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my bedroom's window faces my neighbor's yard.

last night he and his wife threw another party.

they seem to have one at least once a month.

they hold the parties in their patio, even in

winter. The parties seldom end before 1.00 a.m.

I use their parties as reactivity practice. i

lay in bed listening intently, and watching

how i react as the party gets noisier.

 

oddly enough, they don't play any music. they

throw eating, drinking, talking parties only.

the conversation stars low, as the food cooks.

i smell the meats roasting, the green pepper and

onion, and corn smell so delicious. i start

salivating right away. I watch myself getting

hungry, wanting to raid the fridge. It's hard

not to give in as the smells get stronger.

 

i can tell when they start eating because the

steady talking stops. then the conversations

resume and get louder as they drink.

an hour later peels of laughter began chiming

by 11p.m. hollering . shouting, yelling, and

guffawing prevails. i'm getting drowsy and

fall sleep only to be awaken with a start by

a chorus of howling, or guffawing. I watch

my annoyance at being startled. And the partying

and my watching hit their highs and lows.

 

I think practicing with everything that annoys us

dissensitice us to personal hurt, and makes us

more sensitive to what hurts others.

 

 

 

http://cerosoul.wordpress.com

 

http://awakefiction.wordpress.com

 

 

Pete

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Nisargadatta , " cerosoul " <pedsie6 wrote:

>

> my bedroom's window faces my neighbor's yard.

> last night he and his wife threw another party.

> they seem to have one at least once a month.

> they hold the parties in their patio, even in

> winter. The parties seldom end before 1.00 a.m.

> I use their parties as reactivity practice. i

> lay in bed listening intently, and watching

> how i react as the party gets noisier.

>

> oddly enough, they don't play any music. they

> throw eating, drinking, talking parties only.

> the conversation stars low, as the food cooks.

> i smell the meats roasting, the green pepper and

> onion, and corn smell so delicious. i start

> salivating right away. I watch myself getting

> hungry, wanting to raid the fridge. It's hard

> not to give in as the smells get stronger.

>

> i can tell when they start eating because the

> steady talking stops. then the conversations

> resume and get louder as they drink.

> an hour later peels of laughter began chiming

> by 11p.m. hollering . shouting, yelling, and

> guffawing prevails. i'm getting drowsy and

> fall sleep only to be awaken with a start by

> a chorus of howling, or guffawing. I watch

> my annoyance at being startled. And the partying

> and my watching hit their highs and lows.

>

> I think practicing with everything that annoys us

> dissensitice us to personal hurt, and makes us

> more sensitive to what hurts others.

>

>

>

> http://cerosoul.wordpress.com

>

> http://awakefiction.wordpress.com

>

>

> Pete

 

 

 

 

" would there be this eternal seeking if the found existed? "

 

Antonio Porchia

 

..b b.b.

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Nisargadatta , " roberibus111 " <Roberibus111

wrote:

>

> Nisargadatta , " cerosoul " <pedsie6@> wrote:

> >

> > my bedroom's window faces my neighbor's yard.

> > last night he and his wife threw another party.

> > they seem to have one at least once a month.

> > they hold the parties in their patio, even in

> > winter. The parties seldom end before 1.00 a.m.

> > I use their parties as reactivity practice. i

> > lay in bed listening intently, and watching

> > how i react as the party gets noisier.

> >

> > oddly enough, they don't play any music. they

> > throw eating, drinking, talking parties only.

> > the conversation stars low, as the food cooks.

> > i smell the meats roasting, the green pepper and

> > onion, and corn smell so delicious. i start

> > salivating right away. I watch myself getting

> > hungry, wanting to raid the fridge. It's hard

> > not to give in as the smells get stronger.

> >

> > i can tell when they start eating because the

> > steady talking stops. then the conversations

> > resume and get louder as they drink.

> > an hour later peels of laughter began chiming

> > by 11p.m. hollering . shouting, yelling, and

> > guffawing prevails. i'm getting drowsy and

> > fall sleep only to be awaken with a start by

> > a chorus of howling, or guffawing. I watch

> > my annoyance at being startled. And the partying

> > and my watching hit their highs and lows.

> >

> > I think practicing with everything that annoys us

> > dissensitice us to personal hurt, and makes us

> > more sensitive to what hurts others.

> >

> >

> >

> > http://cerosoul.wordpress.com

> >

> > http://awakefiction.wordpress.com

> >

> >

> > Pete

>

>

>

>

> " would there be this eternal seeking if the found existed? "

>

> Antonio Porchia

>

> .b b.b.

>

 

 

Absolutely perfect reply Roberto...another *voice* with which I am

unfamiliar... yet.

 

My respects.

 

However, logistically speaking, when my x & i threw parties (my

daughter now does the honours) we invited the neighbors. If they said

no, well they had little cause to complain. We soon found out

who were kindred spirits, so to speak...

 

Besides Pete, you could come in unannounced and bring some salsa and

merengue..do you Tango, my little bird?

 

Liven up the party a little. Nothing like some dancing and music..

 

~A

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