Will i live a sphinster's life?? 3/6 p-2

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Dear Ashna,

 

When I mentioned about age- that time I knew, I am leaving

a loose point for anyone to enter and take up this point for

highliting. But I still mantain that in young age, too much

of spiritualism is not advisable to householders.

 

If those advised are, our own, then would we ask them to

leave everything and become sanyasins ? never .

In same way, little of everything is good enough, and

too much of anything is again bad enough.

Once a certain border, demarcation Line has been

crossed , say Matric or Higher secondary schooling,

then one may choose what one wishes to do more of, whether

BSC. BCOM Technical Line or Arts. Till that certain level is

reached we dont advise specialised Lines.

 

Same way for a girl or young lady, who should be

enjoying the natural God given pleasures of the world,

which also her own Parents would to, then there does not

seem any cause for austerity or penance to be done at young ages.

 

Virakti at the proper age looks good. Virakti of Janak is good.

Virakti of Tulsidasa is good. Virakti of raja Yayati is good.

Virakti of Prince Yashodhana (Buddha) is good. Our virakti should

also come after tasting all available in Life, and not forced by

our Lovers , leaving us, or

we having nothing to do , or we wanting to be no good ,lazy

and not work for families, so we turn to Sadhuism, then that

Virakti or detachment is bad.

 

All the big names we have heard or read about, who attained

spiritualism early, we have seen, also at what age they

have left their lives, and put themselves to trouble.

 

Also those who have remained unmarried, because they

could not be chosen by any partner in their Life, does not

mean that the person has become a Sanyaasi or bramachari.

Brahmacharya is a different state, not only just remaining

unmarried, but also remaining unmarried and pure in thought

too.

 

Therefore just like I would advise my own family members

and children of young age, in the same way, I would

advise anyone talking of spiritualism at young age, that

be good, be spiritual, but dont push deep such yearnings,

proper time and place for any act, same for Phd in

spiritualism. Children and young ones look good when

they enjoy and do what they are supposed to do.

 

best wishes,

Bhaskar.

 

, Prashant Kumar G B

<gbp_kumar wrote:

>

> Ashna,

>

> It is true that age has no role in the spiritual quest, if it was

then we WOULD HAVE NEVER seen ADI SHAKNARACHARYA, Swami Vivekakanda,

Budha, Christ

> and the earlier legends of Sri Rama, Krishna were young in they

achieved more sri krishna as a kid aslo

>

> and sports, music fields to where sadhana=dedication, devotion is

there the start start young ones.

>

> and in any filed that needs dedication the watch word is `catch them

young' not old. when it is too late to mend both the body that is

tired and mind that has lost control.

>

> keep going u will find both sides of ur life and there is an aspact

in Hinduism where we have have married spiritual people

>

> only sanysins don't get married rest do and retirement based

spiritualism never is spiritual it is more time killing than soul

fulfilling.

>

> Best wishes

>

>

> Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002 wrote:

Hello Bhaskarji,

> Hehe..this made me laugh a bit:) Thanks for the reply. Hmm i am

> not too young at all, i am 27 and have lived a spiritual life, most

> my life. Again when talkin of sadhanas, you have to understand my

> hindi is not as great as i would like it to be...by sadhana, i mean,

> i dedicate my full time to spirituality, meditation..etc. I can see

> that a person might misinterpret wot i mean by that.

> A person can have a family and live a devoted life to God as well.

> And falling in love has nothing to do with a beautiful face

> sir..hehe. Let me tell u another thing, i became devoted at a young

> age....but falling in love didn't hamper that one bit. In my 5 years

> with my lover, i maintained my celibate lifestyle and continued to

> be a vegetarian..though he wasn't:) Maybe for you " common folks "

> it's hard to keep in control, but then i guess, i am not common

> Thanks for ur response

>

> , " Bhaskar "

> <bhaskar_jyotish@> wrote:

> >

> > Dear Ashna,

> >

> > The normal Dharma of every human being is to procreate,

> > which is what is required to keep the Srishti(Creation) moving,

> > but of course once done with, not to be hampered much by

> > indulging in these physical excersises of pro-creation.

