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Dear devotees of Lord Krishna, It is interesting to read mails regarding "Anger"......As said by Lord Krishna, "control over anything can be achieved through practice"...........But i want to say something special,"Anger is controllable only according to the situation"Sometimes even though we have much patience....We are unable to control the anger..........That is why i told that it is all in the hands of Lord Krishna!!! Remember not in our Hand!!!But, "True Love" can calm anything in this world...........!!!Even though our dear Lord Krishna himself is Bhagavat Gita, our dear lord too was unable to control the anger!!!When Lord Krishna taken out his "Sudharsana Chakra" towards Bhisma in War....It was the true love and devotion of Arjuna made our Lord Calm.When Lord Balarama becomes anger, it is our sweet Krishna who makes Lord balarama calm.............When a son shout in anger with red

eyes...The love and caring words of Mother do make him.......If he has the patience to hear his dear mother!!!When someone beat my dear brother, i cant control my anger...i will go and beat him, but when i see his mother crying seeing his son's condition....I feel i am doing "Papa"....I stop beating him and tell his mother what his son has did to my brother , even though that guy is guilty...still by seeing his mother's tears my anger disappears...........and i feel sorry for beating him up.....this is what is the power of "True Love"....Hare Krishna.....This is what the beautiful leela of our dear Lord,Yea it is true, when we are in deep anger , someone else has the full power to bring us down in cool condition using his/her lovely words...........As said by the devotee of Lord Krishna.......Some rare people knows it...there is no need of Anger...after all everything is happening to our Lord's wish....so what is the use of

angry!!!Now a days, when anger comes to me...I tell inside...why should i be in angry?....It is my dear Lord who want this to happen to me !!!....Then the anger vanishes in few seconds........So i think now a days anger has left me!!!Just remember Hari, and remember his Leelas then you really understand anger is just a illusion that will stay for few minutes or few hours or few days....No more than that..........Hare Krishnawith love and respect,Binu TVshubhrajyoti datta <shubhrajyoti_datta wrote: Hi ,But is controlled anger good sometimes.Once my father gave some amount to myuncle to start business.He never returnedaccounting only the losses later I came toknow that he had profits. I have never seen myfather buying any ornaments for my mother , howeverI came to know that my aunt have bought ornaments from the borrowed money.My uncle always used to lie.Even in my engineering days none of my father's relativeshelped him. I didnot get admission in the college I wanted.I have always seen my mother saving and working hard al throughher life.But insted of scolding his brother he did not eventell me anything of this.He would mention the good childhood days but never about anything of these. I learnt all these from one of my relative.My blood used to boil whenever I thought of my uncle but my father would never

feel angry.At this point I thought is anger not justified sometimes.With Regards,ShubhroCapil Sookdeo <capilsookdeo > wrote: Simple and most effective way to pevent and dispel anger is to chant the Maha mantra. If you constantly chant Bhagavan's name there will be no place for anger in you. Capil Sookdeo ------------------------- Reshma Sooklal wrote: SIVANANDA DAILY READING FOR 27 JANUARYANGERWhen you become angry leave the place immediately. Take a long walk;stay away for a half hour. Repeat the sacred mantra OM SANTI onehundred and eight

times. You will find that your anger subsides.Another way is to count from one to thirty - your anger will subside.When anger tries to show itself, observe silence. Never utter a harshword. Try to nip it off before it emerges from the subconscious mind.You will have to be alert. It tries to come out so suddenly. But,before anger manifests in the mind, there is agitation in the mind.If you strive to subdue anger, then hatred subsides - but even thenthere may be slight impatience lingering there. Eschew this slightdisturbance also. For a man who is leading a divine life, this is aserious drawback. Irritability is a weakness of the mind. Remove itby practising tolerance, mercy and love. Calmness is a direct meansto the realisation of Brahman.Keep the mind always in balance, in tune. Close the eyes. Dive deepinto the divine source. Feel God's presence. Repeat His name andremember Him at all times. You will gain

