i want to father a child

May 15, 2007

my details are

i m married with a girl of my parent choice just few

days before. she is a girl of my parents chice.

actually i was in love with another. sir this girl is

not as per my desire. but my parents and all family

members forced me to do.but i m unable to set

relations with her. sir how will be my married life.

whether i will father a child. as i m not able to live

with her so. how to solve this problem . i am unable

to set relationship with her. as i am already involved

with another. but due to my parents force i married to

this girl. sir i m afraid if i wil do unjustice to

this girl also. but i cant help. sir how to solve this

prob and when i will become father of a child as my

parents are greatly waitng for my child.

Sir kya main mere parents ka sapna pura kar sakunga. i

find it very difficult. i m going through very

critical perid.

i can't live with that girl we are facing clashes.

sir i want to take divorce.

if divorce is possible.

we are not having any physical relationship

sir is there second marriage so that i can father a

child

sir is it possible to marry with my beloved.

dob - 31/8/1974

time - 6.35 am

latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

place - house was in nashirabad a village but hospital

was in jalgaon near bhusawal

thanks in advance

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May 15, 2007

I agree to Aashnas Mail.

Yes pyaar karnewale kabhi darte nahin,darte nahi,

Joh Darte hain woh pyaar karte nahin.

You have the guts to divorce this wife,

and have guts to marry a new girl and impergnate her.

But never had guts to refuse the

marriage in the first place.

By your not having relations with your legally

wedded wife, does not give you a license to re-marry

again, and does not denote any greatness on your part.

Whether You have has relations or not with her,

once you leave her, she would only be

treated as SECOND HAND and not treated like one

would treat a new Virgin Bride.

Sorry to say, but such mails and people, make me

sick.

Bhaskar.

-- In , " Ashna Singh "

<ashna_singh_2002 wrote:

>

> Hi there,

> It makes me sad to read such things...and NO OFFENCE, but you

> should have been strong enough to avoid marrying her...becus now not

> only have you ruined ur lover's life, but also ur new wife and ur

> own life!!! I am sorry...i know this is not my business....but wot

> is wrong with you people...falling in love, yet not being able to

> fight for that love. In listening to ur parents, you've

> married...did you not think abt the fact that you could not possibly

> give this wife of urs a fair chance at love, something that a

> marriage entails, since ur in love with another????

> Nonsense!! Utter nonsense! Now you wanna father a child, that too

> becus ur parents want it....MY GOODNESS! Ur obviously afraid of ur

> parents, and dear, JO PYAAR KARTE HAIN, WOH DARTE NAHIN....JOH DARTE

> HAIN, WOH PYAAR KARTE NAHIN!!! Grow a backbone, PLEASEE!!

>

> , ganesh b <gvb1974@>

> wrote:

> >

> > my details are

> >

> > i m married with a girl of my parent choice just few

> > days before. she is a girl of my parents chice.

> > actually i was in love with another. sir this girl is

> > not as per my desire. but my parents and all family

> > members forced me to do.but i m unable to set

> > relations with her. sir how will be my married life.

> > whether i will father a child. as i m not able to live

> > with her so. how to solve this problem . i am unable

> > to set relationship with her. as i am already involved

> > with another. but due to my parents force i married to

> > this girl. sir i m afraid if i wil do unjustice to

> > this girl also. but i cant help. sir how to solve this

> > prob and when i will become father of a child as my

> > parents are greatly waitng for my child.

> >

> > Sir kya main mere parents ka sapna pura kar sakunga. i

> > find it very difficult. i m going through very

> > critical perid.

> >

> > i can't live with that girl we are facing clashes.

> > sir i want to take divorce.

> >

> > if divorce is possible.

> > we are not having any physical relationship

> > sir is there second marriage so that i can father a

> > child

> > sir is it possible to marry with my beloved.

> >

> > dob - 31/8/1974

> > time - 6.35 am

> > latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

> >

> > place - house was in nashirabad a village but hospital

> > was in jalgaon near bhusawal

> >

> > thanks in advance

> >

> > Office firewalls, cyber cafes, college labs, don't allow you

> to download CHAT?

