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Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge

wrote:

>

> I liked your posting,

 

 

I am so glad that you liked it Stefan!

 

 

> just one thing I would like to

comment...

 

Sure, Stefan . . .

 

>

> >Use thinking one way and it can

create

> >depression, fear, and anxiety. Use it

> >other way and it can create ecstasy,

> >elation and joy.

>

> is it really possible to chose between

> depression - ecstasy

> fear - elation

> anxiety - joy?

 

If you have planted a mango seed;

 

you may not really be able to " choose " to

pick apples from that plant!

 

If you have planted cactus -

you may not really be able to roses from that

plant!

 

But, simple Awareness of the

'law of nature' can tell you what seeds

grow into which plant and which plan

grows what fruits! And, that Awareness

provide you with guidance for what

seeds to plant and what fruits to

expect from the seeds you have planted.

And, when you plant your 'seeds' with

Awareness - seeds are bound to follow

the law of nature and grow into

corresponding plants bearing

corresponding fruits!

 

Similarly. . .

 

 

One kind of thinking produces one kind

of emotions.

 

One kind of thinking produces one kind

of actions.

 

One kind of action produces one kind

of results.

 

 

A simple observation is all that is

required to understand what kind of

thoughts produce what kind of emotions!

Then, if you plant your seed [of

thought] with that awareness it is

bound to grow in its corresponding

fruit [of action]! However, as long as

the plant of your previous seeds [of

thought] is alive… you are bound to

reap the fruits [of emotions and

actions] of the seed you sowed in past!

There is no " choosing " in that. . .

 

 

 

>

> >But, you can learn which

> >way it hurts and which way it doesn't

> >and thus, learn to use it better. And,

> >again, that is a simple mechanics and

> >it is not necessarily to be spiritual,

> >religious or enlightened in order to

> >observe and understand it.

>

> in my understanding...

> thinking cannot be used

> the " user " is a conglomerate of thoughts

 

 

 

The 'concept' of user is a

" conglomerate of thoughts " but,

not the 'user' itself!

 

 

You, Stefan are not a " conglomerate of

thoughts', Stefan! But, what you might

" think " 'yourself to be'... is!

 

Similarly, what I think of you to be;

is again a " conglomerate of thoughts " -

a " conglomerate of thoughts " possibly

quite different that yours!

 

 

Yet, you are ALWAYS Real...

 

What I think of you is… just a concept;

but, that 'concept' is NEVER the real

user!

 

 

> therefore thinking using thinking

> is like a cat biting its tail

 

It is not really possible for

" thinking " to " use " thinking but,

 

yes it is possible for the THINKER to

think that " thinking is using thinking " -

but, then, that is just " confused " thinking!

 

And, every THINKER does have the ability to

have confused thinking!

 

 

Yet, the THINKER is Always Real!

 

 

>

> to use thinking

> cannot lead to no-thinking

 

 

It surely can. . .

 

One of its effects is called " exhaustion " . . . leading to 'no-

thinking'

 

Other is called 'surrender'. . . leading to 'no-thinking'

 

Other is called 'resolution'. . . leading to 'no-thinking'

 

And, yet other is called Clarity. . . leading to 'no-thinking'

 

 

 

Can thoughts cause Clarity?

 

Yes, they can!

 

 

> no-thinking means not to be the user

 

No-thinking simply means 'no-thinking'!

 

User is ALWAYS there!

 

>

> Stefan

>

 

Regards,

ac

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Hi ac!

 

If I disagree in some points,

it is maybe a different way

of putting things into words

 

letting go of the idea

that anything is more " positive "

than anything else

can be a big, big relief

 

So, I cannot relate to the idea

that I am capable of planting seeds

 

Those seeds and those plants

are presented to me

as they come and go

in the course of time

(once time comes into play)

as processes that take care of themselves

 

here is no thinker

here is just thinking

floating as it floats

happening as it happens

 

You mention:

exhaustion - surrender - resolution

 

those are not actions

nor manipulations

they are related to letting go

into what is

 

I hope this does not sound pathetic

to me it is very simple

a kind of helplessness

 

Greetings

Stefan

 

 

 

Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

<adithya_comming wrote:

>

> Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge@>

> wrote:

> >

> > I liked your posting,

>

>

> I am so glad that you liked it Stefan!

>

>

> > just one thing I would like to

> comment...

>

> Sure, Stefan . . .

>

> >

> > >Use thinking one way and it can

> create

> > >depression, fear, and anxiety. Use it

> > >other way and it can create ecstasy,

> > >elation and joy.

> >

> > is it really possible to chose between

> > depression - ecstasy

> > fear - elation

> > anxiety - joy?

>

>If you have planted a mango seed;

>

>you may not really be able to " choose " to

>pick apples from that plant!

>

>If you have planted cactus -

>you may not really be able to roses from that

>plant!

>

>But, simple Awareness of the

>'law of nature' can tell you what seeds

>grow into which plant and which plan

>grows what fruits! And, that Awareness

>provide you with guidance for what

>seeds to plant and what fruits to

>expect from the seeds you have planted.

>And, when you plant your 'seeds' with

>Awareness - seeds are bound to follow

>the law of nature and grow into

>corresponding plants bearing

>corresponding fruits!

>

>Similarly. . .

>

>

>One kind of thinking produces one kind

>of emotions.

>

>One kind of thinking produces one kind

>of actions.

>

>One kind of action produces one kind

>of results.

>

>

>A simple observation is all that is

>required to understand what kind of

>thoughts produce what kind of emotions!

>Then, if you plant your seed [of

>thought] with that awareness it is

>bound to grow in its corresponding

>fruit [of action]! However, as long as

>the plant of your previous seeds [of

>thought] is alive… you are bound to

>reap the fruits [of emotions and

>actions] of the seed you sowed in past!

>There is no " choosing " in that. . .

>

>

>

> >

> > >But, you can learn which

> > >way it hurts and which way it doesn't

> > >and thus, learn to use it better. And,

> > >again, that is a simple mechanics and

> > >it is not necessarily to be spiritual,

> > >religious or enlightened in order to

> > >observe and understand it.

> >

> > in my understanding...

> > thinking cannot be used

> > the " user " is a conglomerate of thoughts

>

>

>

>The 'concept' of user is a

> " conglomerate of thoughts " but,

>not the 'user' itself!

>

>

>You, Stefan are not a " conglomerate of

>thoughts', Stefan! But, what you might

> " think " 'yourself to be'... is!

>

>Similarly, what I think of you to be;

>is again a " conglomerate of thoughts " -

>a " conglomerate of thoughts " possibly

>quite different that yours!

>

>

>Yet, you are ALWAYS Real...

>

>What I think of you is… just a concept;

>but, that 'concept' is NEVER the real

>user!

>

>

> > therefore thinking using thinking

> > is like a cat biting its tail

>

>It is not really possible for

> " thinking " to " use " thinking but,

>

>yes it is possible for the THINKER to

>think that " thinking is using thinking " -

>but, then, that is just " confused " thinking!

