Love and Marriage

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Hi, I have some questions on my chart.I would really appreciate replies. I am

born on 9th Oct 1984. Time of birth is 8:20 AM and place of birth is

Hyderabad,Andhrapradesh. Gender is Female.

 

My questions:

 

1. I have a very tough time with my love and marriage.AFter a very happy

relationship for yrs me and my boy friend fought so much for the pressures we

had in convincing our parents. Too much pressure from our parents side

frustrated us. Myself crying all the time as my parents were fixing my

engagement further increased pressure in both of us. His Financial problems, my

financial problems as we were still doing masters further created more pressure

and we started yelling on each other as i felt that he is not sharing the

pressure i had from my parents due to marriage and he was feeling pressure as he

is not settled in life and my parents wanted to perform my wedding as soon as

possible. Unable to convince his parents for wedding before his elder brothers

marriage and his financial pressures freaked both of us. He unable to take

pressure for months together(We experienced more than 7 months pressure) stopped

talking to me for a small fight. Though he thought to talk to me after 2 days he

tried to control my crying and unable to handle my parents acted like a stupid

and didnt talk to me. That created more and more pressures and this fight became

more serious as my parents fixed my engagement with another guy as basically my

parents were not interested as its an intercaste marriage. Situations went so

out of control that i talked to his father as he was not talking with ego. His

father stopped talking to his son and the out come is that we are not talking to

each other at all now. I just want to know if i get married to this guy. He

really loved me which i am sure but i dont know if there are solutions to this

problem. He is born in ANdhrapradesh on 1st May 1984 around 8:10 AM. He worked

offcampus for 17 yrs a day which used to stress him out so much and make him

irritated when i told him his problems. How ever i cannot change past so i wanna

know any stones or remedies which can unite us. He and me are done with Masters

in US and now looking for jobs. NEither of us had any luck with job search can

you please let us know about our settlement in life? I more than anything want

to know about our wedding. I want to know when he talks back and when we can be

happy like before.sorry for the lengthy message. I am desperately waiting for

reply. Thanks!