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You have desires, and they point to a positive direction while fear

points in a negative direction. One would thus think that following

desires is the way to live one's life in a proper way. Even ideas such

as it's a good thing to have compassion, is a desire! So following

desires mindfully should be the right path to peace. That's easy; the

course is set, and you will sail through life with great joy and

fulfillment. Nope. No sir. No mam. That is not true. And the evidence

of this is abundant throughout human experience.

 

Why? Why is not the life of the ordinary human being fulfilled? In

yourself you are very sure about yourself, very adamant in pointing

out that you know what is good and what is bad. How come, then, that

you don't _feel_ good inside? Beneath the surface layer of your

knowledge, your experiences, your sense of self, there is something

that is not sure of itself at all, now is it? In fact, you are afraid

of your very own nature. Why? Why is that?

 

The answer is simple. Your desires are immature. They are not immature

seen from a narrow perspective; from a narrow perspective your desires

are very intelligent. But you have to look at the whole picture. You

have an idea, and another person has another idea, and you believe

your idea is correct while the other person has a wrong idea. You say

a terrorist has bad desires. So you have the desire to destroy the

terrorist who has a wrong desire. But then, do you really have a

desire that is different than the terrorist?

 

Isn't it natural to have a desire to protect oneself? No. No sir. No

mam. The desire to protect yourself is a seed of violence. You create

a war _within_ yourself. You protect your beliefs, and that is

violence. You believe you have the right view, but how do you _feel_

inside yourself?

 

You can only find peace when you are willing to have your desires

molded, to be worked on, to be reshaped, twisted around and upgraded

by nature itself. Only then will you have peace.

 

/AL

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You can only find peace when you are willing to have your desires

molded, to be worked on, to be reshaped, twisted around and upgraded

by nature itself. Only then will you have peace.

>>>> oops ! U r bringing too many elements to understand the nature of desire...

 

 

 

 

 

anders_lindman [anders_lindman]

Friday, February 11, 2005 5:46 PM

Nisargadatta

Desires

 

 

 

You have desires, and they point to a positive direction while fear

points in a negative direction. One would thus think that following

desires is the way to live one's life in a proper way. Even ideas such

as it's a good thing to have compassion, is a desire! So following

desires mindfully should be the right path to peace. That's easy; the

course is set, and you will sail through life with great joy and

fulfillment. Nope. No sir. No mam. That is not true. And the evidence

of this is abundant throughout human experience.

 

Why? Why is not the life of the ordinary human being fulfilled? In

yourself you are very sure about yourself, very adamant in pointing

out that you know what is good and what is bad. How come, then, that

you don't _feel_ good inside? Beneath the surface layer of your

knowledge, your experiences, your sense of self, there is something

that is not sure of itself at all, now is it? In fact, you are afraid

of your very own nature. Why? Why is that?

 

The answer is simple. Your desires are immature. They are not immature

seen from a narrow perspective; from a narrow perspective your desires

are very intelligent. But you have to look at the whole picture. You

have an idea, and another person has another idea, and you believe

your idea is correct while the other person has a wrong idea. You say

a terrorist has bad desires. So you have the desire to destroy the

terrorist who has a wrong desire. But then, do you really have a

desire that is different than the terrorist?

 

Isn't it natural to have a desire to protect oneself? No. No sir. No

mam. The desire to protect yourself is a seed of violence. You create

a war _within_ yourself. You protect your beliefs, and that is

violence. You believe you have the right view, but how do you _feel_

inside yourself?

 

You can only find peace when you are willing to have your desires

molded, to be worked on, to be reshaped, twisted around and upgraded

by nature itself. Only then will you have peace.

 

/AL

 

 

 

 

 

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Nisargadatta , " Ramanath, Murali H \(GE

Healthcare\) " <Murali.Ramanath@g...> wrote:

>

> You can only find peace when you are willing to have your desires

> molded, to be worked on, to be reshaped, twisted around and upgraded

> by nature itself. Only then will you have peace.

> >>>> oops ! U r bringing too many elements to understand the nature

of desire...

 

I maybe have been a bit carried away here, but consider having one's

desires unchanged compared with an openness to having those desires

altered. We cannot know how these desires are going to change except

for one crucial thing: we know that if our desires are going to

change, then we can consciously monitor how this change is going to

happen. We can tell by how we feel and how we experience the world if

there is joy and liberation, if there is sat-chit-ananda, or if there

is still the experience of lingering nightmare. If we are prepared

for change, we even can allow a deepening of suffering emotions as an

act of transformation. JUST TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS. JUST TO SEE WHAT

HAPPENS _IN PLACE_ OF THE OLD EXPERINCE (to steal some shouting from

Vernon Howard :)

 

/AL

 

>

>

>

>

>

> anders_lindman [anders_lindman]

> Friday, February 11, 2005 5:46 PM

> Nisargadatta

> Desires

>

>

>

> You have desires, and they point to a positive direction while fear

> points in a negative direction. One would thus think that following

> desires is the way to live one's life in a proper way. Even ideas such

> as it's a good thing to have compassion, is a desire! So following

> desires mindfully should be the right path to peace. That's easy; the

> course is set, and you will sail through life with great joy and

> fulfillment. Nope. No sir. No mam. That is not true. And the evidence

> of this is abundant throughout human experience.