>

>And, every THINKER does have the ability to

>have confused thinking!

>

>

>Yet, the THINKER is Always Real!

>

>

> >

> > to use thinking

> > cannot lead to no-thinking

>

>

>It surely can. . .

>

>One of its effects is called " exhaustion " . . . leading to 'no-

>thinking'

>

>Other is called 'surrender'. . . leading to 'no-thinking'

>

>Other is called 'resolution'. . . leading to 'no-thinking'

>

>And, yet other is called Clarity. . . leading to 'no-thinking'

>

>

>

>Can thoughts cause Clarity?

>

>Yes, they can!

>

>

>> no-thinking means not to be the user

>

>No-thinking simply means 'no-thinking'!

>

>User is ALWAYS there!

>

> >

> > Stefan

> >

>

> Regards,

> ac

>

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Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge

wrote:

>

> Hi ac!

>

> If I disagree in some points,

> it is maybe a different way

> of putting things into words

>

> letting go of the idea

> that anything is more " positive "

> than anything else

> can be a big, big relief

 

So what is this 'big, big relief " ???

 

Is this something " positive " ,

something 'desirable' that you find Good???

 

 

>

> So, I cannot relate to the idea

> that I am capable of planting seeds

 

Are you 'capable' of reading and comprehending

these words and then to think and respond???

 

If yes, you are 'capable' of it!

 

If not, why are you 'kidding' yourself???

 

Are you capable of 'philosophical' discussion

would you do it even it goes against the readily

apparent proof?

 

 

>

> Those seeds and those plants

> are presented to me

 

Sure, I [or God] is 'forcing' them down

your throat ;)

 

 

> as they come and go

> in the course of time

 

Without having anything to do with " you " -

just like my reply to your message! 'Philosphy'

can INDEED make for very Strange Discussions!

 

 

> (once time comes into play)

> as processes that take care of themselves

 

Sure, as your 'response' to this message

will 'take care of itself' ;)

 

 

>

> here is no thinker

> here is just thinking

 

That sounds too " absurd " to me ;)

But, it can surely serve many 'non dual'

discussions ;)

 

 

> floating as it floats

> happening as it happens

 

Sure and your neighbor's wife just gets pregnant - it just HAPPENED!

 

If this is what 'non duality' teaches

then, it must be among the most deluded

philosophy man has ever thought - but, luckily,

this is NOT what nonduality teaches!

 

 

>

> You mention:

> exhaustion - surrender - resolution

>

> those are not actions

> nor manipulations

 

Yes, and, you neigbour's wife just got pregnant!

 

 

> they are related to letting go

> into what is

 

Why bother with 'letting go of' anything

if you are really 'not interested' in any " positive "

or " negative " ???

 

 

Or, are you simply repeating what some 'non dual'

'experts' taught you?

 

 

>

> I hope this does not sound pathetic

> to me it is very simple

> a kind of helplessness

 

To me, it is simple case of " confused "

by ignoring many Readily Available proofs

to the contrary!

 

I feel sorry if anyone can really

interpret 'nonduality' to be this way!

 

 

>

> Greetings

> Stefan

>

 

 

 

PS: Sorry for many unkind words in my

message and sorry for the overall cruel

tone of my message!

 

Or, should I just say that message 'just happens',

I am not the doer and there is nothing " positive "

and " negative " , nothing kind or unkind, polite

or disrespectful ;)?;)

 

But, then, I am not so keen

on sounding too 'non dual'!

Day-to-day manifest Reality

is good enough for me! So,

sorry for any unkind remarks

in the message!

 

Bye,

ac

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Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

<adithya_comming wrote:

 

>So what is this 'big, big relief " ???

>

>Is this something " positive " ,

>something 'desirable' that you find Good???

 

It is not the acquirement of something.

The relief marks the end of all false.

 

Greetings

Stefan

 

(sorry if I have difficulties to make myself more clear

or understandable)

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Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge wrote:

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>It is not the acquirement of something.

>The relief marks the end of all false.

 

What I mean:

the relief is the point from where

you do not want to change anything

anymore...

 

I think it is our judgment

" this is good " - " this is bad "

which creates the situation

in which we feel that we have to take action

in order to change this very situation.

 

So, we try to change something

but ignore that the attitude of changing

is the cause of that

what we fight

 

It is like trying to wash blood with blood.

 

When we plan to plant good seeds

to let them grow to pleasant situations

How do we know which seeds are good

which seeds are bad?

 

We know it through our judgment only.

 

Planting a good seed

with good intentions

may cause all kind of side effects

which are not good at all

or may create suffering for others

 

When I give up all judgment

I observe that all growing processes

(in the course of time)

do happen naturally

 

This includes writing this posting

and receiving your answer.

 

Greetings

Stefan

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Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge wrote:

>

> Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge@> wrote:

> >

> >It is not the acquirement of something.

> >The relief marks the end of all false.

>

> What I mean:

> the relief is the point from where

> you do not want to change anything

> anymore...

>

> I think it is our judgment

> " this is good " - " this is bad "

> which creates the situation

> in which we feel that we have to take action

> in order to change this very situation.

>

> So, we try to change something

> but ignore that the attitude of changing

> is the cause of that

> what we fight

>

> It is like trying to wash blood with blood.

>

> When we plan to plant good seeds

> to let them grow to pleasant situations

> How do we know which seeds are good

> which seeds are bad?

>

> We know it through our judgment only.

>

> Planting a good seed

> with good intentions

> may cause all kind of side effects

> which are not good at all

> or may create suffering for others

>

> When I give up all judgment

> I observe that all growing processes

> (in the course of time)

> do happen naturally

>

> This includes writing this posting

> and receiving your answer.

>

> Greetings

> Stefan

 

 

 

Hi Stefan,

 

Good to see you, AC, Dan,

and Silver, and the exalted bobby baba

trying to harmmer Jello into a sword. This

is something of a dull knife I wrote for

another list, and that might cut the mustar

here:

 

The greed to control our life,

our experiences, our very consciousness

seems stronger in us. After all, some people

kill themselves when life's conditions become. in

their view, intolerable.

 

So, IMO is this greed to control which is the mother

of all vasanas, and of course, the will to destroy all

vasanas, is also the operation of this greed to control.

As long as this greed to control is operating there is a

division between what is, and what should be.

 

So, attachment is a vasana. If someone breaks my favorite X,

I can become angry, and then feel bad because I'm angry,

and then try

to control the anger, and then realize I'm attached to not being

angry, and further, I'm attached to control my states of mind.

 

What happens when this constant controlling posture is seen

as a separation from the now, as an effort to try to change the

now into an ideal future? Is this possible? Can this instant be

changed at will? Or will it change on its own regardless of our

actions? What will happen if all these is clearly seen, without

trying to fight any of it? How will that moment be? Would there

be a me judging, then?

