Guest guest Posted August 21, 2008 Report Share Posted August 21, 2008 Hi Laxmi, I think you should wait. We understand your plight; have ptience, things will change for the better, Have unconditional faith in Shree Guruvayaorappan. . Remember, everyone loves a lover. As I understand it, Dasha sandhi is the period (the gap) between the change over of one maha dasa to another mahadasa. in other words the momentum of the previous mahadasaa dies down and momentum of the incoming mahadasa begins to build up. Neither the passing mahadasa nor the arriving mahadasa performs at maximum power during dasha sandhi , hence this period is considered in-auspecious but it is only a transistory period. Therefore, don't make haste. give it some time and everything will work out in your favour. Pray to Sree Guruvayoorappn.He will lead you through the right path. For every problem there is a solution. Have ptience. Do not panic. Beest wishes. jai shree krishna ! guruvayur , " srisang76 " <srisang76 wrote: > > Hello Lakshmi > I have no knowledge about jathakadoshams but I can understand what > you are going through. I have heard this somewhere that two people in > love should not be separated due to the horoscopes mismatch as more > than hosroscopes matching their manaporuttham should be considered. > So inorder to avoid hearing any such doshas they suggest not to look > at the horoscopes in such cases.Dont worry, for any doshams there > will be a parihara and I am sure Lord Guruvayoorappan will take care > of it if you both are destined to be together. Pray to Him and I am > sure thats the biggest parihaaram!! > Sangeetha > > > > > guruvayur , lekshmi s <lekshmis49@> wrote: > > > > Om Namo Narayanaya.. > > Namaste! > > I am lekshmi. I am a student of age 21.I have been a silent member > of this group. Its so unfortunate to say that now I am in a big > trouble... Sharing it with people like u who are his own devotees > would giv me some relief.. I am certain that he the almighty will > kindly help me out of this trouble... Also i dont know if i am > wrong in discussing this matter in public.. But i am sure lord will > never let me do something that can harm me. > > > > 3 yrs before i came to meet a boy whom i met at the most needy > times of my life when i needed lots of support from others due to > some other problems in my family. I humbly request u to never think > that this is some kind of infatuation that i am going to speak about. > This boy is a bhrahmin and am a nair girl... And this never was a > barrier of seperation between us.. That boy with his parents came to > our place and told my parents about his interest. And even then they > did not create any fuss about this matter just because they liked > this boy.. They told they just want us to get a good job and then > think about this matter later.. Both of us being strong devottees of > sri Guruvayurappan had faith that all our dreams wud come true once i > complete my studies and get a job... > > > > Everything was going fine until my parents went to an astrologer > with our 'jathakas' and found that there is some problem > called 'dashasandhi dosham' and now it has become an issue. But we > have very good 'porutham' also. The only problem is this dosham. > > > > My parents have started showing dislike towards our relation simply > because they are worried about my future. From the boy's side they > say its ok. But i cannot neglect my parent's words and also i cannot > wipe off some one who has been giving me all support in the most > needy times of my life. I don want to take a wrong decision and i can > neither hurt my parents nor hurt that poor boy. Because i know both > of them loves me in all ways they can do to make me happy. > > > > I would like to know if there is some thing that i can do to get > safe from this ' dashasandhi dosha' other than breaking this > relation.I cannot even think about that. > > > > I donot know why all these bad things happen to me.. Both of > us hav never failed to offer bhagavan with 'namajapam'. We have > decided to do lots of offerings also. I don want to think its my > fate... coz i strongly believe in the destiny maker.. he who is the > one who leads and guides us all thru our life... > > I wish if somebody can help me with this matter.. pls post ur reply > in this id: lekshmis49@ > > Om namo bhagavathe vasudevaya.. om namo narayanaya.. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2008 Report Share Posted August 21, 2008 OM NAMO NARAYANAYA Dear Lekshmiji Please visit this site http://www.indusladies.com/forums/religious-info-and-music/10815-dasa-sandhi-dosham.html and get some idea about Dasa Sandhi Dosham. What I understand about “Dasa” is every one’s life has difficulties and sufferings. If both husband and wife passing through same difficult period (eg. both are suffering a fever at same time) hard to bear up. To over come these we all are praying to Lord. My opinion is better to consult another good astrologer who looks all aspects of horoscope. Few experts saying if all other matching’s are satisfy no need to bother “Dasa Dosham”. Best medicine is yield to “Guruvayurappan’s” feet and he’ll save you. With prayers SreeAnju--- On Wed, 8/20/08, menon_sunil <menon_sunil wrote: menon_sunil <menon_sunil[Guruvayur] Re: what shud i do?guruvayur Date: Wednesday, August 20, 2008, 7:23 PM Dear Lekshmiji,We can understand your dilemma. I totally agree with Sangeethaji. When two people are in true love,any other matching is not relevant as per many scholarly astrologersin Kerala. Infact there is even a clause not to match jathakams whenpeople are in love, according to our family astrologer. (there is someshloka that he told me a while back) However, that being said, do understand that Matha, Pitha, Guru and Daivam is what comes first. And it is not easy for your parents to accept anything unless they clear their doubts because they care for you and your well being moe than anything. So, you need to have your parents talk to a "not-so-money- oriented" scholarly astrologer who can tell them about the importance of "manaporutham" better. Except a few places like Kerala,parts of TN, strict "horoscopematching" is not that prevalent in other Hindu societies across India.So, a few times it occurred to me to compare friends who married withhoroscope matching to other friends who did not have such a custom. Interestingly I could not find any superiority in quality of life , long term outcome etc. in the horoscope matched relationships. Number of happy couples, number of divorces, illness, martial problems werepretty much same in Gujarat and Maharashtra as compared to Kerala. Now that does not means Jyothisham is not a science or blunder, it is a real science but lack good research and knowledgeable and well trained astrologers. Our lives and problems have changed over centuries but our valuablesciences like Astrology and Ayurveda has not changed in 2000 years.So, now we end up saying "ottokkum ottokkilla" in Malayalam. And weattribute the same to the Shiva -Subramania story where Shiva cursingSubramania's Jyothisha knowledge to be half true in future! (famous Palam Nee story)My personal suggestion is to pray hard to Guruvayoorappan. HEwill show you and your parents what is best for you. Try to listen toHIM than anyone else. May Guruvayoorappan bless both of you and yourparents. May Krishna take you to the right decision.I like to hear about this topic from others. Om Namo Narayanaya:Sunilguruvayur@grou ps.com, "srisang76" <srisang76@. ..> wrote:>> Hello Lakshmi> I have no knowledge about jathakadoshams but I can understand what > you are going through. I have heard this somewhere that two people in > love should not be separated due to the horoscopes mismatch as more > than hosroscopes matching their manaporuttham should be considered. > So inorder to avoid hearing any such doshas they suggest not to look > at the horoscopes in such cases.Dont worry, for any doshams there > will be a parihara and I am sure Lord Guruvayoorappan will take care > of it if you both are destined to be together. Pray to Him and I am > sure thats the biggest parihaaram!! > Sangeetha> > > > > guruvayur@grou ps.com, lekshmi s <lekshmis49@ > wrote:> >> > Om Namo Narayanaya..> > Namaste! > > I am lekshmi. I am a student of age 21.I have been a silent member > of this group. Its so unfortunate to say that now I am in a big > trouble... Sharing it with people like u who are his own devotees > would giv me some relief.. I am certain that he the almighty will > kindly help me out of this trouble... Also i dont know if i am > wrong in discussing this matter in public.. But i am sure lord will > never let me do something that can harm me. > > > > 3 yrs before i came to meet a boy whom i met at the most needy > times of my life when i needed lots of support from others due to > some other problems in my family. I humbly request u to never think > that this is some kind of infatuation that i am going to speak about. > This boy is a bhrahmin and am a nair girl... And this never was a > barrier of seperation between us.. That boy with his parents came to > our place and told my parents about his interest. And even then they > did not create any fuss about this matter just because they liked > this boy.. They told they just want us to get a good job and then > think about this matter later.. Both of us being strong devottees of > sri Guruvayurappan had faith that all our dreams wud come true once i > complete my studies and get a job... > > > > Everything was going fine until my parents went to an astrologer > with our 'jathakas' and found that there is some problem > called 'dashasandhi dosham' and now it has become an issue. But we > have very good 'porutham' also. The only problem is this dosham.