Re : Do you have jealousy?

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> > Do you have jealousy?

 

Sure. I have 'seen' it few times.

 

 

I discovered that:

 

there was a difference between having

the ability of 'anger'... and, being an

obedient 'servant' of that anger.

 

There was a difference between having

capacity of 'hate'... and, " working "

under the blind dictation of that hate.

 

 

And, that " difference " was the miracle

of being 'conscious'... of being 'human'!

 

 

Just because an 'emotion' arises

doesn't mean that I have to blindly

''serve' it. I can " choose " to serve

love, forgiveness, compassion,

reason... even after an 'anger' had

arisen. Anger is just a message and a

'choice' among several other...

'choices' and being 'conscious' means

being aware of those choices.

 

 

A human is designed to be able to have

all the emotions including hate, anger,

jealousy and compassion and I

discovered that it is not at all

necessary to 'get rid of' the 'ability'

of any of these emotions... wishing

that will be akin to saying that there

is a basic flaw in the design of human

psyche that I have to correct before I

an be... 'alright'. These emotions are

nothing but a 'message' that require

decoding, comprehension, understanding

and sometimes... action. Less conscious

and aware I am... stronger these

messages need to be in order to draw my

attention. Without these emotions, in

many cases, I would be lost and will be

unable to functions as a " human " . Yet,

presence of these emotions doesn't

equal having to blindly serve them.

 

 

I further noticed that I am not really

'responsible' for what emotions

arise... I am only responsible for what

I " choose " to 'serve' versus what I

just examine, understand and then, when

applicable... let go of... or, just

laugh at...

 

 

What arises can have many reasons

including the wonderful DESIGN of human

body which has survived millions of

years plus evolution, genetic,

evolution, environment and...

conditioning but, what I " choose " to

serve can be easily done by Simply

Being Present and Conscious...

at the time of " choosing " !