Nicely said

May 13, 2007

Hello Aashna,

You seem to be a very sweet Young lady, and would like

to meet you someday, if ever I have the money to come to

America. But why not spread only that sweetness of Yours

around .

I thought that The Sunil Nair Chapter was over. Please

keep it closed. By the way he did apologise to You

in one previous mail (I am sorry sister - he did say

and other statements too).

And You said - Your Mr. Nair .

Ashna in this world nobody's yours and mines.

Those who speak sweetly to us they become ours

and when the same people speak bitterly to us they

become theirs. This is the world we live in.

Koi apna . Nahi Sab sapna hai.

Naa jaane kaise pal mein badal jaate hain.

Yeh duniya ke badalte rishte.

This is all relative business. so I do not take sides.

Ultimately all are good. We are no one to judge anyone.

and everyone has holes in his heart which contain both love

and the other feeling. Let us fill those holes only with love.

take care,

and no more of old stuff,

come out with newbies.

Bhaskar.

, " Ashna Singh "

<ashna_singh_2002 wrote:

>

> Hi,

> I think you made ur point clear Bhaskarji. Astrology is a great

> science, and a gift from God...but people should be properly

> recompensed for their work. I'll give an example...i was so

> impressed by my reading in the pvt messages, i personally wanted to

> pay him for giving his service. I was feeling like i was using him

> when he kept refusing money. It takes hours to read a chart, and i

> think it's only proper to pay. Even if things don't come out

> accurately, one should still pay for the time spent. There are

> people who take advantage of free service, but i think people do

> becus they don't know which astrologer is legit. I live in America

> and so many of my friends have been conned by so-called astrologers

> and so they become leary. I've also come across people who are

> testing astrologers, and i don't think that's a correct thing to do.

> I see people running from one forum to the next, asking for help. I

> think it's desperation on their part rather than ill will.

> Astrologers should be respected, and if they want that respect,

> they must hold themselves in high-esteem. Let ur website and/or work

> speak for itself. Word abt a good astrologer gets around quick. One

> who has true siddhi will maintain an equalibrium, under all

> circumstances. Spreading false-hood abt ppl, being frustrated or

> angry, well, they all stand in the way of Siddhi. This is not a dart

> at anyone, truly. An intelligent person will naturally gravitate

> towards the humble, kind, and honest person. In my 27 years, this is

> the first time i came across an adult who talked the way Mr.Nair

> did, being an astrologer. The message was supposed to be private,

> well, God had it's own intentions, and it was exposed...and whether

> i ever replied or not, there are others who saw that message and

> must have thought twice abt Mr. Nair's professionalism. If someone

> were to go to him, they would think twice due to him openly telling

> people on forums their very personal, private pain. The pain and

> embarrassment caused me to break down....i am sorry abt ur business

> being hurt, but i also am in grave pain.

> I still will openly say that people should not judge Sunil Nair

> based on wot i have said, or wot others are saying abt him. After

> all, if you go to him, it is ur personal responsiblity as it is with

> everything in life. In this field especially, it's important to

> maintain ur reputation. If you simply minded ur own business, ur

> message would not have been written, and sent to all the members of

> this forum, not only making my personal life a tell-all, but closing

> the doors of professionalism and ethics in ur own life. Now instead

> of apologizing for talking abt me in such a ridiculous manner, ur

> back-paddling to save ur business. I've apologized many times

> already, but did you Mr. Nair apologize to me for talking in such a

> way abt me, without provocation??

> I've had enough for one day!

>

> , " Bhaskar "

> <bhaskar_jyotish@> wrote:

> >

> > Dear all,

> >

> > If this man is so humble then I want to be one up.

> > I dont like staying behind. I too should be exposed.

> > Because I too charge money for those who wish to get

> > readings from me on my personal id or chat. At least

> > I demand. And of the five hundred whom I demand only

> > one comes back to pay me.

> > I say clearly to them that I do free service on Forums,

> > but rest of my time if they wish to get

> > free readongs then it is not possible cause I charge.

> > This must be a great crime I suppose in eyes of few,

> > but if it is one, then so be it so.

> >

> > Who has seen the shoes which I have worn for last 3

> > years without replacing them with new ones ?

> > Who has seen the bed I sleep upon which has

> > not been changed for 20 Years.

> > Who has seen my Watch which I have not changed for last

> > 15 years.

> > Who has seen my clothes which I buy once in a year.

> > Who has seen my torn Pyjama Kurtas which have not been

> > replaced by new ones.

> > Who knows how many times I have avoided going to the sprawling

> > Shopping malls all over, where I would be tempted to buy, but

> > with empty pockets would have to be torn with grief and

> > come back singing a sad song and empty hands.

> > Who has to listen to childrens woes who have not been granted

> > or put into the better academic courses for lack of funds

> > required as Fees.

> > Who has seen the expression on my face when my old mother

> > has to wait for another relatives car to pick her up in

> > absence of her own car which her son could not buy for her

> > even after having grown up.

