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Dear Toby

 

I am a Dutchmen living in Austria and Holland, lurking in on the list to learn and hopefully to contribute to the

learning and enjoyment of others if there is an opportunity.

 

A recent digest got my full attention when I read

something from you:

 

You presented recently the following quote:

" One thing is certain: the real is not

imaginary, it is not a product of the mind. "

supposedly by Nisargadatta, as you wrote:

" To quote Nisargadatta " .

 

I have two issues that I sure do hope you are willing

to discuss:

The first one is easy: What is the source of YOUR

quote?

The second one is more complex:

What " real " do you think Nisargadatta was

referring to? This is specially relevant because of the preceding example of: BEGIN

OF QUOTE: " Dismissing the world as illusion is fruitless... " ... If we

have many bills to pay, a family and not enough money to meet these commitments,

we are about to be kicked out of our home and left on the street with our

children, with no where to live... what is this pressure that we feel? Is

this pressure real or illusory?

Where does it exist? Where does it stem

from? Is there actually pressure being placed on us, or is it an illusory

product of the mind, of the ego, brought about by our resistance to what is

real or what is actual?

END OF QUOTE

 

Do you think the real in the quote is referring to the

felt pressure or the real life circumstances?

I am asking this in the context of what is in my mind.

Solve the problems on the levels that they exist. Which means that we indeed

need to delve through the levels of inferences (probably but not necessarily

the reason for the 'real feelings') right down to the real problem... which is

not a perceptual problem in the example that you gave... but a physical object

level or even process level problem.

 

Rob

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Hi Rob,

 

Nice to have your input.

 

Your first question: What is the source of the quote?

 

Page 5 of " I Am That " ISBN 085655-406-5.

 

Your second question: What " real " do you think Nisagadatta was

referring to?

 

How many " real " s are there? I would think Nisargadatta wouldn't have

seen too many options on that one.

 

> Do you think the real in the quote is referring to the felt pressure

> or the real life circumstances?

 

The " pressure " is an illusion and it is created by a perceived

problem. The pressure has no basis in reality and neither does

the " problem " . They are just products of a certain way of thinking,

a certain strain of thought. When thinking ceases, so does the

pressure and the problems. Do they not?

 

The feeling is not an illusion, it is simply a feeling and nothing

more or less than that. The feeling comes about as a result of the

self created constructs of illusion.

 

The real life circumstances are no more damning than winning the

lottery. It is just thinking that makes it so.

 

> I am asking this in the context of what is in my mind. Solve the

> problems on the levels that they exist. Which means that we indeed

> need to delve through the levels of inferences (probably but not

> necessarily the reason for the 'real feelings') right down to the

> real problem... which is not a perceptual problem in the example

> that you gave... but a physical object level or even process level

> problem.

 

Reality does not need to be fixed or solved Rob. A problem is only

that which you label it as being and this is just your projection of

reality. Everything just is as it is and nothing more or less than

that.

 

To quote Nisargadatta once more " ...in my world nothing ever goes

wrong. "

 

Is this because he is blessed with luck or special circumstances?

Not at all. It is because he does not live in the world of illusion,

the world of problems. He lives only in what is real.

 

When we step outside of his world, things begin to go wrong and

problems become apparent. These are relative problems, brought about

by relative truth, where the ego gets involved.

 

Solving perceived problems and playing the pain/pleasure game is one

thing. But let us not label these perceived problems as " real " .

 

Toby

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Hi Toby

 

thanks for the swift response.

 

I am trying to stand with both feet on the ground... sometime dancing

(meaning always one foot on the ground and moving elegantly en with

an energetic and sensuous appearance.

 

<toby.wilson@t...> wrote:

> Page 5 of " I Am That " ISBN 085655-406-5.

 

Thansk for that.

 

 

No comes the hard part for me...

> Your second question: What " real " do you think Nisagadatta was

> referring to?

 

You answered:How many " real " s are there? I would think Nisargadatta

wouldn't have seen too many options on that one.

