Searching for the Divine Feminine

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SEARCHING FOR THE DIVINE FEMININE:

Searching For " Her " In Between The

Lines

 

By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway

May The Blessing of God Go Before You

May Her peace and grace abound.

May her spirit live within you.

May her love wrap you `round.

May her blessing remain with you always.

May you walk on holy ground.

~Miriam Therese Winter, Life Prayers

 

I always had a sense that if there was a God, there had to be a

Goddess. Host-Hostess. Steward-Stewardess. Actor-Actress. In my heart

I knew there had to be a yin to the yang I grew up knowing as the

Divine source of all that is. I just did not have a clue as to how to

find Her.

 

It wasn't until I was in seminary school that I began to truly see

the many feminine faces of God, known as Goddess, as she exists in so

many of the world's religions and traditions. My path included many

bumps, questions and doubts along the way. I share my insights with

you because I suspect that many people raised in our traditional

religious culture may find it hard to believe--and perhaps even

sacrilegious to consider--that the male God of the Bible is one of

many interpretations of divine presence that exist in the world's

religions.

 

Fortunately, I was trained by a seminary that encourages free

thinking and exploration. Its motto is " Never instead of, always in

addition to. " In order to embrace all faiths we were taught that God

is one source and yet that source manifests in many ways, through

many paths, religions and spiritual practices. And that God is

represented by a wide-range of deities with different names.

 

Nevertheless, the fear of acknowledging a feminine face of God

grabbed hold of me in the middle of seminary school. I was doing what

seminarians are supposed to do... grappling with God. As I studied

comparative religion, I was trying to reconcile the belief system I

was raised with--God is a man, no two ways about it--with the new

belief systems I was learning--The Divine is neither male or female

and/or The Divine is indeed both male and female. One day I was

praying to a feminine deity...and I became panic stricken: What if

the Male God gets mad at me and cuts me off? What if he's saying, Oh,

switching teams, eh? We'll see about that...

 

Many people are even afraid to consider the Divine as feminine in

form or nature. Yet I learned on my personal journey that in order to

be truly whole, whether we are women or men, we must embrace both the

male and feminine aspects of the divine--and we must embrace those

aspects of ourselves and of one another.

 

I discovered that I am among so many women--and men--searching for

spirituality that brings both The Father and The Mother to the table.

As we desperately seek balance and peace on our planet, and in these

times of deeply disturbing and frightening world events, many of us

are searching for what's been missing in modern life. And I believe

one of the most important missing pieces of our lives has been The

Sacred Feminine--not instead of, but in addition to, The Sacred Male.

In the tradition of all-inclusive spirituality, we refer to the

Divine as God, Goddess, All there is.

 

 

SHE IS THERE ... IN BETWEEN THE LINES

 

When I first began to search for signs of the Mother in the world's

religions, I found a few beautiful examples, including the " she

aspect " . One was in the gentle spiritual practice known as Taoism,

founded by Loa Tzu in the 6th Century B.C.E.. The Taoists explain the

origin of all that is as feminine, yet is manifested as both male and

female, in what is known as the Yin and the Yang. It is this energy

that the Taoist religious text Tao Te Ching attributes to the

creation of the cosmos. " Conceived of as having no name, it is the

originator of heaven and earth...it is the Mother of all things. "

 

In Kabbalah, the mystical aspect of Judaism, the indwelling aspect of

God, also known as Shekinah, is considered to be the feminine aspect

of God. Kabbalists also know the soul as " She. " Consider this

petition to the divine from the tradition of mystical Judaism:

 

" My soul aches to receive your love. Only by the tenderness of your

light can she be healed. Engage my soul that she may taste your

ecstasy. "

 

The Judaic scriptures and the Gnostic Christian doctrines also

include wisdom as a feminine aspect. She is called, Sophia and

considered the personification of wisdom.

 

The Buddhists confer that Praj-na-para-mita (which means the

perfection of wisdom) is feminine. An important Buddhist text,

Sariputra, puts it this way: " The perfection of wisdom gives light, O

Lord. I pay homage to the perfection of wisdom. She is worthy of

homage. She is unstained and the world cannot stain her. "

 

Then of course, there is Grace. In Christian Theology it is the

expression of Gods love in his free and unmerited assistance. And, as

the New Testament puts it, Grace can only be conferred through Faith.