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Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge

wrote:

>

> Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge@>

wrote:

> >

> >It is not the acquirement of something.

> >The relief marks the end of all false.

>

> What I mean:

> the relief is the point from where

> you do not want to change anything

> anymore...

 

 

You don't have any such choice ;)

 

Change and wanting to change are 'constant'

part of the flow of life! The can 'rest'

for a moment - but, they never really stop!

 

 

 

>

> I think it is our judgment

> " this is good " - " this is bad "

 

'Judgment' is the integral part of human

thinking as well as animal 'living'. It

can not be given up - it is intrinsic

to who we are. Even our cells, our immune

system use judgment to decide what is friend

and foe, what is good or bad. It is part of our 'design'!

 

 

> which creates the situation

> in which we feel that we have to take action

> in order to change this very situation.

 

Taking action too is integral part of human life!

 

>

> So, we try to change something

> but ignore that the attitude of changing

> is the cause of that

> what we fight

 

That happens only as long as we are unaware of the

'law of nature' in action - like when try to put

out fire by throwing kerosene in it. But, with

little observation, intelligence and awareness

we learn that water works to slow down or extinguish most fires!

 

>

> It is like trying to wash blood with blood.

 

Yes, unawareness can be like that. Little knowledge and

awareness can easily point you to the soap and water ;}

 

>

> When we plan to plant good seeds

> to let them grow to pleasant situations

> How do we know which seeds are good

> which seeds are bad?

 

With observation and intelligence! How do you decide

to feed your kids Alcohol or Milk? How do you choose

between the two? What you ask your kids to read -

Porn or Science? How do you choose between the two?

 

Or, are you telling me that you are totally dysfunctional

and have no ability to choose between Alcohol and Milk

[for a kid] and Porn and Science ;)?;)

 

I know many folks do use [fake] 'no duality'

to force themselves to think and act in dysfunctional

way ;) I hope you don't do that! I know you are

an intelligent person but, I also know that any

intelligent person can force himself to 'stupidity'!

And, frankly, way some folks try to 'interpret',

use and force themselves to think of 'non duality'... is Plain

Stupid!

 

 

 

 

>

> We know it through our judgment only.

 

Sure…

 

>

> Planting a good seed

> with good intentions

> may cause all kind of side effects

> which are not good at all

 

And, so...???

 

Do you cook your soup in your " pee " ?

 

Or, do you cook it in good clean water?

 

 

 

> or may create suffering for others

>

> When I give up all judgment

 

That is not possible ;)

[unless you became a totally dysfunctional human -

but, in such case you might attempt to eat 'shit'!

It is only your good 'judgment' that asks you to

eat bread and butter and not shit!]

 

 

Temporary suspension is possible, but STOP is not possible!

 

> I observe that all growing processes

> (in the course of time)

> do happen naturally

 

Including " thinking " and " judgment " ;)?;)

 

Or, does this " natural " process excludes... " thinking "

and " judgment " ???

 

 

>

> This includes writing this posting

> and receiving your answer.

 

Sure, please accept my " naturally " occurring apologies

for my unkind words and remarks that might have

" naturally " occurred in my message ;)

 

[Was that 'fake' [non dual] enough ;)?;)]

 

>

> Greetings

> Stefan

>

 

Be Well [and be sure to turn ON the light

without thinking what kind of 'suffering'

your turning light might cause to whom and where;)],

 

ac

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Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

<adithya_comming wrote:

 

>>When we plan to plant good seeds

>>to let them grow to pleasant situations

>>How do we know which seeds are good

>>which seeds are bad?

>

>With observation and intelligence! How do you decide

>to feed your kids Alcohol or Milk? How do you choose

>between the two? What you ask your kids to read -

>Porn or Science? How do you choose between the two?

 

AC, as I recall,

we were talking about " planting seeds " by

" thinking the right thoughts " .

 

The way I understand you

you say it is possible to become " enlightened "

(or more happy?)

by deliberately thinking the right thoughts

which you later described as

" planting the right seeds " .

 

I am questioning this approach

and I have explained why.

It is not my intention to criticise you

But I like to show my differing opinion

and I hope this is o.k. for you.

 

Now, those personal things you say about me...

Yes, in fact, I am dysfunctional in one sense:

I cannot turn the clock backwards.

But, can you?

 

Like you I take decisions all the time.

They are taken to my best ability

and I trust that they are right.

But I cannot control the results.

 

Maybe I could, if I was able

to turn the clock backwards.

In this case I could adjust my decisions in hindsight

Until they exactly match my intention.

 

Moreover, I do not feel that my life is " fake non duality " .

What does " non-duality " mean to you?

Just like " enlightenment " this sounds kind of...

artificial to me.

 

I am feeling joy and pain,

I have preferences and antipathies

like everyone else.

Is this not natural?

 

I just find it remarkable that

those things are coming and going

and I cannot fundamentally change them!!!

They change along with everything else,

inevitably!!!

 

I can move only forward (in course of time)

along with everything.

All which is to my disposal

is this moment.

 

What can one do with one moment,

Can it be caught and controlled?

No! But it can be danced.

It can be sung and played.

 

AC, just once again,

and then you can make out of it

whatever you want:

I do not think that it is possible

for the mind to program itself

to perfection.

 

When I am unhappy with my thoughts

I do not use my thoughts to get rid of my thoughts.

For me (!) this does not work.

I have tried long time.

I feel it is like washing blood with blood,

as Nisargadatta has said it.

I prefer clean water.

 

Greetings

Stefan

 

 

 

 

>And, frankly, way some folks try to 'interpret',

>use and force themselves to think of 'non duality'... is Plain

>Stupid!

 

I do not think that we should try to plant seeds

in our mind

in order to become enlightened...

thats all.

 

>That is not possible ;)

>[unless you became a totally dysfunctional human -

>but, in such case you might attempt to eat 'shit'!

>It is only your good 'judgment' that asks you to

>eat bread and butter and not shit!]

 

Taking decisions does not mean judgment

I do

>

>

> Temporary suspension is possible, but STOP is not possible!

>

> > I observe that all growing processes

> > (in the course of time)

> > do happen naturally

>

> Including " thinking " and " judgment " ;)?;)

>

> Or, does this " natural " process excludes... " thinking "

> and " judgment " ???

>

>

> >

> > This includes writing this posting

> > and receiving your answer.

>

> Sure, please accept my " naturally " occurring apologies

> for my unkind words and remarks that might have

> " naturally " occurred in my message ;)

>

> [Was that 'fake' [non dual] enough ;)?;)]

>

> >

> > Greetings

> > Stefan

> >

>

>Be Well [and be sure to turn ON the light

>without thinking what kind of 'suffering'

>your turning light might cause to whom and where;)],

>

> ac

>

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Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge

wrote:

>

> Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

> <adithya_comming@> wrote:

>

> >>When we plan to plant good seeds

> >>to let them grow to pleasant situations

> >>How do we know which seeds are good

> >>which seeds are bad?