 

RobG: what do you mean... why not give a clear answer... no

metaphores please... if Nisargadatta wouldn't have seen too many

options... then what is the answer?

 

 

I like your explanation of pressure and feelings... yet the realness

of feelings you suggest, I am not so sur about, being a

neurobiologists I know that the same feeling nt always represents the

same meaning and the same biology, so in Korzybski's context feeling

is not real, but also a story we tell ourselves...

 

 

Your interpretations of not being real of real life circumstances

goes beyond me or I just plainly disagree. I am honest if I say both

are possible. Being on the street out of your house, for whatever

reason, in a cold winter night with your children right beside may

not be " a problem " (which is a label) but it is a situation that you

have to deal with on the level it presents itself to you. If not your

can end up lying dead in the desert because you did not use your

awareness on the physical level...

 

Please continue...

kind regards

Rob

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Hello,

I'm a bit doubtful that anything can be 'said' that explains what is

" real " satisfactorily to an enquiring mind, other than what has

already been said.

Something impels this hand to type though, whatever, this 'person' feels

about that.

Having, experienced the same sort of puzzlement 'myself', and having

searched extensively for Answers, I encountered the following definition

of what is " real " : it is " that which never

changes " . And it was observed that almost everything in the

phenomenal world is changing all the time. Isn't that your

observation, too?

So, if " everything " is changing all the time, what is it that

knows that it IS changing? What is the basis of that

observation?

Deep consideration of that question, reveals the Answer to the

questioner, does it not?

And the Answer comes in a non verbal way, does it not? It comes, not from

the realm of thought, or intellectual " comprehension, " but in

the absence/relinquishment of thought and in the absence of words.

In utter(!!!) silence! :-)

An excellent point of reference for such considerations may be found at

<http://www.

NWFFACIM.org>

John

At 07:24 10/03/2003 +0000, you wrote:

Hi Rob,

Nice to have your input.

Your first question: What is the source of the quote?

Page 5 of " I Am That " ISBN 085655-406-5.

Your second question: What " real " do you think Nisagadatta

was

referring to?

How many " real " s are there? I would think Nisargadatta

wouldn't have

seen too many options on that one.

> Do you think the real in the quote is referring to the felt

pressure

> or the real life circumstances?

The " pressure " is an illusion and it is created by a perceived

 

problem. The pressure has no basis in reality and neither does

 

the " problem " . They are just products of a certain way of

thinking,

a certain strain of thought. When thinking ceases, so does the

 

pressure and the problems. Do they not?

The feeling is not an illusion, it is simply a feeling and nothing

more or less than that. The feeling comes about as a result of the

 

self created constructs of illusion.

The real life circumstances are no more damning than winning the

lottery. It is just thinking that makes it so.

> I am asking this in the context of what is in my mind. Solve

the

> problems on the levels that they exist. Which means that we

indeed

> need to delve through the levels of inferences (probably but

not

> necessarily the reason for the 'real feelings') right down to

the

> real problem... which is not a perceptual problem in the

example

> that you gave... but a physical object level or even process

level

> problem.

Reality does not need to be fixed or solved Rob. A problem is only

 

that which you label it as being and this is just your projection of

 

reality. Everything just is as it is and nothing more or less than

 

that.

To quote Nisargadatta once more " ...in my world nothing ever goes

 

wrong. "

Is this because he is blessed with luck or special circumstances?

 

Not at all. It is because he does not live in the world of

illusion,

the world of problems. He lives only in what is real.

When we step outside of his world, things begin to go wrong and

problems become apparent. These are relative problems, brought

about

by relative truth, where the ego gets involved.

Solving perceived problems and playing the pain/pleasure game is one

 

thing. But let us not label these perceived problems as

" real " .

Toby

 

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From our own experience, our appreciation of what is 'real' is

different in different states of consciousness. There is a dramatic

difference in reality between waking and dreaming, and differences

from one day to the next, each moment to the next, and so on.