> http://in.messenger./webmessengerpromo.php

> >

>

May 15, 2007

No sane person would agree to your method of proceeding in life - where do you

want your karma to lead you?

Just goes to show how irrational actions and thought can drop people to the

deepest of the deeps. Such thoughts at this stage are deplorable, shameful,

vengeful... to say the least!

Now that you did not have the courage to fight for what you felt was right

make the best of the developments. Forget the past as a closed chapter for this

life. You may get your current love, maybe in the next life.

Make this lady happy rather than making many more unhappy in your attempt to

convert your thoughts into action... satisfaction in every action done by HIM

gives everlasting sweetness. It is very difficult to develop SANTOSH in life!

Try it and see how life changes for the better...every cloud has a silver

lining...

Amitabh Shastri

Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote:

I agree to Aashnas Mail.

Yes pyaar karnewale kabhi darte nahin,darte nahi,

Joh Darte hain woh pyaar karte nahin.

You have the guts to divorce this wife,

and have guts to marry a new girl and impergnate her.

But never had guts to refuse the

marriage in the first place.

By your not having relations with your legally

wedded wife, does not give you a license to re-marry

again, and does not denote any greatness on your part.

Whether You have has relations or not with her,

once you leave her, she would only be

treated as SECOND HAND and not treated like one

would treat a new Virgin Bride.

Sorry to say, but such mails and people, make me

sick.

Bhaskar.

-- In , " Ashna Singh "

<ashna_singh_2002 wrote:

>

> Hi there,

> It makes me sad to read such things...and NO OFFENCE, but you

> should have been strong enough to avoid marrying her...becus now not

> only have you ruined ur lover's life, but also ur new wife and ur

> own life!!! I am sorry...i know this is not my business....but wot

> is wrong with you people...falling in love, yet not being able to

> fight for that love. In listening to ur parents, you've

> married...did you not think abt the fact that you could not possibly

> give this wife of urs a fair chance at love, something that a

> marriage entails, since ur in love with another????

> Nonsense!! Utter nonsense! Now you wanna father a child, that too

> becus ur parents want it....MY GOODNESS! Ur obviously afraid of ur

> parents, and dear, JO PYAAR KARTE HAIN, WOH DARTE NAHIN....JOH DARTE

> HAIN, WOH PYAAR KARTE NAHIN!!! Grow a backbone, PLEASEE!!

>

> , ganesh b <gvb1974@>

> wrote:

> >

> > my details are

> >

> > i m married with a girl of my parent choice just few

> > days before. she is a girl of my parents chice.

> > actually i was in love with another. sir this girl is

> > not as per my desire. but my parents and all family

> > members forced me to do.but i m unable to set

> > relations with her. sir how will be my married life.

> > whether i will father a child. as i m not able to live

> > with her so. how to solve this problem . i am unable

> > to set relationship with her. as i am already involved

> > with another. but due to my parents force i married to

> > this girl. sir i m afraid if i wil do unjustice to

> > this girl also. but i cant help. sir how to solve this

> > prob and when i will become father of a child as my

> > parents are greatly waitng for my child.

> >

> > Sir kya main mere parents ka sapna pura kar sakunga. i

> > find it very difficult. i m going through very

> > critical perid.

> >

> > i can't live with that girl we are facing clashes.

> > sir i want to take divorce.

> >

> > if divorce is possible.

> > we are not having any physical relationship

> > sir is there second marriage so that i can father a

> > child

> > sir is it possible to marry with my beloved.

> >

> > dob - 31/8/1974

> > time - 6.35 am

> > latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

> >

> > place - house was in nashirabad a village but hospital

> > was in jalgaon near bhusawal

> >

> > thanks in advance

> >

> > Office firewalls, cyber cafes, college labs, don't allow you

> to download CHAT?