Isn't it interesting that those are names assigned to women? That

Grace and Faith evoke perhaps the greatest sense of connection to the

Divine, yet do so in the name and essence of the feminine. I was

excited to see that when you dig around a bit you will find the

feminine between the lines of well-established religions. Still, I

was searching for a God who looked like me--feminine in nature and in

her manifestations...The spiritual mother I longed for.

 

 

HAIL MARY

 

Conventional religious belief is obviously dominated by references to

and images of a male Divine, whispering ever so softly of feminine

energies between the lines. Yet Catholicism has given us our most

tangible mainstream connection. Mary, mother of God's only begotten

son, along with a handful of popular female saints, have been the

most highly visible aspect of the feminine in the traditional

religion for 2,000 years. Because of that, The Blessed Virgin cuts

across religious boundaries. She is, in many ways, the adopted

spiritual mother of all women, and people of many faiths embrace her.

She has been solely responsible for keeping the sacred feminine alive

for a couple of millennium. Yet there are many cultures that are rich

with mythology, spiritual practices, religious experiences and sacred

texts that show us many ways in which The Goddess has been and can be

worshipped, remembered and evoked.

 

It is extraordinary to realize that just over 2000 years ago, less

than 40 years before the birth of Jesus Christ, queen Cleopatra of

Egypt prayed to the mother Goddess, Isis, who was the favored deity

of the Queen's temples. Cleopatra's beloved, Julius Caesar, bowed to

Isis' Roman counterpart, the Goddess Venus. What was considered

sacrilegious in their day was not the worship of Goddesses… but

Caesar's worship of Cleopatra, which was so intense that he erected a

statue of Cleopatra as Venus, but looking like Isis, in a holy temple

to the Roman Goddess. The Romans did not appreciate that interfaith

approach to Goddess worship back then.

 

When the Romans conquered Egypt, they ultimately replaced the

antiquities and images of Isis and her infant Horus with images and

icons of Mary and the baby Jesus.

 

Although Mary and Jesus are the most famous mother and child, the

image of the mother and the child (or the pregnant, fertile mother)

abound as a motif of cultures that worshiped The Great Mother. Joseph

Campbell often said that the same essence of the Divine Feminine

could be found in the religious mythology and folklore of every

culture. Many of the stories are the same, yet the names and specific

circumstances change according to cultural tradition.

 

 

HISTORY OF THE GODDESS

 

The earliest signs of Goddess worship date as far back as 33,000

years ago. One of the most famous artifacts of the Divine Feminine is

The Venus of Willendorf, which is believed to have been carved in

stone 20,000 to 30,000 thousand years ago. And while she looks like a

rotund female--pregnant and voluptuous--when you place a replica of

her famous statue flat on her back, she takes on the form of the

earth--the hills and valleys, mountains and ravines, are all in her

body.

 

And that is how the ancients worshiped The Great Mother--as Mother of

the Earth, Mother Earth and Mom Nature. They followed an earth-based

religion. The Great Goddess Mother was the earth--alive, growing,

pulsating with life. She was fertility, death and regeneration, as

witnessed in the flowers and trees, the moon and the ocean, the

cycles of life and nature. She was seen in so many diverse forms--

fluid, capable of assuming any role. Much like our own mothers.

 

She was revered as the great power because women were seen as the

great power. It was human women who could conceive, birth, and

nurture children from their own bodies. A Miracle. But a miracle akin

to the magic of mother earth--who could nurture flowers in the

summer, protect them in her womb in the winter, and magically let

them grow again in spring.

 

It is believed by many scholars that it was the eruption of violence

as perpetrated by the newer, male dominated cultures that obliterated

the peaceful, earth honoring ways of Goddess worship and paved the

way for the strong hold of Christianity and eventually the

obliteration of the Goddess from religion, religious texts and

teachings.

 

 

NATIVE AMERICAN AND INDIGENOUS SHAMANIC CULTURES

 

The shamanic religion--50,000 years old and still going strong, and

considered the oldest of all religions--also reveres the mother,

along with the father. She is the earth, the Great Mother. Some

cultures call her Patchamama or Corn Woman. She is the nurturer who

feeds us from her own body and sustains all of life. In Native

American cultures she is represented by the turtle--a hard shell with

a soft inside. A popular Lakota chant sums it up well: " The earth is

our mother... we must take care of her. "

 

 

WHO IS THE GODDESS?

 

Like most people who are unfamiliar with the concept and rich

spirituality of including The Goddess, the first time I began to

explore the aspect of Feminine Divine called Goddess I was afraid

that it meant I had to worship only a SHE and practice a spirituality

that excluded men. Wrong.

