All my life

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Dear Danny, Semira, and Jagbir:

 

I respect all of you for your thoughts and words. You all understand

the danger to ones Spirit for marrying the wrong person. I have lost

three children that I do not see or talk to anymore because I married

the wrong person. Marriage is a BIG deal. If someone goes into a

marriage for the wrong reasons such as I did, there are consequences.

I think Jagbir is saying, please be careful because someone who is

not on the same spiritual level as the other person can cause major

trouble. Bitterness, Anger, Desire,; these things can start small but

grow very large. God gives us free will. He also gives us knowledge.

When two people are joined together, Understanding and knowing each

other (knowledge) and Love must be there. I do not necessarily

believe that arranged marriages are good unless the participants are

in full agreement and are willing to have knowledge and Love

regarding each other. The first hint of trouble, back out!!!

 

I married my current wife in 2002. I am 47 and she is 51. She drinks

and smokes. I do not judge her nor do I criticize her. I know she has

a good heart. She is kind, thoughtful, and would not criticize or say

anything bad about anyone else. She does not criticize or judge me

either for me becoming a Yoga. I learn things about myself from her

and I hope she learns things about herself from me. I will give you

all an example. Her brother is turning 60 on December 23rd. Her

brother's wife is having a surprise birthday party for him. I

expressed the fact I would rather be at home Christmas week end

rather than driving down on Friday, driving back home on Saturday and

then she want's to go back to her other brother's house on Sunday.

The drive to the birthday party is 4 hours one way. Four hours back

home then 2 1/2 hour drive back on Sunday. She told me I was being

selfish and after thinking about it, I thought yes, I could spend the

time in the car visiting and talking to her about things I am

learning. I know this sounds petty but my point is Learning and

Knowledge and Love must be in a marriage. There are numerous other

examples I could give since I have become a Sahaja Yoga where she has

learned things about herself. And when I talk about Love, I am not

talking about carnal love. I am talking about divine Love. Love from

the heart.

 

Love,

 

Chuck

 

 

, " kriptodanny "

<kriptodanny> wrote:

>

> All my life I have tried to marry a yogi...but my karma took me way

> ahead in the other continent named US.Jagbir...you have no idea what

> is to be there,by yourself..and only your own Shakti to protect

> you.Maybe when I write the ,,Monk in America,,series you will

> understand me.

> You have been blessed by a spouse sahaja yogi.Also you have been

> blessed by beautiful kids whom are sahaja yogis.I have not been

> blessed by such thinks..

>

> All my life and being was for finding the TRUTH!!!

>

> I'm gonna tell you a story...I came back from the US,and my little

> sister(the one I gave realization before I departed)...got sucked

into

> some baptism church.I mean she had to get ,,baptized,, by water by

> some priest dude.Right now she thinks she is saved,for the priest

dude

> baptised her with water.She does not even remember when I gave her

> realization....for she was innocent,a 5 years old.Yet..her pure

desire

> is there,for she is the only one in the family who goes to church

> every sunday.She thinks she is saved,and my heart bleeds when I

think

> about it...

> For I was not there for her when she needed me..therefore she got

> sucked into the baptist Church(by water)..I have told her that the

> real baptism is by fire,(kundalini)..she is done,she do not want to

> listen.

> They also rely on me when somebody gets sick in the family..or

friends...

> This is what I call hypocrisy Jagbir..

> They rely on me when they are sick,yet they refuse to listen to the

> divine!!!

> For the simple fact I can compensate for any negativity does not

mean

> I am worst then Simon.(as Mahesh said,,and I am just about to loose

my

> cool with him,)

> I suggest he posts an apology about that(just a thought..for he has

no

> idea whom I am)

>

> DANIEL

>