Guest guest Posted April 16, 2006 Report Share Posted April 16, 2006 Nisargadatta , epston wrote: > > L.E: A good example of very bad teaching and advice. > Read it carefully. His ideas are very negative and hostile to well-being. > > Larry Epston *To you* perhaps that is the way it seems. I suggest, however, that you will have difficulty finding others to concur. Bill > In a message dated 4/16/2006 4:14:39 AM Pacific Daylight Time, > wwoehr writes: > > > > > " Love is not a thing of the mind, is it? Love is not merely the > > sexual act, is it? Love is something which the mind can not possibly > > conceive. Love is something which cannot be formulated. And without > > love, you become related; without love, you marry. Then, in that > > marriage, you " adjust yourselves " to each other. Lovely phrase! You > > adjust yourselves to each other, which is again an intellectual > > process, is it not? . . . This adjustment is obviously a mental > > process. All adjustments are. But, surely, love is incapable of > > adjustment. You know, sirs, don't you, that if you love another, > > there is no " adjustment. " There is only complete fusion. Only when > > there is no love do we begin to adjust. And this adjustment is called > > marriage. Hence, marriage fails, because it is the very source of > > conflict, a battle between two people. It is an extraordinarily > > complex problem, like all problems, but more so because the > > appetites, the urges, are so strong. So, a mind which is merely > > adjusting itself can never be chaste. A mind which is seeking > > happiness through sex can never be chaste. Though you may momentarily > > have, in that act, self-abnegation, self-forgetfulness, the very > > pursuit of that happiness, which is of the mind, makes the mind > > unchaste. Chastity comes into being only where there is love. " > > > > " Love Is Incapable of Adjustment " - The Book of Life (April 16) > > > > http://www.jkrishnamurti.org/index.php? > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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