Guest guest Posted October 8, 2006 Report Share Posted October 8, 2006 Namasté! It is perfectly understandable that only a small minority has had the chance and privilege of attending a " finishing school " in Switzerland. I'm not among them, either! And still have many edges to file, of which I'm not proud of, I must confess the " Mea Culpa " !!! But, one needn't be a Lady Diana, may her soul rest in peace, to observe certain rules of good manners. Addressing other people properly and with respect shouldn't be seen as something effeminate. Quite the opposite, I've seen women behaving in a very inappropriate not lady-like fashion, a very unpleasant and sad thing to witness. Same goes with Gentleman! This is the year 2006, as per Gregorian calendar. We aren't caveman anymore! Expressing our feelings and thoughts freely should always be allowed and welcomed, provided we don't cross boundaries of respect towards others. Who doesn't appreciate being well-treated? I shall not use religious arguments, since this should be common sense. Regrettably, common sense and good sense do very seldom walk hand in hand… This may sound harsh, but only ill minded spirits can find pleasure and fun in useless provocation and confrontation… What's the point? Aren't there more interesting and important matters to take care of than wasting time and energy on satires? Those proceeding in such a way, besides not being aware of what they are doing to their targets, should, at least, be aware of consequences to themselves. Yes, themselves! All those who come to these forums, this one and others of the kind, astrologers and help-seekers, share a common interest of which they may not be aware: Spirituality! What other explanation do Astrologers have when they see Karmic effects popping out of a chart? Was it a medal for good behaviour? I guess I made my point! No need in further insist! So, I suggest, let's put on our white gloves and behave like Ladies and Gentleman, respectively! For those who found this post inappropriate, harsh or even offensive, please accept my deepest apologies. No harm meant, nor whatsoever, but some things just need to be said! My intention is purely to be of service. Any input on this will be welcomed and highly appreciated. May God Bless Us All, Beatriz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 8, 2006 Report Share Posted October 8, 2006 Dear beatriz, I wish I could write in the way You did, beautifully and diplomatically, and the persons concerned who want to simply harass and create disturbances and the peaceful atmosphere I intended, get the message. I will try to ignore their messages in future or give a strict warning before taking action,which should be proper. I thank You and appreciate your sense of discipline and respect for the Forum and owner,though You do not understand Hindi, and thousands of miles away from India, but yet aware of the universal appeal of due respect and love to each and all. You could make out what this gentleman has been trying to create over here and You gain my admiration for perception of same. regards, Bhaskar. , " searchingalight " <searchingalight wrote: > > > Namasté! > > It is perfectly understandable that only a small minority has had > the chance and privilege of attending a " finishing school " in > Switzerland. I'm not among them, either! > And still have many edges to file, of which I'm not proud of, I must > confess the " Mea Culpa " !!! > But, one needn't be a Lady Diana, may her soul rest in peace, to > observe certain rules of good manners. > > Addressing other people properly and with respect shouldn't be seen > as something effeminate. Quite the opposite, I've seen women > behaving in a very inappropriate not lady-like fashion, a very > unpleasant and sad thing to witness. > Same goes with Gentleman! This is the year 2006, as per Gregorian > calendar. We aren't caveman anymore! > Expressing our feelings and thoughts freely should always be allowed > and welcomed, provided we don't cross boundaries of respect towards > others. Who doesn't appreciate being well-treated? > I shall not use religious arguments, since this should be common > sense. > Regrettably, common sense and good sense do very seldom walk hand in > hand… > This may sound harsh, but only ill minded spirits can find pleasure > and fun in useless provocation and confrontation… > What's the point? Aren't there more interesting and important > matters to take care of than wasting time and energy on satires? > Those proceeding in such a way, besides not being aware of what they > are doing to their targets, should, at least, be aware of > consequences to themselves. > Yes, themselves! > All those who come to these forums, this one and others of the kind, > astrologers and help-seekers, share a common interest of which they > may not be aware: Spirituality! > What other explanation do Astrologers have when they see Karmic > effects popping out of a chart? Was it a medal for good behaviour? > > I guess I made my point! > No need in further insist! > > So, I suggest, let's put on our white gloves and behave like Ladies > and Gentleman, respectively! > > For those who found this post inappropriate, harsh or even > offensive, please accept my deepest apologies. No harm meant, nor > whatsoever, but some things just need to be said! My intention is > purely to be of service. > > Any input on this will be welcomed and highly appreciated. > > May God Bless Us All, > Beatriz > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 8, 2006 Report Share Posted October 8, 2006 Dear Bhaskarji, Namasté! This was the first Hindi word I learned, but trust I’ll learn many more, with