Guest guest Posted March 15, 2007 Report Share Posted March 15, 2007 GuruRatings , " adithya_comming " <adithya_comming wrote: > > [...] > > > > > Sorry good buddy, but you have missed > > the core of the tower of > > babblon. Try again, for good measure. I > > do not seek cknowledgment, > > never have. > > > > Babblon > > > Alas... there has never been an " I " that didn't seek > 'acknowledgment'. > > To be an 'I' is to seek... > > that is its whole game! > > > To know and 'acknowledge' it can bring freedom > > To deny that, buries you deeper into the > pursuit of seeking 'acknowledgment'! > > To seek acknowledgment is " natural " , it is " human " . This instinct is ingrained deeper than that of seeking Sex... In the end, no matter ignorant one might be of it... Nobody [read __Nobody___] really does anything for himself/herself alone! Each and everything in reality, is motivated by the " love " alone - no matter how deluded an 'effort' might seem! Seeking acknowledgment simply means checking for direction and guidance. It is just checking if one's 'offering' has reached its intended goal or not and that goal is simply the 'expression of love'! By seeking acknowledgment, one is simply confirming if his/her effort are on right path, if his/her creations are doing its job. Seeking acknowledgment is natural, healthy and human. 'Not seeking acknowledgment' is like not seeking sex and in the end, it will make you sick, constricted, constipated and frustrated. And, those who get 'frustrated' - they turn violent, they start torturing others [and themselves]! And, in reality, they too are seeking acknowledgment - they seek it via " torturing " and troubling others. A human can not really live without any acknowledgment. Because a human only lives " because of " and for love! But, this effort [of seeking love, acceptance, approval and acknowledgment] can get twisted and deluded when met with impossible seeming resistance. In such a case, a human might start torturing, killing and inflicting pain on others! In the end, it is only saying - acknowledge me - if you can't acknowledge my love - see and acknowledge the pain I inflict one you. If you can't approve me, your disapproval will do - but, I need to make sure that you hear me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2007 Report Share Posted March 15, 2007 Never fail to enthusiastically, positively, whole-heartedly acknowledge anything and anybody that you value and appreciate! Don't wait to get your own share of " approval " , " acceptance " and " acknowledgement " before offering your own Doing this [whole hearted open appreciation and acknowledgment of what you appreciate] is the key to all successful relationships. And, failing to do so enough is what fails many otherwise good relations. However, acknowledgement doesn't mean lying, flattery or deceit. You don't have to go out of your integrity in order to appreciate what you don't really appreciate Look real closely, little more carefully, little freer of your prejudices and little freer of your prior rigid and 'false' expectations... If you still don't find anything to appreciate and positively acknowledge in a relationship - then, do all you can to get out of it! When that happens, that relationship has been long dead in your heart; now, you can as well stop pretending and stop carrying its corpse. [ NNB ] ----- To seek acknowledgment is " natural " , it is " human " . This instinct is ingrained deeper than that of seeking Sex... In the end, no matter ignorant one might be of it... Nobody [read __Nobody___] really does anything for himself/herself alone! Each and everything in reality, is motivated by the " love " alone - no matter how deluded an 'effort' might seem! Seeking acknowledgment simply means checking for direction and guidance. It is just checking if one's 'offering' has reached its intended goal or not and that goal is simply the 'expression of love'! By seeking acknowledgment, one is simply confirming if his/her effort are reaching " you " , if his/her efforts are on right path, if his/her creations are doing its job [of expressing his/her love]! Seeking acknowledgment is natural, healthy and human. 'Not seeking acknowledgment' is like not seeking sex and in the end, it will make you sick, constricted, constipated and frustrated. And, those who get 'frustrated' - turn violent, they start torturing others [and themselves]! In reality, they too are seeking acknowledgment - but, having failed to achieve it via their love filled natural offerings; now, they seek it via " torturing " and inflicting pain on others! A human can not really live without any acknowledgment. Because a human only lives " because of " and for love! But, this effort [of seeking love, acceptance, approval and acknowledgment] can get twisted and deluded when met with impossible seeming resistance. In such a case, a human might start torturing, killing and inflicting pain on others! In the end, it is only saying - acknowledge me - if you can't acknowledge my love - see and acknowledge the pain I inflict on you. If you can't approve me, your disapproval will do - but, I need to make sure that you hear me...I need to make sure that you acknowledge my existence! Because, in the end, I only exist because of " you " !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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