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Is not the Self, but the Other, which is

real. Until the Other comes to dwell,

reality is but a name. The Other must

be felt as Self. Only then, one plus one

equals One.

 

Pete, The mattermagician, or is it

mathematician? Truly, I should give

up metaphysics and study grammar.

I know, I know! You couldn't agree more. :))

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Nisargadatta , Pete S <pedsie3@e...> wrote:

> Is not the Self, but the Other, which is

> real. Until the Other comes to dwell,

> reality is but a name. The Other must

> be felt as Self. Only then, one plus one

> equals One.

>

> Pete, The mattermagician, or is it

> mathematician? Truly, I should give

> up metaphysics and study grammar.

> I know, I know! You couldn't agree more. :))

 

 

When I am born

You are born

I can never be one with you

 

When we are born

They are born

We can never be one with them

 

Is there any surprise

That frustration should arise

When trying to make two become one?

 

Before I am

Is before you are

Before two

There is one

 

Before we are

Is before they are

Before us and them is one

 

Before I am

All is I AM

Not even one

 

What is this I that is born?

 

 

Stephen Wingate

www.livinginpeace-thenaturalstate.com

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Nisargadatta

Thursday, September 03, 2009 12:22 PM

Self and other

 

 

'Self' is beholden to 'other'... there is no way around it.

 

The two arise and set in the same 'location'.

 

Thus, any 'other' perceived, is oneself.

 

Any 'oneself' perceived, is an other.

 

The perceiver is the perceived.

-t-

 

I bumped into myself...and thought: who is that stranger?

-geo-

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor wrote:

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> fewtch

> Nisargadatta

> Thursday, September 03, 2009 12:22 PM

> Self and other

>

>

> 'Self' is beholden to 'other'... there is no way around it.

>

> The two arise and set in the same 'location'.

>

> Thus, any 'other' perceived, is oneself.

>

> Any 'oneself' perceived, is an other.

>

> The perceiver is the perceived.

> -t-

>

> I bumped into myself...and thought: who is that stranger?

> -geo-

 

That's why: " self-enquiry " ;-).

 

One pays all their attention to 'others', eh? Taken as strangers, because

'oneself' is a stranger.

 

As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and

finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

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Nisargadatta

Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:20 PM

Re: Self and other

 

 

Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor wrote:

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>

> -

> fewtch

> Nisargadatta

> Thursday, September 03, 2009 12:22 PM

> Self and other

>

>

> 'Self' is beholden to 'other'... there is no way around it.

>

> The two arise and set in the same 'location'.

>

> Thus, any 'other' perceived, is oneself.

>

> Any 'oneself' perceived, is an other.

>

> The perceiver is the perceived.

> -t-

>

> I bumped into myself...and thought: who is that stranger?

> -geo-

 

That's why: " self-enquiry " ;-).

 

One pays all their attention to 'others', eh? Taken as strangers, because

'oneself' is a stranger.

-tim-

 

Usually oneself is not a stranger to oneself but the opposite. One is

familiar with the sense of a ME that is inside and real - the farthest thing

from a " stranger " .

-geo-

 

As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and

finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

-tim-

 

Gradually? No. The perception of lack of the inner entity can not be

gradual. You can not shrink a sense of self.

-geo-

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Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor wrote:

>

>

> As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and

> finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

> -tim-

>

> Gradually? No. The perception of lack of the inner entity can not be

> gradual. You can not shrink a sense of self.

> -geo-

 

When described, it sounds gradual... but nothing is gradual.

 

Words are very deceptive. Only 'awareness' can supercede the conceptual trap of

taking 'thinker' and 'thought' to be apart and separate.

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Nisargadatta

Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:47 PM

Re: Self and other

 

 

Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor wrote:

>

>

> As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and

> finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

> -tim-

>

> Gradually? No. The perception of lack of the inner entity can not be

> gradual. You can not shrink a sense of self.

> -geo-

 

When described, it sounds gradual... but nothing is gradual.

 

Words are very deceptive. Only 'awareness' can supercede the conceptual trap

of taking 'thinker' and 'thought' to be apart and separate.

-t-

 

One will have a hard time trying to read " As 'oneself' is less of a

stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and finally both self and other

merge into each other and vanish " without a sense of graduality. But its OK

:>)

-geo-

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor wrote:

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>

> -

> fewtch

> Nisargadatta

> Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:47 PM

> Re: Self and other

>

>

> Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> >

> >

> > As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and

> > finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

> > -tim-

> >

> > Gradually? No. The perception of lack of the inner entity can not be

> > gradual. You can not shrink a sense of self.