 

I am not referring to any philosophical construct of the world - but

our innocent appreciation or raw relationship with the non-self.

So, we can speak of the different realities of dreaming, sleep and

waking; and in a less dramatic fashion, we can speak of the reality

of sadness, joy, and other human emotive or intellectual states.

 

Nisgardatta is speaking from a different major state of

consciousness, as different from waking state as from our waking

state is to our dream state. He is describing the characteristics of

his knowledge, or appreciation of self/non-self.

 

So Advaita, (Vendanta) is a major state of consciousness, not just a

hightened or lit-up waking state, and certainly not just a

philosophy - with completely different 'rules of engagement'.

 

Having a firm grasp of the material, having an intellectual

understanding of Avaita is of value, but acquiring the experience is

what brings fulfillment. Some claim there is no path or anything

that needs to be done, other feel there is a path with things to do

or undo. Both are useful approaches.

 

Larry

 

Nisargadatta , " geurtsenrob " <groei@x> wrote:

> Hi Toby

>

> thanks for the swift response.

>

> I am trying to stand with both feet on the ground... sometime

dancing

> (meaning always one foot on the ground and moving elegantly en

with

> an energetic and sensuous appearance.

>

> <toby.wilson@t...> wrote:

> > Page 5 of " I Am That " ISBN 085655-406-5.

>

> Thansk for that.

>

>

> No comes the hard part for me...

> > Your second question: What " real " do you think Nisagadatta was

> > referring to?

>

> You answered:How many " real " s are there? I would think

Nisargadatta

> wouldn't have seen too many options on that one.

>

> RobG: what do you mean... why not give a clear answer... no

> metaphores please... if Nisargadatta wouldn't have seen too many

> options... then what is the answer?

>

>

> I like your explanation of pressure and feelings... yet the

realness

> of feelings you suggest, I am not so sur about, being a

> neurobiologists I know that the same feeling nt always represents

the

> same meaning and the same biology, so in Korzybski's context

feeling

> is not real, but also a story we tell ourselves...

>

>

> Your interpretations of not being real of real life circumstances

> goes beyond me or I just plainly disagree. I am honest if I say

both

> are possible. Being on the street out of your house, for whatever

> reason, in a cold winter night with your children right beside may

> not be " a problem " (which is a label) but it is a situation that

you

> have to deal with on the level it presents itself to you. If not

your

> can end up lying dead in the desert because you did not use your

> awareness on the physical level...

>

> Please continue...

> kind regards

> Rob

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Hi Rob,

 

> Toby: How many " real " s are there? I would think Nisargadatta

> wouldn't have seen too many options on that one.

>

> RobG: what do you mean... why not give a clear answer... no

> metaphores please... if Nisargadatta wouldn't have seen too many

> options... then what is the answer?

 

I don't know how to answer that question. I compare it to me asking

you, " Which big, blue sky are you referring to Rob? "

 

I'm sure your response would be, " How many big, blue skys are there

Toby. I don't see too many options on that one. "

 

It seemed to me to be an erroneous question.

 

 

> I like your explanation of pressure and feelings... yet the

realness

> of feelings you suggest, I am not so sur about, being a

> neurobiologists I know that the same feeling nt always represents

the

> same meaning and the same biology, so in Korzybski's context

feeling

> is not real, but also a story we tell ourselves...

 

 

Feelings are not illusory, they are just feelings.

 

You have brought into the equation " meaning " and " stories we tell

ourselves " . A meaning or a story is not a feeling. It is a self

created illusions that is built around the feeling and not the

feeling itself. The feeling is just a feeling and that is all.

 

If you feel an emotion, you feel it, do you not? Why suggest it is

anything else? As you have stated, it is accompanied by a change in

biology. How could we say that this change in biology is an

illusion? It is real. It just is what it is, a change in biology -

and we feel it. It's nothing more or less than that.

 

When we feel sick, is this an illusion? When we slam our finger in

the door, is the pain illusory? It just is what it is.