immense spiritual strength.Meditate early in the morning, before you mix with people. Then riseabove the thousand and one things which might irritate you in yourdaily life. Then only you will live in harmony and concord. Then onlyyou will turn out wonderful work.Man wastes much energy by becoming angry, very often over littlethings. The whole nervous system is shattered and agitated. If thisanger is controlled, by brahmacarya (purity), forbearance, love andvicara (enquiry), a man can move the whole world. Anger manifests sosuddenly that it is difficult to check it. The impulses it generatesare so powerful that he is swayed by them. Control anger. Control themind. Get your own web address. Have a HUGE year through Small Business. The all-new Mail goes wherever you go - free your email address from your Internet provider. Hare Krishna

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Dear devotees of Lord Krishna!

Radhe Krishna!

 

Kindly permit me also to add a few words, further to my earlier mail on

the subject of "Anger".

 

According to my experience, anger is something which is not

uncontrollable, but requires strict will-power to control it. One can

do it with determination. First of all, one should have the

conviction that one should NOT get angry and should not allow to

develop it. The question of suppression comes only if it is developed

in the mind. Once it is not developed, where is the question of

suppression.

 

The six enemies of man, Kama, krodha, lobha, moha, mada and matsarya

can be controlled by the mind. Once Kama and krodha are controlled,

the others automatically come under control.

 

Krishna is quoted as exhibiting His anger while He took Sudarsana

Chakra and went like a lion to attack Bhishma in the war. It is wrong

to interpret that it was an exhibition of anger, whereas it was an

exhibition of love to His devotee, and to ensure that the words of the

devotee does not become untrue. Bhishma, one of the most ardent

devotees of the Lord had promised to see that the Lord takes weapon

during the course of the war. And it is evident from the fact when

Lord Krishna approached Bhishma with the Sudarsana chakra in hand,

Bhishma laid down his own weapons, and stood with bowed head and folded

hands, to show his respect for the Lord, in demonstrating His love for

the devotee. This fact is specifically mentioned in Bhagavatam, in

the "Bhishma-stuti".

 

Further, when the Lord takes human form for the destruction of the evil

and protection of the virtuous, He is mot prompted by Karma-bandha,but

he has to,or rather forced to act like an actor acting in a drama and

undergo/exhibit all emotions like a human being.. As examples, Rama's

reaction when he heard of His father's demise, His

externalmanifestation of sorrow when Sita was robbed by Ravana,

although He was internally happy that events that lead to the fruition

of His incarnation are really taking place. In other words, to quote

divine personalities as exhibiting human emotions would amount to

misinterpretation of the epics.

 

Durvasa, for instance, was an incarnation of Lord Rudra who has a

preponderance of Tamo-guna which was making him get angry for the

simplest cause and pronounce curses. His reaction to Ambarisha's

taking water and completing his parana after Ekadasi and cursing Indra

as he placed the flower garland on the head of the elephant and was

finally trampled upon by the elephant. These are all inexplicable

sportive Leelas of the Lord, to teach the common man what is real

dharma..

 

Love

K.V.Gopalakrishna.

 

 

 

 

binu tv wrote:

 

 

Dear devotees of Lord Krishna,

 

It is interesting to read mails regarding "Anger"......

 

As said by Lord Krishna, "control over anything can be achieved through

practice"...........

 

But i want to say something special,

 

"Anger is controllable only according to the situation"

 

Sometimes even though we have much patience....We are unable to

control the anger..........That is why i told that it is all in

the hands of Lord Krishna!!! Remember not in our Hand!!!

 

But, "True Love" can calm anything in this world...........!!!

 

Even though our dear Lord Krishna himself is Bhagavat Gita, our dear

lord too was unable to control the anger!!!

 

When Lord Krishna taken out his "Sudharsana Chakra" towards Bhisma in

War....It was the true love and devotion of Arjuna made our Lord Calm.

 

When Lord Balarama becomes anger, it is our sweet Krishna who makes

Lord balarama calm.............

 

When a son shout in anger with red eyes...The love and caring words of

Mother do make him.......If he has the patience to hear his dear

mother!!!