> > -geo-

>

> When described, it sounds gradual... but nothing is gradual.

>

> Words are very deceptive. Only 'awareness' can supercede the conceptual trap

> of taking 'thinker' and 'thought' to be apart and separate.

> -t-

>

> One will have a hard time trying to read " As 'oneself' is less of a

> stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and finally both self and other

> merge into each other and vanish " without a sense of graduality. But its OK

> :>)

> -geo-

 

 

The lightning hit the tree stump.

 

The entire farmyard was illuminated at once.

 

But later on, the cows still mooed.

 

And the hens still cackled.

 

The geese flew overhead.

 

And at night, the coyotes as usual howled in the distance.

 

Still, the farmyard never seemed quite the same again.

 

 

-- D --

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Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor wrote:

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>

> -

> fewtch

> Nisargadatta

> Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:47 PM

> Re: Self and other

>

>

> Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> >

> >

> > As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and

> > finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

> > -tim-

> >

> > Gradually? No. The perception of lack of the inner entity can not be

> > gradual. You can not shrink a sense of self.

> > -geo-

>

> When described, it sounds gradual... but nothing is gradual.

>

> Words are very deceptive. Only 'awareness' can supercede the conceptual trap

> of taking 'thinker' and 'thought' to be apart and separate.

> -t-

>

> One will have a hard time trying to read " As 'oneself' is less of a

> stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and finally both self and other

> merge into each other and vanish " without a sense of graduality. But its OK

> :>)

> -geo-

 

It's just a descriptive thing, described as if 'gradual' in order to " point " .

Isn't gradual/sudden just another duality?

 

Just words, m'man, and words never described " it " anyhoo.

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Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033 wrote:

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> Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> >

> >

> > -

> > fewtch

> > Nisargadatta

> > Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:47 PM

> > Re: Self and other

> >

> >

> > Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and

> > > finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

> > > -tim-

> > >

> > > Gradually? No. The perception of lack of the inner entity can not be

> > > gradual. You can not shrink a sense of self.

> > > -geo-

> >

> > When described, it sounds gradual... but nothing is gradual.

> >

> > Words are very deceptive. Only 'awareness' can supercede the conceptual trap

> > of taking 'thinker' and 'thought' to be apart and separate.

> > -t-

> >

> > One will have a hard time trying to read " As 'oneself' is less of a

> > stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and finally both self and other

> > merge into each other and vanish " without a sense of graduality. But its OK

> > :>)

> > -geo-

>

>

> The lightning hit the tree stump.

>

> The entire farmyard was illuminated at once.

>

> But later on, the cows still mooed.

>

> And the hens still cackled.

>

> The geese flew overhead.

>

> And at night, the coyotes as usual howled in the distance.

>

> Still, the farmyard never seemed quite the same again.

>

>

> -- D --

 

What's astonishing here is that there doesn't seem to be any 'past farmyard' to

compare with.

 

Thus, the farmyard is neither the same, nor different than 'something else'.

 

There simply isn't any reference point. " What is, is " .

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Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch wrote:

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> Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033@> wrote:

> >

> > Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > -

> > > fewtch

> > > Nisargadatta

> > > Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:47 PM

> > > Re: Self and other

> > >

> > >

> > > Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers...

and

> > > > finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

> > > > -tim-

> > > >

> > > > Gradually? No. The perception of lack of the inner entity can not be

> > > > gradual. You can not shrink a sense of self.

> > > > -geo-

> > >

> > > When described, it sounds gradual... but nothing is gradual.

> > >

> > > Words are very deceptive. Only 'awareness' can supercede the conceptual

trap

> > > of taking 'thinker' and 'thought' to be apart and separate.

> > > -t-

> > >

> > > One will have a hard time trying to read " As 'oneself' is less of a

> > > stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and finally both self and

other

> > > merge into each other and vanish " without a sense of graduality. But its

OK

> > > :>)

> > > -geo-

> >

> >

> > The lightning hit the tree stump.

> >

> > The entire farmyard was illuminated at once.

> >

> > But later on, the cows still mooed.

> >

> > And the hens still cackled.

> >

> > The geese flew overhead.

> >

> > And at night, the coyotes as usual howled in the distance.

