis have the same right as any other person from this > planet to choose their own life-partner? > 4.Do I need my collective leader permission to get married? > 5.Do I need to travel to India ,spend thousands of dollars,just to > attend some marriage puja,so maybe I'd get married before I get too old? > 6.What if the leader doesn't like me,and refuses to give me a marriage > questionare to apply?..Means that I'm done for life?...What happened > with my God given right to select a life-partner?..A sahaja > yogi,persey?..Is this flirting,again? > 7.Are you from India,and are you aware that arranged marriages is a > way of life over there?..Are you aware that this is not a way of life > in many other cultures?..Do I need to embrace the indian way of life > to be a sahaja yogi? > daniel > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2005 Report Share Posted October 19, 2005 Danny, I too post here and nobody hates me for this... Maybe the reason they hate you is the content of your messages and not the place you post them... regards, michalis , " kriptodanny " <kriptodanny> wrote: > > > Dear Mahesh > I also observe with pleasure that you have included all kinds of > useful links (matrimony sites) on your own webpage .. > http://www.shalstudios.com/links_of_use.htm > If you regard these sites where people are looking for marriage > as,,evil,, and nonsahaj culture,may I ask you why you are making a > living out of them(as a wedding photographer?)..maybe because you need > their money?..Are you aware that the last marriage puja was in US,and > I am banned to enter US for the next 10 years?..Also,are you aware > that my passport was confiscated by the romanian officials because was > expired for 12 years(while I was in the US..)..so I can't travel > anywhere in the world for the marriage pujas?..are you aware that EVEN > if I could,it could not be possible for me to obtain a marriage > questionare from my local leader,since I post in this very > forum(Jagbir's) and they hate me for it? > daniel > > , " kriptodanny " > <kriptodanny> wrote: > > > > , mahesh khatri > > <maheshkhatri> wrote: > > > > > > This New group should be closed immediately. Prerna you need some > > meditation. Ask Shri Mataji's forgiveness for indulging in antisahaj > > activities. Shri Ganesh is not going to like it and it could be > > dangerous for you to play with fire. > > > > > > Jai Shri Mataji > > > > > > Mahesh Khatri > > > > > Dear Mahesh > > I would humbly like to ask you couple of questions.. > > 1.Is marriage ,,indulging in antisahaj activities,? > > 2.Is looking for a marriage partner the same thing as,,flirting,, and > > destroying ones innocence? > > 3.Do sahaja yogis have the same right as any other person from this > > planet to choose their own life-partner? > > 4.Do I need my collective leader permission to get married? > > 5.Do I need to travel to India ,spend thousands of dollars,just to > > attend some marriage puja,so maybe I'd get married before I get too old? > > 6.What if the leader doesn't like me,and refuses to give me a marriage > > questionare to apply?..Means that I'm done for life?...What happened > > with my God given right to select a life-partner?..A sahaja > > yogi,persey?..Is this flirting,again? > > 7.Are you from India,and are you aware that arranged marriages is a > > way of life over there?..Are you aware that this is not a way of life > > in many other cultures?..Do I need to embrace the indian way of life > > to be a sahaja yogi? > > daniel > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2005 Report Share Posted October 19, 2005 RESPONSE TO INDIA335 & MAHESH KHATRI. I would like you both to reply to the following: 1 – Do you know about how many sy's men and women meet at sy puja's and then decide to get married to each other without applying for marriage? They just meet, like each other, and do it, MUCH LIKE YOU WOULD MEET SOMEONE IN A PARTY .. usually selecting each other on basis of same origin (for example an oriental man met an oriental looking woman NOT IN THE SY MARRIAGE WAY THOUGH and they both decided to marry each other and entered the sy marriage having selected each other THEMSELVES –For them, meeting platform was the puja, so would you now say they are absurd or they are doing anti- sahaj activity? Is their way of meeting and deciding to get married any more anti-sy than someone meeting each other on sahajamatch? If you want to close down shajamatch then what about puja's that are providing fertile ground to " this kind of activity " . 