> >

> >With observation and intelligence! How do you decide

> >to feed your kids Alcohol or Milk? How do you choose

> >between the two? What you ask your kids to read -

> >Porn or Science? How do you choose between the two?

>

> AC, as I recall,

> we were talking about " planting seeds " by

> " thinking the right thoughts " .

 

I wouldn't call them " right " thoughts just like I wouldn't call

mango seed right and apple seed wrong. I simply ask to observe that

mango tree produces mango fruit and apple produces apple. Similarly

thoughts have their corresponding resultant emotions and actions.

 

 

>

> The way I understand you

> you say it is possible to become " enlightened "

> (or more happy?)

> by deliberately thinking the right thoughts

 

I am certainly not saying that one would become " enlightened " by

thinking a particular kind of thought! Or, maybe, you will… as

Ramana talks about inquiring into Who Am I or holding the I or

Abiding as the Meditator . But, that is not what I am saying here.

 

Happy and sad - yes, one kind of thoughts can produce happiness and

sadness!

 

> which you later described as

> " planting the right seeds " .

 

Again, it is not about " right " or " wrong " - it is about what we

unknowingly or unknowingly " sow " , we usually reap!

 

>

> I am questioning this approach

> and I have explained why.

 

But, as we have discovered, perhaps, you understood me little

differently that how I intended.

 

 

> It is not my intention to criticize you

 

I don't think you are criticizing me. ONTOH… I am surely being very

critical to cruel to what I consider 'fake' 'non duality' which I

see being used quite dishonestly to either win useless arguments or

to " hide " away from the 'apparent' 'difficulties' of real Life!

 

 

> But I like to show my differing opinion

> and I hope this is o.k. for you.

 

It sure is OK with me and even it was not OK with me, it still is

your freedom to do so - it is a public forum, I don't own it and you

are being quite civil, cordial and respectful!

 

 

>

> Now, those personal things you say about me...

> Yes, in fact, I am dysfunctional in one sense:

> I cannot turn the clock backwards.

> But, can you?

 

I sure can ;)

 

How difficult it is to turn the clock ;)?;) Even my 2 years old son

knows how to do it ;)

 

But, seriously, I am not talking about turning back the clock! On

the contrary, I said in my message that if you have planted mango

seed [in past] that has grown into mango tree - you can not pick

apples from that tree.

 

>

> Like you I take decisions all the time.

 

That is good to know. This I know that you know yourself to be

an 'ordinary' person like me and I am not discussing with

some 'fake' 'non dualist' type ;)

 

 

 

> They are taken to my best ability

> and I trust that they are right.

> But I cannot control the results.

 

And, I am not suggesting that we " control " them!

 

We don't really " control " to make mango seed into mango fruit

bearing tree. We simply plant the seed and with right soil, sun,

water and time nature makes them grow into the tree. We simply

observe, learn and then plant and let nature do what the rest.

 

>

> Maybe I could, if I was able

> to turn the clock backwards.

 

As I mentioned, I am not suggesting that.

 

> In this case I could adjust my decisions in hindsight

> Until they exactly match my intention.

 

As we know, just 'intentions' are not enough! Understanding the 'law

of nature' is far more important and crucial! If because of our

unawareness and lack of understanding; we planted mango seed it is

likely to grow into a mango plant and not an apple tree! All we can

then do is to enjoy the apples and use that knowledge and awareness

for future planting! I am not asking to turn apple into a mango tree

[turning back the clock] - but, in the future, if we want to grow

mangoes, we know which seed not to plant!

 

 

>

> Moreover, I do not feel that my life is " fake non duality " .

 

I am not suggesting that! I don't think anybody's life is 'fake'

or 'real' 'no duality'! No matter what we say, we live in 'duality'!

Fake 'non duality' is simply a hiding place that some of us use in

speech [and thoughts] because we are too afraid to venture

into " real " life or because, we want to convince ourselves and

others of our 'special-i-ness' or, because, we got too attached to

the 'comforts' and supreme 'pleasures' of 'not thinking'!

 

I have done all of that myself at number of occasions and for many

months and thus I am 'intimately' familiar with this territory!

 

 

> What does " non-duality " mean to you?

 

A Philosophy...

 

Used one way, it can provide 'experimental' answers to spiritual

questions like:

 

- Who am I?

- Where I came from?

- Where will I go?

- What is my purpose?

- What will happen when I die?

- Who created me?

- What is the universe?

 

 

Used another way,

it can work like opium that you can use to " hide " from the " real "

life as the 'pleasure' and 'comforts' of 'no thinking' might be

supremely more 'pleasurable' than dealing in " real " life

and " thinking " !

 

 

 

> Just like " enlightenment " this sounds kind of...

> artificial to me.

 

Every word can seem 'artificial' or 'real' depending on your

experience with it! Like pain of child birth or menstruation can

seem 'artificial' to me!

 

 

>

> I am feeling joy and pain,

> I have preferences and antipathies

 

That is Great…

 

> like everyone else.

 

INDEED

 

> Is this not natural?

 

I think, it is " natural " !

 

 

>

> I just find it remarkable that

> those things are coming and going

 

Just like seasons…

 

Yet, little more observation can tell you that there is something

that makes seasons change and that there can be something

like 'global warming' that can even change patterns of seasons!

 

 

> and I cannot fundamentally change them!!!

 

Yes and know…

 

Please read above.

 

> They change along with everything else,

> inevitably!!!

 

Please read above.

 

>

> I can move only forward (in course of time)

 

Or, 'non dually' speaking…

 

You do NOT move at all!

 

Yet, things [including the body known as Stefan] change!

 

 

> along with everything.

> All which is to my disposal

> is this moment.

>

> What can one do with one moment,

 

What you want to do?

 

You can make love to a woman.

Have a cup of coffee.

Solve a problem for your boss.

Write a poetry.

Listen to music.

Throw a stone at your neighbor's house.

Watch porn.

Read " how to program in Java " , " how to build web pages " .

 

Or, you can read and answer my mail.

 

 

You have many choices and depending on which one you take - their

outcome might be quite different!

 

 

 

> Can it be caught and controlled?

 

Please read above!

 

> No! But it can be danced.

> It can be sung and played.

 

That sounds quite 'poetic' and… quite 'Meaningless' [in the given

context] ;)

 

 

>

> AC, just once again,

> and then you can make out of it

> whatever you want:

> I do not think that it is possible

> for the mind to program itself

> to perfection.

 

There is no such thing as 'perfection' for any 'living' entity!

 

I am not taking about 'perfection'! I am simply talking about

cooling water to make ice and boiling it to make vapor.

 

 

>

> When I am unhappy with my thoughts

 

Being 'unhappy with thoughts' too... is a thought!

 

 

> I do not use my thoughts to get rid of my thoughts.