> >

> > Still, the farmyard never seemed quite the same again.

> >

> >

> > -- D --

>

> What's astonishing here is that there doesn't seem to be any 'past farmyard'

to compare with.

>

> Thus, the farmyard is neither the same, nor different than 'something else'.

>

> There simply isn't any reference point. " What is, is " .

>

 

yes, Tim...

 

and also...

 

the " enlightened " " Tim " is neither the same....nor different than " something

else " ....;)

 

and never will be....

 

 

Marc

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Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch wrote:

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> Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033@> wrote:

> >

> > Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> > >

> > >

> > > -

> > > fewtch

> > > Nisargadatta

> > > Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:47 PM

> > > Re: Self and other

> > >

> > >

> > > Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers...

and

> > > > finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

> > > > -tim-

> > > >

> > > > Gradually? No. The perception of lack of the inner entity can not be

> > > > gradual. You can not shrink a sense of self.

> > > > -geo-

> > >

> > > When described, it sounds gradual... but nothing is gradual.

> > >

> > > Words are very deceptive. Only 'awareness' can supercede the conceptual

trap

> > > of taking 'thinker' and 'thought' to be apart and separate.

> > > -t-

> > >

> > > One will have a hard time trying to read " As 'oneself' is less of a

> > > stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and finally both self and

other

> > > merge into each other and vanish " without a sense of graduality. But its

OK

> > > :>)

> > > -geo-

> >

> >

> > The lightning hit the tree stump.

> >

> > The entire farmyard was illuminated at once.

> >

> > But later on, the cows still mooed.

> >

> > And the hens still cackled.

> >

> > The geese flew overhead.

> >

> > And at night, the coyotes as usual howled in the distance.

> >

> > Still, the farmyard never seemed quite the same again.

> >

> >

> > -- D --

>

> What's astonishing here is that there doesn't seem to be any 'past farmyard'

to compare with.

>

> Thus, the farmyard is neither the same, nor different than 'something else'.

>

> There simply isn't any reference point. " What is, is " .

 

You still know what a computer is.

 

You still know where the letters are on the keyboard.

 

You know your name is " Tim " and what street you live on.

 

You know where the grocery store is and what a loaf of bread looks like.

 

You don't need to relearn these things each day - if you did, what a mess that

would be.

 

Your memory is still operational.

 

- D -

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Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033 wrote:

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> Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch@> wrote:

> >

> > Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > -

> > > > fewtch

> > > > Nisargadatta

> > > > Thursday, September 03, 2009 1:47 PM

> > > > Re: Self and other

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Nisargadatta , " geo " <inandor@> wrote:

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > As 'oneself' is less of a stranger, 'others' are less of strangers...

and

> > > > > finally both self and other merge into each other and vanish.

> > > > > -tim-

> > > > >

> > > > > Gradually? No. The perception of lack of the inner entity can not be

> > > > > gradual. You can not shrink a sense of self.

> > > > > -geo-

> > > >

> > > > When described, it sounds gradual... but nothing is gradual.

> > > >

> > > > Words are very deceptive. Only 'awareness' can supercede the conceptual

trap

> > > > of taking 'thinker' and 'thought' to be apart and separate.

> > > > -t-

> > > >

> > > > One will have a hard time trying to read " As 'oneself' is less of a

> > > > stranger, 'others' are less of strangers... and finally both self and

other

> > > > merge into each other and vanish " without a sense of graduality. But

its OK

> > > > :>)

> > > > -geo-

> > >

> > >

> > > The lightning hit the tree stump.

> > >

> > > The entire farmyard was illuminated at once.

> > >

> > > But later on, the cows still mooed.

> > >

> > > And the hens still cackled.

> > >

> > > The geese flew overhead.

> > >

> > > And at night, the coyotes as usual howled in the distance.

> > >

> > > Still, the farmyard never seemed quite the same again.

> > >

> > >

> > > -- D --

> >

> > What's astonishing here is that there doesn't seem to be any 'past farmyard'

to compare with.

> >

> > Thus, the farmyard is neither the same, nor different than 'something else'.

> >

> > There simply isn't any reference point. " What is, is " .

>

> You still know what a computer is.

>

> You still know where the letters are on the keyboard.

>

> You know your name is " Tim " and what street you live on.

>

> You know where the grocery store is and what a loaf of bread looks like.

>

> You don't need to relearn these things each day - if you did, what a mess that

would be.