2 – Do u know the number of sy's listed on various non-sy matrimonial sites clearly stating they are sahaja yogi's and talking with NON-sy's and having to deal with their ignorance of sy and its culture, just because there isn't a site for sy's to meet each other. And what if a sy girl and sy boy happen to meet each other on a non- sy site...should they not talk to each other just because they both are sy and talk to other non-sy's instead for marriage? Since the sites are non-sy and even the rest of the members are non- sy, the few sy's listed there have to deal with anti-sy behaviour and manners in the NON-SY-MATRIMONIAL SITES. And as obvious from point 1 above, not everyone wants to go thru' the leaders. Do you know how that its much easier for a sy to talk to a sy on a sy matrimonial site than to a non-sy on a non-sy matrimonial site who cannot or does not even want to know/understand why the sy has such sy values and even criticises the sy for it? 3 – Do you know that if you let the sy's be their own guru and exercise their right to make their own decisions about right and wrong, many will decide for themselves if they want to join sahajamatch or not. We are not forcing them to join, why are you trying to stop them? If they are mature enough to be married, aren't they mature enough to know right from wrong…that too in such a basic matter. Why are you " deciding " (imposing?) on them. Why do u not want to give them the freedom to decide for themselves? 4 - Do you know the number of sy's who say they don't want leaders deciding for them who they will marry? Do u know how many sy's are left with no choice but to marry non-sy's because of your attitude? 5 -You do not stop sy's from marrying non-sy's from the numerous non- sy matrimonial sites, but you want to stop sy's from marrying sy's on a sy matrimonial site? 7 - Do u know the number of sy's who secretly say they want to have this kind of freedom to select a sy partner however, because they are too afraid to be thrown out of the collective they end up marrying non-sys? 8- Do u know the corruption on the leadership level in sy where they arrange marriages only because someone wants to move from asian countries to us/uk /europe and this is their free citizenship ticket? 9- Do u know the number of sy's who refuse to marry each other JUST BECAUSE OF THE COUNTRY...THEY WANT TO GO TO US/UK/ EUROPE AND THEY refuse to marry ppl. selected for them from non-european countries? 10- Do you know the number of sy's just waiting and wanting to join the shajamatch group, but too scared to do so just because they do not want to be boycotted, by what they feel, is a too rigid attitude, but also know there is no talking sense to you. Or are waiting for someone to open the gates for them to walk through, too scared to take the first step themselves, lest they be castout? 11- Do you know the repercussions of suppressing something like this in the long term? Do you know the number of sy's who secretly are in love with each other without letting the collective know? They are waiting for a puja to declare they are getting married to each other… Kindly let me know just how anti-sahaja the above activites are and lets reflect on how the sahajamatch is a much-awaited much needed group. Seek the truth and it will set you free. JSM, With much love, Prerna > > --- sahajamatch <sahajamatch> wrote: > > > > > JSM, > > > > > > We introduce a new to you: > > > sahajamatch > > > ----------------------- > > > Dear Sahaja Yogi's and Yogini's > > > > > > If you are a Sahaja Yogi of marriageable age, and > > > were wanting to > > > explore options to marry another Sahaja Yogi, but > > > were not able to do > > > so for various reasons, here is YOUR platform, where > > > you exercise > > > YOUR > > > RIGHT to be YOUR OWN GURU. > > > > > > Here you may post your matrimonial profile, and view > > > other sahaja > > > yogi's profiles, communicate, and make your own > > > decision if you would > > > want to marry that person. Yes! Let us be as own own > > > masters and be > > > able to talk to each other. > > > > > > I am waiting for your suggestions. Remember, this > > > forum is created > > > for you and you are welcome to air your views. > > > Ofcourse with each > > > right there is a responsiblity. Lets keep this forum > > > an honest, > > > decent & friendly one. > > > > > > God bless you all, JSM. > > > Love....Prerna. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Music Unlimited > > Access over 1 million songs. Try it free. > > http://music./unlimited/ > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2005 Report Share Posted October 19, 2005 Jai Shri Mataji First of all it should be very clear that being in sy does not give anyone a special privilege to get married in sy. If it works out good, it is ok. If not still it is Ok. It should not be made an issue and Shri Mataji’s protocols should be followed at all costs. If it is in your Karma to have a sy partner, even if you marry a non sy, he or she would take to sy. Shri Mataji has said several times that our attention should be on our sahastrar and not marriage or anything else. If we attend sy programs and our eyes search for a partner over there, It is no good. Shri Mataji would not like it. And to set up a group to promote what Shri Mataji would not definitely like, is inviting trouble. No one would take any action on anyone. But Kundalini, ganas would definitely do what they like for breaking the protocols. Everything can be argued or justified. So you can do what you like. Being a sy brother, It is my duty to point out what is wrong. If I do not bring your attention, I would be in the wrong as I would