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GuruRatings , " Era M " <mi_nok wrote:

 

 

You might find these comments from Osho interesting. They relate to

meditation and energy matters not normally thought of in the gender

wars.

 

Sarlo

 

Interesting yes, but one of Osho's many tong to cheek message, he

made

many about other gurus too He was a tantrika, he new Jnana and Tantra

first hand, but he was NOT a Kundalini Yogi, nor a woman.

 

Life Force, Kundalini, the Chi has NO GENDER !

 

It is energy, not an electric current with negative and positive

charges

!

 

SHEESH !

 

The two currets running alongside the main tract of the Kundalini

power:

the Inga (masculine) and Pingala (feminine) were assigned a 'gender'

they must run up and down in unison in a double helix before the

Kundalini, an energy coil can rise in the Susumna upward piercing

through the chakras.

 

Era

 

ps: bellow is a mixture of an Indian man culturally biased view of

woman and thought rooted TANTRA

 

 

-=-=-=-=-

Osho:

 

WHY SHOULD THERE BE A DIFFERENCE IN TECHNIQUES FOR MEN AND WOMEN?

 

Because they are different. They are as different as possible. They

are

polar opposites. Really, the more relevant question would be this: Why

should there be similar techniques?

 

There are techniques which are being used by both men and women, not

because they are suited to women, but really because special

techniques

were never developed for them. They have been a neglected part of

humanity.

All the techniques were developed by men. Basically man was

experimenting

with himself: he knew about his energy pattern, his routes of energy,

his

passages of energy. He worked on these. And then he was talking to

other

men -- so techniques were developed by men for men. Women were never

considered.

 

Women cannot enter a Mohammedan mosque. They are not to be a part of

Islam

really: the mosque exists only for men. For many years Buddha

insistently

denied women initiation. Mahavir initiated many women, he never denied

them

initiation, but no techniques were developed for them. All the

techniques

were for men. Women worked through them. That's why the results were

never

so miraculous, never; they were always so-so, bound to be. Really,

there

is

no need for three hundred religions in the world, there is only need

for

two religions: one for men and one for women. And those two religions

need

not be in conflict, they can be married together. They will become

one.

There is no need of any conflict. If a man and a woman can fall in

love

and

live together as a single unit, those two religions can fall in love -

-

they should.

 

The whole physiology, the whole psychology, every layer of the

feminine

consciousness is different from man's -- not only different, just the

opposite. For example, kundalini yoga... it is not for women at all.

But

many will be shocked if I say that. And women particularly will be

shocked.

They will think that something has been taken out of their hands. It

is

not

for them at all because kundalini is based on the positive sex center

for

man. The positive sex center is at the root of the penis -- for men

not

for

women. For women that center is negative, and energy cannot be raised

from

a negative center. So almost always it is the case -- this is my

observation -- that whenever women say they are feeling kundalini

arising

in the, they are imagining. It cannot happen but they are very

imaginary,

more imaginary than men. So if I work with ten women and ten men, nine

women will feel the energy arising and only one man will feel the

energy

arising. This is miraculous because it cannot happen! They go on

coming

to

me and I say, " Okay, it is happening. " What to do? It is impossible,

scientifically impossible, because energy can come only from a

positive

pole.

 

Totally different techniques should be developed, totally different

techniques -- but because man and woman live so near, so close

together,

they go on forgetting that they are different. Nothing is similar, and

it

is good that nothing is similar, because that's why they can become

one

circle of energy. They are complementary, they fit into each other.

But

because they fit that doesn't mean that they are similar -- they fit

because they are not similar.

 

And whenever two similar types of bodies and minds try to fit into

each

other, this is perversion. So I say that homosexuality is a

perversion.

In

the West, now, it has become more and more prevalent. Now homosexuals

think

they are progressive: they have their clubs, parties, institutions,

magazines, propaganda, everything. And their number is rising. In

certain

countries it has come to near about forty per cent. Sooner or later

homosexuality will become a pattern all over, a normal pattern. Now

even

certain states in America are allowing homosexual marriage. If people

insist, you have to allow it because the government has to serve the

people. If two men want to live together in marriage, it is no one's

business to create obstacles. It's okay. If two women want to live

together, married, it's no one's business. It's their own affair. But

this

is basically unscientific. It is their affair, but unscientific. It is

their affair and no one needs to interfere, but their minds are

unenlightened about the very basic pattern of human energy and its

movement. Homosexuals cannot develop spirituality. It is very

difficult.