>

> Your memory is still operational.

>

> - D -

 

Thanks for telling me what I know, what I don't have to re-learn, and reminding

me that my memory is still operational.

 

I guess I'm not your hallucination, after all.

 

That's good to know ;-).

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Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch wrote:

 

>

> Thanks for telling me what I know, what I don't have to re-learn, and

reminding me that my memory is still operational.

>

> I guess I'm not your hallucination, after all.

>

> That's good to know ;-).

 

 

D: I don't have a clue how anything I said manage to convince

you that this is not a hallucination. But not to worry,

that conviction of yours is an aspect of the hallucinating.

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Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033 wrote:

>

> Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch@> wrote:

>

> >

> > Thanks for telling me what I know, what I don't have to re-learn, and

reminding me that my memory is still operational.

> >

> > I guess I'm not your hallucination, after all.

> >

> > That's good to know ;-).

>

>

> D: I don't have a clue how anything I said manage to convince

> you that this is not a hallucination. But not to worry,

> that conviction of yours is an aspect of the hallucinating.

 

Conviction of 'yours', eh?

 

Like, the conviction that something you said managed to convince me that this is

not a hallucination?

 

And yes... that conviction is an aspect of the hallucinating ;-).

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Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch wrote:

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> Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033@> wrote:

> >

> > Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch@> wrote:

> >

> > >

> > > Thanks for telling me what I know, what I don't have to re-learn, and

reminding me that my memory is still operational.

> > >

> > > I guess I'm not your hallucination, after all.

> > >

> > > That's good to know ;-).

> >

> >

> > D: I don't have a clue how anything I said manage to convince

> > you that this is not a hallucination. But not to worry,

> > that conviction of yours is an aspect of the hallucinating.

>

> Conviction of 'yours', eh?

>

> Like, the conviction that something you said managed to convince me that this

is not a hallucination?

>

> And yes... that conviction is an aspect of the hallucinating ;-).

 

 

So after all you've said about " you, " you're going to bring in

 

" yours " and put it in quotes????

 

 

 

Who do you think I'm talking to when I say " you " ????

 

 

 

Duh!

 

 

- Dan -

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Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033 wrote:

>

> Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch@> wrote:

> >

> > Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch@> wrote:

> > >

> > > >

> > > > Thanks for telling me what I know, what I don't have to re-learn, and

reminding me that my memory is still operational.

> > > >

> > > > I guess I'm not your hallucination, after all.

> > > >

> > > > That's good to know ;-).

> > >

> > >

> > > D: I don't have a clue how anything I said manage to convince

> > > you that this is not a hallucination. But not to worry,

> > > that conviction of yours is an aspect of the hallucinating.

> >

> > Conviction of 'yours', eh?

> >

> > Like, the conviction that something you said managed to convince me that

this is not a hallucination?

> >

> > And yes... that conviction is an aspect of the hallucinating ;-).

>

>

> So after all you've said about " you, " you're going to bring in

>

> " yours " and put it in quotes????

>

>

>

> Who do you think I'm talking to when I say " you " ????

>

>

>

> Duh!

>

>

> - Dan -

 

Well, who do you think *I'm* talking to?

 

Heck, I say we dispense with the word 'you' altogether... it's outlived it's

usefulness.

 

Everyone refers to themselves as " I " , so why not just use " I " instead?

 

" Would I like to go to the store with me " ?

" Sure! "

;-).

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Nisargadatta , " fewtch " <fewtch wrote:

 

>

> Well, who do you think *I'm* talking to?

>

> Heck, I say we dispense with the word 'you' altogether... it's outlived it's

usefulness.

>

> Everyone refers to themselves as " I " , so why not just use " I " instead?

>

> " Would I like to go to the store with me " ?

> " Sure! "

> ;-).

 

Rastafarians say, " I and I go to the store. "

 

Maybe that's what happen when you smoke tons of pot every day.

 

 

- D -

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Nisargadatta , " dan330033 " <dan330033 wrote:

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> > Everyone refers to themselves as " I " , so why not just use " I "

> > instead?

> >

> > " Would I like to go to the store with me " ?

> > " Sure! "

> > ;-).

>

> Rastafarians say, " I and I go to the store. "

>

> Maybe that's what happen when you smoke tons of pot every day.

>

>

> - D -

 

Smoking pot made them steal my idea!

 

Durn it!

 

Mad reefer junkies! ;-).

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