 

Almost three decades ago, Merlin Stone wrote a groundbreaking book

called When God Was A Woman, tracing cultures that worshipped " The

Goddess " or " Goddesses " . She described Goddess this way: She is

the " divine feminine principle " or the " sacred feminine principle in

the universe. "

 

In this millennium we are seeing a resurgence of the Divine Feminine

and an observance of the feminine as sacred. We are seeing her in

history, art, folklore, religion, spirituality, archeology, media,

and mythology.

 

Many scholars and clergy agree that we need Her help to midwife this

new point in history... Because she brings to our world--and our

lives--those qualities that, as discussed, even some traditional

religions and most mystical religions assign as feminine qualities:

Wisdom and the expression of the Soul. When we tap into wisdom and

follow the call of our souls we can then forgive, be tolerant,

appreciate everyone's individual evolution, and love without

conditions. The energy of the Divine Feminine also balances the

energy of the male; without it, the qualities traditionally

associated with male energy--which include warring and aggression--

will get completely out of hand.

 

 

RICH SPIRITUAL TRADITIONS AND RELIGIOUS MYTHOLOGY

CAN HELP IN EVERY DAY LIFE

 

The natural progression of my search for the Divine Feminine is to

write a book that puts together all that I have learned about the

Goddess and how she can help us in our daily lives. In researching my

book, A Goddess Is A Girl's Best Friend (Perigee, Winter 2002), I

found thousands of ways the Divine Feminine is personified in

different cultures. The rich mythology of the Feminine Divine has

reemerged to offer role models--and guidance--to modern men and

women. She comes to us as The Mother, and also the Maiden and The

Wise Woman. She is also Sister, Daughter, Best Friend. For example:

 

* The Greek Goddess Aphrodite, also known as the Roman Goddess,

Venus, is Goddess of Love and Infatuation. She has completely

insinuated herself in our culture, helping us to evoke the love

within us all and encouraging us to experience high romance.

 

* The Egyptian Goddess Isis is one of the most revered Goddesses,

worshipped as Queen of Heaven in the ancient Egyptian religions. A

healing and resurrection Goddess who was also considered a physician,

she brought her beloved Osiris back to life from the dead and bore

his child Horus, who went on to be the chosen son to represent the

father, on earth. She lives on through her image and energy in

reliefs on ancient temples and tomb walls. She shows us we can heal,

survive our grief, and live fruitful lives.

 

* The Chinese Goddess Kuan Yin is a beautiful Bodhisattva who has

captured the heart of Buddhist worshipers and beyond, just as Mary

has captured the heart of so many in her religion of origin and

around the world. She comes to tell us to be merciful and

compassionate--especially to be our own merciful mothers.

 

* Lakshmi is the Hindu Goddess of Good Fortune who brings abundance

and beauty into our lives, pouring her gifts upon us. She, like

Aphrodite, was born of the milky waters of the sea. She is symbolized

as beautiful woman with four arms, one pouring coins into the ocean

from whence she came. She is still worshipped daily in Hindu temples

and homes, as are all Goddesses in that tradition.

 

 

ALL THAT IS DIVINE IS BOTH MALE AND FEMALE

 

The Hindus teach us that the Divine essence of all that is is the

creative summary of both male and female principle. And so do the

Taoists, who show us the feminine and the masculine principle that

feed one another and make up the whole in the symbol of Yin/Yang. The

circle of black and white halves show two opposite energies, from

whose interactions and fluctuation, the universe and its diverse

forms emerge. Tibetan Buddhist do the same with their most sacred

objects, dorje and bell. The bell represents the feminine and the

dorje is the male principal. No worship service is ever conducted

without use of each, together, one held in each hand.

 

In these systems of belief.... You can't have one without the other.

You can't have day without the night. You can't have man without

woman, or masculine without feminine. In very, very simple form, you

can forget about toast for the rest of your life... you can't plug in

a toaster without both the male plug and the female outlet.

 

When we really understand that the Divine nature of all that is

contains both the masculine and the feminine principles, it begins to

make sense that men and women each contain those Divine principle;

that the energy of the Goddess exists within all of us; and that one

energy might at some times be more prominent than the other. For

example, any man or woman in a traffic jam may choose to evoke their

male energy by vocalizing dissatisfaction with the traffic or even

trying by driving aggressively. On the other end of the spectrum,

both the man and the woman who share a moment of gentle nurturing and

loving are operating from a more receptive and gentle feminine energy.