Their whole pattern of energy movement is disturbed. The whole

mechanism

is

shocked, perverted. And now if homosexuality grows too much in the

world,

very different techniques will have to be developed, unknown before,

to

help them to move towards meditation.

 

When I say a man and woman are two counterparts of one whole, I mean

they

are complementary. And the complementariness is possible only when

their

opposite poles meet. Look at it in this way: the vagina is the

negative

pole in the feminine body and the breasts are the positive pole. This

is

the rod of magnetism: the positive pole near the breasts, the negative

pole

near the vagina. For man the negative pole is at the breasts, and the

positive pole is at the penis. So when breasts meet -- male and female

--

negative and positive are meeting; and when sex centers meet in

coitus,

negative and positive are meeting. Now both magnetic rods are meeting

at

their opposite poles, now there is a circle -- the energy can flow,

the

energy can move. But this circle will happen only when a man and woman

are

in love. If they are not in love, then only their sex centers will

meet

--

one positive pole will meet with one negative pole. There will be an

exchange of energy, but linear. A circle cannot be made. That's why

without

love you never feel satisfied.

 

Sex without love becomes just a trifle. It is not deep moving. Energy

moves, but in a line -- a circle is not made. And when a circle is

there

you become one, not before. When you are deep in love, then breasts

also

meet, never before. So the sex act is very easy, the love act is more

complex. The sex act is just physical -- two energies meeting and

dissipating. Hence, if there is only sex, sooner or later you will

feel

frustrated: you waste energy and nothing is gained. The gain happens

only

when there is a circle. If the circle is totally there, then both the

partners will come out of the sex act more energetic, more alive, more

charged, with more energy flowing. If there is only the sex act, both

partners will come out of it discharged, faint. They have lost energy.

Sleep will follow because all they are feeling is weak.

 

In this `one pole meeting', men are at more of a loss than women.

That's

why women can become prostitutes -- because the positive pole is man

and

the negative pole is woman. Energy flows from man to woman but not

vice

versa. So a woman can be in twenty or thirty sex acts in one night, a

man

cannot. A man cannot be in two. It depends on age, how his energy is

moving

-- because nothing is gained. So to me, if prostitution is bad it is

not

because of prostitution, it is because a circle is impossible. You are

not

charged. You simply waste your energy. If there is love, then man and

woman

meet on two poles. Man gives to the woman and the woman returns it

back.

This is reciprocal, mutual.

 

For females, meditation will be good if it starts from the breasts.

That

is

their positive pole. Because of this, many strange things become

possible,

happen. Man always likes to enter the woman immediately. He is not

interested in foreplay because his positive pole is always ready. And

women

are always reluctant to enter into the sex act immediately, without

any

foreplay, because their negative pole is not ready. And it cannot be

ready.

Unless the man starts loving the woman from the breasts, the negative

pole

will not be ready. They can yield but they will not participate. And

man

thinks the sex act is simple. Why waste time? Enter the woman

immediately

-- and he is finished within minutes. But the woman was not a part,

she

was

not aroused. That's why women have a hankering that their lovers

should

touch their breasts, love their breasts -- a deep hankering. Only when

their breasts have become filled with energy does their second pole of

the

magnetic rod, which is negative, respond. Then they are alive to it,

then

they can participate, then communication is possible -- and then they

will

melt. Foreplay is a must.

 

Marriages become dry because in the beginning when you meet a new

woman

you

play with her body before. You are not certain whether she will allow

you a

direct approach, so you play. You just feel the ground to see whether

she

is ready. But when she is your wife, you take her for granted -- there

is

no need. Wives are so dissatisfied with their husbands, not because

their

husbands are not loving but because they are wrongly loving. They

don't

think that a woman exists in a different way; that her body responds

in

a

different way just opposite to them.

 

This concentration at the breasts, melting into them, will give a new

feeling to the female meditator -- a new feeling about her own body,

because now from the center she can feel the whole body vibrating.

Just

by

loving the breasts of a woman she can be brought to a deep orgasm

because

the negative pole will automatically go on responding.

 

There are many other things. If you start from the breasts, meditating

on

the nipples, don't follow the route that you have read in books

because

that is meant for men. Simply don't follow any chart, just allow the

energy

itself to move. It will happen in this way: with just a vague

suggestion

your breasts will become filled with energy, they will radiate energy,

they

will become hot, and then immediately your vagina will respond. And

only

after your vagina responds and vibrates, will your kundalini start

working.

