Some tensions with inlaws .saturn 7.5years period is going? Any remedies?

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Namasthe

 

My mother in law came from india.fRom may 1st 2007 to oct 5th 2007

theres some fightings with my inlaws.She returned on october 5th to

india.But when she is leaving she told me that she will call each of

my family members(my aunts and uncles and all)and she will complaint

about me.Even if i say something or not iam getting quarrel

situations.I know that i have saturn 7.5 years period.Even i went to

help others also they are scolding me with bad words.Some times i

hurted my self.Is it good for me to travel india this time? booked

tickets to india on feb 13th.Iam searching for jobs also. Dont want

to go to india because of the quarrels.My husband cant say any thing

infront of elders.

 

My date of birth is: 10th january 1980

place of birth: tuni(state:andhra pradesh,india)

time: 10:28 am

latitudes: 17n21,82e33

 

 

please help me with any remedies?

[Guest guest]

Though unpleasant from your personal perspective, this is a

stereotypical situation (sas bahu ka jhagda or in-law

trouble/incompatibility). The remedy for this is socio-geographical

and not astrological or tantrik jhaad phoonk as it is called in

Malwa/UP! And you are already one step ahead since you are it seems

not living in the same country as she is in! There are two adages

that apply:

Absence makes the heart grow fonder (Good luck with that one!)

&

Closeness (familiarity) breeds contempt!

 

Anyway, as far as sade sati is concerned, saturn does not hurt or

indicate negative effects for all individuals. However in this case

the area of marriage and related matters was affected and will

continue to smoulder it seems. So, to be prepared for the same would

be a wise choice. It will also provide an opportunity for your spouse

to learn and grow from the experience and to provide support where it

matters on a daily basis in his life, namely his relationship with

you.

 

In your chart the fourth lord from the 7th, signifying your mother in

law, is jupiter and it is placed in the difficult 6th house from

lagna with rahu and mars. Jupiter is also lagnesh representing your

good self. So there is negativity there between the two of you. Venus

throwing its aspect from the 12th house and placed in the 12th from

lagna is also adding its 'wrinkle' but I will not go there!

 

With Raman minus half a degree or so, the dwadashamsa has the jupiter

(also lord of 10th and 1st) in the 12th house with venus! General

matrikarka moon with saturn in rashi is with gulika in the fourth

house in D12. Mars aspects the 10th as well.

 

Mars aspect and association with the significant indicators is what

is bringing to the surface the animosity and that is good since at

least you will not have to deal with hidden agendas. Whatever will

happen, you will be warned and alerted ahead of time, as in the

recent situation!

 

Many other factors are playing a role and I do not want to turn this

into a tutorial.

 

The period until April 2009 is going to be difficult regarding this

marriage family related matter a bit more than usual. By not going to

India would not solve the problem even though it may seem like the

convenient solution. Perhaps you will have a chance to explain and

show the other relatives whatever your side of the story is. It will

also show you who is in your support and who is ready to believe

something negative about you quickly.

 

So, treat this as a growing, learning experience.

 

It was not clear if you were looking for jobs where you are now or in

India and if you plan to go back for a visit or for good. Your chart

has stronger indications for success outside India but it is your

life and your decision, after all.

 

Whatever you do, hopefully things improve for you and your family. I

do not believe in magic remedies but there may be others from whom

may receive some advice in that direction.

 

Thanks for an opportunity to look into your chart.

 

Rohiniranjan

 

 

 

 

 

, " krithikskandan "

<krithikskandan wrote:

>

> Namasthe

>

> My mother in law came from india.fRom may 1st 2007 to oct 5th 2007

> theres some fightings with my inlaws.She returned on october 5th

to

> india.But when she is leaving she told me that she will call each

of

> my family members(my aunts and uncles and all)and she will

complaint

> about me.Even if i say something or not iam getting quarrel

> situations.I know that i have saturn 7.5 years period.Even i went

to

> help others also they are scolding me with bad words.Some times i

> hurted my self.Is it good for me to travel india this time?

booked

> tickets to india on feb 13th.Iam searching for jobs also. Dont want

> to go to india because of the quarrels.My husband cant say any

thing

> infront of elders.

>

> My date of birth is: 10th january 1980

> place of birth: tuni(state:andhra pradesh,india)

> time: 10:28 am

> latitudes: 17n21,82e33

>

>

> please help me with any remedies?

>

[Guest guest]

Namasthe

Thanks for your quick reply.Iam in USA.Iam home maker from

5 years.And now iam searching for a job in usa.

What ever happend about my inlaws and me everything i told my husband.Even

though my mistakes are there i told him .

Here in USA he talks to me nicely.Iam not sure How much he respects me infront

of others.Iam not worrying about quarrels.Or

iam not asking for remedies to stop quarrels?I want to reduce the bad effect of

saturn .For that i need remedies.

 

Thanks

Krithik

 

 

 

Rohiniranjan <rohini_ranjan

 

Saturday, December 15, 2007 6:00:44 PM

Re: Some tensions with inlaws .saturn 7.5years period is going?

