want to take divorce when i will get- plz some more queries

[Guest guest]

thanks vatteji , prashant ji , harry nathani ji,

 

thank u for spending valuable time for me. but some final queries plz help me.

 

 

kya mera divorce destined hai. yani hone he wala hai. yani ho jayega.  kyoki

mere parents are not supporting neither my in laws are not taking interst in our

matter. aab mai to sirf ek ek din nikal rahi hoo as i m fully dependent

finacially. so main steps nahi le sakti. so what i want to know ki kya mera

divorce hona likha hai kya. jaise kayi ghatnaye hum na soche ya kuch na kare to

bhi ho jata hai. usi tarah doivirce bhi use duartion main hona hi hai kyo graha

dasha supportive hai is liye ho jayega kya.

 

 

i think meri mental situation and real situation aap log samaz rahe honge. aur

main kya jana chati hoon woh bhi aap sab samaz rahe honge. abt my husbands

contact with that lady it is confirmed that he is still having physical

relations with that lady and they are committed to each other. and he is take

all responsibilities of that lady just like husband.

they had done abortion 4 yrs back before our marriage. due to family matters and

problems that girl was not accepted by my in laws.

 

but now they are still having relations. he is living here but he is investing

his mony and time with that girl only. so

 

 

i dont think i will get back him . so i m worried abt my future. but meri himmat

nahi kadm uthane ki. aab karan jo bhi ho. isliye mai chati hoo ki ye ghatna ghat

jaye aur situation aisi ho ki hamara divorce ho jaye.

 

 

 

aap sab plz samazne ki koshis karen main kya kahana chati hoo. 

 

--- On Tue, 7/4/09, vattem krishnan <bursar_99 wrote:

 

 

vattem krishnan <bursar_99

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands details

 

Tuesday, 7 April, 2009, 12:16 AM

 

 

 

 

 

 

Honey ji,

if we analyse the chart of your husband we find:

his maraigw ith you is by choice and in his 7th there is jupiter 7th as lord of

5th in retrograde state.

An agressive approach and with sun in lagna in own sign and mars along with

mercury.

lagna raising in venus nakshtra and with venus posited in 12th he has his own

ways of finding pleasure and has no holds for him.

Lord of 7th is aspecting saturn in dhana sthana in an airy sign.For him money is

not an issue and can get along with any body easily.

His moon in dhanishta in 6th and venus in 7th too indicates that his spouse will

be for sake of havin pleasent time.

About his having child,I have my own doubts as his 5th is aspected by saturn and

dispositor jupiter in 7th.

Iam not sure whether you have verifed his contacts and proximity to other woman

and he certainly belongs to a different class and community.

Now about your taking divorce,I do not think he will have any objection.and by

all means by the end of sept 2009,you can get divorce.

It is doubtful he goes in for another marriage.and even he is not having any

contentment in his own house

vrkrishnan

 

--- On Mon, 4/6/09, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote:

 

Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands details

 

Monday, April 6, 2009, 1:08 PM

 

for replying me soon.

 

 

more that i want to tell

 

my husbands details are

31/8/1974

time - 6.35 am

latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

 

he is already having his relations with other lady since last 7 yrs. had

abortion done. cares nothing abt me . he even doent expect me to do . not even

talks with me ask nothing. no outing. he never comes with me out at my parents

place or any other place. he never talked  with be even not at the time of

marriage or before marriage.

i think he was forced to do so.

please study our kundali and suggest

 

for reference my details are

 

my birth details are as follows

birth date - 10/9/80

time 10 pm

place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

 

givin latititude and longitude of erandol

lat 20 55 0 N

lon 75 19 60 E

 

--- On Mon, 6/4/09, Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > wrote:

 

Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar >

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- 6/4

 

Monday, 6 April, 2009, 6:37 PM

 

Malhotra,

 

I remember ur post and good u said that data was wrong, but hope this is the

right one also.