 

We are all children of God, Goddess, All There Is. When we

acknowledge that we are all Divine, as well as complex beings that

are both feminine and masculine in nature, we can begin to access

true balance in our lives. It is in acknowledging that these

qualities exist in all of us that we begin to find balance in our

relationship to ourselves, our relationships to one another, and in

our relationship to the world we live in.

 

The Goddess Rememerges ...

Just In Time!

 

I Believe The Goddess Is Re-emerging Just In Time…

The Goddess is re-emerging to show us another side of ourselves. Or

at least to help us consider God is both masculine and feminine in

nature, and therefore, that we all possess The Divine Within. She's

come just in time. Here's why:

 

* Women feel left out of traditional religion. It's not just about

becoming a clergy person or having power, it's about being able to

recognize our own divinity. Men have been able to recognize their

divinity through worship of a male divine. It's time that women

access The Goddess Within but first… we need role models.

 

* Men are shut off from their feminine energy and, quite frankly,

their softness in many cases, and there is so little in religious

environments in our culture--and most of the world's cultures--that

nurtures that side of males. Because of this, men are suffering, and

our world is suffering, because we still do not completely support

the idea of men being sensitive, loving, gentle, forgiving, healing,

even mushy. This is so odd, because that was exactly what the

ministry of Jesus Christ was about. Jesus was, in so many ways, the

embodiment of both the male and female principle. Of Mary Magdalene,

it has been said, " he could not see her in tears without himself

weeping. " He spent every waking moment of his ministry embracing

people in his love and continues to do so. I mean, who would dare

call Christ a wimp? Yet, we often label men who are in touch with

that part of themselves by that name.

Because of the ingrained idea of a male divinity, our relationship

lives are utterly confusing. Love means war when instead of accessing

all the qualities of the male and feminine in ourselves, we seek

partners to make us whole. We have to learn to come into

relationships whole and we can only do that when we embrace all

aspects of the Divine.

 

* We've got kids to raise and it's time we teach them that all of who

they are is okay; that their sex doesn't have to assign them to

specific gender roles; that we are all made up of the male and female

principle, the yin-yang. If we raise our boys to know the divine only

in male terms than we deny them access to a part of themselves, and

if we teach our girls that the Feminine Divine only exists in fairy

tales, they will grow up as Barbie Dolls instead of as Goddesses.

 

* We live in a world that is spinning out of control. This became so

painfully evident in the September 11, 2001 attack on our nation,

which brought forth a darkness that shocked and pained us all. But

even before that, we were at war with one another and within

ourselves, and our world reeled with imbalances: violence in our

schools, people starving to death on a planet that has plenty of food

to feed everyone, one natural catastrophe after another. Mom Nature

has been trying to get our attention. God, Goddess, All There Is has

been whispering in our ear… We must take stock of our world and

ourselves. We must change, now.

 

New York author Rick Carrier told me that his book, " The Mother of

God, " is about a female deity who walks the earth to come and tell

us: CLEAN UP YOUR ROOM. It is time to clean up our planet, our

personal lives, our pain, our wounding of one another and our earth,

our relationships, our bad habits, our unconsciousness.

 

The Feminine Divine lives to love and protect all her children. She's

there for us, always. But she's screaming out for our

attention: " Listen to your mother, " she calls, " I know what's best

for you! "

 

Read Rev. Laurie Sue's article,

at Soulful Living Magazine,

http://www.soulfulliving.com/divinefeminine.htm

[Guest guest]

, " nicole_bougantouche "

<nicole_bougantouche wrote:

>

> Dear Jagbir an(d) all,

>

> In response for your call for more articles on the Divine Feminine, i

> must say that it seems that this issue is boiling in the collective

> counsciousness, as there are plenty new material on the net dated

> 2008.

>

> Here are a few to start with

>

> With Love

> nicole

>

 

Dear Nicole and all,

 

Thank you for the articles. It is true that more people are becoming

collectively conscious of the Divine Feminine. Sooner or later they

will begin seeking Her. It is time to get all the information and

organize our sites to attract them, as we have already found Her.

 

You should know that we have absolutely no competition as Shri Mataji

is verily the incarnation of the Divine Feminine--the Holy Spirit/ Adi

Shakti/ Aykaa Mayee--who has incarnated to enlighten humanity about the

Blossom Time. Thus the future will only get better for all of us.

 

regards to all,

 

jagbir