InLaws Issue 13/11

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Bhagya,

 

there r 2 aspects here one is astrological one it can be a phase and at times a

change of heart from both sides r possible for good or bad too.

 

but the marriage itself must not be forgotton.

 

in the Saptapadi ritual by taking oath jointly u and ur husband r bound by it in

all circusmtances

 

so if they r comming any wrong/sin it goes to theier account bit by

dis-regarding or showing dissent, aversion etc u can make it worse for u.

 

from ur husbands side if he see is and still is not doing something to help

matter peacefully with no disprepect to his parents or to the marriage itself it

is goood else no good for the family itself in the long run for generations to

come. as they r born of such seeds [contempt, disrespect, aversion etc] if

tolerance, forebarence is shown so will be the children, ressiliant, achivers

not escapists in life.

 

so the greater ur challagne the greater u become.

 

allow time to pass as it is ur children r ur joy, more u sfocus on them, better

fro both and u can still do what u do for ur IN-LWAS AS THEY MUST BE DONE,

without any expectation of recognition by them, as this is not a paid job for

it. ur patience will open their eyes sooner or later

 

quite often it is their insecurity that their son may become subservant to his

wife makes them do wrong things but patience, culture will change it.

 

REST LATER i HOPE ANY OTHER DOES A READING ELSE WILL DO IN A DAY OR TWO

 

PRASHANT

 

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Raman's OTHER. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur

birth data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures

folder in the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder.

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Database section in the group for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

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dm2311 <dm2311

 

Thursday, November 13, 2008 1:08:19 AM

InLaws Issue

 

 

Respected Sirs,

 

My inlaws do not speak with me properly.

Whatever good done is discarded and any small mistake

is made into a big issue.

Will this continue forever?

Is there any remedy for this so that i can concentrate on my

job search and my children?

 

My date of birth is : 23th Nov 1976

Time is : 6:34 PM

Place : Chennai.

 

Thanks in advance,

Bhagya