my life is messed

[Guest guest]

hello sir,

 

my name is Dweep i am 21 yr female,i am in a relationship with a

gujju boy(abhishek 24 yr),from last 18 months we are in

relationship,we got married in mandir,last yr,but id not

register,now due to i am marathi,n he is jain gujju,our families

opposing,had a big fight between his and my family on 23rd sep

08,and after that abhishek has not spoken to me even once,plese tell

me what to do,as for me,i know i am married but do not have any

proof of been married,and hence can not do anything,so plese help

me,i ca not leave without him,coz as a girl,i know i am married to

him,and cant think of anyone else to do a second marriage,and my

parents do not know i am married,as coz i do not have any proof so,i

can not even tell them that i am married,only he and i know that we

are married,plese help me,i am tensed and depressed.my family wants

me to get married by next year to a guy in my cast,i wud be

unmarried whol life,but wont get married to anyone else.plese tell

me can i get abhishek back??when and how??

 

DWEEP DOB-12nov1986

ABHISHEK DOB-9nov1984

 

 

 

 

plese reply soon,

 

Thanks,

Dweep S

[Guest guest]

Hey lady first of all don't get depressed, I am not a jyotishi just

an oridnary person who could guide.

First of all u got married in a temple in front of a priest(Hope

fuly). Make a stamp paper declaration of all the details regarding

marriage as per hindu act let u, the priest and ur husband sign get

it endorsed by registrar.Subsequently take a date to register the

marriage in the court..Please consult first a good womens' helping

cell,NGO(As they can provide good law related help) as i am not that

too. I hope so u would get a way.

Regards SAM

, " mona " <mona_online4ever

wrote:

>

> hello sir,

>

> my name is Dweep i am 21 yr female,i am in a relationship with a

> gujju boy(abhishek 24 yr),from last 18 months we are in

> relationship,we got married in mandir,last yr,but id not

> register,now due to i am marathi,n he is jain gujju,our families

> opposing,had a big fight between his and my family on 23rd sep

> 08,and after that abhishek has not spoken to me even once,plese

tell

> me what to do,as for me,i know i am married but do not have any

> proof of been married,and hence can not do anything,so plese help

> me,i ca not leave without him,coz as a girl,i know i am married to

> him,and cant think of anyone else to do a second marriage,and my

> parents do not know i am married,as coz i do not have any proof

so,i

> can not even tell them that i am married,only he and i know that

we

> are married,plese help me,i am tensed and depressed.my family

wants

> me to get married by next year to a guy in my cast,i wud be

> unmarried whol life,but wont get married to anyone else.plese tell

> me can i get abhishek back??when and how??

>

> DWEEP DOB-12nov1986

> ABHISHEK DOB-9nov1984

>

>

>

>

> plese reply soon,

>

> Thanks,

> Dweep S

>