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Dear Mahesh et all,

 

Prerna has deleted the links.

 

i just wanted to know what about people like me whose children are

regarded as possessed and demonic? Since i am not a SY in the eyes

of WCASY and thus cannot use their matchmaking services what choice

do i have for my kids? Do you know i am in the process of getting my

eldest son married to a non-SY? The thought of using the services of

SY marriage brokers did not even cross my mind because since my

family members are all outcasts i did not want to give them the

pleasure of rejecting my son's marraige application.

 

More questions: Since Shri Mataji does not personally match the

couples who has the power? Do you think those humans now 'endowned

with the powers to matchmake' can make a better choice than SY

parents to find partners for their children? Will SYs be

increasingly dependent on a WCASY sanctioned marriage similar to

those perfromed and sanctified by churches and temples? Will such

powers be abused, as they clearly are in my case, to punish those

not towing the offiical line/rules by preventing marriages?

 

i know what Shri Mataji said a decade or two about marriages. But

She has now almost completely receded from physical sight and those

taking over and presenting Her Will are not following the Dharma. Do

i join them by closing the websites and pretend Sahaja Yoga is about

kundalini awakening for the sake of getting a SY daughter-in-law or

do i resist and stand my ground that it is about the Divine Message

to humanity delivered by the Adi Shakti, even though all my children

will end up marrying partners who have no clue what is Sahaja Yoga

all about? (i really no have prejudice against any non-SY/race or

religion and will gladly have them as my daughter/son-in-laws.)

 

Jai Shri Mataji,

 

 

jagbir

 

, mahesh khatri

<maheshkhatri> wrote:

>

> This New group should be closed immediately. Prerna you need some

meditation. Ask Shri Mataji's forgiveness for indulging in antisahaj

activities. Shri Ganesh is not going to like it and it could be

dangerous for you to play with fire.

>

> Jai Shri Mataji

>

> Mahesh Khatri

>

> india107 sahaji <india335> wrote:

> This is absurd Prena.

> If u are not aware of what ur doing, then please read

> the following word of Shri Mataji.

>

> Raksha-Bandhan and Maryadas for Sahaja Yogis

>

> Shri Mataji,

> Hounslow, London

> 11th

> Aug. 1984

>

> Today is a very great day of Rakshabandhan. So I have

> to tell

> you something about Raksha-bandhan. Before that we

> have to

> talk about the maryadas (boundaries of pure

> relationships)

> that have to be observed by Sahaja Yogis.

> One of the things I discovered here, in the West, that

> though

> we have understood the importance of Mooladhara, which

> is a

> very important thing, that unless and until we

> establish our

> Mooladhara fully we are not going to have speediest

> ascent.

> Despite all that, there are lingering things you see

> around.

> Like, people start choosing their life-partners in

> Sahaja

> Yoga. That is not allowed. That is not allowed.

> You are not to spoil your Ashrams, your centres -

> using them

> for a marriage searching society. You must respect

> this point,

> you must respect. If you have to marry, then you can

> find your

> life partners 'outside' Sahaja Yoga - to begin with -

> But if

> you want to marry 'in' Sahaja Yoga, then you should

> not go on

> searching people in Sahaja Yoga. It is 'very

> dangerous' thing

> for Sahaja Yoga itself, and for you people. That is

> one thing

> one should 'never' try to do with Sahaja Yoga. For all

> practical purposes you are brothers and sisters. And

> that's

> why I always encouraged marriage between people who

> belong to

> another country or another centres.

> As we are now having a big marriage programme, I would

> say

> that most of the

> marriages which were done like that, are 'very'

> successful

> than the marriages that were selected and were done.

> It's very

> wrong to do such a thing as to arrange your marriage

> with a

> Sahaja Yogi by yourself. It will be dangerous. I don't

> want to

> say anything; but it wouldn't turn out to be good

> because it

> is anti-God activity. Absolutely anti-God. You are

> supposed to

> develop your brahmacharya, you are supposed to develop

> your

> Mooladhara. Instead of that if you start using a

> Sahaja Yogini

> or a Sahaja Yogi for the selection of your married

> life, it's

> going to be very very troublesome, your Mooladhara is

> not

> going to settle down. I mean that's a bad stroke for

> your

> development.