 

the period between 14/4/09 to 13/4/09 is the earliest u can think of seperation

in this 9/3 to 11/5/10 is best suited for it, so till then be patient and try to

win him back-give him a chance as u have for the past 3 yrs,,,!

 

prayers to any form of shikthi will pave the right direction for u,

 

Best wishes

 

Prashant

 

I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non

Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth

data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in

the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside

the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group

for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow

s & tbl=6

 

____________ _________ _________ __

Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

 

Monday, April 6, 2009 5:00:06 PM

want to take divorce when i will get

 

respected gurujis

 

i m sunita

 

my birth details are as follows

birth date - 10/9/80

time 10 pm

place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

 

givin latititude and longitude of erandol

lat 20 55 0 N

lon 75 19 60 E

 

actually i m fed up with my husband. he is not good to me.

he is having affair with another lady. may be having children out side. living

out side. No physical relations with me since marrige. we are just living at one

place without any relationship. now i want tio leave hm because after 3 yrs also

there is no change in his behavior.

 

plz help me.

 

last time i furnished wrong details. actually these are the correct one that i

got from my parents.

 

Check out the all-new Messenger 9.0! Go to http://in.messenger ./

 

 

[Guest guest]

heney Ji,

You should not rush.As your janmapatri and even husbands does not indicate or

remarriage.it shows that aap ki present situations is not new and was going for

some time as of now.As ekders are awre of this position leave to them.Do not

force till issues of financial depenedence etc are clear

vrkrishnan 

 

--- On Wed, 4/8/09, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 wrote:

 

Honey malhotra <lotus7755

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- plz some more queries

 

Wednesday, April 8, 2009, 12:00 AM

 

 

 

 

 

 

thanks vatteji , prashant ji , harry nathani ji,

 

thank u for spending valuable time for me. but some final queries plz help me.

 

 

kya mera divorce destined hai. yani hone he wala hai. yani ho jayega.  kyoki

mere parents are not supporting neither my in laws are not taking interst in our

matter. aab mai to sirf ek ek din nikal rahi hoo as i m fully dependent

finacially. so main steps nahi le sakti. so what i want to know ki kya mera

divorce hona likha hai kya. jaise kayi ghatnaye hum na soche ya kuch na kare to

bhi ho jata hai. usi tarah doivirce bhi use duartion main hona hi hai kyo graha

dasha supportive hai is liye ho jayega kya.

 

 

i think meri mental situation and real situation aap log samaz rahe honge. aur

main kya jana chati hoon woh bhi aap sab samaz rahe honge. abt my husbands

contact with that lady it is confirmed that he is still having physical

relations with that lady and they are committed to each other. and he is take

all responsibilities of that lady just like husband.

they had done abortion 4 yrs back before our marriage. due to family matters and

problems that girl was not accepted by my in laws.

 

but now they are still having relations. he is living here but he is investing

his mony and time with that girl only. so

 

 

i dont think i will get back him . so i m worried abt my future. but meri himmat

nahi kadm uthane ki. aab karan jo bhi ho. isliye mai chati hoo ki ye ghatna ghat

jaye aur situation aisi ho ki hamara divorce ho jaye.

 

 

 

aap sab plz samazne ki koshis karen main kya kahana chati hoo. 

 

--- On Tue, 7/4/09, vattem krishnan <bursar_99 > wrote:

 

vattem krishnan <bursar_99 >

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands details

 

Tuesday, 7 April, 2009, 12:16 AM

 

Honey ji,

if we analyse the chart of your husband we find:

his maraigw ith you is by choice and in his 7th there is jupiter 7th as lord of

5th in retrograde state.

An agressive approach and with sun in lagna in own sign and mars along with

mercury.

lagna raising in venus nakshtra and with venus posited in 12th he has his own

ways of finding pleasure and has no holds for him.

Lord of 7th is aspecting saturn in dhana sthana in an airy sign.For him money is

not an issue and can get along with any body easily.

His moon in dhanishta in 6th and venus in 7th too indicates that his spouse will

be for sake of havin pleasent time.