> http://in.messenger./webmessengerpromo.php

> >

>

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May 15, 2007

Dear Members,

The story this guy told is a general problem in this generation..love with

someone else and

marriage only as per parents. Whatever reason it is but this is happening.

not only boys, many girls are on this same track, love with someone else and

marriage with else.

reason might be success / money / family values...etc..

now if we go for such things than we can say some planets are making these

conditions not

happening in their lives...its all written by god..so we should accept it as it

is.

I am also victim of such condition. i m unmarried but someone did that

Hopefully we can search for marital harmony in that couple.

Regards

Tarun

--- Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar wrote:

> Dear Amitab, Bhaskar and others

>

> I saw the mail and first felt neds to give him an earful before even reading

any other mails and

> rightly all of u too have scoffed at him what a pity he can still father a

child like any stray

> dog does he need astrology and that too hurt si many lives

>

> Amitabh Shastri <amitabh_shastri wrote:

No sane

> person would agree to your method of proceeding in life - where do you want

your karma to lead

> you?

>

> Just goes to show how irrational actions and thought can drop people to the

deepest of the

> deeps. Such thoughts at this stage are deplorable, shameful, vengeful... to

say the least!

>

> Now that you did not have the courage to fight for what you felt was right

make the best of

> the developments. Forget the past as a closed chapter for this life. You may

get your current

> love, maybe in the next life.

>

> Make this lady happy rather than making many more unhappy in your attempt

to convert your

> thoughts into action... satisfaction in every action done by HIM gives

everlasting sweetness. It

> is very difficult to develop SANTOSH in life! Try it and see how life changes

for the

> better...every cloud has a silver lining...

>

> Amitabh Shastri

>

> Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote:

> I agree to Aashnas Mail.

> Yes pyaar karnewale kabhi darte nahin,darte nahi,

> Joh Darte hain woh pyaar karte nahin.

>

> You have the guts to divorce this wife,

> and have guts to marry a new girl and impergnate her.

> But never had guts to refuse the

> marriage in the first place.

> By your not having relations with your legally

> wedded wife, does not give you a license to re-marry

> again, and does not denote any greatness on your part.

> Whether You have has relations or not with her,

> once you leave her, she would only be

> treated as SECOND HAND and not treated like one

> would treat a new Virgin Bride.

> Sorry to say, but such mails and people, make me

> sick.

>

> Bhaskar.

>

> -- In , " Ashna Singh "

> <ashna_singh_2002 wrote:

> >

> > Hi there,

> > It makes me sad to read such things...and NO OFFENCE, but you

> > should have been strong enough to avoid marrying her...becus now not

> > only have you ruined ur lover's life, but also ur new wife and ur

> > own life!!! I am sorry...i know this is not my business....but wot

> > is wrong with you people...falling in love, yet not being able to

> > fight for that love. In listening to ur parents, you've

> > married...did you not think abt the fact that you could not possibly

> > give this wife of urs a fair chance at love, something that a

> > marriage entails, since ur in love with another????

> > Nonsense!! Utter nonsense! Now you wanna father a child, that too

> > becus ur parents want it....MY GOODNESS! Ur obviously afraid of ur

> > parents, and dear, JO PYAAR KARTE HAIN, WOH DARTE NAHIN....JOH DARTE

> > HAIN, WOH PYAAR KARTE NAHIN!!! Grow a backbone, PLEASEE!!

> >

> > , ganesh b <gvb1974@>

> > wrote:

> > >

> > > my details are

> > >

> > > i m married with a girl of my parent choice just few

> > > days before. she is a girl of my parents chice.

> > > actually i was in love with another. sir this girl is

> > > not as per my desire. but my parents and all family

> > > members forced me to do.but i m unable to set

> > > relations with her. sir how will be my married life.

> > > whether i will father a child. as i m not able to live

> > > with her so. how to solve this problem . i am unable

> > > to set relationship with her. as i am already involved

> > > with another. but due to my parents force i married to

> > > this girl. sir i m afraid if i wil do unjustice to

> > > this girl also. but i cant help. sir how to solve this

> > > prob and when i will become father of a child as my

> > > parents are greatly waitng for my child.

> > >

> > > Sir kya main mere parents ka sapna pura kar sakunga. i

> > > find it very difficult. i m going through very

> > > critical perid.