> Because of the background and the kind of the

> conditioning you

> have had, you people don't understand that it is

> important to

> maintain the purity of the centres. And of every

> place. So any

> such relationship in one city is a very very wrong

> thing. It

> spoils everyone. To add up to the trouble, it's a

> habit of

> people, I have heard, that they try to tease that

> ''you look

> better together'', ''you're nice together''. They

> 'tease' and

> enjoy. It's a kind of a very perverted enjoyment of

> mooladhara. To tease others, ''You are looking very

> nice with

> him, and you better marry him.'' It's a kind of a

> romantic non-

> sense.

> Of course, for all this, yogis - they have to have a

> Brahmacharya. But even if you can't have brahmacharya.

> You

> must have 'Maryadas.' Not to tease each other and

> enjoy that

> kind of a non-sense, when the marriage is not settled;

> - if

> marriage is settled it is alright. And this kills

> completely

> the joy of marriage. because there is no curiosity

> left. And

> many a times I find that 'absurd' relations are

> established.

> Some of them are really no good. And they will really

> be

> detrimental and some of them are never established. So

> if they

> are established, they are wrong, and if they are not

> established, they are heartbreaking.

> So all this kind of thing you should not do. You have

> got

> experiences of people who married outside and brought

> 'wonderful' people to Sahaja Yoga. If you can do it,

> you

> should do it. If you have to marry Sahaja Yogi, you

> should not

> marry them at the cost of destroying the purity and

> the

> idealism it has. For your own sake, for your 'own'

> pleasures

> you should not spoil the name of Sahaja Yoga.

> That is one thing I have seen, so I would say that

> today, as

> it is the day of purity between relationships, let us

> know

> that you have to treat each other as brothers and

> sisters. No

> such play should be followed. Don't allow your mind to

> drift

> into this. Because if you allow, then there's no end

> to it. As

> it is, you know how hard it is to bring you back to

> normalcy.

> When Christ had said, " Thou shalt not have adulterous

> eyes " ,

> He did not say it because it was not practical. It is

> quite

> practical for Sahaja Yogis. And there is nothing to

> worry

> about marriages so much, what is so important ? So

> many are

> married and what has happened to them. 'Even' with the

> Sahaja

> Yoga marriage, some have failed because of these bad

> habits.

> So you 'better' get rid of these bad habits before

> marriage.

> Because after marriage also they go on like this, and

> searching for boys and girls. Because if these habits

> are not

> curbed, 'before' marriage, then they go on lingering

> on. So,

> one should not try to do all these things before

> marriage. And

> I have seen such marriages are never, never successful

> so far.

> And even if they are, it is a sort of make-believe

> thing. It

> doesn't give real joy, it's a joyless pursuit. May be

> in one

> case - may be - successful, that does not mean that

> you take

> help from such difficult things, but have 'normal'

> marriage

> which are enjoyable, which have created permanent

> bondages

> between people.

>

>

> --- sahajamatch <sahajamatch> wrote:

>

> > JSM,

> >

> > We introduce a new to you:

> > sahajamatch

> > -----------------------

> > Dear Sahaja Yogi's and Yogini's

> >

> > If you are a Sahaja Yogi of marriageable age, and

> > were wanting to

> > explore options to marry another Sahaja Yogi, but

> > were not able to do

> > so for various reasons, here is YOUR platform, where

> > you exercise

> > YOUR

> > RIGHT to be YOUR OWN GURU.

> >

> > Here you may post your matrimonial profile, and view

> > other sahaja

> > yogi's profiles, communicate, and make your own

> > decision if you would

> > want to marry that person. Yes! Let us be as own own

> > masters and be

> > able to talk to each other.

> >

> > I am waiting for your suggestions. Remember, this

> > forum is created

> > for you and you are welcome to air your views.

> > Ofcourse with each

> > right there is a responsiblity. Lets keep this forum

> > an honest,

> > decent & friendly one.

> >

> > God bless you all, JSM.

> > Love....Prerna.

> >

> >