> > Who has seen My Old PC which keeps on getting shut down

> > and which is assembled and being upgraded on and off 3

> > times a year, because i dont have mpney to buy a good one

> > in a single shot.

> > Who knows that I visit Movies once in 3 years because one visit

> > with 4 family members would cost Rs.1500- as tickets in Bombay

> > are available in good halls between Rs.150-200 and after

> > movie normally its the customary action of going for dinner to

> > some restaurant.

> > Who knows that My wife has not been presented a beautiful saree

> > by me for last 15 years.

> > Who knows that I still carry the old Cell Phone (Black and White)

> > which Reliance Mobile came out first with.

> > Who knows that we have to be content with the 50 year old furniture

> > discarded by our forefathers, in absence of finance to renovate

> > or make new ones.

> > Who knows how I send my family out of station when they have to

> visit

> > their Grandparents who stay 1200 kms away. Which class berths I

> book

> > who knows that.

> > Who knows how many thousands of times and thousands of places we

> have

> > to cut corners with, and still mantain or try to mantain basic

> > self-respect in society.

> > The people who ask for free readings would not know that.

> > Because they must be having theior own problems to sit in my

> > place and think about mines.

> > No amount of explaining would hekp them, if i try to explain them

> that

> > even what the educations their children receive at school is

> divine,

> > and they should approach the principal of the school where their

> > children study and ask them for free educations of their children.

> > Or they should tell the tuition teacher who gives tuitions to their

> > children why you are aksing money for tuitions .You are teaching, a

> > Teacher, a divine person, doing divine job,

> > so dont ask tuition Fees. Or when their family Doctors give them

> > prescription for some ailment and then asks for fees, they should

> ask

> > them why are you taking fees for doing such a noble act of healing

> > someone.You are in such a noble profession, why do you want to

> charge

> > fees. Or when their family member has to be admitted in some good

> > hospital, and immediately they have to first deposit Good money to

> the

> > reception Counter at the hospital for booking a room, that time

> also

> > they should ask the hospital authorities that why they want to take

> > money for such a Noble profession.

> > But unfortunately they fold their hands and talk there., and here

> they

> > curse and demand from the astrologers, as if its their birthright

> and

> > the astrologers duties to give for free.

> >

> > But its the bloody astrologers who are to be blamed and no one

> else.

> > We feel ashamed to cross or set the limits , of the answer of any

> > query. We want to look good. We cannot say that okay i will answer

> > this much, and the rest I shall not, because thats all time I can

> give

> > to you. We feel scared of our bloody already spoilt reputations to

> > say that. This actually great Noble Profession has been spoilt by

> such

> > astrologers who cannot set a limit. We are ever ready to advertise

> for

> > free readings.We are ever ready to even answer for a paltry sum of

> > Rs.100- Such astrologers undermine and bring down the name and

> status

> > of astrology. Do free work at one side on the Forums and demand

> good

> > money on the other side when someone approaches You, has been my

> > principal throughout.No wrong there I feel. No wrong in

> > having a Website I suppose, because a grocer would have s shop to

> > display his wares. A fruit seller would have a stall for same. A

> > bookseller would have a shop to do the same etcetra. So why not a

> > astrologer. If he begs for busines then that is third class

> behaviour.

> > Which is not good. But advertising his website withoutcoming down

> > on the knees for people to visit his site, is agreeable.

> >

> > Who are the people who criticize about astrologers asking money ?

> > Let them come to my place. I will show them how one lives.

> > let them also show how much and what substance themselves they are

> > imparting to the public for free.

> >

> > I mantain at the same time, that astrology is a divine science

> given

> > as a lovely gift to the few, and we should not misuse this gift of

> > God. Let the extreme needy who are suffering medically be served

> free,

> > let the persons who come on Forums who cannot pay due to sundry

> > reasons, or do not want to pay, be given free service (Voluntarily

> by

> > astrologers and not on demand by natives coming here) if anyone is

> > interested he will reply. Let not the natives-Posters talk wrong

> about

> > the astrologers working here selflessly. They should be immediately

> > warned by the other astrologers in the community if one is

> attacked,

> > The rest should not sit cool and enjoy one of his tribe being

> mauled

> > by others. Thats cheap pleasure and brings the ojas of the observer

> > down. The remaining astrologers should come out with their weapons

> > (Proper Words of powwer). At the same time, the dirty astrologers

> of

> > this Community should be exposed, those who bring down the name of

> > this divine science should be exposed fully and made known to

> others,

> > so that next time he will not have guts to fool any gullible native

> > coming for help.

> >

> > We need to have certain ethics in this Profession, otherwise we are

> > also a part of bringing down astrology to the level of roadside

> > stalls and competetion of shoe sellers. This science is great. We

> have

> > to remain great, lofty and High in our thinking and behaviour

> patterns

> >

> > We have to be proud of our Profession which has been Gods gift,

> > and should be worthy of same. Do not get down from the High seat

> > You have been given, do not spoil it, mantain its dignity, and

> > let the native coming to us, be known

> > that You are the giver and he is the taker, and not vice-versa.