> >

> > Mind is not easy to control, nor easy for one to make up.

> > This is what Sadhana, Yoga and Tapasya is all about-

> > to control the mind.

> > We people with ordinary feelings who get angered in a minute,

> > who become hot and cold

> > in few moments, who have all feelings of Love,hate,lust and

> > others in our system which just needs slight provocations

> > to jump out on the surface, for us common folks, it

> > not easy to control the mind.

> > Mind changes in a minute, all talks of sadhana goes to air,

> > if one finds a beautiful face and falls in Love. You are

> > especially too small in age to engage in talking of Sadhanas,

> > and wish You to live life happily as it comes, taking each

> > facet of Life, once at a time, in the proper age, time,

> > period,circumstances.........

> >

> > regards,

> > Bhaskar.

> > www.shrikrishnajyotish.com

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > , " Ashna Singh "

> > <ashna_singh_2002@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Hi All,

> > > Thanks Anupji, Johnji, Prashantji!! I appreciate ur

> replies...i

> > > ask abt marriage not becus unavailability of guys, but becus of

> my

> > > lifestyle change...i don't have any intentions of marrying. The

> > > sadhanas i am talkin abt are not unconventional...i am a devotee

> of

> > > Sai Baba..so that's wot i was talkin abt.

> > > Mind is a terribly strong thing, and when made up, hard to go

> > > against that. Parents always want their children to settle down

> and

> > > give them grand babies..etc..but it's not always wot God has in

> mind

> > > for us.

> > > I will keep wot u all have said in mind...i thank you for the

> > > analysis.

> > >

> > >

> > > Ashna

> > >

> > > , Prashant Kumar G B

> > > <gbp_kumar@> wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Ashna,

> > > >

> > > > Well ur sadhansa will go to higher levels in in ur Gudu dasa

> that

> > > follows ur current Rahu dasa which is more to do more with

> > > Materialism and in spiritualism a streak of unconventional

> > > approaches.

> > > >

> > > > Guru will show u better phases and results of sadhana and

> peace in

> > > life apart from good knowledge and marriage will be tested too.

> > > >

> > > > I see u will be married no doubt if u select ur partner well

> > > through horoscope matched for dosha it will be a workabble

> > > marriageelse dissappointments canlead to at least 2 marriages.

> so be

> > > it arranged or self chosen make sure compatiblity is there and

> > > proceed.

> > > >

> > > > u will marry some professional dealing in Health care, from a

> > > decent family values, education but can be v aggressive, in his

> > > ways.a good leader.generous in his approach.

> > > >

> > > > u can be married between

> > > >

> > > > 16/2 to 8/8/08 ]40%] but or 297 to 15/12/09 surely. if married

> in

> > > the 1st said period u will have a child in the 2nd said period

> as it

> > > does indicate many auspicious events then.

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Prayers to any form of Shakti will give u good results

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Best wishes

> > > >

> > > > Ashna Singh <ashna_singh_2002@>

> > > wrote: Hello All,

> > > > This is for anyone who can take a look into my chart....i

> > > usually ask

> > > > abt other people in my life, now i wanna get my chart

> analyzed.

> > > >

> > > > I was born in Suva, Fiji Islands, on may 6th, 1980, at

> 11:15am.

> > > > I would like to know if i will infact marry....travel,

> work...??

> > > > I've encountered a life full of delays....so am really

> interested

> > > in

> > > > getting a view as to wot's next for me.

> > > > I am devoted 24/7 to sadhanas...i am deeply spiritual....my

> > > family

> > > > worries i won't marry! Is there an indication of marriage,

> and if

> > > so,

> > > > wot kinda guy...etc??

> > > > Plz give analysis when time permits!

> > > > Thanks in advance!

> > > >

> > > > Ashna

> > > >

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