Guest guest Posted May 3, 2007 Report Share Posted May 3, 2007 To hug and kiss my wife and children frequently, . . . now I know they [and I] really " get " something out of it. I can understand if my wife and my kids feel frustrated, agitated or irritable when they have missed loving touch, hug and kiss for a while. . . I know, they are really missing something real. To understand the need of my boss, my colleagues, my team-mates, my friends need to feel loved, appreciated and acknowledged. . . now, I know, it really does something real for them. To understand if my boss, my colleagues, my team-mates, my friends feel frustrated, deprived when they are not acknowledged, appreciated and loved. . . now, I know they really " miss " something real. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2007 Report Share Posted May 7, 2007 Endorphins taught me that. . . When I see my wife, my child, my parents, my brothers, my sisters, my friends. . . [or, anyone else that I care for] in distress, depression, mental turmoil or. . . in just a blue mood. . . My Number One job is to: .. . . Love them . . . .. . . Hug them . . . .. . . Cuddle them . . . .. . . Kiss them [when appropriate] . . . My first job is not really to try to 'reason' with them. . . or, to try to 'explain' things to them. . . or, to give them my 'logical' advice. . . What they really lack right now is. . . the Love hormone. . . the endorphin and that 'feeling of lack' is what. . . really hurting them and really clouding their natural vision! Once they have that Love [hormone] flowing. . . they will be far more ready and receptive to really listen and understand . . . 'advice'. . . And, not just that, being naturally intelligent person, once, their balance is fully restored. . . most likely they would find that logic, reason on their own. . . And, if they still need my advice. . . they would come by themselves. . . and, ask for that advice. . . But, being in distress right now, All they need is. . . Love. . . Once, the Love [hormones are] is flowing. . . anything is possible. . . Without that, however, really, all 'advice' might just be. . . a Waste! > > To hug and kiss my wife and children > frequently, . . . now I know they [and I] really > " get " something out of it. > > > I can understand if my wife and my > kids feel frustrated, agitated or > irritable when they have missed loving > touch, hug and kiss for a while. . . I > know, they are really missing something > real. > > > To understand the need of my boss, my > colleagues, my team-mates, my friends > need to feel loved, appreciated and > acknowledged. . . now, I know, it > really does something real for them. > > > To understand if my boss, my > colleagues, my team-mates, my friends > feel frustrated, deprived when they are > not acknowledged, appreciated and > loved. . . now, I know they really > " miss " something real. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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