>

> Why? Why is not the life of the ordinary human being fulfilled? In

> yourself you are very sure about yourself, very adamant in pointing

> out that you know what is good and what is bad. How come, then, that

> you don't _feel_ good inside? Beneath the surface layer of your

> knowledge, your experiences, your sense of self, there is something

> that is not sure of itself at all, now is it? In fact, you are afraid

> of your very own nature. Why? Why is that?

>

> The answer is simple. Your desires are immature. They are not immature

> seen from a narrow perspective; from a narrow perspective your desires

> are very intelligent. But you have to look at the whole picture. You

> have an idea, and another person has another idea, and you believe

> your idea is correct while the other person has a wrong idea. You say

> a terrorist has bad desires. So you have the desire to destroy the

> terrorist who has a wrong desire. But then, do you really have a

> desire that is different than the terrorist?

>

> Isn't it natural to have a desire to protect oneself? No. No sir. No

> mam. The desire to protect yourself is a seed of violence. You create

> a war _within_ yourself. You protect your beliefs, and that is

> violence. You believe you have the right view, but how do you _feel_

> inside yourself?

>

> You can only find peace when you are willing to have your desires

> molded, to be worked on, to be reshaped, twisted around and upgraded

> by nature itself. Only then will you have peace.

>

> /AL

>

>

>

>

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anders_lindman [anders_lindman]

Friday, February 11, 2005 6:43 PM

Nisargadatta

Re: Desires

 

 

 

 

Nisargadatta , " Ramanath, Murali H \(GE

Healthcare\) " <Murali.Ramanath@g...> wrote:

>

> You can only find peace when you are willing to have your desires

> molded, to be worked on, to be reshaped, twisted around and upgraded

> by nature itself. Only then will you have peace.

> >>>> oops ! U r bringing too many elements to understand the nature

of desire...

Try to find out the relation between thought and desire... then u will not

produce so many thoughts...or words...

or sentences...

This is what the philosophers do .. they try to get at the truth with thoughts

and words...

 

 

 

I maybe have been a bit carried away here, but consider having one's

desires unchanged compared with an openness to having those desires

altered. We cannot know how these desires are going to change except

for one crucial thing: we know that if our desires are going to

change, then we can consciously monitor how this change is going to

happen. We can tell by how we feel and how we experience the world if

there is joy and liberation, if there is sat-chit-ananda, or if there

is still the experience of lingering nightmare. If we are prepared

for change, we even can allow a deepening of suffering emotions as an

act of transformation. JUST TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS. JUST TO SEE WHAT

HAPPENS _IN PLACE_ OF THE OLD EXPERINCE (to steal some shouting from

Vernon Howard :)

 

/AL

 

>

>

>

>

>

> anders_lindman [anders_lindman]

> Friday, February 11, 2005 5:46 PM

> Nisargadatta

> Desires

>

>

>

> You have desires, and they point to a positive direction while fear

> points in a negative direction. One would thus think that following

> desires is the way to live one's life in a proper way. Even ideas such

> as it's a good thing to have compassion, is a desire! So following

> desires mindfully should be the right path to peace. That's easy; the

> course is set, and you will sail through life with great joy and

> fulfillment. Nope. No sir. No mam. That is not true. And the evidence

> of this is abundant throughout human experience.

>

> Why? Why is not the life of the ordinary human being fulfilled? In

> yourself you are very sure about yourself, very adamant in pointing

> out that you know what is good and what is bad. How come, then, that

> you don't _feel_ good inside? Beneath the surface layer of your

> knowledge, your experiences, your sense of self, there is something

> that is not sure of itself at all, now is it? In fact, you are afraid

> of your very own nature. Why? Why is that?

>

> The answer is simple. Your desires are immature. They are not immature

> seen from a narrow perspective; from a narrow perspective your desires

> are very intelligent. But you have to look at the whole picture. You

> have an idea, and another person has another idea, and you believe

> your idea is correct while the other person has a wrong idea. You say

> a terrorist has bad desires. So you have the desire to destroy the

> terrorist who has a wrong desire. But then, do you really have a

> desire that is different than the terrorist?