your help and also with other fellow members. Thank you for your input, I really appreciated it. As it is common knowledge especially to Hindus, people don’t come into our lives at random. There is always a reason behind it, by Divine Providence! When someone whom we profoundly dislike, with whom we have apparently no affinity whatsoever gets in our way, well, we can look at it from two different angles, if not more! We can look at this person as a harasser, troublemaker and keep thinking how am I going to get rid of him/her? On the other hand, we can try to look at him/her as a little brother or son, whom we have to take care and look after and teach! Teaching manners and good behaviour is included! Do we get angry because a toddler doesn’t sit straight in his chair and doesn’t know how to speak or even how to use a spoon properly, spilling food all over the place? This can be a task that has been attributed to us, to help this younger spirit on his path of evolution. And the best way to teach is by example. Children tend to imitate the elder ones. Unless the situation becomes unbearable and measures have to be taken, just be the role model you already are! It is certainly not an easy task and will be time and energy consuming, too! Well, this thought just occurred to me. If useless or nonsense, please ignore! May God Bless Us All and shed light onto our minds and hearts so that we can discern HIS Divine will! Beatriz Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: Dear beatriz, I wish I could write in the way You did, beautifully and diplomatically, and the persons concerned who want to simply harass and create disturbances and the peaceful atmosphere I intended, get the message. I will try to ignore their messages in future or give a strict warning before taking action,which should be proper. I thank You and appreciate your sense of discipline and respect for the Forum and owner,though You do not understand Hindi, and thousands of miles away from India, but yet aware of the universal appeal of due respect and love to each and all. You could make out what this gentleman has been trying to create over here and You gain my admiration for perception of same. regards, Bhaskar. , " searchingalight " <searchingalight wrote: > > > Namasté! > > It is perfectly understandable that only a small minority has had > the chance and privilege of attending a " finishing school " in > Switzerland. I'm not among them, either! > And still have many edges to file, of which I'm not proud of, I must > confess the " Mea Culpa " !!! > But, one needn't be a Lady Diana, may her soul rest in peace, to > observe certain rules of good manners. > > Addressing other people properly and with respect shouldn't be seen > as something effeminate. Quite the opposite, I've seen women > behaving in a very inappropriate not lady-like fashion, a very > unpleasant and sad thing to witness. > Same goes with Gentleman! This is the year 2006, as per Gregorian > calendar. We aren't caveman anymore! > Expressing our feelings and thoughts freely should always be allowed > and welcomed, provided we don't cross boundaries of respect towards > others. Who doesn't appreciate being well-treated? > I shall not use religious arguments, since this should be common > sense. > Regrettably, common sense and good sense do very seldom walk hand in > hand… > This may sound harsh, but only ill minded spirits can find pleasure > and fun in useless provocation and confrontation… > What's the point? Aren't there more interesting and important > matters to take care of than wasting time and energy on satires? > Those proceeding in such a way, besides not being aware of what they > are doing to their targets, should, at least, be aware of > consequences to themselves. > Yes, themselves! > All those who come to these forums, this one and others of the kind, > astrologers and help-seekers, share a common interest of which they > may not be aware: Spirituality! > What other explanation do Astrologers have when they see Karmic > effects popping out of a chart? Was it a medal for good behaviour? > > I guess I made my point! > No need in further insist! > > So, I suggest, let's put on our white gloves and behave like Ladies > and Gentleman, respectively! > > For those who found this post inappropriate, harsh or even > offensive, please accept my deepest apologies. No harm meant, nor > whatsoever, but some things just need to be said! My intention is > purely to be of service. > > Any input on this will be welcomed and highly appreciated. > > May God Bless Us All, > Beatriz > Talk is cheap. Use Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 8, 2006 Report Share Posted October 8, 2006 Dear Beatriz, Namste. Your posts are Masterpieces from experienced maturity. You need not learn many Hindi words. Thats not reuired. You have already understood the Universal language which God desires us to.And no use wasting time over regional languages for conversing when life is too short and most of us have already crossed major part of the same. What is needed by us is to become better day by day,through whatever knowledge and means we may acquire. In todays world when at a click of the mouse we can chat on internet with some other human like us 10000 miles away from us, then why should we be creating boundaries in our hearts. Is not the whole world in my bedroom itself where my PC lies ? So why not all the humans from all races,religion and countries, too in my heart ? No distinctions should there be any,except for the perpetrators who have no religion. Its a great feeling to have the whole world together on Internet on access just like Sarva