The route will be different and the way the kundalini will arise will

be

different.

 

In man it arises very actively, forcibly. That's why they have called

it

a

serpent rising. Very forcibly, suddenly, with a jerk, the serpent

unfolds.

And it is felt on many points. Those points are called chakras.

Wherever

there is resistance, the snake forces itself. Just as the penis enters

the

vagina, so the passage is similar for man. When the energy arises it

is

as

if the penis inside is moving.

 

And the snake is a phallic symbol. Really, not to use direct language,

not

to call it penis, they have called it a snake. You must have heard the

story of the Garden of Eden where the serpent persuaded Eve to eat the

fruit of the Tree of Knowledge. Now scholars are working and they say

that

this serpent is also just a phallic symbol, used so as not to say it

directly. So it is not a question, really, of eating the Fruit of

Knowledge; it is a question of sexuality.

 

The same symbol has been used similarly in India: the serpent rises

just

like a penis erecting in jerks, and moving inwards.

 

This will not be the feeling for woman. The feeling will be quite the

opposite. As a woman feels when the penis has entered the vagina --

the

melting sensation, the welcoming, the vagina giving way, vibrating

very,

very delicately, in a very receptive mood, loving, welcoming -- the

same

will be the phenomenon inside. When the energy rises, it will be a

receptive, passive rise, as if a passage is opening -- not a serpent

rising, but a door opening, and a passage opening, and something

giving

way. It will be passive and negative. With men something is entering;

with

women something is opening, not entering.

 

But no one has worked on it, never before, because no one has taken

any

cognisance of women. But for the future, I think that now it is a must

--

the feminine body should not be neglected. Much research and work is

needed, but it is very difficult to work because of so much

puritanical,

moralistic nonsense. It is very difficult to work and to create a map

of

how the feminine body will respond to the phenomena.

 

But this is how I feel it will be; everything will be just the

opposite.

It

must be so. It cannot be similar. But the ultimate thing will be the

same.

 

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GuruRatings , " Tony OClery " <aoclery wrote:

 

GuruRatings , " Tony OClery " <aoclery@> wrote:

>

> GuruRatings , " Era M " <mi_nok@> wrote:

> >

> >

> > You might find these comments from Osho interesting. They relate

to

> > meditation and energy matters not normally thought of in the

gender

> > wars.

> >

> > Sarlo

> >

> > Interesting yes, but one of Osho's many tong to cheek message,

he

> made

> > many about other gurus too He was a tantrika, he new Jnana and

> Tantra

> > first hand, but he was NOT a Kundalini Yogi, nor a woman.

> >

> > Life Force, Kundalini, the Chi has NO GENDER !

> >

> > It is energy, not an electric current with negative and positive

> charges

>

>

> Namaste,

>

> I find this to be mostly in line with my own thoughts on this

matter.

> And my earlier posts concur with this view. When I refer to women

> using emotional displacement to call sex 'love', with a male. This

is

> because the cause and result are not natural and are interfered

with

> by the mind trying to control energy or put a different spin on it.

>

> Just as the woman thinks it is 'love' that is happening with the

> male, the male thinks he is doing something and actually providing

> the pleasure when in fact he is just an instrument.

>

> If one takes the opinionated mind out of the equation in both

cases,

> it will be flow of energy or getting touch with the 'Ground' or

prana-

> sakti.

>

> Having said that Prana-Sakti can help in an awareness other than

the

> mundane and so called normal. However it can never result in

> Realisation or Moksha for the very fact it is based on energy and

> mind. Another step into the Hridaya or Heart is necessary and

rising

> above the energies........Tony.IMHO.

 

Namaste,

 

To add to that, in all probability Homosexuality is in many case a

result of gender change in reincarnation. This means an energy flow

change etc etc. So as Osho say it can never be the same, and this is

probably why so many homosexuals are promiscuous--they are looking

for something which inherently doesn't exist.

Having issued the above non politically correct statement, let me say

this. The mind of a homosexual may be wired similar to the opposite

sex but this is caused by the incoming entity pushing its tendencies

on the development of the brain. It still doesn't change the energy

pattern which the entity cannot really accept, or change.

 

This of course doesn't change the fact that ultimatley within

creation homosexuals are also part of the unified field and at that

level are above the energies of the opposites, and apparently

homosexuality is a normal progression in the gender changes of many

incarnating..............

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