Guest guest Posted August 3, 2006 Report Share Posted August 3, 2006 I wrote this " plan " few days back. *Rubi is the name of my wife. ----- I want to fight with Rubi everyday. I want to fight with Rubi every night. I want to fight with Rubi every morning. I want to fight with Rubi every evening. I want to fight with Rubi every hour. I want to fight with Rubi every time I talk to her. I want to fight with Rubi when I am close to her. I want to fight with Rubi when I am away from her. I want to fight with Rubi when I call her on phone. I want to fight with Rubi in front of children. I want to fight with Rubi in front of friends. I want to fight with Rubi in front of family. I want whole world to know that I fight with Rubi. I look forward to fight with Rubi. I am excited that I get to fight with Rubi. I am eager to fight with Rubi. I am so happy that I fight with Rubi. I love to fight with Rubi. Oh God, I really want to fight with Rubi. ---- When I am perfectly clear; " what is " is what I want! ~ Katie Unhappiness is the distance between " what is " and " what I want " ! ~Anonymous Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2006 Report Share Posted August 4, 2006 GuruRatings , " adithya_comming " <adithya_comming wrote: > > [...] > > > > > > It is true that I have been afraid of > > my wife [i think to some extent, I have > > some of this " fear " even now] > > > > I wrote this " plan " few days back. > > *Rubi is the name of my wife. > > > ----- > > > I want to fight with Rubi everyday. > After writing down these thoughts, I realized that... - I did indeed enjoy fighting with Rubi. That I indeed had no " real " problem in fighting with Rubi. - That " I hated fighting with Rubi " and that " It is very painful to fight with Rubi " or that " it was " wrong " to fight with Rubi in front of children " was just an " idea " and nothing else. This was an idea that created unnecessary pain and suffering. Even fighting in front of children was at least " educational " in the sense that it could possibly teach them what not to do. Other thing was that, after doing this " exercise " , and, I realizing that how much in fact I really enjoy fighting with Rubi and how sexy, attractive and lovely I find her in spite of frequent fights - and, after getting whole-heartedly ready to fight with her again and again - I haven't had any " real " fight with her! It has been only two days and but, even that is quite " rare " in our history together. Third and Most Important thing that I realized was: - Fear of Rubi has hurt me [and, possibly Rubi too] far more than what Rubi has ever done by herself. Have you ever had any experience like this? > I look forward to fight with Rubi. > > > I love to fight with Rubi. > > > ---- > > When I am perfectly clear; " what is " is what I want! > > ~ Katie > > > Unhappiness is the distance between " what is " and " what I want " ! > > ~Anonymous Happiness and Peace need not be brought from somewhere. Only the noise of unhappy thoughts need be removed in order to realize the happiness that is naturally present. ~Anonymous > > > > > Have you known any " suffering " which > > is not linked to any " fear " ? > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2006 Report Share Posted August 4, 2006 Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming " <adithya_comming wrote: > > I wrote this " plan " few days back. > > *Rubi is the name of my wife. > > > ----- > > > I want to fight with Rubi everyday. > > I want to fight with Rubi every night. > > I want to fight with Rubi every morning. > > I want to fight with Rubi every evening. > > I want to fight with Rubi every hour. > > I want to fight with Rubi every time I talk to her. > > I want to fight with Rubi when I am close to her. > > I want to fight with Rubi when I am away from her. > > I want to fight with Rubi when I call her on phone. > > I want to fight with Rubi in front of children. > > I want to fight with Rubi in front of friends. > > I want to fight with Rubi in front of family. > > I want whole world to know that I fight with Rubi. > > > I look forward to fight with Rubi. > > I am excited that I get to fight with Rubi. > > I am eager to fight with Rubi. > > I am so happy that I fight with Rubi. > > I love to fight with Rubi. > > Oh God, I really want to fight with Rubi. > > > > ---- > > When I am perfectly clear; " what is " is what I want! > > ~ Katie > > > Unhappiness is the distance between " what is " and " what I want " ! > > ~Anonymous > not to contradict you because contradiction is fascination. but have you tried sticking to all affirming mantras exclusively, without irony? that simplicity is awesome. i STILL don't have a handle on it. .... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2006 Report Share Posted August 4, 2006 Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming " <adithya_comming wrote: > > GuruRatings , " adithya_comming " > <adithya_comming@> wrote: > > > > [...] > > > > > > > > > > It is true that I have been afraid of > > > my wife [i think to some extent, I have > > > some of this " fear " even now] > > > > > > > > I wrote this " plan " few days back. > > > > *Rubi is the name of my wife. > > > > > > ----- > > > > > > I want to fight with Rubi everyday. > > > > > > After writing down these thoughts, I realized that... > > - I did indeed enjoy fighting with Rubi. > That I indeed had no " real " problem in fighting with Rubi. > > - That " I hated fighting with Rubi " and that > " It is very painful to fight with Rubi " or that > " it was " wrong " to fight with Rubi in front of > children " was just an " idea " and nothing else. > > This was an idea that created unnecessary pain > and suffering. > > > Even fighting in front of children was at least > " educational " in the sense that it could possibly > teach them what not to do. > > > Other thing was that, after doing this " exercise " , > and, I realizing that how much in fact I really enjoy > fighting with Rubi and how sexy, attractive and lovely > I find her in spite of frequent fights - and, after > getting whole-heartedly ready to fight with her again > and again - I haven't had any " real " fight with her! > It has been only two days and but, even that is > quite " rare " in our history together. > > > Third and Most Important thing that I realized was: > > - Fear of Rubi has hurt me [and, possibly Rubi too] > far more than what Rubi has ever done by herself. > > > > Have you ever had any experience like this? > > > > > I look forward to fight with Rubi. > > > > > > I love to fight with Rubi. > > > > > > ---- > > > > When I am perfectly clear; " what is " is what I want! > > > > ~ Katie > > > > > > Unhappiness is the distance between " what is " and " what I want " ! > > > > ~Anonymous > > > Happiness and Peace need not be brought from somewhere. Only the > noise of unhappy thoughts need be removed in order to realize the > happiness that is naturally present. > > ~Anonymous > > > > > > > > > > > Have you known any " suffering " which > > > is not linked to any " fear " ? > > > > > > absolutely experience this! are you kidding? i would offer S P A C E until the pleasure of p e a c e has so thoroughly saturated every cell of you body and b e i n g that the very thought of anger, fear and fighting is a distant memory, a joke, a cute and curious toy. .... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2006 Report Share Posted August 4, 2006 Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming " <adithya_comming wrote: > > I wrote this " plan " few days back. > > *Rubi is the name of my wife. > > > ----- > > > I want to fight with Rubi everyday. > > I want to fight with Rubi every night. > > I want to fight with Rubi every morning. > > I want to fight with Rubi every evening. > > I want to fight with Rubi every hour. > > I want to fight with Rubi every time I talk to her. > > I want to fight with Rubi when I am close to her. > > I want to fight with Rubi when I am away from her. > > I want to fight with Rubi when I call her on phone. > > I want to fight with Rubi in front of children. > > I want to fight with Rubi in front of friends. > > I want to fight with Rubi in front of family. > > I want whole world to know that I fight with Rubi. > > > I look forward to fight with Rubi. > > I am excited that I get to fight with Rubi. > > I am eager to fight with Rubi. > > I am so happy that I fight with Rubi. > > I love to fight with Rubi. > > Oh God, I really want to fight with Rubi. They say, Rubi you're like a dream Not always what you seem And though my heart may break when I awake Let it be so, I only know Rubi, it's you They say, Rubi you're like a song You just don't know right from wrong And in your eyes I see heartaches for me Right from the start, who stole my heart? Rubi, it's you I hear your voice and I must come to you (must come to you) I have no choice, so what else can I do ? (what else can I do?) They say, Rubi you're like a flame Into my life you came And though I should beware, still I just don't care You thrill me so, I only know Rubi, it's you (I hear your voice and I must come to you) (I have no choice, what else can I do ?-what can I do?) They say, Rubi you're like a flame Into my life you came And though I should beware, still I don't care You thrill me so, I only know Rubi, it's you OK it's really 'Ruby'....but if you listen to Ray Charles' version of this tune........you'll cry. > > When I am perfectly clear; " what is " is what I want! > > ~ Katie > > > Unhappiness is the distance between " what is " and " what I want " ! > > ~Anonymous > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2006 Report Share Posted August 4, 2006 Nisargadatta , " skywhilds " <skywords wrote: > > Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming " > <adithya_comming@> wrote: > > > > I wrote this " plan " few days back. > > > > *Rubi is the name of my wife. > > > > > > ----- > > > > > > I want to fight with Rubi everyday. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi every night. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi every morning. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi every evening. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi every hour. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi every time I talk to her. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi when I am close to her. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi when I am away from her. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi when I call her on phone. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi in front of children. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi in front of friends. > > > > I want to fight with Rubi in front of family. > > > > I want whole world to know that I fight with Rubi. > > > > > > I look forward to fight with Rubi. > > > > I am excited that I get to fight with Rubi. > > > > I am eager to fight with Rubi. > > > > I am so happy that I fight with Rubi. > > > > I love to fight with Rubi. > > > > Oh God, I really want to fight with Rubi. > > > > > > > > ---- > > > > When I am perfectly clear; " what is " is what I want! > > > > ~ Katie > > > > > > Unhappiness is the distance between " what is " and " what I want " ! > > > > ~Anonymous > > > > > not to contradict you > > because contradiction is fascination. > > but have you tried sticking to > > all affirming mantras > > exclusively, without irony? > > that simplicity is > > awesome. > > i STILL don't have a handle on it. > > > > ... c'mon sky guy...you may not have a handle on it, but you have a pretty good grip on it....in fact, it's AMAZING at times how well you can hold on to it.....and enviable sometimes too! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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