Guest guest Posted November 16, 2006 Report Share Posted November 16, 2006 In my experience, thoughts repeat in order to make memory and in order to keep memory fresh and intact. Thoughts that don't repeat; soon, disappear from our memory. And, thoughts repeat only as long as we have a " need " to keep them 'in memory' - possibly, to resolve them later! Example of these 'repeating' [and by 'unresolved'] thoughts would include - 'having to' file taxes, 'having to' finish paperwork, 'having to' meet boss... and, they might also include thoughts of 'what someone did to me', because, I don't think I have yet DONE " enough " to pay him/her back [take my revenge]! That's why, when a murderer gets sentenced to death and execute - victim's families often say it brings 'closure' to the memory of the dead i.e. that particular thought of 'what someone did' is 'resolved' [and thus " released " ] now! Repeating thoughts might also include, 'what I did' to myself or someone else and the reason of their repeat might be because we think we haven't yet " punished " ourselves for having done that, haven't 'paid back' enough to the victims for having caused some damage or because we think we haven't yet fully learned its lessons. Either way, thoughts repeat only because they are not yet completely " resolved " . Thought " I have to file my taxes " or " I have to pay my electricity bill " keeps repeating itself until we taken a real decision by either paying it, or by deciding not to pay it or by setting a fixed time and place to pay it. Once we do that, this thought is " resolved " and thus stops repeating itself. It is my experience that a Very Similar thing happens with other thoughts too! * * * * * Therefore, I think it is good to sit with pen and paper [or computer] and give our full attention to listen, understand, examine and document any thought that keeps repeating itself frequently. It not only works with tax and paperwork kind of thoughts but, in my experience, it works in “resolving” ANY thought that keeps repeating itself! A repeating thought saps our energy and time it keeps occupying Valuable Mental SPACE [Peace Of Mind, Open Awareness]. Resolving such a thought OPENS this SPACE Up once Again! A thought repeats itself only as long as we believe that you need to 'remember' it, we need to 'keep it in memory' because we find its 'lessons' useful for some reason or there is something that 'we want to do' that we still haven't done. It is simply a remainder that keeps reminding us to do 'what we want to do' with it and then allow it to go away. Repeating thought is simply our way to keep it in memory and to keep it fresh. Once we fully examine it, take time to understand it and document it - we end the need of repeating it because we have documented it and thus we can refer to it anytime we want plus by examining it in full details and by taking a 'decision' we resolve and release it! Unless we have 'resolved' a thought, it is my experience that a thought DOES and " should " [for our own sake] keep repeating itself! Sponsored Link Mortgage rates near 39yr lows. $510,000 Mortgage for $1,698/mo - Calculate new house payment Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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