Guest guest Posted October 19, 2005 Report Share Posted October 19, 2005 JSM, No the links are very much active. sahajamatch/ and we are growing...!! JSM, Prerna , " jagbir singh " <adishakti_org> wrote: > > Dear Mahesh et all, > > Prerna has deleted the links. > > i just wanted to know what about people like me who children are > regarded as possessed and demonic? Since i am not a SY in the eyes > of WCASY and thus cannot use their matchmaking services what choice > do i have for my kids? Do you know i am in the process of getting my > eldest son married to a non-SY? The thought of using the services of > SY marriage brokers did not even cross my mind because since my > family members are all outcasts i did not want to give them the > pleasure of rejecting my son's marraige application. > > More questions: Since Shri Mataji does not personally match the > couples who has the power? Do you think those humans now 'endowned > with the powers to matchmake' can make a better choice than SY > parents to find partners for their children? Will SYs be > increasingly dependent on a WCASY sanctioned marriage similar to > those perfromed and sanctified by churches and temples? Will such > powers be abused, as they clearly are in my case, to punish those > not towing the offiical line/rules by preventing marriages? > > i know what Shri Mataji said a decade or two about marriages. But > She has now almost completely receded from physical sight and those > taking over and presenting Her Will are not following the Dharma. Do > i join them by closing the websites and pretend Sahaja Yoga is about kundalini awakening for the sake of getting a SY daughter-in- law or do i resist and stand my ground that it is about the Divine Message to humanity delivered by the Adi Shakti? > > Jai Shri Mataji, > > > jagbir > > , mahesh khatri > <maheshkhatri> wrote: > > > > This New group should be closed immediately. Prerna you need some > meditation. Ask Shri Mataji's forgiveness for indulging in antisahaj > activities. Shri Ganesh is not going to like it and it could be > dangerous for you to play with fire. > > > > Jai Shri Mataji > > > > Mahesh Khatri > > > > india107 sahaji <india335> wrote: > > This is absurd Prena. > > If u are not aware of what ur doing, then please read > > the following word of Shri Mataji. > > > > Raksha-Bandhan and Maryadas for Sahaja Yogis > > > > Shri Mataji, > > Hounslow, London > > 11th > > Aug. 1984 > > > > Today is a very great day of Rakshabandhan. So I have > > to tell > > you something about Raksha-bandhan. Before that we > > have to > > talk about the maryadas (boundaries of pure > > relationships) > > that have to be observed by Sahaja Yogis. > > One of the things I discovered here, in the West, that > > though > > we have understood the importance of Mooladhara, which > > is a > > very important thing, that unless and until we > > establish our > > Mooladhara fully we are not going to have speediest > > ascent. > > Despite all that, there are lingering things you see > > around. > > Like, people start choosing their life-partners in > > Sahaja > > Yoga. That is not allowed. That is not allowed. > > You are not to spoil your Ashrams, your centres - > > using them > > for a marriage searching society. You must respect > > this point, > > you must respect. If you have to marry, then you can > > find your > > life partners 'outside' Sahaja Yoga - to begin with - > > But if > > you want to marry 'in' Sahaja Yoga, then you should > > not go on > > searching people in Sahaja Yoga. It is 'very > > dangerous' thing > > for Sahaja Yoga itself, and for you people. That is > > one thing > > one should 'never' try to do with Sahaja Yoga. For all > > practical purposes you are brothers and sisters. And > > that's > > why I always encouraged marriage between people who > > belong to > > another country or another centres. > > As we are now having a big marriage programme, I would > > say > > that most of the > > marriages which were done like that, are 'very' > > successful > > than the marriages that were selected and were done. > > It's very > > wrong to do such a thing as to arrange your marriage > > with a > > Sahaja Yogi by yourself. It will be dangerous. I don't > > want to > > say anything; but it wouldn't turn out to be good > > because it > > is anti-God activity. Absolutely anti-God. You are > > supposed to > > develop your brahmacharya, you are supposed to develop > > your > > Mooladhara. Instead of that if you start using a > > Sahaja Yogini > > or a Sahaja Yogi for the selection of your married > > life, it's > > going to be very very troublesome, your Mooladhara is > > not > > going to settle down. I mean that's a bad stroke for > > your > > development. > > Because