Guest guest Posted November 10, 2005 Report Share Posted November 10, 2005 Dear Semira and John, My pranaam to both of you for this gem. Jai Shri Mataji, jagbir -------------------------------- " jglove7 " <jglove7 Thu Nov 10, 2005 2:06 am Hello Again Thank you Everyone for your helpful input. This is the sort of kindness we need more of in our world - especially the SY world which is supposed to epitomise compassion. You know, one of the respondents suggested checking SMs vibes. I hope you won't be upset, but it actually makes me deeply silent. I know it contradicts all the bodily ailments we hear about, but there is definitely (for me) a lovely, soothing, deep calm and silence when I put my attention/hands towards SM. Then of course, after maybe 10 minutes, thoughts arise about all the discrepancies and I become disturbed and think unfriendly thoughts about the whole SY organisation. Oh what a conundrum. BTW, I no longer " bring " people into SY - I cannot mess up their lives even though I know some could enjoy that joyful bliss I experience in many of my meditations. I have spoken up in the past to no avail. A friend who has been in SY longer than me has been kept at arms length for talking about the problems in SY - and he was one of the " early " yogis who spent a lot of time with SM and established centers in England. The problem is that no truly intelligent person with a conscience can keep quiet about these conflicts. Perhaps that's why even in old yoga books the intellect is considered a hindrance. I've said enough. Bye for now. " semirafields " <semirafields Thu Nov 10, 2005 5:06 am Re: Hello Again Dear John, You might like to read some chapters from the following link(scroll down the page for the chapters) http://www.strippingthegurus.com/ In particular the chapter XXV11 'Gurus and Prisoners' is helpful in understanding what psychologically changes happen to people in situations where there are leaders and positions of power, and in any situation where there is a superior/inferior differential. Best wishes, Semira http://www.strippingthegurus.com/stgsamplechapters/gurusandprisoners. asp A few short excerts; -----AS WE HAVE SEEN, a common set of alleged problems, even expressed in nearly identical words, tend to occur in our world's spiritual communities. Indeed, the reported characteristics observed are essentially independent of the specific beliefs espoused by the community, and of the historical time and place in which the spiritual leader and his disciples have existed. ------ Even a pure democracy will naturally and inevitably turn into an authoritarian hierarchy in the face of any one person whom enough people believe to be an infallible " god. " Those supporters then defer to his (or her) " omniscient " perception of reality, and collectively enforce that same deference on their peers, against the penalty of ostracism from the community—a fate worse than peon-ship, even were salvation not at stake. Thereby do they ingratiate themselves and secure their own inner circle status, where they can " bask in the reflected glory " from such close proximity to the " cool sage " above them. In the same positions, they will further receive bowing respect from those below—exacted sadistically, if need be. ------ (With regard to the spontaneous production and defense of the guru position: Compare the unavoidable—not necessarily good, but unavoidable—presence of " alpha males " and pecking orders even in the animal kingdom. There is neither " patriarchy " nor " too much linear thinking " in such pre-verbal environments; yet the hierarchical orderings occur all the same.) Spiritual paths as diverse as Roman Catholicism, Tibetan Buddhism and Paramahansa Yogananda's SRF have been grown in cultures ranging from the agrarian East to postmodern America. Yet, they are scarcely distinguishable in their power structures, the behaviors of their members, the penalties for leaving and the reported, spirit-crushing cruelties visited upon those who stay. And given all that, it seems clear by now that not only are the problems with such communities systemic, but the abuse-creating structures are basically unavoidable. The issues we have seen, then, are the product far less of a few " bad apples, " than of the surroundings in which they are contained. Almost universally, in spiritual communities, there are no meaningful checks and balances on the behaviors of the leaders, to restrict their exercise of " divine " power. That is so, not only in terms of their indulgence in base (e.g., sadistic or sexual) impulses, but also in failing to prevent the Animal Farm-like rewriting of the tenets on which the community was originally founded. (Compare SRF's current monopoly on " valid " kriya initiation, etc.) Yet, there is simultaneously no shortage of indoctrination, required deference, ostracism and worse, utilized to keep the followers from even cognizing, much less speaking up about, those power-grabs and rule-changes. And before you know it, the Board of Directors members, for example, have become " more equal " than the people they should be accountable to. They will further benefit from there being no shortage of peons eager to prove their loyalty to the cause, and work their way up " toward God, " by doubly reinforcing that inequality on anyone who dares to question it. ------Regardless, having spent sufficient time in silence within a group of onlookers, the first question one would face should one finally openly object would be the embarrassing: Why did you keep quiet for so long, if it was obvious from the beginning that something needed to be done? We therefore have a personal stake in not admitting that we should have done things differently—i.e., that we were wrong to behave thusly. For that reason, and even merely for the sake of socially rewarded consistency, we instead remain silent, allowing the problems to continue. (Institutions such as the Vatican persist in their errors and reported abuses in no small part exactly for being unable to come out and admit that they have been wrong in the past [cf. Wills, 2000].) Plus, for Zimbardo's relatively sensitive " good " guards, for example, to speak out against the activities of their more sadistic counterparts, would surely have resulted in their quick ostracism from that sub-community of " alpha guards, " who actually enjoyed mistreating their prisoners. ------Only three things are really needed in order to begin creating a closed, toxic environment—whether that be a " cult, " a bad marriage, a prison or a dictatorship. And those are (i) a significant power differential between the leaders and their followers, (ii) a lack of checks and balances on the leaders to keep them from abusing their existing power and grabbing for more, and (iii) sufficient psychological, financial and/or physical (e.g., locks and bars) constraints to keep the mistreated followers from simply leaving. The increasingly " cult-like " nature of the environment will then follow straightforward, simply via the presence of basic human psychology in both the leaders/guards and their followers/prisoners. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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