 

But, you can!

 

Like when you watch movie... you forget many other thoughts!

 

 

 

> For me (!) this does not work.

 

Or, it does but, you forgot to notice it this time!

 

Think about yellow, white, red roses in full bloom near a lake in a

garden full of green grass under sunny blue sky with some white

clouds!

 

And, you might notice that thinking that thought has made lose

thoughts of 'elephants'!

 

 

> I have tried long time.

 

And, you forgot that it does work ;)?;) Or, did it really not work

the way you initially thought it would?

 

 

> I feel it is like washing blood with blood,

> as Nisargadatta has said it.

 

I don't know what Niz had said in this regard.

 

I will simply recommend using water and soap and not 'falsely'

assume that if blood can not wash blood; the, it can not be washed

at all!

 

> I prefer clean water.

 

Sure and that's what I recommend for washing blood.

 

Yet, when you need 'blood transfusion', blood might work better than

water! That's why I am not talking about 'right' or 'wrong' but,

simply about observing what does what... then, simply plant 'right'

seed for right plant like water for washing and blood for

transfusion. It doesn't mean one is right and other is wrong. It

simply means one does A and other does B!

 

 

 

 

>

> Greetings

> Stefan

>

 

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Nisargadatta , " cerosoul " <pedsie6 wrote:

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> Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge@> wrote:

> >

> > Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge@> wrote:

> > >

> > >It is not the acquirement of something.

> > >The relief marks the end of all false.

> >

> > What I mean:

> > the relief is the point from where

> > you do not want to change anything

> > anymore...

> >

> > I think it is our judgment

> > " this is good " - " this is bad "

> > which creates the situation

> > in which we feel that we have to take action

> > in order to change this very situation.

> >

> > So, we try to change something

> > but ignore that the attitude of changing

> > is the cause of that

> > what we fight

> >

> > It is like trying to wash blood with blood.

> >

> > When we plan to plant good seeds

> > to let them grow to pleasant situations

> > How do we know which seeds are good

> > which seeds are bad?

> >

> > We know it through our judgment only.

> >

> > Planting a good seed

> > with good intentions

> > may cause all kind of side effects

> > which are not good at all

> > or may create suffering for others

> >

> > When I give up all judgment

> > I observe that all growing processes

> > (in the course of time)

> > do happen naturally

> >

> > This includes writing this posting

> > and receiving your answer.

> >

> > Greetings

> > Stefan

>

>

>

> Hi Stefan,

>

> Good to see you, AC, Dan,

> and Silver, and the exalted bobby baba

> trying to harmmer Jello into a sword.

 

 

 

ahhhhhh yes...once again a jewel from the nether parts of the

illusion. but...what the hell is 'harmerring'.....perhaps the noble

minded or the intoxicated(whichever is more suitable) petie can

enlighten us all on this wonderful sounding activity. the baba gives

and he takes away all that has been given...destroys what he has given

issue to...all this and much much more!...he is a REAL sport! but even

the Divine .b bobji baba has his limits in understanding the inanities

sometimes arising from what is supposed to be 'brains' of

nitwits....here we have a sterling example of same. if we get a good

answer petie...some Jello for you today...if not..well no Jello for

you today.

 

 

..b b.b.

 

(The Jello Nazi)

 

 

 

 

>N.N.(or interesting)B.<

 

(but it's good for a laugh fans!)

 

 

 

 

 

 

.... This

> is something of a dull knife I wrote for

> another list, and that might cut the mustar

> here:

>

> The greed to control our life,

> our experiences, our very consciousness

> seems stronger in us. After all, some people

> kill themselves when life's conditions become. in

> their view, intolerable.

>

> So, IMO is this greed to control which is the mother

> of all vasanas, and of course, the will to destroy all

> vasanas, is also the operation of this greed to control.

> As long as this greed to control is operating there is a

> division between what is, and what should be.

>

> So, attachment is a vasana. If someone breaks my favorite X,

> I can become angry, and then feel bad because I'm angry,

> and then try

> to control the anger, and then realize I'm attached to not being

> angry, and further, I'm attached to control my states of mind.

>

> What happens when this constant controlling posture is seen

> as a separation from the now, as an effort to try to change the

> now into an ideal future? Is this possible? Can this instant be

> changed at will? Or will it change on its own regardless of our

> actions? What will happen if all these is clearly seen, without

> trying to fight any of it? How will that moment be? Would there

> be a me judging, then?

>

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<adithya_comming wrote:

 

>I wouldn't call them " right " thoughts just like I wouldn't call

>mango seed right and apple seed wrong. I simply ask to observe that

>mango tree produces mango fruit and apple produces apple. Similarly

>thoughts have their corresponding resultant emotions and actions.

 

You did not call it right or wrong, but you called it positive or

negative. Sorry, but I don't see the difference.

 

I was living very close with depressed people and there I have learned

that it is not helpful to tell them to change their thinking. The

reason for their grief is exactly this: they try, but they cannot

change their thinking. For them it is immensely helpful and healing

when they feel accepted as they are, without on top to their grief

being blamed for the cause of their grief!

 

You go on saying: planting a mango seed leads to a mango tree. Yes,

every farmer knows this! But we are not talking about trees. We talk

about thoughts. And only because it functions this way with trees it

does not mean it functions accordingly with thoughts.

 

It may function your way for a while when you firmly believe that this

is the " law of nature " . Like, if you firmly believe you are

enlightened, you will feel great for a while until reality comes back

in again.

 

But reality is each moment!

What does a " moment " mean for you?

 

>>What can one do with one moment,

>You can make love to a woman.

 

You surely cannot make love to a woman in one moment. It needs a whole

lot of moments. And during this time anything can go wrong. The

husband of the woman can suddenly come home. Or you have a heart

attack. Or there is an earthquake and the house falls down. Moments

over moments, possibilities over possibilities. There is no way to

know it beforehand. This is LIFE. It can NOT be controlled. Nobody is

able to travel back and forth in time to avoid all that is going to

happen.

 

In a nutshell, I feel you do not want to accept the fluctuant nature

of thoughts (and accordingly of our very nature). Maybe you don't

care, o.k.! Wonderful! Maybe I misunderstand you, sure I do! I care

and for me this is not a philosophical discussion at all. It is a very

practical one. When I want to get rid of some thoughts I dance the

moment, I do not think how to not think or how to think better or

whatever. This I meant when I talked about " fresh water " , you see.

 

I hope you also enjoyed this talk a little :-)

 

Greetings

Stefan

 

 

> > It is not my intention to criticize you

>

> I don't think you are criticizing me. ONTOH… I am surely being very

> critical to cruel to what I consider 'fake' 'non duality' which I

> see being used quite dishonestly to either win useless arguments or

> to " hide " away from the 'apparent' 'difficulties' of real Life!

>

>

> > But I like to show my differing opinion

> > and I hope this is o.k. for you.