Any remedies?

 

Though unpleasant from your personal perspective, this is a

stereotypical situation (sas bahu ka jhagda or in-law

trouble/incompatibi lity). The remedy for this is socio-geographical

and not astrological or tantrik jhaad phoonk as it is called in

Malwa/UP! And you are already one step ahead since you are it seems

not living in the same country as she is in! There are two adages

that apply:

Absence makes the heart grow fonder (Good luck with that one!)

&

Closeness (familiarity) breeds contempt!

 

Anyway, as far as sade sati is concerned, saturn does not hurt or

indicate negative effects for all individuals. However in this case

the area of marriage and related matters was affected and will

continue to smoulder it seems. So, to be prepared for the same would

be a wise choice. It will also provide an opportunity for your spouse

to learn and grow from the experience and to provide support where it

matters on a daily basis in his life, namely his relationship with

you.

 

In your chart the fourth lord from the 7th, signifying your mother in

law, is jupiter and it is placed in the difficult 6th house from

lagna with rahu and mars. Jupiter is also lagnesh representing your

good self. So there is negativity there between the two of you. Venus

throwing its aspect from the 12th house and placed in the 12th from

lagna is also adding its 'wrinkle' but I will not go there!

 

With Raman minus half a degree or so, the dwadashamsa has the jupiter

(also lord of 10th and 1st) in the 12th house with venus! General

matrikarka moon with saturn in rashi is with gulika in the fourth

house in D12. Mars aspects the 10th as well.

 

Mars aspect and association with the significant indicators is what

is bringing to the surface the animosity and that is good since at

least you will not have to deal with hidden agendas. Whatever will

happen, you will be warned and alerted ahead of time, as in the

recent situation!

 

Many other factors are playing a role and I do not want to turn this

into a tutorial.

 

The period until April 2009 is going to be difficult regarding this

marriage family related matter a bit more than usual. By not going to

India would not solve the problem even though it may seem like the

convenient solution. Perhaps you will have a chance to explain and

show the other relatives whatever your side of the story is. It will

also show you who is in your support and who is ready to believe

something negative about you quickly.

 

So, treat this as a growing, learning experience.

 

It was not clear if you were looking for jobs where you are now or in

India and if you plan to go back for a visit or for good. Your chart

has stronger indications for success outside India but it is your

life and your decision, after all.

 

Whatever you do, hopefully things improve for you and your family. I

do not believe in magic remedies but there may be others from whom

may receive some advice in that direction.

 

Thanks for an opportunity to look into your chart.

 

Rohiniranjan

 

, " krithikskandan "

<krithikskandan@ ...> wrote:

>

> Namasthe

>

> My mother in law came from india.fRom may 1st 2007 to oct 5th 2007

> theres some fightings with my inlaws.She returned on october 5th

to

> india.But when she is leaving she told me that she will call each

of

> my family members(my aunts and uncles and all)and she will

complaint

> about me.Even if i say something or not iam getting quarrel

> situations.I know that i have saturn 7.5 years period.Even i went

to

> help others also they are scolding me with bad words.Some times i

> hurted my self.Is it good for me to travel india this time?

booked

> tickets to india on feb 13th.Iam searching for jobs also. Dont want

> to go to india because of the quarrels.My husband cant say any

thing

> infront of elders.

>

> My date of birth is: 10th january 1980

> place of birth: tuni(state:andhra pradesh,india)

> time: 10:28 am

> latitudes: 17n21,82e33

>

>

> please help me with any remedies?

>

 

 

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

Dear forum member,

 

It is not about in-laws then.

It is about you and your spouse, really!

Since you have already *diagnosed* that saturn is your problem (!), I

wish you good luck and hopefully you find your desired remedy to

comply with your diagnosis!

 

RR

 

, krithikskandan duvvuri

<krithikskandan wrote:

>

> Namasthe

> Thanks for your quick reply.Iam in USA.Iam home

maker from 5 years.And now iam searching for a job in usa.

> What ever happend about my inlaws and me everything i told my

husband.Even though my mistakes are there i told him .

> Here in USA he talks to me nicely.Iam not sure How much he

respects me infront of others.Iam not worrying about quarrels.Or

> iam not asking for remedies to stop quarrels?I want to reduce the

bad effect of saturn .For that i need remedies.

>

> Thanks

> Krithik

>

>

>

> Rohiniranjan <rohini_ranjan

>

> Saturday, December 15, 2007 6:00:44 PM

> Re: Some tensions with inlaws .saturn 7.5years period

is going? Any remedies?

>

> Though unpleasant from your personal perspective, this is a

> stereotypical situation (sas bahu ka jhagda or in-law

> trouble/incompatibi lity). The remedy for this is socio-

geographical

> and not astrological or tantrik jhaad phoonk as it is called in

> Malwa/UP! And you are already one step ahead since you are it seems

> not living in the same country as she is in! There are two adages

> that apply:

> Absence makes the heart grow fonder (Good luck with that one!)