About his having child,I have my own doubts as his 5th is aspected by saturn and

dispositor jupiter in 7th.

Iam not sure whether you have verifed his contacts and proximity to other woman

and he certainly belongs to a different class and community.

Now about your taking divorce,I do not think he will have any objection.and by

all means by the end of sept 2009,you can get divorce.

It is doubtful he goes in for another marriage.and even he is not having any

contentment in his own house

vrkrishnan

 

--- On Mon, 4/6/09, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote:

 

Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands details

 

Monday, April 6, 2009, 1:08 PM

 

for replying me soon.

 

 

more that i want to tell

 

my husbands details are

31/8/1974

time - 6.35 am

latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

 

he is already having his relations with other lady since last 7 yrs. had

abortion done. cares nothing abt me . he even doent expect me to do . not even

talks with me ask nothing. no outing. he never comes with me out at my parents

place or any other place. he never talked  with be even not at the time of

marriage or before marriage.

i think he was forced to do so.

please study our kundali and suggest

 

for reference my details are

 

my birth details are as follows

birth date - 10/9/80

time 10 pm

place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

 

givin latititude and longitude of erandol

lat 20 55 0 N

lon 75 19 60 E

 

--- On Mon, 6/4/09, Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > wrote:

 

Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar >

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- 6/4

 

Monday, 6 April, 2009, 6:37 PM

 

Malhotra,

 

I remember ur post and good u said that data was wrong, but hope this is the

right one also.

 

the period between 14/4/09 to 13/4/09 is the earliest u can think of seperation

in this 9/3 to 11/5/10 is best suited for it, so till then be patient and try to

win him back-give him a chance as u have for the past 3 yrs,,,!

 

prayers to any form of shikthi will pave the right direction for u,

 

Best wishes

 

Prashant

 

I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non

Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth

data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in

the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside

the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group

for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow

s & tbl=6

 

____________ _________ _________ __

Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

 

Monday, April 6, 2009 5:00:06 PM

want to take divorce when i will get

 

respected gurujis

 

i m sunita

 

my birth details are as follows

birth date - 10/9/80

time 10 pm

place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

 

givin latititude and longitude of erandol

lat 20 55 0 N

lon 75 19 60 E

 

actually i m fed up with my husband. he is not good to me.

he is having affair with another lady. may be having children out side. living

out side. No physical relations with me since marrige. we are just living at one

place without any relationship. now i want tio leave hm because after 3 yrs also

there is no change in his behavior.

 

plz help me.

 

last time i furnished wrong details. actually these are the correct one that i

got from my parents.

 

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[Guest guest]

Hello Smt. Malhotra ji,

 

You must have heard the phrase - " Nari tu Narayani " means nari is a form of

narayani. Nari (Female) is able to do anything of might, reverse the unhappy

marriage and make it happy one is small thing. I will strongly advise you should

do that rather than relying on any advise on cyber forum to break up your

marriage.

 

Do you know for sure what will be your future after the divorce? No jyotish can

predict that for sure. will you be able to remarry someone who can provide you

every happyness in the world? I strongly doubt it. Divorce in our SAMAJ is a

stigma especially for females and they end up suffering more in post-divorce. If

you yourself will give up then no one will help you. Do not expect any miracle

from your relatives or friends, they are ready to see you divorced so they can

talk about you. Only you will suffer therefor i will say that You must take

charge of situation and improve things.

 

As an elder brother, I would strongly advise against this divorce. Yeh khayal

hi dimag se nikal de aap. You should clean your mind of any doubts, sit down

with your husband, communicate with each other, take a week vacation with him,

do things that he likes, cook food he loves, help your in-laws, invite them to

your house often, patch up with him to the best, create circumstances such that

he has to feel good about you and he'll be back to you, create an environment of

trust and love, talk to him about starting family - having kids etc and

everything will work out for good.

