Guest guest Posted June 3, 2009 Report Share Posted June 3, 2009 Hello sir, I am in high dilemma what shall i do. reason of dilemma is my already solemenized marriage. my and my wife's details are as follows please advice. Male:- Mr. Omprakash sharma dob :- 16th january 1984 time:- 07:15 am place:- Gangapur, Bhilwara, Rajasthan female:- Mrs preety omprakash sharma dob :- 12th August 1987 time:- 12:15 pm place:- Merta city rajasthan sir, i believe that i have been cheated around by girl as well as her family members, as girl is no good from moral and code of conduct. highly cunning and politican minded. while my parents love her and are ready to kill me if i dont keep her. she has done such a havoc at home that my parents are against me and my thoughts of divorce from her. my reason to get divorce from her is because of her moral. please advice me. my sister is ready to convince my parents for divorce and would probably happen. but parents are asking me to reconsider whole issue. my wife is pregnant and ths is the reason why parents are asking to reconsider. i firmly believe that this girl had low character even the time we were engaged and will continue to do so by keeping several affairs. please advice me on this matter what shall be done. if divorce happens, will i get good girl ever back again in my life. regards, Omprakash sharma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 Dear Om Prakash ji, Going by your present state of mind, state of affairs and marriage in Nov 2008, as you’ve said, your lagna should be Capricorn. Sun in lagna, Jup, mer in 12H, rahu moon in 5H, Saturn mars in 10H and venus and ke in 11H. These are the few very basic checks to confirm you lagna:Jupiter as 12L in 12H with 6/9 L mercury, could've taken you out of India in jup-jup 2006. Was it accompanied by a break in something you were pursuing here? Are you working in the field of finance/accountancy? Rahu with moon in 5H of affairs, aspected by venus, rahu-moon around 2004, could have an affair which didn’t work out.Sometimes in 2006, in Ra-mar you have another affair/engagement. Mars with LL Saturn in 10H aspecting 7L moon and lagna and dashanath rahu. 8L sun in Capricorn, Saturn transits in 8H in leo does it give you some sudden problem with bone/leg as Jup-sat starts from mid 2008. 7H in natal chart as well as navamsha is afflicted and you’re facing problems in marriage and you live away from wife. To an extent what you’re saying appears to be correct. I have checked your wife’s chart too. I shall be able to tell give you my reading once you confirm the above. RegardsNeelam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 Namaste Didi yes you are correct. i completed c.a inter both groups on 28th jan 2006 when results were declared in same year 2006 13th feb i was engaged with my wife on 15th feb 2006 my visas were approved for australia (student visa) on 2nd march 2006 i came to australia i had affair in year 2003 nov 23rd (infatutation initially) untill 20th feb 2004 (shivratri) in year 2008, on 14th july 2008 my left leg just above ankle leg was nearly amputed but now i am allright and running again. fixed with rod in it. i was lying down on myself no help from home. very bad 3 months. nothing to eat coz nobody to go to buy for me from store. rarely my cousin use to come to see me over and then he use to go for my shopping. hardest time i have ever seen.. 24th nov 2008 i got married and another bad time started... , neelam gupta <neelamgupta07 wrote: > > Dear Om Prakash ji, > > Going by your present state of mind, state of affairs and marriage in Nov > 2008, as you've said, your lagna should be Capricorn. Sun in lagna, Jup, mer > in 12H, rahu moon in 5H, Saturn mars in 10H and venus and ke in 11H. > > These are the few very basic checks to confirm you lagna: > > - Jupiter as 12L in 12H with 6/9 L mercury, could've taken you out of > India in jup-jup 2006. Was it accompanied by a break in something you > were pursuing here? Are you working in the field of finance/accountancy? > - Rahu with moon in 5H of affairs, aspected by venus, rahu-moon around > 2004, could have an affair which didn't work out. > - Sometimes in 2006, in Ra-mar you have another affair/engagement. Mars > with LL Saturn in 10H aspecting 7L moon and lagna and dashanath rahu. > - 8L sun in Capricorn, Saturn transits in 8H in leo does it give you some > sudden problem with bone/leg as Jup-sat starts from mid 2008. > > 7H in natal chart as well as navamsha is afflicted and you're facing > problems in marriage and you live away from wife. To an extent what you're > saying appears to be correct. I have checked your wife's chart too. I shall > be able to tell give you my reading once you confirm the above. > > Regards > Neelam > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 Dear Omprakash ji, Thank you for your feedback and confirming the details. You should take your lagna as Capricorn. Please understand the point that your 7H and 7L are afflicted. So is venus, the karaka for love and marriage in several vargas too. Navamsha is also afflicted. There is no benefic aspect on the 7H. I do not wish to comment on your wife’s moral character but navamsha lagna with ketu and LL Saturn getting neecha in 4H and aspecting lagna does not create a happy and healthy seen. Neecha saturn aspecting mercury affects the thinking process. You are under the influence of Saturn which is both good and bad in Jup-sat. You are in already living away from your wife I think. Legal separation can happen only after mid of 2011. In the meantime you may try to patch up and make her understand. She is very young and pregnant too. You can take her abroad with you and start afresh. There is no problem which cannot be solved with mutual agreement. Second marriage is not a guarantee for happiness. You have to be very careful about the choice of the girl. Hope this will help. Best WishesNeelam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 can i take this as i will never find a girl of morale and good ethical behaviour. neelam didi from my very childhood if i had only and only dream is of most loyal wife and nothing else i ever dreamt as at yet... when boys are just age of 5 years, i use to say my mom that i will get good daughter in law to you just like you. is there no chance that anything can be done so that i get good girl. i dont mind looks at all but morality and code of conduct with ethical behaviour is my prime most important. please didi advise. can you please also advice on my career. my dad is calling me back to india asking to start c.a again and i have currently applied for permanent residency of australia. decision can take upto 12 more months. shall i go back and