> > >

> > > i can't live with that girl we are facing clashes.

> > > sir i want to take divorce.

> > >

> > > if divorce is possible.

> > > we are not having any physical relationship

> > > sir is there second marriage so that i can father a

> > > child

> > > sir is it possible to marry with my beloved.

> > >

> > > dob - 31/8/1974

> > > time - 6.35 am

> > > latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

> > >

> > > place - house was in nashirabad a village but hospital

> > > was in jalgaon near bhusawal

> > >

> > > thanks in advance

> > >

> > > Office firewalls, cyber cafes, college labs, don't allow you

> > to download CHAT?

> > http://in.messenger./webmessengerpromo.php

> > >

> >

>

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May 15, 2007

Hi,

I wanna add that family/parental pressure is strong, but that

doesn't make it right!! This is goin on all the time..and it must

stop becus lives are getting ruined. It's people like Ganesh, who

are basically spineless ...not sure if they know the true meaning of

love. It's evil on the part of parents too, to force their children

to sacrifice in such a way. Either way, someone loses. But i'll tell

you something, it's better to break egos than to break hearts.

Parents are influenced by society, and wot society says...one should

not worry wot others say, though difficult.....it's harder on the

lovers..believe me, it's hell for people who lose their loves to

arranged marriages..and that is the biggest sin....to betray ur

lover.

The wife in the case is always innocent...it's unfair to not give

her a chance to deny you and let her decide if she wants someone

else's love. I believe if she has more than a single digit IQ, then

she won't prefer to be settled for...or be somebody's sloppy seconds.

But imagine the hell put thru the lover, who has her/his heartbroken

simply becus she/he didn't belong to a particular caste or religion,

or watever petty differences!!! The fault goes to the families who

look at their selfish needs rather than the happiness of their

children. That's sad to begin with...and even more sad is the fact

that some of the girl/guys in this case are educated people...who

know to make better choices of their lives. " Saath pheres " is a

sacred bond, but there's an even bigger bond, that's LOVE..and here

is a good example of a guy not being able to " perform " for his wife

becus he loves another...goes to show you the strength of that

bond...yet the fool wasn't strong enough to fight for his love and

stand ground. WHAT A SHAME!!

In the end, you have incurred alot of sin simply becus you weren't

man enough to stand up for ur love. Now live in that unhappy

marriage.....becus that is all you deserve. I wanna see how ur

parents will help you in this department since they were

instrumental in you getting married to this girl. Are they gonna be

there to console the girl abt why her hubby doesn't wanna touch

her?? Are they gonna help you forget ur lover...are they gonna do

anything at all?? It's wrong....parents need to become loving rather

than demanding. If you cannot see the tears in ur son's eyes when

he's telling you he loves another, ur not worthy of being a parent.

A mother could not see her child hurt. A true mother could not see

her child hurt. Am sorry if this hurts the sentiments of some of

you...!!

, ~~Tarun~~ <tarun_vst

wrote:

>

> Dear Members,

>

> The story this guy told is a general problem in this

generation..love with someone else and

> marriage only as per parents. Whatever reason it is but this is

happening.

>

> not only boys, many girls are on this same track, love with

someone else and marriage with else.

>

> reason might be success / money / family values...etc..

>

> now if we go for such things than we can say some planets are

making these conditions not

> happening in their lives...its all written by god..so we should

accept it as it is.

>

> I am also victim of such condition. i m unmarried but someone did

that

>

> Hopefully we can search for marital harmony in that couple.

>

> Regards

>

> Tarun

>

> --- Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar wrote:

>

> > Dear Amitab, Bhaskar and others

> >

> > I saw the mail and first felt neds to give him an earful before

even reading any other mails and

> > rightly all of u too have scoffed at him what a pity he can

still father a child like any stray

> > dog does he need astrology and that too hurt si many lives

> >

> > Amitabh Shastri <amitabh_shastri

wrote: No sane

> > person would agree to your method of proceeding in life - where

do you want your karma to lead

> > you?