> &

> Closeness (familiarity) breeds contempt!

>

> Anyway, as far as sade sati is concerned, saturn does not hurt or

> indicate negative effects for all individuals. However in this case

> the area of marriage and related matters was affected and will

> continue to smoulder it seems. So, to be prepared for the same

would

> be a wise choice. It will also provide an opportunity for your

spouse

> to learn and grow from the experience and to provide support where

it

> matters on a daily basis in his life, namely his relationship with

> you.

>

> In your chart the fourth lord from the 7th, signifying your mother

in

> law, is jupiter and it is placed in the difficult 6th house from

> lagna with rahu and mars. Jupiter is also lagnesh representing your

> good self. So there is negativity there between the two of you.

Venus

> throwing its aspect from the 12th house and placed in the 12th from

> lagna is also adding its 'wrinkle' but I will not go there!

>

> With Raman minus half a degree or so, the dwadashamsa has the

jupiter

> (also lord of 10th and 1st) in the 12th house with venus! General

> matrikarka moon with saturn in rashi is with gulika in the fourth

> house in D12. Mars aspects the 10th as well.

>

> Mars aspect and association with the significant indicators is what

> is bringing to the surface the animosity and that is good since at

> least you will not have to deal with hidden agendas. Whatever will

> happen, you will be warned and alerted ahead of time, as in the

> recent situation!

>

> Many other factors are playing a role and I do not want to turn

this

> into a tutorial.

>

> The period until April 2009 is going to be difficult regarding this

> marriage family related matter a bit more than usual. By not going

to

> India would not solve the problem even though it may seem like the

> convenient solution. Perhaps you will have a chance to explain and

> show the other relatives whatever your side of the story is. It

will

> also show you who is in your support and who is ready to believe

> something negative about you quickly.

>

> So, treat this as a growing, learning experience.

>

> It was not clear if you were looking for jobs where you are now or

in

> India and if you plan to go back for a visit or for good. Your

chart

> has stronger indications for success outside India but it is your

> life and your decision, after all.

>

> Whatever you do, hopefully things improve for you and your family.

I

> do not believe in magic remedies but there may be others from whom

> may receive some advice in that direction.

>

> Thanks for an opportunity to look into your chart.

>

> Rohiniranjan

>

> , " krithikskandan "

> <krithikskandan@ ...> wrote:

> >

> > Namasthe

> >

> > My mother in law came from india.fRom may 1st 2007 to oct 5th

2007

> > theres some fightings with my inlaws.She returned on october 5th

> to

> > india.But when she is leaving she told me that she will call each

> of

> > my family members(my aunts and uncles and all)and she will

> complaint

> > about me.Even if i say something or not iam getting quarrel

> > situations.I know that i have saturn 7.5 years period.Even i went

> to

> > help others also they are scolding me with bad words.Some times i

> > hurted my self.Is it good for me to travel india this time?

> booked

> > tickets to india on feb 13th.Iam searching for jobs also. Dont

want

> > to go to india because of the quarrels.My husband cant say any

> thing

> > infront of elders.

> >

> > My date of birth is: 10th january 1980

> > place of birth: tuni(state:andhra pradesh,india)

> > time: 10:28 am

> > latitudes: 17n21,82e33

> >

> >

> > please help me with any remedies?

> >

>

>

>

>

>

>

____________________

______________

> Never miss a thing. Make your home page.

> http://www./r/hs

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hi,

 

Looks like your husband is fearful person.Even you are not yourself

so confident enough.Even your marital life, that is physical

relationship with husband is also not too good.

 

You are currenty going through Jupiter-SAturn period.Jupiter is

yogkarak in your chart, well placed in Navmas and Lagna kundli.

 

I think you because of bad relationship with Husband, you will have

affair in you life.May sure it doesn't happen.It will tkae plave

after mid 2010.Profesioanlly I think you will get Job abd rise higher

then your husband in your Life.

 

, " krithikskandan "

<krithikskandan wrote:

>

> Namasthe

>

> My mother in law came from india.fRom may 1st 2007 to oct 5th 2007

> theres some fightings with my inlaws.She returned on october 5th

to

> india.But when she is leaving she told me that she will call each

of

> my family members(my aunts and uncles and all)and she will

complaint

> about me.Even if i say something or not iam getting quarrel

> situations.I know that i have saturn 7.5 years period.Even i went

to

> help others also they are scolding me with bad words.Some times i

> hurted my self.Is it good for me to travel india this time?

booked

> tickets to india on feb 13th.Iam searching for jobs also. Dont want

> to go to india because of the quarrels.My husband cant say any

thing

> infront of elders.

>

> My date of birth is: 10th january 1980

> place of birth: tuni(state:andhra pradesh,india)

> time: 10:28 am

> latitudes: 17n21,82e33

>

>

> please help me with any remedies?

>