> > At the same time we have to be humble in front of our respective

> > Gods, for giving us the opportunity to help someone, and for His

> > making us an instrument for doing this great job.

> >

> > Ultimately concluding.

> > So ask the Fees wherever necessary, so that Your wife and

> > children do not have to go next doors for their evening dinners

> > and morning lunches, do free work too, mantain the equanimity ,

> > also dignity should be high, do not lower self respect either of

> > Yourself or astrology.

> >

> > Sorry for any objectionable matter above.

> > All the best for a Happy Sunday.

> >

> > Bhaskar.

> >

> > , " astro_tellerkerala "

> > <astro_tellerkerala@> wrote:

> > >

> > > om krishna guru,

> > >

> > > dear all and panda ji,

> > >

> > > who ever affected by the commercialisation of astrology by

> > this man

> > > ,like going after them and offerring reading should come out and

> pls

> > > help to expose this man ,who is a shame for astrology as

> astrologers

> > > should do free service and ignore their families and them selves

> and all

> > > their bills r magicaly being taken care of by god who ever do

> free

> > > astrology ,still this man is out of selfishness and greedy for

> money

> > > making millions ,u can see all astrologers r raided by income

> tax for

> > > making money illegaly .In all cities the astrologers who do

> commercialy

> > > r bigger money earners than any body in other profession .

> > >

> > > Also this man has a sidhi ,he can identify people who ever

> comes in

> > > net and he will approach them in the context of reading .Still

> people

> > > ignore him as lot of people r doing it for free and y shud

> people shud

> > > go for him.

> > >

> > > For naadi reading he asking names of family members and some

> details

> > > .AS u know that if a person has preta sidhi which can be

> achieved very

> > > easily ,who can say all names of family members ,y for nadi

> reading he

> > > wants names of persons .

> > >

> > > he is saying he wants to double check on it ,then y he needs

> hand

> > > prints and photos ,he is saying to identify the strenght of

> planets and

> > > see if the reading done by the reader is correct or not .Y he

> shud do it

> > > .

> > >

> > > Who ask him to do reserch on nadi and all people dont care wat u

> do ,if

> > > u giv them free reading it well and fine ,no reserch shud be

> done .Y he

> > > wanted to list and tabulate all readings ,with details and

> predictions

> > > and make available for future generations .If he dont know how

> to read

> > > ancient text ,what he shud do is just translate the reader and

> giv other

> > > all free and maintain the leaf library and maintain the reader

> and his

> > > family and maintain himself by gods grace and y he shud ask

> money for

> > > reading .

> > >

> > > He is doing prashna first ,he says i hav no time to go for chart

> reading

> > > ,y he shud do that he do charts which ever supplied by us and any

> > > informations if he ask for double checking is a fraud who can do

> quick

> > > dollars by supplying back the same information to us.

> > >

> > > Y cant he do free and if he askes money even after ten readings

> we shud

> > > expose him .Like horliks can do advt their own its not a crime

> but in

> > > this era of internet astrology if some body make a web site

> > > professionaly designed if he is an astrologer he shud be hanged

> till

> > > death ,let him mind god is watching him and his place in hell is

> already

> > > reserved .

> > >

> > > In his recent tour to south for his so called reserch on nadi

> and

> > leafs

> > > even though almost 40 persons of us who is wel placed in society

> > > promised all support ,as we might hav taken free reading from

> him in

> > > last 3 years for us and family ,relatives and frnds.But we

> identify the

> > > evil intention of him and we withdraw our promises and after

> reaching

> > > city we told our family members to say we r out of station .Why

> the hell

> > > he needs money and why he shud stay in hotels or lodges and why

> he shud

> > > eat decent food as footpath and free water was available every

> where and

> > > y shud he use taxis as in olden times people used walk long

> distance and

> > > slept under the shades of trees .If he is doing a devine

> professions ,he

> > > shud do it devinely

> > >

> > > so please every body one by one or as a whole do expose him and

> tell the

> > > community ,the astrocities done by this fraud .

> > >

> > > Also when some of us who are all students of our own

> chartastrology

> > > ,why cant him reply and tell what he find in his so called

> reserch.Even

> > > questions in his direct names and mails r ignored.

> > >

> > > So please all of us unite and expose all his activities.

> > >

> > > regds sunil nair .

> > >

> > > om shreem mahalaxmai namah.

> > >

May 13, 2007

hi sweetie,

i can feel yo pain...!!!the bleeding of yo yet not healed bruises must

hv occurred due to further scratching & tampering !

i extend my great appreciation in yo name...however,i need to smile on

me that i don't hold so much of strength & courage that u r blessed

with & i can't hold to tolerate so much but would run away with my own

tears sucking myself...!

bt it's not in our hand to decide wo deserves hell or otherwise.it is

solely God's discretion!

Good Luck 4 all time to come!