Kutumba we say in Hindi ,or translated as all is family. If You notice that whenever I get angry, its always followed by pity too for the person coming in my line of fire. Not to get angry is not possible to learn in a day.It needs practise. I am at it. Because thats how we have grown up,at least me. And Your thoughts are never useless.Let them come please, they remind me to become better,and a image to confirm in real too and not just on Internet.Its like self analysis for myself and other members too here who maybe like me. Yes I always treat the trouble makers as lovable children. Yours friend, Bhaskar. , B A <searchingalight wrote: > > Dear Bhaskarji, > > Namasté! This was the first Hindi word I learned, but trust I'll learn many more, with your help and also with other fellow members. > Thank you for your input, I really appreciated it. > As it is common knowledge especially to Hindus, people don't come into our lives at random. There is always a reason behind it, by Divine Providence! > When someone whom we profoundly dislike, with whom we have apparently no affinity whatsoever gets in our way, well, we can look at it from two different angles, if not more! > We can look at this person as a harasser, troublemaker and keep thinking how am I going to get rid of him/her? > On the other hand, we can try to look at him/her as a little brother or son, whom we have to take care and look after and teach! Teaching manners and good behaviour is included! > Do we get angry because a toddler doesn't sit straight in his chair and doesn't know how to speak or even how to use a spoon properly, spilling food all over the place? > This can be a task that has been attributed to us, to help this younger spirit on his path of evolution. > And the best way to teach is by example. > Children tend to imitate the elder ones. > Unless the situation becomes unbearable and measures have to be taken, just be the role model you already are! > It is certainly not an easy task and will be time and energy consuming, too! > > Well, this thought just occurred to me. If useless or nonsense, please ignore! > > May God Bless Us All and shed light onto our minds and hearts so that we can discern HIS Divine will! > > Beatriz > > > > Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote: Dear beatriz, > > I wish I could write in the way You did, beautifully and > diplomatically, and the persons concerned who want to simply > harass and create disturbances and the peaceful atmosphere I > intended, get the message. > I will try to ignore their messages in future or give a > strict warning before taking action,which should be proper. > > I thank You and appreciate your sense of discipline and respect > for the Forum and owner,though You do not understand Hindi, > and thousands of miles away from India, but yet aware of > the universal appeal of due respect and love to each and all. > > You could make out what this gentleman has been trying to create > over here and You gain my admiration for perception of same. > > regards, > Bhaskar. > > , " searchingalight " > <searchingalight@> wrote: > > > > > > Namasté! > > > > It is perfectly understandable that only a small minority has had > > the chance and privilege of attending a " finishing school " in > > Switzerland. I'm not among them, either! > > And still have many edges to file, of which I'm not proud of, I > must > > confess the " Mea Culpa " !!! > > But, one needn't be a Lady Diana, may her soul rest in peace, to > > observe certain rules of good manners. > > > > Addressing other people properly and with respect shouldn't be seen > > as something effeminate. Quite the opposite, I've seen women > > behaving in a very inappropriate not lady-like fashion, a very > > unpleasant and sad thing to witness. > > Same goes with Gentleman! This is the year 2006, as per Gregorian > > calendar. We aren't caveman anymore! > > Expressing our feelings and thoughts freely should always be > allowed > > and welcomed, provided we don't cross boundaries of respect towards > > others. Who doesn't appreciate being well-treated? > > I shall not use religious arguments, since this should be common > > sense. > > Regrettably, common sense and good sense do very seldom walk hand > in > > hand… > > This may sound harsh, but only ill minded spirits can find pleasure > > and fun in useless provocation and confrontation… > > What's the point? Aren't there more interesting and important > > matters to take care of than wasting time and energy on satires? > > Those proceeding in such a way, besides not being aware of what > they > > are doing to their targets, should, at least, be aware of > > consequences to themselves. > > Yes, themselves! > > All those who come to these forums, this one and others of the > kind, > > astrologers and help-seekers, share a common interest of which they > > may not be aware: Spirituality! > > What other explanation do Astrologers have when they see Karmic > > effects popping out of a chart? Was it a medal for good behaviour? > > > > I guess I made my point! > > No need in further insist! > > > > So, I suggest, let's put on our white gloves and behave like Ladies > > and Gentleman, respectively! > > > > For those who found this post inappropriate, harsh or even > > offensive, please accept my deepest apologies. No harm meant, nor > > whatsoever, but some things just need to be said! My intention is > > purely to be of service. > > > > Any input on this will be welcomed and highly appreciated. > > > > May God Bless Us All, > > Beatriz > > > Talk is cheap. Use Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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