> > > > My parents have started showing dislike towards our relation simply > because they are worried about my future. From the boy's side they > say its ok. But i cannot neglect my parent's words and also i cannot > wipe off some one who has been giving me all support in the most > needy times of my life. I don want to take a wrong decision and i can > neither hurt my parents nor hurt that poor boy. Because i know both > of them loves me in all ways they can do to make me happy.> > > > I would like to know if there is some thing that i can do to get > safe from this ' dashasandhi dosha' other than breaking this > relation.I cannot even think about that. > > > > I donot know why all these bad things happen to me.. Both of > us hav never failed to offer bhagavan with 'namajapam'. We have > decided to do lots of offerings also. I don want to think its my > fate... coz i strongly believe in the destiny maker.. he who is the > one who leads and guides us all thru our life...> > I wish if somebody can help me with this matter.. pls post ur reply > in this id: lekshmis49@> > Om namo bhagavathe vasudevaya.. om namo narayanaya..> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2008 Report Share Posted August 21, 2008 Lekshmi ji, Don't Worry . There is nothing much to worry in this case. May I know at what age is your dasa sandhi coinciding with his dasa sandhi. It it is near, then wait till it is over. The principle behind dasa sandhi dosham is that the time of intersection of two mahadasas will not be pleasing. The last 6 months of a maha dasa will always cause suffering. If both undergo the dasa sandhi at same time, it will cause much trouble during that time. But generally dasa sandhis of malefics( mainly saturn and rahu ) will be terrible. The intensity of dasa sandhi of different planets will differ according to position of planets in the natal chart and their transit during that time. So it is better to get advice from a qualified astrologer. If dasa sandhi dosham is occuring at some dasas like Shani dasa, then it will be better to wait till the dasa is over. But always keep in mind that Dasa sandhi will be a hard time. If both undergo dasa sandhi at same time it will be more acute. If poruthams are good and natal charts are matching(It should match) and if there is manaporutham(It is important) , then dasa sandhi dosham is not a big problem.(except in a scenario where shani and rahu are dasa lords). Prayers is the only remedy for this. Offering prayers to the lord of that planet will reduce the problems. May Guruvayoorappan Help you in tackling this difficult situation. God Bless you !!!!!. Regards, Sreejith." Moorthithve Parikalpitha Sasabrutho Varma PunarjanmanamAthmethmavidham Kruthuscha Yajatham Bharthamara JyothishamLokanam Pralayodayasthithi Vibhuschanekada Ya SruthauVacham Na Sa dathunaikakirana Trailokya Deepo Ravi "--- On Wed, 20/8/08, lekshmi s <lekshmis49 wrote: lekshmi s <lekshmis49[Guruvayur] what shud i do?guruvayur Date: Wednesday, 20 August, 2008, 5:29 PM Om Namo Narayanaya.. Namaste! I am lekshmi. I am a student of age 21.I have been a silent member of this group. Its so unfortunate to say that now I am in a big trouble... Sharing it with people like u who are his own devotees would giv me some relief.. I am certain that he the almighty will kindly help me out of this trouble... Also i dont know if i am wrong in discussing this matter in public. But i am sure lord will never let me do something that can harm me. 3 yrs before i came to meet a boy whom i met at the most needy times of my life when i needed lots of support from others due to some other problems in my family. I humbly request u to never think that this is some kind of infatuation that i am going to speak about. This boy is a bhrahmin and am a nair girl... And this never was a barrier of seperation between us.. That boy with his parents came to our place and told my parents about his interest. And even then they did not create any fuss about this matter just because they liked this boy.. They told they just want us to get a good job and then think about this matter later.. Both of us being strong devottees of sri Guruvayurappan had faith that all our dreams wud come true once i complete my studies and get a job.... Everything was going fine until my parents went to an astrologer with our 'jathakas' and found that there is some problem called 'dashasandhi dosham' and now it has become an issue. But we have very good 'porutham' also. The only problem is