>

> It sure is OK with me and even it was not OK with me, it still is

> your freedom to do so - it is a public forum, I don't own it and you

> are being quite civil, cordial and respectful!

>

>

> >

> > Now, those personal things you say about me...

> > Yes, in fact, I am dysfunctional in one sense:

> > I cannot turn the clock backwards.

> > But, can you?

>

> I sure can ;)

>

> How difficult it is to turn the clock ;)?;) Even my 2 years old son

> knows how to do it ;)

>

> But, seriously, I am not talking about turning back the clock! On

> the contrary, I said in my message that if you have planted mango

> seed [in past] that has grown into mango tree - you can not pick

> apples from that tree.

>

> >

> > Like you I take decisions all the time.

>

> That is good to know. This I know that you know yourself to be

> an 'ordinary' person like me and I am not discussing with

> some 'fake' 'non dualist' type ;)

>

>

>

> > They are taken to my best ability

> > and I trust that they are right.

> > But I cannot control the results.

>

> And, I am not suggesting that we " control " them!

>

> We don't really " control " to make mango seed into mango fruit

> bearing tree. We simply plant the seed and with right soil, sun,

> water and time nature makes them grow into the tree. We simply

> observe, learn and then plant and let nature do what the rest.

>

> >

> > Maybe I could, if I was able

> > to turn the clock backwards.

>

> As I mentioned, I am not suggesting that.

>

> > In this case I could adjust my decisions in hindsight

> > Until they exactly match my intention.

>

> As we know, just 'intentions' are not enough! Understanding the 'law

> of nature' is far more important and crucial! If because of our

> unawareness and lack of understanding; we planted mango seed it is

> likely to grow into a mango plant and not an apple tree! All we can

> then do is to enjoy the apples and use that knowledge and awareness

> for future planting! I am not asking to turn apple into a mango tree

> [turning back the clock] - but, in the future, if we want to grow

> mangoes, we know which seed not to plant!

>

>

> >

> > Moreover, I do not feel that my life is " fake non duality " .

>

> I am not suggesting that! I don't think anybody's life is 'fake'

> or 'real' 'no duality'! No matter what we say, we live in 'duality'!

> Fake 'non duality' is simply a hiding place that some of us use in

> speech [and thoughts] because we are too afraid to venture

> into " real " life or because, we want to convince ourselves and

> others of our 'special-i-ness' or, because, we got too attached to

> the 'comforts' and supreme 'pleasures' of 'not thinking'!

>

> I have done all of that myself at number of occasions and for many

> months and thus I am 'intimately' familiar with this territory!

>

>

> > What does " non-duality " mean to you?

>

> A Philosophy...

>

> Used one way, it can provide 'experimental' answers to spiritual

> questions like:

>

> - Who am I?

> - Where I came from?

> - Where will I go?

> - What is my purpose?

> - What will happen when I die?

> - Who created me?

> - What is the universe?

>

>

> Used another way,

> it can work like opium that you can use to " hide " from the " real "

> life as the 'pleasure' and 'comforts' of 'no thinking' might be

> supremely more 'pleasurable' than dealing in " real " life

> and " thinking " !

>

>

>

> > Just like " enlightenment " this sounds kind of...

> > artificial to me.

>

> Every word can seem 'artificial' or 'real' depending on your

> experience with it! Like pain of child birth or menstruation can

> seem 'artificial' to me!

>

>

> >

> > I am feeling joy and pain,

> > I have preferences and antipathies

>

> That is Great…

>

> > like everyone else.

>

> INDEED

>

> > Is this not natural?

>

> I think, it is " natural " !

>

>

> >

> > I just find it remarkable that

> > those things are coming and going

>

> Just like seasons…

>

> Yet, little more observation can tell you that there is something

> that makes seasons change and that there can be something

> like 'global warming' that can even change patterns of seasons!

>

>

> > and I cannot fundamentally change them!!!

>

> Yes and know…

>

> Please read above.

>

> > They change along with everything else,

> > inevitably!!!

>

> Please read above.

>

> >

> > I can move only forward (in course of time)

>

> Or, 'non dually' speaking…

>

> You do NOT move at all!

>

> Yet, things [including the body known as Stefan] change!

>

>

> > along with everything.

> > All which is to my disposal

> > is this moment.

> >

 

>

> Or, you can read and answer my mail.

>

>

> You have many choices and depending on which one you take - their

> outcome might be quite different!

>

>

>

> > Can it be caught and controlled?

>

> Please read above!

>

> > No! But it can be danced.

> > It can be sung and played.

>

> That sounds quite 'poetic' and… quite 'Meaningless' [in the given

> context] ;)

>

>

> >

> > AC, just once again,

> > and then you can make out of it

> > whatever you want:

> > I do not think that it is possible

> > for the mind to program itself

> > to perfection.

>

> There is no such thing as 'perfection' for any 'living' entity!

>

> I am not taking about 'perfection'! I am simply talking about

> cooling water to make ice and boiling it to make vapor.

>

>

> >

> > When I am unhappy with my thoughts

>

> Being 'unhappy with thoughts' too... is a thought!

>

>

> > I do not use my thoughts to get rid of my thoughts.

>

> But, you can!

>

> Like when you watch movie... you forget many other thoughts!

>

>

>

> > For me (!) this does not work.

>

> Or, it does but, you forgot to notice it this time!

>

> Think about yellow, white, red roses in full bloom near a lake in a

> garden full of green grass under sunny blue sky with some white

> clouds!

>

> And, you might notice that thinking that thought has made lose

> thoughts of 'elephants'!

>

>

> > I have tried long time.

>

> And, you forgot that it does work ;)?;) Or, did it really not work

> the way you initially thought it would?

>

>

> > I feel it is like washing blood with blood,

> > as Nisargadatta has said it.

>

> I don't know what Niz had said in this regard.

>

> I will simply recommend using water and soap and not 'falsely'

> assume that if blood can not wash blood; the, it can not be washed

> at all!

>

> > I prefer clean water.

>

> Sure and that's what I recommend for washing blood.

>

> Yet, when you need 'blood transfusion', blood might work better than

> water! That's why I am not talking about 'right' or 'wrong' but,

> simply about observing what does what... then, simply plant 'right'

> seed for right plant like water for washing and blood for

> transfusion. It doesn't mean one is right and other is wrong. It

> simply means one does A and other does B!

>

>

>

>

> >

> > Greetings

> > Stefan

> >

>

> […]

>

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>

> Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

> <adithya_comming@> wrote:

>

[…]

 

 

>

> I was living very close with depressed people and there I have

learned

> that it is not helpful to tell them to change their thinking.

 

Are you depressed? Do I need to be careful when talking to you?

 

> The

> reason for their grief is exactly this: they try, but they cannot

> change their thinking.

 

Maybe, because, they are trying it the way that doesn't work ;)?

 

And, maybe, they are stuck in trying the same way again and again ;)?