> >

> > Just goes to show how irrational actions and thought can drop

people to the deepest of the

> > deeps. Such thoughts at this stage are deplorable, shameful,

vengeful... to say the least!

> >

> > Now that you did not have the courage to fight for what you

felt was right make the best of

> > the developments. Forget the past as a closed chapter for this

life. You may get your current

> > love, maybe in the next life.

> >

> > Make this lady happy rather than making many more unhappy in

your attempt to convert your

> > thoughts into action... satisfaction in every action done by HIM

gives everlasting sweetness. It

> > is very difficult to develop SANTOSH in life! Try it and see how

life changes for the

> > better...every cloud has a silver lining...

> >

> > Amitabh Shastri

> >

> > Bhaskar <bhaskar_jyotish wrote:

> > I agree to Aashnas Mail.

> > Yes pyaar karnewale kabhi darte nahin,darte nahi,

> > Joh Darte hain woh pyaar karte nahin.

> >

> > You have the guts to divorce this wife,

> > and have guts to marry a new girl and impergnate her.

> > But never had guts to refuse the

> > marriage in the first place.

> > By your not having relations with your legally

> > wedded wife, does not give you a license to re-marry

> > again, and does not denote any greatness on your part.

> > Whether You have has relations or not with her,

> > once you leave her, she would only be

> > treated as SECOND HAND and not treated like one

> > would treat a new Virgin Bride.

> > Sorry to say, but such mails and people, make me

> > sick.

> >

> > Bhaskar.

> >

> > -- In , " Ashna Singh "

> > <ashna_singh_2002@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Hi there,

> > > It makes me sad to read such things...and NO OFFENCE, but you

> > > should have been strong enough to avoid marrying her...becus

now not

> > > only have you ruined ur lover's life, but also ur new wife

and ur

> > > own life!!! I am sorry...i know this is not my

business....but wot

> > > is wrong with you people...falling in love, yet not being

able to

> > > fight for that love. In listening to ur parents, you've

> > > married...did you not think abt the fact that you could not

possibly

> > > give this wife of urs a fair chance at love, something that a

> > > marriage entails, since ur in love with another????

> > > Nonsense!! Utter nonsense! Now you wanna father a child, that

too

> > > becus ur parents want it....MY GOODNESS! Ur obviously afraid

of ur

> > > parents, and dear, JO PYAAR KARTE HAIN, WOH DARTE

NAHIN....JOH DARTE

> > > HAIN, WOH PYAAR KARTE NAHIN!!! Grow a backbone, PLEASEE!!

> > >

> > > , ganesh b <gvb1974@>

> > > wrote:

> > > >

> > > > my details are

> > > >

> > > > i m married with a girl of my parent choice just few

> > > > days before. she is a girl of my parents chice.

> > > > actually i was in love with another. sir this girl is

> > > > not as per my desire. but my parents and all family

> > > > members forced me to do.but i m unable to set

> > > > relations with her. sir how will be my married life.

> > > > whether i will father a child. as i m not able to live

> > > > with her so. how to solve this problem . i am unable

> > > > to set relationship with her. as i am already involved

> > > > with another. but due to my parents force i married to

> > > > this girl. sir i m afraid if i wil do unjustice to

> > > > this girl also. but i cant help. sir how to solve this

> > > > prob and when i will become father of a child as my

> > > > parents are greatly waitng for my child.

> > > >

> > > > Sir kya main mere parents ka sapna pura kar sakunga. i

> > > > find it very difficult. i m going through very

> > > > critical perid.

> > > >

> > > > i can't live with that girl we are facing clashes.

> > > > sir i want to take divorce.

> > > >

> > > > if divorce is possible.

> > > > we are not having any physical relationship

> > > > sir is there second marriage so that i can father a

> > > > child

> > > > sir is it possible to marry with my beloved.

> > > >

> > > > dob - 31/8/1974

> > > > time - 6.35 am

> > > > latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

> > > >

> > > > place - house was in nashirabad a village but hospital

> > > > was in jalgaon near bhusawal

> > > >

> > > > thanks in advance

> > > >

> > > > Office firewalls, cyber cafes, college labs, don't allow

you

> > > to download CHAT?