 

There are no established formula for divorce, no predictions are sure

prediction. Marital ups-downs were there even for Mahadev and Narayana, we are

mere humans. As a woman, you should be able to control circumstances and your

husband too. I am trusting you to convert this situation and reverse whole thing

in your happy marital favor. Please rethink whole thing.

 

Pray to Ma Durga and your marriage will be a success, one day you will thank me.

 

May Ma Durga bless you.

 

-Raja

 

 

, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 wrote:

>

> thanks vatteji , prashant ji , harry nathani ji,

>  

> thank u for spending valuable time for me. but some final queries plz help me.

>  

>  

> kya mera divorce destined hai. yani hone he wala hai. yani ho jayega.  kyoki

mere parents are not supporting neither my in laws are not taking interst in our

matter. aab mai to sirf ek ek din nikal rahi hoo as i m fully dependent

finacially. so main steps nahi le sakti. so what i want to know ki kya mera

divorce hona likha hai kya. jaise kayi ghatnaye hum na soche ya kuch na kare to

bhi ho jata hai. usi tarah doivirce bhi use duartion main hona hi hai kyo graha

dasha supportive hai is liye ho jayega kya.

>  

>  

> i think meri mental situation and real situation aap log samaz rahe honge. aur

main kya jana chati hoon woh bhi aap sab samaz rahe honge. abt my husbands

contact with that lady it is confirmed that he is still having physical

relations with that lady and they are committed to each other. and he is take

all responsibilities of that lady just like husband.

> they had done abortion 4 yrs back before our marriage. due to family matters

and problems that girl was not accepted by my in laws.

>  

> but now they are still having relations. he is living here but he is investing

his mony and time with that girl only. so

>  

>  

> i dont think i will get back him . so i m worried abt my future. but meri

himmat nahi kadm uthane ki. aab karan jo bhi ho. isliye mai chati hoo ki ye

ghatna ghat jaye aur situation aisi ho ki hamara divorce ho jaye.

>  

>  

>  

> aap sab plz samazne ki koshis karen main kya kahana chati hoo. 

>

> --- On Tue, 7/4/09, vattem krishnan <bursar_99 wrote:

>

>

> vattem krishnan <bursar_99

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> Tuesday, 7 April, 2009, 12:16 AM

Honey ji,

> if we analyse the chart of your husband we find:

> his maraigw ith you is by choice and in his 7th there is jupiter 7th as lord

of 5th in retrograde state.

> An agressive approach and with sun in lagna in own sign and mars along with

mercury.

> lagna raising in venus nakshtra and with venus posited in 12th he has his own

ways of finding pleasure and has no holds for him.

> Lord of 7th is aspecting saturn in dhana sthana in an airy sign.For him money

is not an issue and can get along with any body easily.

> His moon in dhanishta in 6th and venus in 7th too indicates that his spouse

will be for sake of havin pleasent time.

> About his having child,I have my own doubts as his 5th is aspected by saturn

and dispositor jupiter in 7th.

> Iam not sure whether you have verifed his contacts and proximity to other

woman and he certainly belongs to a different class and community.

> Now about your taking divorce,I do not think he will have any objection.and by

all means by the end of sept 2009,you can get divorce.

> It is doubtful he goes in for another marriage.and even he is not having any

contentment in his own house

> vrkrishnan

>

> --- On Mon, 4/6/09, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote:

>

> Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> Monday, April 6, 2009, 1:08 PM

>

> for replying me soon.

>  

>  

> more that i want to tell

>  

> my husbands details are

> 31/8/1974

> time - 6.35 am

> latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

>  

> he is already having his relations with other lady since last 7 yrs. had

abortion done. cares nothing abt me . he even doent expect me to do . not even

talks with me ask nothing. no outing. he never comes with me out at my parents

place or any other place. he never talked  with be even not at the time of

marriage or before marriage.

> i think he was forced to do so.