start my career in india or stay back and wait for things to come my way in australia. , neelam gupta <neelamgupta07 wrote: > > Dear Omprakash ji, > > Thank you for your feedback and confirming the details. You should take your > lagna as Capricorn. > > Please understand the point that your 7H and 7L are afflicted. So is venus, > the karaka for love and marriage in several vargas too. Navamsha is also > afflicted. There is no benefic aspect on the 7H. I do not wish to comment on > your wife's moral character but navamsha lagna with ketu and LL Saturn > getting neecha in 4H and aspecting lagna does not create a happy and healthy > seen. Neecha saturn aspecting mercury affects the thinking process. You are > under the influence of Saturn which is both good and bad in Jup-sat. > > You are in already living away from your wife I think. Legal separation can > happen only after mid of 2011. In the meantime you may try to patch up and > make her understand. She is very young and pregnant too. You can take her > abroad with you and start afresh. There is no problem which cannot be solved > with mutual agreement. Second marriage is not a guarantee for happiness. You > have to be very careful about the choice of the girl. > > Hope this will help. > > Best Wishes > Neelam > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 thanks didi. you should be counsellor of two hearts too. you have great grip in catching thief in me. i knew that i was too much suspicious and but was hiding this. you are the person who nicely ignored that and showed me better way to to lead life. thanking you heartily didi naman aaaste.... JAI SHRI KRISHNA , " omprakash_sharma64 " <omprakash_sharma64 wrote: > > can i take this as i will never find a girl of morale and good ethical behaviour. neelam didi from my very childhood if i had only and only dream is of most loyal wife and nothing else i ever dreamt as at yet... > > when boys are just age of 5 years, i use to say my mom that i will get good daughter in law to you just like you. is there no chance that anything can be done so that i get good girl. i dont mind looks at all but morality and code of conduct with ethical behaviour is my prime most important. please didi advise. > > can you please also advice on my career. my dad is calling me back to india asking to start c.a again and i have currently applied for permanent residency of australia. decision can take upto 12 more months. shall i go back and start my career in india or stay back and wait for things to come my way in australia. > > > > > > , neelam gupta <neelamgupta07@> wrote: > > > > Dear Omprakash ji, > > > > Thank you for your feedback and confirming the details. You should take your > > lagna as Capricorn. > > > > Please understand the point that your 7H and 7L are afflicted. So is venus, > > the karaka for love and marriage in several vargas too. Navamsha is also > > afflicted. There is no benefic aspect on the 7H. I do not wish to comment on > > your wife's moral character but navamsha lagna with ketu and LL Saturn > > getting neecha in 4H and aspecting lagna does not create a happy and healthy > > seen. Neecha saturn aspecting mercury affects the thinking process. You are > > under the influence of Saturn which is both good and bad in Jup-sat. > > > > You are in already living away from your wife I think. Legal separation can > > happen only after mid of 2011. In the meantime you may try to patch up and > > make her understand. She is very young and pregnant too. You can take her > > abroad with you and start afresh. There is no problem which cannot be solved > > with mutual agreement. Second marriage is not a guarantee for happiness. You > > have to be very careful about the choice of the girl. > > > > Hope this will help. > > > > Best Wishes > > Neelam > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 Dear Omprakash ji,Only if life were so simple! You are very young and your wife even younger. Life is not black or white, it comes in all shades of grey. And what we see is sometimes our own reflection and perception. Even if you feel your wife has or had other interests, she is now going to be a mother which will change her priorities.She would need your love and care and not suspicion and intolerance and things will improve slowly. You will have a good career abroad and you may not come back to India. Try taking your wife and child with you abroad and turn a new leaf in your life.If she lives abroad with you, issue of divorce will not come up. All the best.RegardsNeelam2009/6/5 omprakash_sharma64 <omprakash_sharma64 can i take this as i will never find a girl of morale and good ethical behaviour. neelam didi from my very childhood if i had only and only dream is of most loyal wife and nothing else i ever dreamt as at yet... when boys are just age of 5 years, i use to say my mom that i will get good daughter in law to you just like you. is there no chance that anything can be done so that i get good girl. i dont mind looks at all but morality and code of conduct with ethical behaviour is my prime most important. please didi advise. can you please also advice on my career. my dad is calling me back to india asking to start c.a again and i have currently applied for permanent residency of australia. decision can take upto 12 more months. shall i go back and start my career in india or stay back and wait for things to come my way in australia. , neelam gupta <neelamgupta07 wrote: > > Dear Omprakash ji, > > Thank you for your feedback and confirming the details. You should take your > lagna as Capricorn. > > Please understand the point that your 7H and 7L are afflicted. So is venus, > the karaka for love and marriage in several vargas too. Navamsha is also > afflicted. There is no benefic aspect on the 7H. I do not wish to comment on > your wife's moral character but navamsha lagna with ketu and LL Saturn > getting neecha in 4H and aspecting lagna does not create a happy and healthy > seen. Neecha saturn aspecting mercury affects the thinking process. You are > under the influence of Saturn which is both good and bad in Jup-sat. > > You are in already living away from your wife I think. Legal separation can > happen only after mid of 2011. In the meantime you may try to patch up and > make her understand. She is very young and pregnant too. You can take her > abroad with you and start afresh. There is no problem which cannot be solved > with mutual agreement. Second marriage is not a guarantee for happiness. You > have to be very careful about the choice of the girl. > > Hope this will help. > > Best Wishes > Neelam > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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