of the background and the kind of the > > conditioning you > > have had, you people don't understand that it is > > important to > > maintain the purity of the centres. And of every > > place. So any > > such relationship in one city is a very very wrong > > thing. It > > spoils everyone. To add up to the trouble, it's a > > habit of > > people, I have heard, that they try to tease that > > ''you look > > better together'', ''you're nice together''. They > > 'tease' and > > enjoy. It's a kind of a very perverted enjoyment of > > mooladhara. To tease others, ''You are looking very > > nice with > > him, and you better marry him.'' It's a kind of a > > romantic non- > > sense. > > Of course, for all this, yogis - they have to have a > > Brahmacharya. But even if you can't have brahmacharya. > > You > > must have 'Maryadas.' Not to tease each other and > > enjoy that > > kind of a non-sense, when the marriage is not settled; > > - if > > marriage is settled it is alright. And this kills > > completely > > the joy of marriage. because there is no curiosity > > left. And > > many a times I find that 'absurd' relations are > > established. > > Some of them are really no good. And they will really > > be > > detrimental and some of them are never established. So > > if they > > are established, they are wrong, and if they are not > > established, they are heartbreaking. > > So all this kind of thing you should not do. You have > > got > > experiences of people who married outside and brought > > 'wonderful' people to Sahaja Yoga. If you can do it, > > you > > should do it. If you have to marry Sahaja Yogi, you > > should not > > marry them at the cost of destroying the purity and > > the > > idealism it has. For your own sake, for your 'own' > > pleasures > > you should not spoil the name of Sahaja Yoga. > > That is one thing I have seen, so I would say that > > today, as > > it is the day of purity between relationships, let us > > know > > that you have to treat each other as brothers and > > sisters. No > > such play should be followed. Don't allow your mind to > > drift > > into this. Because if you allow, then there's no end > > to it. As > > it is, you know how hard it is to bring you back to > > normalcy. > > When Christ had said, " Thou shalt not have adulterous > > eyes " , > > He did not say it because it was not practical. It is > > quite > > practical for Sahaja Yogis. And there is nothing to > > worry > > about marriages so much, what is so important ? So > > many are > > married and what has happened to them. 'Even' with the > > Sahaja > > Yoga marriage, some have failed because of these bad > > habits. > > So you 'better' get rid of these bad habits before > > marriage. > > Because after marriage also they go on like this, and > > searching for boys and girls. Because if these habits > > are not > > curbed, 'before' marriage, then they go on lingering > > on. So, > > one should not try to do all these things before > > marriage. And > > I have seen such marriages are never, never successful > > so far. > > And even if they are, it is a sort of make-believe > > thing. It > > doesn't give real joy, it's a joyless pursuit. May be > > in one > > case - may be - successful, that does not mean that > > you take > > help from such difficult things, but have 'normal' > > marriage > > which are enjoyable, which have created permanent > > bondages > > between people. > > > > > > --- sahajamatch <sahajamatch> wrote: > > > > > JSM, > > > > > > We introduce a new to you: > > > sahajamatch > > > ----------------------- > > > Dear Sahaja Yogi's and Yogini's > > > > > > If you are a Sahaja Yogi of marriageable age, and > > > were wanting to > > > explore options to marry another Sahaja Yogi, but > > > were not able to do > > > so for various reasons, here is YOUR platform, where > > > you exercise > > > YOUR > > > RIGHT to be YOUR OWN GURU. > > > > > > Here you may post your matrimonial profile, and view > > > other sahaja > > > yogi's profiles, communicate, and make your own > > > decision if you would > > > want to marry that person. Yes! Let us be as own own > > > masters and be > > > able to talk to each other. > > > > > > I am waiting for your suggestions. Remember, this > > > forum is created > > > for you and you are welcome to air your views. > > > Ofcourse with each > > > right there is a responsiblity. Lets keep this forum > > > an honest, > > > decent & friendly one. > > > > > > God bless you all, JSM. > > > Love....Prerna. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Music Unlimited > > Access over 1 million songs. Try it free. > > http://music./unlimited/ > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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