> > > http://in.messenger./webmessengerpromo.php

> > > >

> > >

> >

> > New Mail is the ultimate force in competitive emailing.

Find out more at the

> > Mail Championships. Plus: play games and win prizes.

> >

May 15, 2007

hi,

it seems u still r a kid!plz first u grow up to be an adult...then

only,u can take the responsibility of fathering.yo life is already in

mess!

*life is irreversible.it can't be done & undone as & when liked!

*when there is some damage,it needs repairing & when the damage is

permanent???----which can't be cured,should be endured!

*action creates same reaction---if u give other agony,it comes back to

u only.if u give affection,it comes back to u only.if u play tricks,u

will get tricks only!

*decision should be taken for a greater cause considering all pros & cons.

*above all,things are predestined.

" wohi hota hey jo manjure khuda hota hey " ---mistakes are part of life

to learn & grow.

take care & good luck!

, ganesh b <gvb1974 wrote:

>

> my details are

>

> i m married with a girl of my parent choice just few

> days before. she is a girl of my parents chice.

> actually i was in love with another. sir this girl is

> not as per my desire. but my parents and all family

> members forced me to do.but i m unable to set

> relations with her. sir how will be my married life.

> whether i will father a child. as i m not able to live

> with her so. how to solve this problem . i am unable

> to set relationship with her. as i am already involved

> with another. but due to my parents force i married to

> this girl. sir i m afraid if i wil do unjustice to

> this girl also. but i cant help. sir how to solve this

> prob and when i will become father of a child as my

> parents are greatly waitng for my child.

>

> Sir kya main mere parents ka sapna pura kar sakunga. i

> find it very difficult. i m going through very

> critical perid.

>

> i can't live with that girl we are facing clashes.

> sir i want to take divorce.

>

> if divorce is possible.

> we are not having any physical relationship

> sir is there second marriage so that i can father a

> child

> sir is it possible to marry with my beloved.

>

> dob - 31/8/1974

> time - 6.35 am

> latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

>

> place - house was in nashirabad a village but hospital

> was in jalgaon near bhusawal

>

> thanks in advance

>

> Office firewalls, cyber cafes, college labs, don't allow you

to download CHAT?

http://in.messenger./webmessengerpromo.php

>

May 20, 2007

i agree with you ashna.

mere khyal se yeh admi apne parnts aur beloved dono ko chod nahi sakta.

but the action that he has taken is shameful

at the time of such situation right action and decision is important.

but as we see that nly that guy is not to blame. here the greatest sinner are

the family members who for there selfish reasons and society forcefully spoiled

the life of there own son as well as the girl whom they have selected for there

son.

was it not wrong in there part to fix their sons marriage without telling the

truth of son to the parents of girl as well as girl?

i think they might have created such situation for the son thats why ganesh

had to marry the girl.

other wise he could have easily set in the married life with the new girl.

but now his concious is not allowing him to do more sins.

sir i think here revolution is necessary.

don't u think here he can set example in front of society and parents who for

the sake of there selfish desires spoil so many lives. they play with the life

of their own son/girl and also with he another girl/boy whom they select

appropriate for them.

sir can we help him astrologically if it is possible for him to correct the

situation.

It is never late to correct the situation or to fight for the truth.

If he is trying to correct the situation. is there possibility so that he can

release the girl.

becoz agar hum dekhe to for a girl it is not right to live with such person

who already loves another.

suppose if he asks her and if she doesnot want to live with him now

what are the astro details.

if this could help him to handle the situation it will be best example.

fo the parents

so plz if any respected person help him abt how he is going to face the

siuation. or how his married life is going to proceed.

or if there are chances of second marriage. so he can get the strength of

solving the problem

it seems that the main problem with this guy is that he got the strength that

he needed was after marriage. as he is relising his fault now.

so plz display the astro details of this guy as per my thoughts

sorry if i wrote anything wrong. but this is my opinion.

the change is neede in our society also

so why not from here.

such examples are seem every where.

Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002 wrote: