In the root of every thought... there is a purpose.

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Every thought has a " root " . Examination

of the thought is the process of

'digging' into the thought to find that

root.

 

In the Very " root " of every thought is

an 'intention'... a 'purpose'.

 

 

This purpose is more often than not is a

'noble' one! Many of our thoughts that

look very problematic and stressful on

the surface are in fact have their root

in our kindness and love!

 

It is only due to the unawareness of

this " root " purpose [at the conscious

level] that the thoughts get often

distorted. Once we see it's " root " we

are then able to truly judge where our

'surface' thought and its resultant

acts are the 'optimum' way to serve

that purpose.

 

Once we become TRULY Aware of our

purpose - we can also SEE what is the

optimum way of realizing that purpose and,

by doing that we often get out of the

" thought cycle " that might look very

'vicious' and 'complex' on the surface.

 

 

 

 

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Consider following example:

 

Reality: I snapped at my wife.

 

Reality: I am frustrated with my wife.

 

Reason: I am angry at my wife because

she repeatedly eats food that makes her

feel bloated and heavy. It generates

too much gas and she gets headache,

heart burns and many other physical

discomforts. I am frustrated that she

keeps doing it everyday.

 

 

Root of the above thought: I want my

wife to feel good [comfortable,

healthy, free, light and energetic].

 

Root of the above thought: I care for

my wife.

 

Root of the above thought: I love my

wife.

 

Root of the above thought: I love.

 

Root of the above thought: Love.

 

 

Through examining my thoughts I become

aware of the root of my 'problematic'

and 'stressful' behavior, thoughts and

words and find that it is in fact my

love for my wife!

 

Reaching that root, I can ask if my

current behavior, action and words are

the most optimum way to express act my

love. The answer would be NO because,

this behavior has repeatedly failed to

achieve the desired result [of

expressing love, or making my wife 'gas

free'] and it has made both I and my

wife feel worse.

 

Reaching that root, I can even " see "

that perhaps, honestly, truthfully,

directly and literally just expressing

my real desire may not be that worse

than what I already do [snap at her]!

For example, I can run her shoulders,

her chest, hold her, hug her when she

feels uncomfortable because expressing

my " love " is my real root desire and

because I " really " want to make her

'comfortable'.

 

And, once she feels little better, I

can simply say; darling, I love you so

much and it gives me great pleasure to

see you comfortable and healthy. It

hurts me when I see you suffering from

headache and other problems because of

the food you eat. If there is a way I

can help you in staying healthy, I

would like to do that if not, I

understand, respect and love the

freedom that you have. I want you to

have that freedom and I want you to

know that I really care for you. I love

you my darling.

 

I can do that and perhaps, its effect

would be far more pleasing to my wife.

My action will be better aligned my

purpose [of expressing love] and I

might feel much better because I KNOW I

am doing what I TRULY want.

 

Yet, I can do it only if I know my

true " root " purpose and I can reach

there only through reexamination of

thoughts and by digging into them until

I find the real Core " purpose " behind

them!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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