 

Remember, Edison experimented with many, many substances before

finding one that he could use as a filament in the light bulb!

Maybe, people in general are not that 'scientific' when applying

thoughts!

 

 

[And, BTW... what is 'wrong' with depression???]

 

 

> For them it is immensely helpful and healing

> when they feel accepted as they are, without on top to their grief

> being blamed for the cause of their grief!

 

Sure, it sure can do that to many!

 

And, I am sure some of them might get cured by showing them to

examine their own thinking!

 

>

> You go on saying: planting a mango seed leads to a mango tree. Yes,

> every farmer knows this! But we are not talking about trees. We

talk

> about thoughts.

 

Yes, this I knew ;)

 

> And only because it functions this way with trees it

> does not mean it functions accordingly with thoughts.

 

Have heard of cause and effect or in the example, more like 'seed

and plant'? That is what I am talking about.

 

>

> It may function your way

 

There is no " my " way! There is only 'nature's way' - some I might

understand and some may not! When I don't understand, I am proven

wrong! Yet, nature follows its " law " every time!

 

 

> for a while when you firmly believe that this

> is the " law of nature " .

 

Until I am proven wrong. In which case, I know that my understanding

of the law was incorrect!

 

 

> Like, if you firmly believe you are

> enlightened,

 

'Enlightenment' is not a matter of 'belief'!

 

 

> you will feel great for a while until reality comes back

> in again.

 

Enlightenment doesn't mean 'feeling great'!

 

Enlightenment doesn't mean end of 'feeling bad'!

 

 

>

> But reality is each moment!

> What does a " moment " mean for you?

 

What does it mean to you?

 

I thought you were talking about a fraction of time.

 

>

> >>What can one do with one moment,

> >You can make love to a woman.

>

> You surely cannot make love to a woman in one moment.

 

If you can make it in one billion moments, you can surely make one

billionth of it in a moment - and, then, you can stay for billion

more moments if you want ;)

 

 

> It needs a whole

> lot of moments.

 

Sure… as you and the lady like it ;)

 

> And during this time anything can go wrong.

 

Or, not!

 

> The

> husband of the woman can suddenly come home.

 

I am not necessarily talking about making love to someone else wife

only ;)

 

 

> Or you have a heart

> attack.

 

Or, more likely you won't (based on stats and probability)!

 

But, what are you trying to prove! I am not saying that you are the

Master of the Universe and that you control everything! I am simply

saying that if heat water it is likely to boil and if you cool it it

is likely to freeze! Same thing with thoughts! And, doing that

doen't require you to have super natural powers!

 

 

> Or there is an earthquake and the house falls down. Moments

> over moments, possibilities over possibilities. There is no way to

> know it beforehand. This is LIFE. It can NOT be controlled. Nobody

is

> able to travel back and forth in time to avoid all that is going to

> happen.

>

> In a nutshell, I feel you do not want to accept the fluctuant

nature

> of thoughts (and accordingly of our very nature).

 

What is that fundamental nature of thoughts, Stefan?

 

 

> Maybe you don't

> care, o.k.!

 

I don't know. Again, what is the fundamental nature of thoughts?

 

 

> Wonderful! Maybe I misunderstand you, sure I do! I care

> and for me this is not a philosophical discussion at all. It is a

very

> practical one. When I want to get rid of some thoughts

 

Why do you want to get rid of some thought, Stefan?

 

 

> I dance the

> moment, I do not think how to not think or how to think better or

> whatever.

 

No, you 'dance the moment' ;)

 

But, why? Why do you want to get rid of thoughts?

 

 

> This I meant when I talked about " fresh water " , you see.

>

> I hope you also enjoyed this talk a little :-)

 

I sure did!

 

>

> Greetings

> Stefan

>

 

Greetings,

ac

 

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<adithya_comming wrote:

 

>>In a nutshell, I feel you do not want to accept the fluctuant

>>nature of thoughts (and accordingly of our very nature).

>

>What is that fundamental nature of thoughts, Stefan?

 

I have written: " the *fluctuant* nature of thoughts. "

The nature of thoughts is flux.

 

the laws of nature are not ultimately

determined by cause and result.

Nature behaves sometimes predictable

sometimes chaotic

 

It is futile to control the chaotic part.

It can be a big relief to accept that part.

By accepting the chaotic part I mean:

accepting that we cannot control

the course of events through our thoughts.

 

As far as the predictable part is concerned:

It is equally futile to control it

because it perfectly takes care for itself.

 

All this I mean very practical,

it is something I live and try to share

which I find quite difficult

 

You also wrote:

 

>Enlightenment is not a matter of 'belief'

 

AC, one can " belief " he is enlightened

until reality comes by for a check.

 

>Enlightenment doesn't mean 'feeling great'!

>Enlightenment doesn't mean end of 'feeling bad'!

 

This is exactly what I say.

And therefor I do not understand

why you insist so much

on choosing between good and bad

planting positive thoughts etc...

but - no problem -

I just share my view:

 

For me deliberately planting thoughts

is the same as planting beliefs

But false beliefs function only as long

until reality comes around the corner for a check

 

I call it reality check.

 

Now, tell me more about enlightenment

if you want.

 

Greetings

Stefan

 

 

 

>

> > For them it is immensely helpful and healing

> > when they feel accepted as they are, without on top to their grief

> > being blamed for the cause of their grief!

>

> Sure, it sure can do that to many!

>

> And, I am sure some of them might get cured by showing them to

> examine their own thinking!

>

> >

> > You go on saying: planting a mango seed leads to a mango tree. Yes,

> > every farmer knows this! But we are not talking about trees. We

> talk

> > about thoughts.

>

> Yes, this I knew ;)

>

> > And only because it functions this way with trees it

> > does not mean it functions accordingly with thoughts.

>

> Have heard of cause and effect or in the example, more like 'seed

> and plant'? That is what I am talking about.

>

> >

> > It may function your way

>

> There is no " my " way! There is only 'nature's way' - some I might

> understand and some may not! When I don't understand, I am proven

> wrong! Yet, nature follows its " law " every time!

>

>

> > for a while when you firmly believe that this

> > is the " law of nature " .

>

> Until I am proven wrong. In which case, I know that my understanding

> of the law was incorrect!

>

>

> > Like, if you firmly believe you are

> > enlightened,

>

 

>

>

> >

> > But reality is each moment!

> > What does a " moment " mean for you?

>

> What does it mean to you?

>

> I thought you were talking about a fraction of time.

>

> >

> > >>What can one do with one moment,

> > >You can make love to a woman.

> >

> > You surely cannot make love to a woman in one moment.

>

> If you can make it in one billion moments, you can surely make one

> billionth of it in a moment - and, then, you can stay for billion

> more moments if you want ;)

>

>

> > It needs a whole

> > lot of moments.

>

> Sure… as you and the lady like it ;)

>

> > And during this time anything can go wrong.

>

> Or, not!