this dosham. My parents have started showing dislike towards our relation simply because they are worried about my future. From the boy's side they say its ok.. But i cannot neglect my parent's words and also i cannot wipe off some one who has been giving me all support in the most needy times of my life. I don want to take a wrong decision and i can neither hurt my parents nor hurt that poor boy. Because i know both of them loves me in all ways they can do to make me happy. I would like to know if there is some thing that i can do to get safe from this ' dashasandhi dosha' other than breaking this relation.I cannot even think about that. I donot know why all these bad things happen to me.. Both of us hav never failed to offer bhagavan with 'namajapam'. We have decided to do lots of offerings also. I don want to think its my fate... coz i strongly believe in the destiny maker.. he who is the one who leads and guides us all thru our life... I wish if somebody can help me with this matter.. pls post ur reply in this id: lekshmis49 Om namo bhagavathe vasudevaya.. om namo narayanaya.. Unlimited freedom, unlimited storage. Get it now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2008 Report Share Posted August 21, 2008 guruvayur , " srisang76 " <srisang76 wrote: > > Hello Lakshmi > I have no knowledge about jathakadoshams but I can understand what > you are going through. I have heard this somewhere that two people in > love should not be separated due to the horoscopes mismatch as more > than hosroscopes matching their manaporuttham should be considered. > So inorder to avoid hearing any such doshas they suggest not to look > at the horoscopes in such cases.Dont worry, for any doshams there > will be a parihara and I am sure Lord Guruvayoorappan will take care > of it if you both are destined to be together. Pray to Him and I am > sure thats the biggest parihaaram!! > Sangeetha > > > > > guruvayur , lekshmi s <lekshmis49@> wrote: > > > > Om Namo Narayanaya.. > > Namaste! > > I am lekshmi. I am a student of age 21.I have been a silent member > of this group. Its so unfortunate to say that now I am in a big > trouble... Sharing it with people like u who are his own devotees > would giv me some relief.. I am certain that he the almighty will > kindly help me out of this trouble... Also i dont know if i am > wrong in discussing this matter in public.. But i am sure lord will > never let me do something that can harm me. > > > > 3 yrs before i came to meet a boy whom i met at the most needy > times of my life when i needed lots of support from others due to > some other problems in my family. I humbly request u to never think > that this is some kind of infatuation that i am going to speak about. > This boy is a bhrahmin and am a nair girl... And this never was a > barrier of seperation between us.. That boy with his parents came to > our place and told my parents about his interest. And even then they > did not create any fuss about this matter just because they liked > this boy.. They told they just want us to get a good job and then > think about this matter later.. Both of us being strong devottees of > sri Guruvayurappan had faith that all our dreams wud come true once i > complete my studies and get a job... > > > > Everything was going fine until my parents went to an astrologer > with our 'jathakas' and found that there is some problem > called 'dashasandhi dosham' and now it has become an issue. But we > have very good 'porutham' also. The only problem is this dosham. > > > > My parents have started showing dislike towards our relation simply > because they are worried about my future. From the boy's side they > say its ok. But i cannot neglect my parent's words and also i cannot > wipe off some one who has been giving me all support in the most > needy times of my life. I don want to take a wrong decision and i can > neither hurt my parents nor hurt that poor boy. Because i know both > of them loves me in all ways they can do to make me happy. > > > > I would like to know if there is some thing that i can do to get > safe from this ' dashasandhi dosha' other than breaking this > relation.I cannot even think about that. > > > > I donot know why all these bad things happen to me.. Both of > us hav never failed to offer bhagavan with 'namajapam'. We have > decided to do lots of offerings also. I don want to think its my > fate... coz i strongly believe in the destiny maker.. he who is the > one who leads and guides us all thru our life... > > I wish if somebody can help me with this matter.. pls post ur reply > in this id: lekshmis49@ > > Om namo bhagavathe vasudevaya.. om namo narayanaya.. > > >Dear Lakshmi, if you really love eachother and have the faith in eachother i think you must