Guest guest Posted August 21, 2008 Report Share Posted August 21, 2008 Hare Krishna, Dear Matured Devotees, Please suggest an easy way to be detached from the illussion named family. Hari Bolo YS VinodKrishna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2008 Report Share Posted August 22, 2008 Love them very much and then love the parahbrhmam even more.vinod krishna <vinod_krishna23 wrote: Hare Krishna, Dear Matured Devotees, Please suggest an easy way to be detached from the illussion named family. Hari Bolo YS VinodKrishna Sincerely,Udayabhanu Panickaraum namahh Shivaaya OUR BODY IS THE ABODE OF THE JEEVATMAN, WHICH IS IN FACT THE PARABRAHMAN. LET US NOT MAKE IT A GRAVEYARD. LET US NOT EAT FLESH. LET US BE VEGETARIANS AND STAY HEALTHY. Chattampi Swamikal said that animals are to be loved, not eaten. Eating flesh is good neither for the mind nor for the intellect, not even for the body. It distorts the basic character of human. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2008 Report Share Posted August 22, 2008 Hare Krishna ! Dear Vinodji It is not that you have to totally get detached from family. You can live with family detached like panja bhootas. They are not attached to anything.....but as it should work, it works. O Namo Bhagavathe Vasudevaya !! best regards On 21/08/2008, vinod krishna <vinod_krishna23 wrote: Hare Krishna, Dear Matured Devotees, Please suggest an easy way to be detached from the illussion named family. Hari Bolo YS VinodKrishna -- Best regardsJayasree Menon Bangalore+9900149461my blog link: http://www.pythrukam.blogspot.com/--A well-thought out plan, execution excellence, market timing, personal leadership are drivers of the growth trajectory. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2008 Report Share Posted August 22, 2008 Hello Vinodji Maybe there is a way for being detached and I am too immatured to understand it.But these are my thoughts on this matter and request other scholarly members to correct me if I am wrong. But how can a person be detached from a family when the reason he gets into a family life is to have bonding.If a father or mother be detached without getting involved with the kids, wont the kids grow up having no attachment to the family and world? If he does it that way , is he not failing in his/her duties as parent? I used to think that a family person should keep the bonding of the family and face the struggles of the life together thinking its God's way to make us more closer to Him.When the kids through this guidance and bonding gets enough maturity and starts their own family life, then slowly parents should enter into a life that is dedicated only to God and detachment will automatically be part of life at that time. Pardon me if I am wrong! Om namo narayana...om namo narayana....om namo narayana... Sangeetha guruvayur , vinod krishna <vinod_krishna23 wrote: > > Hare Krishna, > > Dear Matured Devotees, > > Please suggest an easy way to be detached from the > > illussion named family. > > Hari Bolo > > YS > > VinodKrishna > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2008 Report Share Posted August 22, 2008 Dear Vinodh,Detachmant is not indifference.Actually if you are detacheed only then you can k help your next kith and kin.Then only you will show real affection and lov because you will be rid of possessiveness.To think that nothing and no one belongs to you and live as an instrument of God is detachment.To give up all desire-motivated activities is detachment.IT means not to be affected by anything thinking that your senses and mind gets into contact with the objects outside and people outside but not you.It is to view everything as transient as they are going to last only for this lifetime at the maximum while your existence wu ill continue for ever.If you see the saints like the Paramacharya of Kanchi they were very much concerned about people and showed thier love to all but they were not involved with any one. Such people only s pread happiness around. So while being in the family you can practise detachment. remembering the words of Gita 'karmanyeva adhikaarasthe maa phaleshu kadhachana.'If you want to discuss more on this you can write to me. Please log in to http://www. geociries.com/sarojram18 where you will find a page on questions and answetrs where I have answered a lot of questions on related topics.saroja Ramanujam Dr. Saroja Ramanujam, M.A., Ph.D, Siromani in sanskrit. www.freewebs.com/asrama3 --- On Fri, 8/22/08, Jayasree Menon <euroanuster wrote:Jayasree Menon <euroanusterRe: [Guruvayur] Family Detachmentguruvayur Date: Friday, August 22, 2008, 12:19 PM Hare Krishna ! Dear Vinodji It is not that you have to totally get detached from family. You can live with family detached like panja bhootas. They are not attached to anything.... .but as it should work, it works. O Namo Bhagavathe Vasudevaya !! best regards On 21/08/2008, vinod krishna <vinod_krishna23@ > wrote: Hare Krishna, Dear Matured Devotees, Please suggest an easy way to be detached from the illussion named family. Hari Bolo YS VinodKrishna -- Best regardsJayasree Menon Bangalore+9900149461my blog link: http://www.pythruka m.blogspot. com/------------ --------- --------- --------- --------- --------- --------- --------- -----A well-thought out plan, execution excellence, market timing, personal leadership are drivers of the growth trajectory. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2008 Report Share Posted August 22, 2008 I have replied to your question also in my reply to Vinodhsaroja Ramanujam Dr. Saroja Ramanujam, M.A., Ph.D, Siromani in sanskrit. www.freewebs.com/asrama3 --- On Fri, 8/22/08, srisang76 <srisang76 wrote:srisang76 <srisang76[Guruvayur] Re: Family Detachmentguruvayur Date: Friday, August 22, 2008, 8:02 PM Hello Vinodji Maybe there is a way for being detached and I am too immatured to understand it.But these are my thoughts on this matter and request other scholarly members to correct me if I am wrong. But how can a person be detached from a family when the reason he gets into a family life is to have bonding.If a father or mother be detached without getting involved with the kids, wont the kids grow up having no attachment to the family and world? If he does it that way , is he not failing in his/her duties as parent? I used to think that a family person should keep the bonding of the family and face the struggles of the life together thinking its God's way to make us more closer to Him.When the kids through this guidance and bonding gets enough maturity and starts their own family life, then slowly parents should enter into a life that is dedicated only to God and detachment will automatically be part of life at that time. Pardon me if I am wrong! Om namo narayana...om namo narayana.... om namo narayana... Sangeetha guruvayur@grou ps.com, vinod krishna <vinod_krishna23@ ...> wrote: > > Hare Krishna, > > Dear Matured Devotees, > > Please suggest an easy way to be detached from the > > illussion named family. > > Hari Bolo > > YS > > VinodKrishna > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2008 Report Share Posted August 23, 2008 Hare Krishna! Dear Mathaji, Thank You very much for the valuable answer, May Krishna b merciful to U. Hari Hari --- On Thu, 8/21/08, Jayasree Menon <euroanuster wrote: Jayasree Menon <euroanusterRe: [Guruvayur] Family Detachmentguruvayur Date: Thursday, August 21, 2008, 11:49 PM Hare Krishna ! Dear Vinodji It is not that you have to totally get detached from family. You can live with family detached like panja bhootas. They are not attached to anything.... .but as it should work, it works. O Namo Bhagavathe Vasudevaya !! best regards On 21/08/2008, vinod krishna <vinod_krishna23@ > wrote: Hare Krishna, Dear Matured Devotees, Please suggest an easy way to be detached from the illussion named family. Hari Bolo YS VinodKrishna-- Best regardsJayasree MenonBangalore+9900149461my blog link: http://www.pythruka m.blogspot. com/------------ --------- --------- --------- --------- --------- --------- --------- -----A well-thought out plan, execution excellence, market timing, personal leadership are drivers of the growth trajectory. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 25, 2008 Report Share Posted August 25, 2008 Thank you Madam for clearing my doubts. Om namo narayana.... Om namo narayana...Om namo narayana. Sangeetha --- On Fri, 8/22/08, Saroja Ramanujam <sarojram18 wrote: Saroja Ramanujam <sarojram18Re: [Guruvayur] Re: Family Detachmentguruvayur Date: Friday, August 22, 2008, 11:03 AM I have replied to your question also in my reply to Vinodhsaroja Ramanujam Dr. Saroja Ramanujam, M.A., Ph.D, Siromani in sanskrit. www.freewebs. com/asrama3 --- On Fri, 8/22/08, srisang76 <srisang76 > wrote: srisang76 <srisang76 >[Guruvayur] Re: Family Detachmentguruvayur@grou ps.comFriday, August 22, 2008, 8:02 PM Hello VinodjiMaybe there is a way for being detached and I am too immatured to understand it.But these are my thoughts on this matter and request other scholarly members to correct me if I am wrong.But how can a person be detached from a family when the reason he gets into a family life is to have bonding.If a father or mother be detached without getting involved with the kids, wont the kids grow up having no attachment to the family and world? If he does it that way , is he not failing in his/her duties as parent? I used to think that a family person should keep the bonding of the family and face the struggles of the life together thinking its God's way to make us more closer to Him.When the kids through this guidance and bonding gets enough maturity and starts their own family life, then slowly parents should enter into a life that is dedicated only to God and detachment will automatically be part of life at that time.Pardon me if I am wrong!Om namo narayana...om namo narayana.... om namo narayana...Sangeethaguruvayur@grou ps.com, vinod krishna <vinod_krishna23@ ...> wrote:>> Hare Krishna,> > Dear Matured Devotees,> > Please suggest an easy way to be detached from the > > illussion named family.> > Hari Bolo> > YS> > VinodKrishna> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 27, 2008 Report Share Posted August 27, 2008 Hare Krishna, I am not a qualified person to touch this subject. The fact is that family is the main cause of all human sufferings like ageing, separation and deathfear. Let Krishna detach us from this world. Hari Hari YS VinodKrishna --- On Tue, 8/26/08, Sreevidya Menon <sreemenon23 wrote: Sreevidya Menon <sreemenon23Re: Family Detachmentvinod_krishna23Date: Tuesday, August 26, 2008, 11:06 PM OM NAMO NARAYANAYA Sorry for writing this mail into your personal mailid. I used to read all the mails from you as well as from other knowledgable fellow devotees. I was also trying hard to get detachment from the family attachments, but was failure. Evenif try hard to concentrate on bhakthi and Bhagavan, at a point of time I find myself going back to the same attachement. If you find out some way for the same, pls let me know. OM NAMO NARAYANAYA Sreemenon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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