have to answer Shri Mataji what did I do when I saw something going wrong. Did you at least point out? I have done my duty and that’s it. You don’t need my approval to go on with the group or whatever. Everyone has got their own wisdom and freedom to do what they want to do. Jai Shri Mataji. Mahesh Khatri sahajamatch <sahajamatch wrote: RESPONSE TO INDIA335 & MAHESH KHATRI.I would like you both to reply to the following:1 – Do you know about how many sy's men and women meet at sy puja's and then decide to get married to each other without applying for marriage? They just meet, like each other, and do it, MUCH LIKE YOU WOULD MEET SOMEONE IN A PARTY .. usually selecting each other on basis of same origin (for example an oriental man met an oriental looking woman NOT IN THE SY MARRIAGE WAY THOUGH and they both decided to marry each other and entered the sy marriage having selected each other THEMSELVES –For them, meeting platform was the puja, so would you now say they are absurd or they are doing anti-sahaj activity? Is their way of meeting and deciding to get married any more anti-sy than someone meeting each other on sahajamatch? If you want to close down shajamatch then what about puja's that are providing fertile ground to "this kind of activity".2 – Do u know the number of sy's listed on various non-sy matrimonial sites clearly stating they are sahaja yogi's and talking with NON-sy's and having to deal with their ignorance of sy and its culture, just because there isn't a site for sy's to meet each other. And what if a sy girl and sy boy happen to meet each other on a non-sy site...should they not talk to each other just because they both are sy and talk to other non-sy's instead for marriage?Since the sites are non-sy and even the rest of the members are non-sy, the few sy's listed there have to deal with anti-sy behaviour and manners in the NON-SY-MATRIMONIAL SITES.And as obvious from point 1 above, not everyone wants to go thru' the leaders.Do you know how that its much easier for a sy to talk to a sy on a sy matrimonial site than to a non-sy on a non-sy matrimonial site who cannot or does not even want to know/understand why the sy has such sy values and even criticises the sy for it?3 – Do you know that if you let the sy's be their own guru and exercise their right to make their own decisions about right and wrong, many will decide for themselves if they want to join sahajamatch or not. We are not forcing them to join, why are you trying to stop them? If they are mature enough to be married, aren't they mature enough to know right from wrong…that too in such a basic matter. Why are you "deciding" (imposing?) on them. Why do u not want to give them the freedom to decide for themselves?4 - Do you know the number of sy's who say they don't want leaders deciding for them who they will marry? Do u know how many sy's are left with no choice but to marry non-sy's because of your attitude? 5 -You do not stop sy's from marrying non-sy's from the numerous non-sy matrimonial sites, but you want to stop sy's from marrying sy's on a sy matrimonial site? 7 - Do u know the number of sy's who secretly say they want to have this kind of freedom to select a sy partner however, because they are too afraid to be thrown out of the collective they end up marrying non-sys? 8- Do u know the corruption on the leadership level in sy where they arrange marriages only because someone wants to move from asian countries to us/uk /europe and this is their free citizenship ticket? 9- Do u know the number of sy's who refuse to marry each other JUST BECAUSE OF THE COUNTRY...THEY WANT TO GO TO US/UK/ EUROPE AND THEY refuse to marry ppl. selected for them from non-european countries? 10- Do you know the number of sy's just waiting and wanting to join the shajamatch group, but too scared to do so just because they do not want to be boycotted, by what they feel, is a too rigid attitude, but also know there is no talking sense to you. Or are waiting for someone to open the gates for them to walk through, too scared to take the first step themselves, lest they be castout?11- Do you know the repercussions of suppressing something like this in the long term? Do you know the number of sy's who secretly are in love with each other without letting the collective know? They are waiting for a puja to declare they are getting married to each other…Kindly let me know just how anti-sahaja the above activites are and lets reflect on how the sahajamatch is a much-awaited much needed group. Seek the truth and it will set you free. JSM, With much love,Prerna> > --- sahajamatch <sahajamatch> wrote:> > > > > JSM,> > > > > > We introduce a new to you:> > > sahajamatch> > > -----------------------> > > Dear Sahaja Yogi's and Yogini's> > > > > > If you are a Sahaja Yogi of marriageable age, and> > > were wanting to> > > explore options to marry another Sahaja Yogi, but> > > were not able to do> > > so for various reasons, here is YOUR platform, where> > > you exercise > > > YOUR> > > RIGHT to be YOUR OWN GURU.