Guest guest Posted August 23, 2006 Report Share Posted August 23, 2006 Hare Rama Krishna Dear Vijaya, You might also want to read Sanjays article on " sambandha " I prefer a combination of practical approach and technical approach. 1) First thing is to understand the type of man your daughter is destined to marry.Or if she is destined to marry at all. Notice her UL, second from UL, 7th lord from Venus ,etc and all that sort of study. Notice any flaws. Notice the time (dasa period) indicated for marraige to occur....Cant make something happen before its time. 2)Then considering the above points take the most likely matches and try and match the technical points, 3)In the end, help her pick someone who a) Is a nice man who will/can take good care of her and any children. b) Get a good marraige muhurta and Have them marry when jupiter is aspecting the 2nd from UL Because if you check the charts of people who have been married a long time ,many of the " kuta " points and this and that just dont matter. Best wishes Lakshmi -- In sohamsa , " v_kumar " <v_kumar wrote: > > Dear Sanjay Rath, Visti and Scholars on the list, > > I am undergoing a very peculiar problem regarding considering marriage proposals for my daughter. > > As usual, the starting point is to look for Kuta agreements, then looking for mutual placement of planets, dasha results etc...In addition, I have come across the concept of Ghataka through Sanjay Rath's article, where Rasi-Tithi-Day Ghatakas are at least required to be avoided for marriage matters. > > Her birth details are as follows : > > Rasi : Capricorn > Tithi : Poorna tithi (Full Moon day) > Star : Dhanishta > Lagna : Cancer Lagna > Day : Thursday > --------- > > Now, let me consider 2 premises to shortlist the proposals as follows : > > 01. Meet the Graha maitri which seems essential > 02. Avoid mutual shashashtaka placement of Moon > 03. Avoid Ghataka for Rasi-Tithi-Day from both the charts to each other. > > --------- > In this case, the constraints figure as follows : > > A. Partner having Aries-Cancer-Scorpio Rasis are straightaway avoided, as either Graha maitri is not available or Moon is in mutual 6/8. > B. Partner having Gemini Rasi are avoided due to mutual Moon in 6/8. > C. Partner having Leo is avoided because of no Graha mairti, mutual Moon in 6/8 and Leo Rasi being Ghataka to Capricorn > D. Partner having Pisces-Sagittarius Rasis are avoided, as Graha maitri is poor, as both Jup-Sat are neutral to each other. > E. For Partners having Taurus, Virgo and Pisces Rasis, the Poorna tithi is avoided as it is the Ghataka for them, hence to be avoided. > F. For Partners having Libra and Aquarius Rasi, the Thursday day is Ghataka to them, hence to be avoided > > Now, I am left with NO RASI from where, I could short-list the charts for marriage. > > This leaves me with the following questions : > > 01. What is the relevance of Ghataka in real terms ? Why the classics which talk for marital compatibility fundamentals have not considered this parameter ? > > 02. Should we compromise on the Graha maitri or on the Ghataka ? > > 03. If the Ghataka considerations are to be over-looked, what can be done to mitigate their associated evils ? > > The scholars may kindly participate liberally in educating me on this issue. This is a very generic level issue, concerning one and all. > > Thanks and regards, > > Vijay Kumar > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2006 Report Share Posted August 24, 2006 Om Brihaspataye Namah Dear Vijaya and Lakshmi, Can I just add from my Shankaracharya studies, the bride needs to be willing to enter into, and fully support/serve the husbands world, and all that goes with it, as he is the seed of the union that serves humanity. Often when I discuss marriage prospects with young women they believe the opposite. ie the man will come into her ‘world’ and when you say otherwise , that particular husband becomes instantly less attractive. The idea is to show the resistances within her and help her to meet her match. Kind regards Rosemary sohamsa [sohamsa ] On Behalf Of lakshmikary Wednesday, 23 August 2006 4:32 p.m. sohamsa Re: Help reqd Hare Rama Krishna Dear Vijaya, You might also want to read Sanjays article on " sambandha " I prefer a combination of practical approach and technical approach. 1) First thing is to understand the type of man your daughter is destined to marry.Or if she is destined to marry at all. Notice her UL, second from UL, 7th lord from Venus ,etc and all that sort of study. Notice any flaws. Notice the time (dasa period) indicated for marraige to occur....Cant make something happen before its time. 2)Then considering the above points take the most likely matches and try and match the technical points, 3)In the end, help her pick someone who a) Is a nice man who will/can take good care of her and any children. b) Get a good marraige muhurta and Have them marry when jupiter is aspecting the 2nd from UL Because if you check the charts of people who have been married a long time ,many of the " kuta " points and this and that just dont matter. Best wishes Lakshmi -- In sohamsa , " v_kumar " <v_kumar wrote: > > Dear Sanjay Rath, Visti and Scholars on the list, > > I am undergoing a very peculiar problem regarding considering marriage proposals for my daughter. > > As usual, the starting point is to look for Kuta agreements, then looking for mutual placement of planets, dasha results etc...In addition, I have come across the concept of Ghataka through Sanjay Rath's article, where Rasi-Tithi-Day Ghatakas are at least required to be avoided for marriage matters. > > Her birth details are as follows : > > Rasi : Capricorn > Tithi : Poorna tithi (Full Moon day) > Star : Dhanishta > Lagna : Cancer Lagna > Day : Thursday > --------- > > Now, let me consider 2 premises to shortlist the proposals as follows : > > 01. Meet the Graha maitri which seems essential > 02. Avoid mutual shashashtaka placement of Moon > 03. Avoid Ghataka for Rasi-Tithi-Day from both the charts to each other. > > --------- > In this case, the constraints figure as follows : > > A. Partner having Aries-Cancer-Scorpio Rasis are straightaway avoided, as either Graha maitri is not available or Moon is in mutual 6/8. > B. Partner having Gemini Rasi are avoided due to mutual Moon in 6/8. > C. Partner having Leo is avoided because of no Graha mairti, mutual Moon in 6/8 and Leo Rasi being Ghataka to Capricorn > D. Partner having Pisces-Sagittarius Rasis are avoided, as Graha maitri is poor, as both Jup-Sat are neutral to each other. > E. For Partners having Taurus, Virgo and Pisces Rasis, the Poorna tithi is avoided as it is the Ghataka for them, hence to be avoided. > F. For Partners having Libra and Aquarius Rasi, the Thursday day is Ghataka to them, hence to be avoided > > Now, I am left with NO RASI from where, I could short-list the charts for marriage. > > This leaves me with the following questions : > > 01. What is the relevance of Ghataka in real terms ? Why the classics which talk for marital compatibility fundamentals have not considered this parameter ? > > 02. Should we compromise on the Graha maitri or on the Ghataka ? > > 03. If the Ghataka considerations are to be over-looked, what can be done to mitigate their associated evils ? > > The scholars may kindly participate liberally in educating me on this issue. This is a very generic level issue, concerning one and all. > > Thanks and regards, > > Vijay Kumar > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2009 Report Share Posted June 26, 2009 Lalitha You may post this in keralaiyers.com, pattars.com etc...I am sure some one going that side would be surely there. Regds Vimal Iyer Dubai , " chennai92 . " <chennai92 wrote: > > hello > > i am a member of the naadi astrology group from chennai > > i want to know whether any members of the group will be travelling to > europe-in month of july from chennai > > some food & medicines needs to be sent to a person staying at stockholm, > sweden . > > so in case anyone is going and is willing to carry a small bag, i would be > more grateful. > > kindly inform me in such cases > > thnx & regards > lalithaa > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2009 Report Share Posted June 26, 2009 Ms. Lalitha, As this forum is not for these requests. Kindly send by courier. Please restrain from posting personal posts here. Dhinakar Rajaram Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2010 Report Share Posted April 6, 2010 Namaskar Panditji, I have been undergoing tough period past 4 years, people who are close they are ditching and do not have a stable job and lot of people are doing witchcraft against me. Dont have peace. Really in deep trouble.. Pl analyse my horo and suggest. DOB: 1-mar-72 TOB: 2:25am POB: bangalore thnx, jay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2010 Report Share Posted April 6, 2010 Namaskaar ji, I am not a Guruji and also not a Punditji. You may address me as " Bhaskar ji " . Please answer these 4 Questions - a) Is your wife very beautiful ? b) Are you going to inherit lot of property ? c) Do You have lots of happiness in your family ? d) Do You have good wealth in your family ? You can answer in a " Yes " or " No " if You require. regards/Bhaskar. , " raman.jay91 " <raman.jay91 wrote: > > Namaskar Panditji, > > I have been undergoing tough period past 4 years, people who are close they are ditching and do not have a stable job and lot of people are doing witchcraft against me. Dont have peace. Really in deep trouble.. Pl analyse my horo and suggest. > > DOB: 1-mar-72 > TOB: 2:25am > POB: bangalore > > thnx, > jay > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2010 Report Share Posted April 7, 2010 > > a) Is your wife very beautiful ? No > > b) Are you going to inherit lot of property ? No > > c) Do You have lots of happiness in your family ? Average > > d) Do You have good wealth in your family ? Middle class Family > >> > > > > , " raman.jay91 " <raman.jay91@> > wrote: > > > > Namaskar Panditji, > > > > I have been undergoing tough period past 4 years, people who are close > they are ditching and do not have a stable job and lot of people are > doing witchcraft against me. Dont have peace. Really in deep trouble.. > Pl analyse my horo and suggest. > > > > DOB: 1-mar-72 > > TOB: 2:25am > > POB: bangalore > > > > thnx, > > jay > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2010 Report Share Posted April 7, 2010 Dear Jay, Your wife is Not very beautiful, You are NOT going to inherit a Lot of property. Your family is a average middle class family. Then why the Hell are lot of people doing witchcraft over you ? Can You explain what actions you did on them to make them do so ? And why have you not followed the instructions mentioned on the Home Page, without which I cannot see your chart or reply you ? Bhaskar. , " raman.jay91 " <raman.jay91 wrote: > > > > > > a) Is your wife very beautiful ? No > > > > b) Are you going to inherit lot of property ? No > > > > c) Do You have lots of happiness in your family ? Average > > > > d) Do You have good wealth in your family ? Middle class Family > > > >> > > > > > > > > , " raman.jay91 " <raman.jay91@> > > wrote: > > > > > > Namaskar Panditji, > > > > > > I have been undergoing tough period past 4 years, people who are close > > they are ditching and do not have a stable job and lot of people are > > doing witchcraft against me. Dont have peace. Really in deep trouble.. > > Pl analyse my horo and suggest. > > > > > > DOB: 1-mar-72 > > > TOB: 2:25am > > > POB: bangalore > > > > > > thnx, > > > jay > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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