>

> Isn't it natural to have a desire to protect oneself? No. No sir. No

> mam. The desire to protect yourself is a seed of violence. You create

> a war _within_ yourself. You protect your beliefs, and that is

> violence. You believe you have the right view, but how do you _feel_

> inside yourself?

>

> You can only find peace when you are willing to have your desires

> molded, to be worked on, to be reshaped, twisted around and upgraded

> by nature itself. Only then will you have peace.

>

> /AL

>

>

>

>

>

> **

>

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subscription, sign in with your ID and go to Edit My Groups:

>

> /mygroups?edit=1

>

> Under the Message Delivery option, choose " No Email " for the

Nisargadatta group and click on Save Changes.

>

>

>

>

>

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Nisargadatta , " Ramanath, Murali H \(GE

Healthcare\) " <Murali.Ramanath@g...> wrote:

>

>

>

> anders_lindman [anders_lindman]

> Friday, February 11, 2005 6:43 PM

> Nisargadatta

> Re: Desires

>

>

>

>

> Nisargadatta , " Ramanath, Murali H \(GE

> Healthcare\) " <Murali.Ramanath@g...> wrote:

> >

> > You can only find peace when you are willing to have your desires

> > molded, to be worked on, to be reshaped, twisted around and upgraded

> > by nature itself. Only then will you have peace.

> > >>>> oops ! U r bringing too many elements to understand the nature

> of desire...

> Try to find out the relation between thought and desire... then u

will not produce so many thoughts...or words...

> or sentences...

> This is what the philosophers do .. they try to get at the truth

with thoughts and words...

 

Yes, it's important to sometimes go directly to feeling. But the

interesting game here, as far as I am concerned, is to recognize, or

at least fathom the possibility of, desires as something moldable.

 

/AL

 

>

>

>

> I maybe have been a bit carried away here, but consider having one's

> desires unchanged compared with an openness to having those desires

> altered. We cannot know how these desires are going to change except

> for one crucial thing: we know that if our desires are going to

> change, then we can consciously monitor how this change is going to

> happen. We can tell by how we feel and how we experience the world if

> there is joy and liberation, if there is sat-chit-ananda, or if there

> is still the experience of lingering nightmare. If we are prepared

> for change, we even can allow a deepening of suffering emotions as an

> act of transformation. JUST TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS. JUST TO SEE WHAT

> HAPPENS _IN PLACE_ OF THE OLD EXPERINCE (to steal some shouting from

> Vernon Howard :)

>

> /AL

>

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > anders_lindman [anders_lindman]

> > Friday, February 11, 2005 5:46 PM

> > Nisargadatta

> > Desires

> >

> >

> >

> > You have desires, and they point to a positive direction while fear

> > points in a negative direction. One would thus think that following

> > desires is the way to live one's life in a proper way. Even ideas such

> > as it's a good thing to have compassion, is a desire! So following

> > desires mindfully should be the right path to peace. That's easy; the

> > course is set, and you will sail through life with great joy and

> > fulfillment. Nope. No sir. No mam. That is not true. And the evidence

> > of this is abundant throughout human experience.

> >

> > Why? Why is not the life of the ordinary human being fulfilled? In

> > yourself you are very sure about yourself, very adamant in pointing

> > out that you know what is good and what is bad. How come, then, that

> > you don't _feel_ good inside? Beneath the surface layer of your

> > knowledge, your experiences, your sense of self, there is something

> > that is not sure of itself at all, now is it? In fact, you are afraid

> > of your very own nature. Why? Why is that?

> >

> > The answer is simple. Your desires are immature. They are not immature

> > seen from a narrow perspective; from a narrow perspective your desires

> > are very intelligent. But you have to look at the whole picture. You

> > have an idea, and another person has another idea, and you believe

> > your idea is correct while the other person has a wrong idea. You say

> > a terrorist has bad desires. So you have the desire to destroy the

> > terrorist who has a wrong desire. But then, do you really have a

> > desire that is different than the terrorist?

> >

> > Isn't it natural to have a desire to protect oneself? No. No sir. No

> > mam. The desire to protect yourself is a seed of violence. You create

> > a war _within_ yourself. You protect your beliefs, and that is

> > violence. You believe you have the right view, but how do you _feel_

> > inside yourself?

> >

> > You can only find peace when you are willing to have your desires

> > molded, to be worked on, to be reshaped, twisted around and upgraded

> > by nature itself. Only then will you have peace.

> >

> > /AL

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > **

> >

> > If you do not wish to receive individual emails, to change your

> subscription, sign in with your ID and go to Edit My Groups:

> >

> > /mygroups?edit=1

> >

> > Under the Message Delivery option, choose " No Email " for the

> Nisargadatta group and click on Save Changes.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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