> please study our kundali and suggest

>  

> for reference my details are

>  

> my birth details are as follows

> birth date - 10/9/80

> time 10 pm

> place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> givin latititude and longitude of erandol

> lat 20 55 0 N

> lon 75 19 60 E

>

> --- On Mon, 6/4/09, Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > wrote:

>

> Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar >

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- 6/4

>

> Monday, 6 April, 2009, 6:37 PM

>

> Malhotra,

>

> I remember ur post and good u said that data was wrong, but hope this is the

right one also.

>

> the period between 14/4/09 to 13/4/09 is the earliest u can think of

seperation in this 9/3 to 11/5/10 is best suited for it, so till then be patient

and try to win him back-give him a chance as u have for the past 3 yrs,,,!

>

> prayers to any form of shikthi will pave the right direction for u,

>

> Best wishes

>

> Prashant

>

> I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non

Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth

data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in

the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside

the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group

for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

> http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow

s & tbl=6

>

> ____________ _________ _________ __

> Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

>

> Monday, April 6, 2009 5:00:06 PM

> want to take divorce when i will get

>

> respected gurujis

>

> i m sunita

>

> my birth details are as follows

> birth date - 10/9/80

> time 10 pm

> place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> givin latititude and longitude of erandol

> lat 20 55 0 N

> lon 75 19 60 E

>

> actually i m fed up with my husband. he is not good to me.

> he is having affair with another lady. may be having children out side. living

out side. No physical relations with me since marrige. we are just living at one

place without any relationship. now i want tio leave hm because after 3 yrs also

there is no change in his behavior.

>

> plz help me.

>

> last time i furnished wrong details. actually these are the correct one that i

got from my parents.

>

> Check out the all-new Messenger 9.0! Go to http://in.messenger ./

>

>

[Guest guest]

Dear Honey,

Your situation is really complicated.

I donot know how accurate is your chart but it indicates that you also had love

marriage with him. Then You were not knowing the things or your time of birth is

approximate to analyse.

Divorce is looking difficult but in Jupiter dasa in 2016 you may have

legal/court second marriage with support of others, but you have not to make it

very open.

Husband chart show two marriages. Both your charts show two marriges but both of

you are sincere and monogamist type of persons not Sagitrus/Gemini types.

Sometimes things get out of hand without anybody's fault.

You are a combative type person and try to force issue but it may not help. Plan

every thing with cool mind. Have discussions with every body to resove issues.

Inder

 

, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 wrote:

>

> thanks vatteji , prashant ji , harry nathani ji,

>  

> thank u for spending valuable time for me. but some final queries plz help me.

>  

>  

> kya mera divorce destined hai. yani hone he wala hai. yani ho jayega.  kyoki

mere parents are not supporting neither my in laws are not taking interst in our

matter. aab mai to sirf ek ek din nikal rahi hoo as i m fully dependent

finacially. so main steps nahi le sakti. so what i want to know ki kya mera

divorce hona likha hai kya. jaise kayi ghatnaye hum na soche ya kuch na kare to

bhi ho jata hai. usi tarah doivirce bhi use duartion main hona hi hai kyo graha

dasha supportive hai is liye ho jayega kya.

>  

>  

> i think meri mental situation and real situation aap log samaz rahe honge. aur

main kya jana chati hoon woh bhi aap sab samaz rahe honge. abt my husbands

contact with that lady it is confirmed that he is still having physical

relations with that lady and they are committed to each other. and he is take

all responsibilities of that lady just like husband.

> they had done abortion 4 yrs back before our marriage. due to family matters

and problems that girl was not accepted by my in laws.

>  

> but now they are still having relations. he is living here but he is investing

his mony and time with that girl only. so

>  

>  

> i dont think i will get back him . so i m worried abt my future. but meri

himmat nahi kadm uthane ki. aab karan jo bhi ho. isliye mai chati hoo ki ye

ghatna ghat jaye aur situation aisi ho ki hamara divorce ho jaye.

>  

>  

>  

> aap sab plz samazne ki koshis karen main kya kahana chati hoo. 

