Guest guest Posted August 31, 2009 Report Share Posted August 31, 2009 20. dhaathavyam ithi yath dhaanam dheeyathe anupakaariNe dhese kale cha paathre cha thathdhaanam saathvikam Smrtham A gift which is made at the right place and time to a deserving recipient and to the one who does not return the good turn done to him, with the attitude that it has to be done without expecting anything in return is saathvik Krishna now classifies the gift or dhaana into three kinds. The gift to others is a must for everyone as the sastras say that one has to share what he has with others. That too should be given according to the place, time and to the deserving person. In thiruppavai Andal says , ambaramE thanNeerE SorE aram seyyum. This means that the clothes, water and food are to be given when needed to the needy. When one is suffering from hunger or thirst it is no use giving him something which he could not eat or drink. It is no use giving everything to those who already have everything, which is the common practice in the modern world. The gift thus given must be for the joy of giving and not expecting a favour or as returning a favour done, in which case it becomes rajasik as the next sloka denotes. The Lord gives us everything without even expecting us to thank Him for it, which we never do. 21. yath thu prthyupakaraarTham phalam uddhisya vaa punaH Dheeyathe cha pariklishtam thaddhaanam raajasam Smrtham The one given with expectation of something in return or as a return favour or unwillingly is raajasik To do something as prathyupakara is not wrong but one should not do it with the attitude that he is returning the help done to him. The good souls value something good done to them by others very highly and consider themselves incapable of returning it. Krishna considered Himself ever indebted to the gopis for the love they showed towards Him. Lord Narayana, in whose chest Lakshmi abides forever, thadhvakshasThala nithya vaasarasika, remembers even the smallest service of His devotees and returns it manifold. It is said that a man went round the temple of Guruvyurappan chasing his cow. The Lord thought that he should do that man some good since he went round his temple even though unintentionally. Krishna regretted that He did not go to the rescue of Draupadhi as soon as she called. There is a story behind this incident even though it was all the leela of the Lord only. Once Krishna was bathing in a river with pandavas and his clothes were carried away by the current of the water. All the rest had come out but Krishna was still standing in the river. Draupadhi who guessed what happened tore off her saree and threw it to him. Krishna then said he will recompense the gift manifold and he did by supplying clothes to her when she was disrobed by Dussasana who reeled off yards and yards of cloth until he became exhausted and fainted. Still the Lord was not satisfied with what He had done and that is the krthajnathaa displayed by the Lord Himself to the world. Krishna would have helped Draupadi anyhow not as a prathyupakara for what she has done but to shows His bhakthaparaadheenathva the Lord has created the circumstances as though He was indebted to her. Rama is described by Valmiki as kathamchidhupakaareNa krthenai kena thushhyati na smarathyapakaaraaNaaM Sathamapi, he remembers even a single service done by anyone but never remembers even a hundred disservice. When the Lord Himself is like that how much more we should be grateful for all that have been given by Him to us! How can one expect Lakshmi to come to one who is ungrateful. When some one does anything good it is the Lord Himself who helps us through them. Hence if we forget and do harm in return it is done to the Lord Himself. To give something expecting something in return is only like lending and borrowing or a business deal. Prahlada when the Lord asked Him what did he want, said he was not a business man to exchange something for his bhakthi. To give something unwillingly is also wrong because the gift loses its value unless given wholeheartedly. 22. adheSakaale yath dhaanam apaathrebhyaScha dheeyathe asathkrtham avajnaanam thath thaamasam udhaahrtham Thaamasic dhaana is the one offered improperly and insultingly at wrong place and time and given to undeserving people. When something is given it should be accompanied with respect and humility. The Upanishad enjoins the proper way in which dhaana is to be done. SradDhyaadheyam aSradhaayaadheyam Sriyaadheyam hriyaadheyam bhiyaadheyam savidhaadheyam (thaittreeya up.-1.2.3) A dhaana must be given with SradDha, with reverence. It should not be given with disrespect, aSradDha. Sriyaa dheyaam means that the dhaana must be made according to one's wealth. A millionaire giving few rupees is not a dhana in the real sense. hriyaa dheyam means that one who gives must be humble and should think that it is an honour that the recipient is accepting his gift. Bhiyaa dheyam refers to the fear that it should be done in the right manner without transgressing the rules of the sastras as laid down by this passage. savidhaa dheyam means that the gift must be given in a friendly manner and not with an attitude that one is superior and the recipient should be indebted to him. Hence a gift given insultingly or with disrespect is classified as thaamasik. Also when it is given to a recipient who does not deserve it or at a wrong place and time is thaamasik dhaana. Any gift to wicked persons which will help them only to pursue their evil deeds comes under this category. It is like donating rifles to a terrorist. Normally it is said that what a right hand gives should not be known to the left hand. So a gift must be not made public and should not be given in a manner which humiliates the recipient. To go to a person and give something is utthama and ask him to come and receive it is madhyama. But not to give even when asked is adhama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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