> > > > > > Here you may post your matrimonial profile, and view> > > other sahaja> > > yogi's profiles, communicate, and make your own> > > decision if you would> > > want to marry that person. Yes! Let us be as own own> > > masters and be> > > able to talk to each other.> > > > > > I am waiting for your suggestions. Remember, this> > > forum is created> > > for you and you are welcome to air your views.> > > Ofcourse with each> > > right there is a responsiblity. Lets keep this forum> > > an honest,> > > decent & friendly one.> > > > > > God bless you all, JSM.> > > Love....Prerna.> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Music Unlimited > > Access over 1 million songs. Try it free.> > http://music./unlimited/> > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 19, 2005 Report Share Posted October 19, 2005 Dear brother Danny I dont understand what has BEING from India to do with this issue. For your information I am now in Canada. Even though I am not obligated to answer, just for your satisfaction I shall answer you. But even after I have answered all the questions to your satisfaction, I would still hold my ground that setting up a group for matchmaking is antisahaj. The reason is That is not the purpose of coming in sahaj. Also who would allow their daughters to the center or programmes when they know that such activities are also taking place there. Matchmaking. Coming to Sahaj has only one priority. Taking the big jump in the evolutionary cycle. Thats it. No business promotion, No Match making, No Nonsense. Many people have been thrown out of sahaj automatically by the Kundalini just because of these reasons. Secondly when your desire is to get married you will. Not necessarily in sahaj. Your desire is to have a sy wife, you could introduce her to sahaj. Here again I would like to say that sahajayoga is not something that you can take for granted. Shri Mataji has set some protocols which we have to accept. If for some reason you find it difficult you shall get answered in meditation. Then again you are free to do whatever. Set up antisahaj sites. set up matchmaking sites, set up whatever you want to feed your ego. I dont care. I found it not right so I pointed it out. If you and others still feel it right go ahead. Also why dont you ask Shri Mataji Directly personally. Lets see what answer you get. Here are answers to your questions 1.Is marriage ,,indulging in antisahaj activities,? A No > 2.Is looking for a marriage partner the same thing as,,flirting,, and destroying ones innocence? A There is nothing wrong in looking for a partner outside sahaj circles. Looking for a partner within sahaj is against protocol set by Her holiness Shri Mataji Nirmala Devi. > 3.Do sahaja yogis have the same right as any other person from this> planet to choose their own life-partner? A YES > 4.Do I need my collective leader permission to get married? A Yes if you want to get married in Sahaj. That is the protocol. > 5.Do I need to travel to India ,spend thousands of dollars,just to> attend some marriage puja,so maybe I'd get married before I get too old? A No you dont need to travel to India. There are marriage programmes held in other countries too. Alternatively You can get married outside sahaj. > 6.What if the leader doesn't like me,and refuses to give me a marriage> questionare to apply?..Means that I'm done for life?...What happened> with my God given right to select a life-partner?..A sahaja> yogi,persey?..Is this flirting,again? A If you dont fit the criteria you may not get the form. So you can get married outside sahaj. > 7.Are you from India,and are you aware that arranged marriages is a> way of life over there?..Are you aware that this is not a way of life> in many other cultures?..Do I need to embrace the indian way of life> to be a sahaja yogi? A I am from India and just like any other country people find a match for themselves as also there are arranged marriages. You need not embrace the indian way of life to be a sahajayogi. But you need to follow all the protocols to be a sahajayogi. Jai Shri Mataji kriptodanny <kriptodanny wrote: Dear MaheshI have asked you to answer me some questions,yet you refuse..Please answer me this following questions,one by one...You have only 7questions you refuse to answer...Why is that?..Because you are fromIndia?..Please ANSWER those questions,one by one!!!ONLY 7questions,Mahesh!!!!Specific questions!!!..Please answer THEM!!!!Oneby one!!!Dear MaheshI also observe with pleasure that you have included all kinds ofuseful links (matrimony sites) on your own webpage ..http://www.shalstudios.com/links_of_use.htmIf you regard these sites where people are looking for marriageas,,evil,, and nonsahaj culture,may I ask you why you are making aliving out of them(as a wedding photographer?)..maybe because you needtheir money?..Are you aware that the last marriage puja was in US,andI am banned to enter US for the next 10 years?..Also,are you awarethat my passport was confiscated by the romanian officials because wasexpired for 12 years(while I was in the US..)