>

> --- On Tue, 7/4/09, vattem krishnan <bursar_99 wrote:

>

>

> vattem krishnan <bursar_99

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> Tuesday, 7 April, 2009, 12:16 AM

Honey ji,

> if we analyse the chart of your husband we find:

> his maraigw ith you is by choice and in his 7th there is jupiter 7th as lord

of 5th in retrograde state.

> An agressive approach and with sun in lagna in own sign and mars along with

mercury.

> lagna raising in venus nakshtra and with venus posited in 12th he has his own

ways of finding pleasure and has no holds for him.

> Lord of 7th is aspecting saturn in dhana sthana in an airy sign.For him money

is not an issue and can get along with any body easily.

> His moon in dhanishta in 6th and venus in 7th too indicates that his spouse

will be for sake of havin pleasent time.

> About his having child,I have my own doubts as his 5th is aspected by saturn

and dispositor jupiter in 7th.

> Iam not sure whether you have verifed his contacts and proximity to other

woman and he certainly belongs to a different class and community.

> Now about your taking divorce,I do not think he will have any objection.and by

all means by the end of sept 2009,you can get divorce.

> It is doubtful he goes in for another marriage.and even he is not having any

contentment in his own house

> vrkrishnan

>

> --- On Mon, 4/6/09, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote:

>

> Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> Monday, April 6, 2009, 1:08 PM

>

> for replying me soon.

>  

>  

> more that i want to tell

>  

> my husbands details are

> 31/8/1974

> time - 6.35 am

> latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

>  

> he is already having his relations with other lady since last 7 yrs. had

abortion done. cares nothing abt me . he even doent expect me to do . not even

talks with me ask nothing. no outing. he never comes with me out at my parents

place or any other place. he never talked  with be even not at the time of

marriage or before marriage.

> i think he was forced to do so.

> please study our kundali and suggest

>  

> for reference my details are

>  

> my birth details are as follows

> birth date - 10/9/80

> time 10 pm

> place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> givin latititude and longitude of erandol

> lat 20 55 0 N

> lon 75 19 60 E

>

> --- On Mon, 6/4/09, Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > wrote:

>

> Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar >

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- 6/4

>

> Monday, 6 April, 2009, 6:37 PM

>

> Malhotra,

>

> I remember ur post and good u said that data was wrong, but hope this is the

right one also.

>

> the period between 14/4/09 to 13/4/09 is the earliest u can think of

seperation in this 9/3 to 11/5/10 is best suited for it, so till then be patient

and try to win him back-give him a chance as u have for the past 3 yrs,,,!

>

> prayers to any form of shikthi will pave the right direction for u,

>

> Best wishes

>

> Prashant

>

> I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non

Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth

data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in

the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside

the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group

for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

> http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow

s & tbl=6

>

> ____________ _________ _________ __

> Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

>

> Monday, April 6, 2009 5:00:06 PM

> want to take divorce when i will get

>

> respected gurujis

>

> i m sunita

>

> my birth details are as follows

> birth date - 10/9/80

> time 10 pm

> place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> givin latititude and longitude of erandol

> lat 20 55 0 N

> lon 75 19 60 E

>

> actually i m fed up with my husband. he is not good to me.

> he is having affair with another lady. may be having children out side. living

out side. No physical relations with me since marrige. we are just living at one

place without any relationship. now i want tio leave hm because after 3 yrs also

there is no change in his behavior.

>

> plz help me.

>

> last time i furnished wrong details. actually these are the correct one that i

got from my parents.

>

> Check out the all-new Messenger 9.0! Go to http://in.messenger ./

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hi,

     I am not an astrologer..But I have gone through similar pain as you are

going through right now.He promised he would marry me and fight with the whole

world for me.My heart said " This is the right person for me!!! " .I fought with my

parents,brothers and sisters for him.All memebers in my family told he is not

good.I accepted him inspite of knowing that he goes to strip clubs,drinks,has

bad friends,no job,etc.It's true " Love is Blind " .