proceed with your relation with your friend rather than confusing yourself.Have faith in god and ask for both parents blessings that will work wonders for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2008 Report Share Posted August 22, 2008 I dont think so you should trust on those things,, I believe in Guruvayoorappa, and one who believes him no need to believe any kind of jatakam etc. And i really dont know if every one go through Bhagavat Gita. If you really believe him other things are all nonsence "For one who sees me everywhere and sees everything in Me, I am never lost, nor is he ever lost to me." B 6.30 Trust Him thats it no matter how you , where you are and how you get etc.. dosent matter. Lord always like our --- On Thu, 21/8/08, minisanthosh444 <no_reply > wrote: minisanthosh444 <no_reply >[Guruvayur] Re: what shud i do?guruvayur Date: Thursday, 21 August, 2008, 2:03 PM guruvayur@grou ps.com, "srisang76" <srisang76@. ..> wrote:>> Hello Lakshmi> I have no knowledge about jathakadoshams but I can understand what > you are going through. I have heard this somewhere that two people in > love should not be separated due to the horoscopes mismatch as more > than hosroscopes matching their manaporuttham should be considered. > So inorder to avoid hearing any such doshas they suggest not to look > at the horoscopes in such cases.Dont worry, for any doshams there > will be a parihara and I am sure Lord Guruvayoorappan will take care > of it if you both are destined to be together. Pray to Him and I am > sure thats the biggest parihaaram!! > Sangeetha> > > > > guruvayur@grou ps.com, lekshmi s <lekshmis49@ > wrote:> >> > Om Namo Narayanaya..> > Namaste! > > I am lekshmi. I am a student of age 21.I have been a silent member > of this group. Its so unfortunate to say that now I am in a big > trouble... Sharing it with people like u who are his own devotees > would giv me some relief.. I am certain that he the almighty will > kindly help me out of this trouble... Also i dont know if i am > wrong in discussing this matter in public.. But i am sure lord will > never let me do something that can harm me. > > > > 3 yrs before i came to meet a boy whom i met at the most needy > times of my life when i needed lots of support from others due to > some other problems in my family. I humbly request u to never think > that this is some kind of infatuation that i am going to speak about. > This boy is a bhrahmin and am a nair girl... And this never was a > barrier of seperation between us.. That boy with his parents came to > our place and told my parents about his interest. And even then they > did not create any fuss about this matter just because they liked > this boy.. They told they just want us to get a good job and then > think about this matter later.. Both of us being strong devottees of > sri Guruvayurappan had faith that all our dreams wud come true once i > complete my studies and get a job... > > > > Everything was going fine until my parents went to an astrologer > with our 'jathakas' and found that there is some problem > called 'dashasandhi dosham' and now it has become an issue. But we > have very good 'porutham' also. The only problem is this dosham.> > > > My parents have started showing dislike towards our relation simply > because they are worried about my future. From the boy's side they > say its ok. But i cannot neglect my parent's words and also i cannot > wipe off some one who has been giving me all support in the most > needy times of my life. I don want to take a wrong decision and i can > neither hurt my parents nor hurt that poor boy. Because i know both > of them loves me in all ways they can do to make me happy.> > > > I would like to know if there is some thing that i can do to get > safe from this ' dashasandhi dosha' other than breaking this > relation.I cannot even think about that. > > > > I donot know why all these bad things happen to me.. Both of > us hav never failed to offer bhagavan with 'namajapam'. We have > decided to do lots of offerings also. I don want to think its my > fate... coz i strongly believe in the destiny maker.. he who is the > one who leads and guides us all thru our life...> > I wish if somebody can help me with this matter.. pls post ur reply > in this id: lekshmis49@> > Om namo bhagavathe vasudevaya.. om namo narayanaya..> >>Dear Lakshmi,if you really love eachother and have the faith ineachother i think you must proceed with your relation with your friendrather than confusing yourself.Have faith in god and ask for bothparents blessings that will work wonders for you. Connect with friends all over the world. Get India Messenger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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