..so I can't travelanywhere in the world for the marriage pujas?..are you aware that EVENif I could,it could not be possible for me to obtain a marriagequestionare from my local leader,since I post in this veryforum(Jagbir's) and they hate me for it?daniel , "kriptodanny"<kriptodanny> wrote:>> , mahesh khatri> <maheshkhatri> wrote:> >> > This New group should be closed immediately. Prerna you need some> meditation. Ask Shri Mataji's forgiveness for indulging in antisahaj> activities. Shri Ganesh is not going to like it and it could be> dangerous for you to play with fire.> >> > Jai Shri Mataji> >> > Mahesh Khatri> >> Dear Mahesh> I would humbly like to ask you couple of questions..> 1.Is marriage ,,indulging in antisahaj activities,?> 2.Is looking for a marriage partner the same thing as,,flirting,, and> destroying ones innocence?> 3.Do sahaja yogis have the same right as any other person from this> planet to choose their own life-partner?> 4.Do I need my collective leader permission to get married?> 5.Do I need to travel to India ,spend thousands of dollars,just to> attend some marriage puja,so maybe I'd get married before I get too old?> 6.What if the leader doesn't like me,and refuses to give me a marriage> questionare to apply?..Means that I'm done for life?...What happened> with my God given right to select a life-partner?..A sahaja> yogi,persey?..Is this flirting,again?> 7.Are you from India,and are you aware that arranged marriages is a> way of life over there?..Are you aware that this is not a way of life> in many other cultures?..Do I need to embrace the indian way of life> to be a sahaja yogi?> daniel> Regards,Mahesh Khatri http://www.geocities.com/maheshkhatri/Maheshkhatri.html http://www.sahajayogaradio.org/ www.sahajayoga.ca Music Unlimited - Access over 1 million songs. 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Guest guest Posted October 20, 2005 Report Share Posted October 20, 2005 , mahesh khatri <maheshkhatri> wrote: > > Dear brother Danny > > I dont understand what has BEING from India to do with this issue. For your information I am now in Canada. ******Yes, but most of the Sahaja rituals are from Indian/Hindu culture. Being Indian yourself, you therefore see no problem and are happy with the rituals, but what of those from different cultures and conditionings? I cannot reconcile freedom of the spirit with the expected rituals. > Even though I am not obligated to answer, just for your satisfaction I shall answer you. *****If you make statements in public concerning others, then you are expected to answer and explain these statements. > But even after I have answered all the questions to your satisfaction, I would still hold my ground that setting up a group for matchmaking is antisahaj. The reason is That is not the purpose of coming in sahaj. Also who would allow their daughters to the center or programmes when they know that such activities are also taking place there. Matchmaking. > Coming to Sahaj has only one priority. Taking the big jump in the evolutionary cycle. Thats it. > No business promotion, No Match making, No Nonsense. ****Are you suggesting that people join Sahaja Yoga for matchmaking? This is a really ugly thing to say. Can you not see that people wish to find a partner and make their home with someone who shares the same faith and aspirations? Have you no idea of the future conflicts awaiting the children of people who marry with different beliefs? And what are you talking about; 'allow their daughters to the centre' The daughters are capable of thinking for themselves, as can the young men, and why do you put a stigma on the 'daughters'? I want you to answer this. Why is it ok for the daughters to attend the centre, where leaders arrange marriages, but it is not ok for these daughters to choose someone themselves who they find after getting to know the person, that they share common interests, understandings etc. As you say, coming to Sahaj has one priority; taking the big jump in the evolutionary cycle. It is self-realisation. So why is the organisation so repressive, narrow-minded, and eager to have control over individuals. The affirmation 'I am my own guru' goes for women as well as men. However, it seems to have become 'The leader is my guru'. > Many people have been thrown out of sahaj automatically by the Kundalini just because of these reasons. ****Maybe individuals get upset with the way they are treated. If you do not fit in and keep silent, you get thrown out of the organisation. However, the Kundalini throws away no one. > > Secondly when your desire is to get married you will. Not necessarily in sahaj. Your desire is to have a sy wife, you could introduce her to sahaj. > Here again I would like to say that sahajayoga is not something that you can take for granted. Shri Mataji has set some protocols which we have to accept. > If for some reason you find it difficult you shall get answered in meditation. > > Then again you are free to do whatever. Set up antisahaj sites. set up matchmaking sites, set up whatever you want to feed your ego. I dont care. > I found it not right so I pointed it out. If you and others still feel it right go ahead. Also why dont you