 

But when time came to prove his words,he decided to marry the girl his parents

chose for him.When I confronted him regarding this matter,he abused me verbally

and physically.He hit me a lot and used bad words for me.I was tormented

mentally with his actions.One fine day he went away to his parents for marriage

to another girl.Not only all this but he also spead rumors that I was

characterless among his friends and that anyone could sleep with me and do

anything with me.

 

But there's a saying " behind every cloud there is a silver lining " ,I got job in

a very good company just one week after he left.I was under the wrong impression

that my life would become hell if he left me,nobody would respect me in

society,everybody would talk about me,etc.But after he left me everything was

quite opposite.Friends and family supported me.Neighbours started coming to my

house and offered me a lot of help.I realised I was so happy without him.

 

Later I came to know the girl to whom he was about to get married broke the

marriage because he was jobless.He tried to contact me,but I never turned back

and looked at him.

 

As a woman and as your sister,I have one thing to tell you...It's time to take

your stand!!!

Try to get a job as teacher in some school..Three years is a long time to wait

for someone.

Don't let your life stand still.Keep moving forward!!!

 

Don't let any " dork " take control of your life..Life is very short...Live life

to the fullest...

In short give him final " Ultimatum " if he doesnt listen then kick his ass and

move on

 

 

--- On Thu, 4/9/09, Raja <desi.raja wrote:

 

Raja <desi.raja

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- plz some more queries

 

Thursday, April 9, 2009, 12:31 AM

 

Hello Smt. Malhotra ji,

You must have heard the phrase - " Nari tu Narayani " means nari is a form of

narayani. Nari (Female) is able to do anything of might, reverse the unhappy

marriage and make it happy one is small thing. I will strongly advise you should

do that rather than relying on any advise on cyber forum to break up your

marriage.

 

Do you know for sure what will be your future after the divorce? No jyotish can

predict that for sure. will you be able to remarry someone who can provide you

every happyness in the world? I strongly doubt it. Divorce in our SAMAJ is a

stigma especially for females and they end up suffering more in post-divorce. If

you yourself will give up then no one will help you. Do not expect any miracle

from your relatives or friends, they are ready to see you divorced so they can

talk about you. Only you will suffer therefor i will say that You must take

charge of situation and improve things.

 

As an elder brother, I would strongly advise against this divorce. Yeh khayal

hi dimag se nikal de aap. You should clean your mind of any doubts, sit down

with your husband, communicate with each other, take a week vacation with him,

do things that he likes, cook food he loves, help your in-laws, invite them to

your house often, patch up with him to the best, create circumstances such that

he has to feel good about you and he'll be back to you, create an environment of

trust and love, talk to him about starting family - having kids etc and

everything will work out for good.

 

There are no established formula for divorce, no predictions are sure

prediction. Marital ups-downs were there even for Mahadev and Narayana, we are

mere humans. As a woman, you should be able to control circumstances and your

husband too. I am trusting you to convert this situation and reverse whole thing

in your happy marital favor. Please rethink whole thing.

 

Pray to Ma Durga and your marriage will be a success, one day you will thank me.

 

May Ma Durga bless you.

 

-Raja

 

, Honey malhotra <lotus7755@. ...>

wrote:

 

> thanks vatteji , prashant ji , harry nathani ji,

 

> thank u for spending valuable time for me. but some final queries plz help me.

 

> kya mera divorce destined hai. yani hone he wala hai. yani ho jayega.  kyoki

mere parents are not supporting neither my in laws are not taking interst in our

matter. aab mai to sirf ek ek din nikal rahi hoo as i m fully dependent

finacially. so main steps nahi le sakti. so what i want to know ki kya mera

divorce hona likha hai kya. jaise kayi ghatnaye hum na soche ya kuch na kare to

bhi ho jata hai. usi tarah doivirce bhi use duartion main hona hi hai kyo graha

dasha supportive hai is liye ho jayega kya.

