Guest guest Posted July 19, 2004 Report Share Posted July 19, 2004 Vanakkam to All, Was wondering if some one can throw some light on the statement " In a marriage A girl with Ayilum Natchathiram is not good for the Mother in Law " Most people here I suppose would be philosphical stating Every Natchathiram is good, and say Veil Irukha Venayum illai Mayil irruka Bayamum Illai Adaivom Kandha Sevadi Yenna Asaikundu Saivom Sakala Kariyumum. If so how did such a tamil saying ever emerge, and what happens to girls born on Ayilum Natchathiram its not something they did, but for the Murugans own blessings. Would appreciate any help in explaining this to me. Anbudan Subbu Vote for the stars of 's next ad campaign! http://advision.webevents.//votelifeengine/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2004 Report Share Posted July 19, 2004 I too do not understand why one natchitram is considered good and another bad. This "Ayilyam" thing happened to my own mother. She is Ayilyum nathchitram. When she had to get married, her case was considered because the groom (my father) had lost his father when he was already very small. They say you cannot consider a girl for marriage if the groom's both parents are alive. They believe it will affect any one parent. I suppose this partly answers your query. "Pray for me" I take this opportunity to express my heartfelt gratitude and thanks to all those kind souls who have poured in their moral support and reassurance in this group channel when I had written about my impending distressful situation. Patricia Subbu subbu <subbu_subbu wrote: Vanakkam to All,Was wondering if some one can throw some light on thestatement " In a marriage A girl with AyilumNatchathiram is not good for the Mother in Law" Most people here I suppose would be philosphicalstating Every Natchathiram is good, and say Veil Irukha Venayum illaiMayil irruka Bayamum IllaiAdaivom Kandha Sevadi Yenna Asaikundu Saivom Sakala Kariyumum.If so how did such a tamil saying ever emerge,and what happens to girls born on Ayilum Natchathiramits not something they did, but for the Murugans ownblessings.Would appreciate any help in explaining this to me.AnbudanSubbu Vote for the stars of 's next ad campaign!http://advision.webevents.//votelifeengine/Do You ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2004 Report Share Posted July 20, 2004 Vannakam Patrica, Appreciate your response, does help me.Will like to know if anyone else has had such experiences. Anbudan Subbu --- Patricia Jay <patriciajay2000 wrote: > > I too do not understand why one natchitram is > considered good and another bad. This " Ayilyam " > thing happened to my own mother. She is Ayilyum > nathchitram. When she had to get married, her case > was considered because the groom (my father) had > lost his father when he was already very small. > They say you cannot consider a girl for marriage if > the groom's both parents are alive. They believe it > will affect any one parent. > > I suppose this partly answers your query. > > " Pray for me " > > I take this opportunity to express my heartfelt > gratitude and thanks to all those kind souls who > have poured in their moral support and reassurance > in this group channel when I had written about my > impending distressful situation. > > Patricia > > > > Subbu subbu <subbu_subbu wrote: Vanakkam > to All, > > Was wondering if some one can throw some light on > the > statement " In a marriage A girl with Ayilum > Natchathiram is not good for the Mother in Law " > > Most people here I suppose would be philosphical > stating Every Natchathiram is good, and say > Veil Irukha Venayum illai > Mayil irruka Bayamum Illai > Adaivom Kandha Sevadi > Yenna Asaikundu > Saivom Sakala Kariyumum. > > If so how did such a tamil saying ever emerge, > and what happens to girls born on Ayilum > Natchathiram > its not something they did, but for the Murugans own > blessings. > > Would appreciate any help in explaining this to me. > > Anbudan > Subbu > > > > > > > Vote for the stars of 's next ad campaign! > http://advision.webevents.//votelifeengine/ > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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