 

 

> Your interpretations of not being real of real life circumstances

> goes beyond me or I just plainly disagree. I am honest if I say

both

> are possible. Being on the street out of your house, for whatever

> reason, in a cold winter night with your children right beside may

> not be " a problem " (which is a label) but it is a situation that

you

> have to deal with on the level it presents itself to you. If not

your

> can end up lying dead in the desert because you did not use your

> awareness on the physical level...

 

 

As Nisargadatta put it when referring to a question's mind: " What is

wrong with its seeking the pleasent and shrinking the unpleasent?

Between the banks of pain and pleasure the river of life flows. "

 

I have not advocated to not do anything on the physical level about

our homeless, cold winter night situation. Doing something or not is

not the issue. The point is the internal, what is happening there?

What is going on inside?

 

Our actions do not have to come about as a consiquence of perceived

problems. We do not have to act out our lives out of a resistance to

the way things are.

 

To an individual living out of a true honesty of conciousness,

homeless or not, it would make no difference at all to their

underlying experience of reality. And their external actions would

stem directly from their innermost, from an internal way of being

that is honest. They would not be in a state of desparation. They

would not be attached to the outcome of their actions. Their

internal freedom would not be dependent on their freedom from the

given circumstances.

 

Your thoughts?

 

Toby

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> I am a Dutchmen living in Austria and Holland, lurking

> in on the list to learn and hopefully to contribute to

> the learning and enjoyment of others if there is an

> opportunity.

>

>

>

> A recent digest got my full attention when I read

> something from you:

>

>

>

> You presented recently the following quote:

>

> " One thing is certain: the real is not

>

> imaginary, it is not a product of the mind. "

>

> supposedly by Nisargadatta, as you wrote:

>

> " To quote Nisargadatta " .

>

>

>

> I have two issues that I sure do hope you are willing

> to discuss:

>

> What " real " do you think Nisargadatta was referring to?

> This is specially relevant because of the preceding

> example of: BEGIN OF QUOTE: " Dismissing the world as

> illusion is fruitless... " ... If we have many bills to

> pay, a family and not enough money to meet these

> commitments, we are about to be kicked out of our home

> and left on the street with our children, with no where

> to live... what is this pressure that we feel? Is this

> pressure real or illusory?

>

> Where does it exist? Where does it stem from? Is

> there actually pressure being placed on us, or is it an

> illusory product of the mind, of the ego, brought about

> by our resistance to what is real or what is actual?

>

> END OF QUOTE

>

>

>

> Do you think the real in the quote is referring to the

> felt pressure or the real life circumstances?

>

> I am asking this in the context of what is in my mind.

> Solve the problems on the levels that they exist. Which

> means that we indeed need to delve through the levels

> of inferences (probably but not necessarily the reason

> for the 'real feelings') right down to the real

> problem... which is not a perceptual problem in the

> example that you gave... but a physical object level or

> even process level problem.

>

>

>

> Rob

 

i think the EXISTENCIAL angst is

real and from Kierkegaards time

can be multiplied by 3 and it is

different in each country.

 

in the old days it was that a

'householder' lived out his/her

life and turned to the quest of

spirituality.

 

Today do to some degree to the

information super highway we can

incorporate into our living great

thoughts like Advaita, or even

Nisargadatta

 

-but tell about this to Rawandan

woman with 5 children and no

husband to help to support them

in the year of drought..

 

 

-------Karta

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What is always the same?

 

 

 

A friend wrote “Stay with that which lovingly allows for everything to

appear in peace that cannot be disturbed. Allow it to show you the depth of

its void and the fullness of its emptiness.”

 

 

 

What is a 'me'?

 

Later, My friend wrote, " Who Who Who? Do not relent, but do not try or

force. Honestly and gently ask. You can't force grace, she is more

stubborn then you are, so allow her to do the job as she will. "

 

 

 

Love,

charlie

www.awakeningtotheeternal.net

 

 

 

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