ask Shri Mataji Directly personally. Lets see what answer you get. ****These people have asked their Inner guru, and are doing what they feel is right for them in their lives. As you say, each person finds answers in meditation; so why do you condemn? In your answer I have found no compassion and understanding; simply following of rigid rules. Regards, Semira > Here are answers to your questions > > 1.Is marriage ,,indulging in antisahaj activities,? > > > > A No > > > 2.Is looking for a marriage partner the same thing as,,flirting,, and destroying ones innocence? > > > > A There is nothing wrong in looking for a partner outside sahaj circles. Looking for a partner within sahaj is against protocol set by Her holiness Shri Mataji Nirmala Devi. > > > > > 3.Do sahaja yogis have the same right as any other person from this > > planet to choose their own life-partner? > > A YES > > > 4.Do I need my collective leader permission to get married? > > A Yes if you want to get married in Sahaj. That is the protocol. > > > 5.Do I need to travel to India ,spend thousands of dollars,just to > > attend some marriage puja,so maybe I'd get married before I get too old? > > A No you dont need to travel to India. There are marriage programmes held in other countries too. Alternatively You can get married outside sahaj. > > > 6.What if the leader doesn't like me,and refuses to give me a marriage > > questionare to apply?..Means that I'm done for life?...What happened > > with my God given right to select a life-partner?..A sahaja > > yogi,persey?..Is this flirting,again? > > A If you dont fit the criteria you may not get the form. So you can get married outside sahaj. > > > 7.Are you from India,and are you aware that arranged marriages is a > > way of life over there?..Are you aware that this is not a way of life > > in many other cultures?..Do I need to embrace the indian way of life > > to be a sahaja yogi? > > A I am from India and just like any other country people find a match for themselves as also there are arranged marriages. You need not embrace the indian way of life to be a sahajayogi. But you need to follow all the protocols to be a sahajayogi. > > > > Jai Shri Mataji kriptodanny <kriptodanny> wrote: > > Dear Mahesh > I have asked you to answer me some questions,yet you refuse.. > Please answer me this following questions,one by one...You have only 7 > questions you refuse to answer...Why is that?..Because you are from > India?..Please ANSWER those questions,one by one!!!ONLY 7 > questions,Mahesh!!!!Specific questions!!!..Please answer THEM!!!! One > by one!!! > > > Dear Mahesh > I also observe with pleasure that you have included all kinds of > useful links (matrimony sites) on your own webpage .. > http://www.shalstudios.com/links_of_use.htm > If you regard these sites where people are looking for marriage > as,,evil,, and nonsahaj culture,may I ask you why you are making a > living out of them(as a wedding photographer?)..maybe because you need > their money?..Are you aware that the last marriage puja was in US,and > I am banned to enter US for the next 10 years?..Also,are you aware > that my passport was confiscated by the romanian officials because was > expired for 12 years(while I was in the US..)..so I can't travel > anywhere in the world for the marriage pujas?..are you aware that EVEN > if I could,it could not be possible for me to obtain a marriage > questionare from my local leader,since I post in this very > forum(Jagbir's) and they hate me for it? > daniel > > , " kriptodanny " > <kriptodanny> wrote: > > > > , mahesh khatri > > <maheshkhatri> wrote: > > > > > > This New group should be closed immediately. Prerna you need some > > meditation. Ask Shri Mataji's forgiveness for indulging in antisahaj > > activities. Shri Ganesh is not going to like it and it could be > > dangerous for you to play with fire. > > > > > > Jai Shri Mataji > > > > > > Mahesh Khatri > > > > > Dear Mahesh > > I would humbly like to ask you couple of questions.. > > 1.Is marriage ,,indulging in antisahaj activities,? > > 2.Is looking for a marriage partner the same thing as,,flirting,, and > > destroying ones innocence? > > 3.Do sahaja yogis have the same right as any other person from this > > planet to choose their own life-partner? > > 4.Do I need my collective leader permission to get married? > > 5.Do I need to travel to India ,spend thousands of dollars,just to > > attend some marriage puja,so maybe I'd get married before I get too old? > > 6.What if the leader doesn't like me,and refuses to give me a marriage > > questionare to apply?..Means that I'm done for life?...What happened > > with my God given right to select a life-partner?..A sahaja > > yogi,persey?..Is this flirting,again? > > 7.Are you from India,and are you aware that arranged marriages is a > > way of life over there?..Are you aware that this is not a way of life > > in many other cultures?..Do I need to embrace the indian way of life > > to be a sahaja yogi? > > daniel > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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