>

> > The

> > husband of the woman can suddenly come home.

>

> I am not necessarily talking about making love to someone else wife

> only ;)

>

>

> > Or you have a heart

> > attack.

>

> Or, more likely you won't (based on stats and probability)!

>

> But, what are you trying to prove! I am not saying that you are the

> Master of the Universe and that you control everything! I am simply

> saying that if heat water it is likely to boil and if you cool it it

> is likely to freeze! Same thing with thoughts! And, doing that

> doen't require you to have super natural powers!

>

>

> > Or there is an earthquake and the house falls down. Moments

> > over moments, possibilities over possibilities. There is no way to

> > know it beforehand. This is LIFE. It can NOT be controlled. Nobody

> is

> > able to travel back and forth in time to avoid all that is going to

> > happen.

> >

> > In a nutshell, I feel you do not want to accept the fluctuant

> nature

> > of thoughts (and accordingly of our very nature).

>

> What is that fundamental nature of thoughts, Stefan?

>

>

> > Maybe you don't

> > care, o.k.!

>

> I don't know. Again, what is the fundamental nature of thoughts?

>

>

> > Wonderful! Maybe I misunderstand you, sure I do! I care

> > and for me this is not a philosophical discussion at all. It is a

> very

> > practical one. When I want to get rid of some thoughts

>

> Why do you want to get rid of some thought, Stefan?

>

>

> > I dance the

> > moment, I do not think how to not think or how to think better or

> > whatever.

>

> No, you 'dance the moment' ;)

>

> But, why? Why do you want to get rid of thoughts?

>

>

> > This I meant when I talked about " fresh water " , you see.

> >

> > I hope you also enjoyed this talk a little :-)

>

> I sure did!

>

> >

> > Greetings

> > Stefan

> >

>

> Greetings,

> ac

>

> [...]

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>

> Now, tell me more about enlightenment

> if you want.

 

I think you have been on spiritual

circle long enough to know many

definitions of enlightenment/realization.

Following are few definitions that I like:

 

There is no realization event.

 

Realization is nothing to gain anew.

What is born will also die.

 

All that is required for realization

to happen is to get rid of the thought

that I have not realized Self.

 

 

And, finally:

 

Peace is Realization.

 

 

 

>

> Greetings

> Stefan

>

>

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<adithya_comming wrote:

 

>I think you have been on spiritual

>circle long enough to know many

>definitions of enlightenment/realization.

>Following are few definitions that I like:

 

AC,

 

was it of any use for your own enlightenment

to know about those definitions?

 

Stefan

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Nisargadatta , " Stefan " <s.petersilge wrote:

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> Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

> <adithya_comming@> wrote:

>

> >I think you have been on spiritual

> >circle long enough to know many

> >definitions of enlightenment/realization.

> >Following are few definitions that I like:

>

> AC,

>

> was it of any use for your own enlightenment

> to know about those definitions?

>

> Stefan

>

 

It has same use that the definition of anything else

such as making love, eating, drinking or thirst, hunger

and satisfaction does!

 

i.e. knowing definition serves in " communication " !

 

Else, you might be hungry and may not be able to

communicate your need to another. You might want

to make love, but may not have a 'word' to communicate

your itentions!

 

 

Regards,

ac

 

 

Y

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Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

<adithya_comming wrote:

 

Stefan:

> > AC,

> >

> > was it of any use for your own enlightenment

> > to know about those definitions?

> >

> > Stefan

> >

>

> It has same use that the definition of anything else

> such as making love, eating, drinking or thirst, hunger

> and satisfaction does!

>

> i.e. knowing definition serves in " communication " !

>

> Else, you might be hungry and may not be able to

> communicate your need to another. You might want

> to make love, but may not have a 'word' to communicate

> your intentions!

 

Are you saying that you would not have been

able to become enlightened if you would have

not known those definitions of enlightenment?

 

Stefan

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> Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

> <adithya_comming@> wrote:

>

> Stefan:

> > > AC,

> > >

> > > was it of any use for your own enlightenment

> > > to know about those definitions?

> > >

> > > Stefan

> > >

> >

> > It has same use that the definition of anything else

> > such as making love, eating, drinking or thirst, hunger

> > and satisfaction does!

> >

> > i.e. knowing definition serves in " communication " !

> >

> > Else, you might be hungry and may not be able to

> > communicate your need to another. You might want

> > to make love, but may not have a 'word' to communicate

> > your intentions!

>

> Are you saying that you would not have been

> able to become enlightened if you would have

> not known those definitions of enlightenment?

>

> Stefan

 

 

How did you manage to comprehend that

from the above???

 

As I said before,

" knowing definition serves in " communication " ! " .

 

i.e. without knowing definition you might be

hungry in reality, but, may not be able to

convey that to others. Same thing goes for

enlightenemnt and other things, definition

gives you the words that you can use to

" communicate " reality to others.

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Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

<adithya_comming wrote:

 

>How did you manage to comprehend that

>from the above???

 

AC, I am not comprehending

anything from what you write.

I am asking a simple question.

 

You gave the following definitions (quote):

 

" There is no realization event.

Realization is nothing to gain anew.

What is born will also die.

All that is required for realization

to happen is to get rid of the thought

that I have not realized Self.

Peace is Realization. "

 

My question is: were those " definitions "

useful for you in order to become enlightened?

 

Stefan

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>

> Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

> <adithya_comming@> wrote:

>

> >How did you manage to conclude that

> >from the above???

>

> AC, I am not concluding

> anything from what you write.

> I am asking a simple question.

>

> You gave the following definitions (quote):

>

> " There is no realization event.

> Realization is nothing to gain anew.

> What is born will also die.

> All that is required for realization

> to happen is to get rid of the thought

> that I have not realized Self.

> Peace is Realization. "

>

> My question is: were those " definitions "

> useful for you in order to become enlightened?

 

Not in " getting " enlightenment

but, in 'recognizing' what it is

and what it is not.

 

For example, it told me that

a " cool experience " it is not,

'seeing void' it is not,

'feeling like not existing' it is not,

'heart feeling strange' it is not,

'Ajna chakra feeling open' it is not,

'seeing light, hearing sound' it is not,

'feeling dead' it is not,

'feeling immersed in love' it is not.

 

It told me that enlightenment is what is eternal

while all sort of " spiritual " and " no spiritual "

experiences come and go - if they begin, they

can also end - if they can happen, they can

also unhappen.

 

 

 

>

> Stefan

>

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Nisargadatta , " adithya_comming "

<adithya_comming wrote:

 

>>My question is: were those " definitions "

>>useful for you in order to become enlightened?

 

>Not in " getting " enlightenment

>but, in 'recognizing' what it is

>and what it is not.

 

Yes, thank you for sharing this.

 

As far as I am concerned I do not see

why that " what is " needs definitions

in order to be recognized.

I feel that any definition narrows it.

 

Greetings

Stefan

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