 

When someone beat my dear brother, i cant control my anger...i will go

and beat him, but when i see his mother crying seeing his son's

condition....I feel i am doing "Papa"....I stop beating him and

tell his mother what his son has did to my brother , even though that

guy is guilty...still by seeing his mother's tears my anger disappears...........and

i feel sorry for beating him up.....this is what is the power of "True

Love"....Hare Krishna.....

 

This is what the beautiful leela of our dear Lord,

 

Yea it is true, when we are in deep anger , someone else has the full

power to bring us down in cool condition using his/her lovely

words...........

 

As said by the devotee of Lord Krishna.......Some rare people

knows it...there is no need of Anger...after all everything is

happening to our Lord's wish....so what is the use of angry!!!

 

Now a days, when anger comes to me...I tell inside...why should i be in

angry?....It is my dear Lord who want this to happen to me !!!....Then

the anger vanishes in few seconds........So i think now a days

anger has left me!!!

 

Just remember Hari, and remember his Leelas then you really understand

anger is just a illusion that will stay for few minutes or few hours or

few days....No more than that..........Hare Krishna

 

 

with love and respect,

Binu TV

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

shubhrajyoti datta <shubhrajyoti_datta (AT) (DOT) co.uk>

wrote:

 

 

Hi ,

 

But is controlled anger good sometimes.

Once my father gave some amount to my

uncle to start business.He never returned

accounting only the losses later I came to

know that he had profits. I have never seen my

father buying any ornaments for my mother , however

I came to know that my aunt have bought ornaments

from the borrowed money.My uncle always used to lie.

Even in my engineering days none of my father's relatives

helped him. I didnot get admission in the college I wanted.

I have always seen my mother saving and working hard al through

her life.

 

But insted of scolding his brother he did not even

tell me anything of this.He would mention the good

childhood days but never about anything of these. I

learnt all these from one of my relative.

My blood used to boil whenever

I thought of my uncle but my father would never feel angry.

 

At this point I thought is anger not justified sometimes.

 

 

With Regards,

Shubhro

 

Capil Sookdeo <capilsookdeo >

wrote:

 

 

 

Simple and most effective way to pevent and dispel anger is to chant

the Maha mantra.

If you constantly chant Bhagavan's name there will be no

place for anger in you.

 

Capil Sookdeo

-------------------------

 

Reshma Sooklal wrote:

 

 

 

SIVANANDA DAILY READING FOR 27 JANUARY

ANGER

 

When you become angry leave the place immediately. Take a long walk;

stay away for a half hour. Repeat the sacred mantra OM SANTI one

hundred and eight times. You will find that your anger subsides.

Another way is to count from one to thirty - your anger will subside.

When anger tries to show itself, observe silence. Never utter a harsh

word. Try to nip it off before it emerges from the subconscious mind.

 

You will have to be alert. It tries to come out so suddenly. But,

before anger manifests in the mind, there is agitation in the mind.

If you strive to subdue anger, then hatred subsides - but even then

there may be slight impatience lingering there. Eschew this slight

disturbance also. For a man who is leading a divine life, this is a

serious drawback. Irritability is a weakness of the mind. Remove it

by practising tolerance, mercy and love. Calmness is a direct means

to the realisation of Brahman.

 

Keep the mind always in balance, in tune. Close the eyes. Dive deep

into the divine source. Feel God's presence. Repeat His name and

remember Him at all times. You will gain immense spiritual strength.

Meditate early in the morning, before you mix with people. Then rise

above the thousand and one things which might irritate you in your

daily life. Then only you will live in harmony and concord. Then only

you will turn out wonderful work.

 

Man wastes much energy by becoming angry, very often over little

things. The whole nervous system is shattered and agitated. If this

anger is controlled, by brahmacarya (purity), forbearance, love and

vicara (enquiry), a man can move the whole world. Anger manifests so

suddenly that it is difficult to check it. The impulses it generates

are so powerful that he is swayed by them. Control anger. Control the

mind.

 

 

 

 

 

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