 

> i think meri mental situation and real situation aap log samaz rahe honge. aur

main kya jana chati hoon woh bhi aap sab samaz rahe honge. abt my husbands

contact with that lady it is confirmed that he is still having physical

relations with that lady and they are committed to each other. and he is take

all responsibilities of that lady just like husband.

 

> they had done abortion 4 yrs back before our marriage. due to family matters

and problems that girl was not accepted by my in laws.

 

> but now they are still having relations. he is living here but he is investing

his mony and time with that girl only. so

 

> i dont think i will get back him . so i m worried abt my future. but meri

himmat nahi kadm uthane ki. aab karan jo bhi ho. isliye mai chati hoo ki ye

ghatna ghat jaye aur situation aisi ho ki hamara divorce ho jaye.

 

> aap sab plz samazne ki koshis karen main kya kahana chati hoo. 

 

> --- On Tue, 7/4/09, vattem krishnan <bursar_99@. ..> wrote:

 

> vattem krishnan <bursar_99@. ..>

 

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

 

>

 

> Tuesday, 7 April, 2009, 12:16 AM

 

> Honey ji,

 

> if we analyse the chart of your husband we find:

 

> his maraigw ith you is by choice and in his 7th there is jupiter 7th as lord

of 5th in retrograde state.

 

> An agressive approach and with sun in lagna in own sign and mars along with

mercury.

 

> lagna raising in venus nakshtra and with venus posited in 12th he has his own

ways of finding pleasure and has no holds for him.

 

> Lord of 7th is aspecting saturn in dhana sthana in an airy sign.For him money

is not an issue and can get along with any body easily.

 

> His moon in dhanishta in 6th and venus in 7th too indicates that his spouse

will be for sake of havin pleasent time.

 

> About his having child,I have my own doubts as his 5th is aspected by saturn

and dispositor jupiter in 7th.

 

> Iam not sure whether you have verifed his contacts and proximity to other

woman and he certainly belongs to a different class and community.

 

> Now about your taking divorce,I do not think he will have any objection.and by

all means by the end of sept 2009,you can get divorce.

 

> It is doubtful he goes in for another marriage.and even he is not having any

contentment in his own house

 

> vrkrishnan

 

>

 

> --- On Mon, 4/6/09, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote:

 

>

 

> Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

 

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

 

>

 

> Monday, April 6, 2009, 1:08 PM

 

>

 

> for replying me soon.

 

> more that i want to tell

 

> my husbands details are

 

> 31/8/1974

 

> time - 6.35 am

 

> latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

 

> he is already having his relations with other lady since last 7 yrs. had

abortion done. cares nothing abt me . he even doent expect me to do . not even

talks with me ask nothing. no outing. he never comes with me out at my parents

place or any other place. he never talked  with be even not at the time of

marriage or before marriage.

 

> i think he was forced to do so.

 

> please study our kundali and suggest

 

> for reference my details are

 

> my birth details are as follows

 

> birth date - 10/9/80

 

> time 10 pm

 

> place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

 

>

 

> givin latititude and longitude of erandol

 

> lat 20 55 0 N

 

> lon 75 19 60 E

 

 

> --- On Mon, 6/4/09, Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > wrote:

 

 

> Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar >

 

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- 6/4

 

>

 

> Monday, 6 April, 2009, 6:37 PM

 

>

 

> Malhotra,

 

> I remember ur post and good u said that data was wrong, but hope this is the

right one also.

 

> the period between 14/4/09 to 13/4/09 is the earliest u can think of

seperation in this 9/3 to 11/5/10 is best suited for it, so till then be patient

and try to win him back-give him a chance as u have for the past 3 yrs,,,!

 

> prayers to any form of shikthi will pave the right direction for u,

 

 

> Best wishes

 

 

> Prashant

 

 

 

> I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non

Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth

data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in

the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside

the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group

for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

 

> http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database? method=reportRow

s & tbl=6

 

> ____________ _________ _________ __

 

> Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

 

>

 

> Monday, April 6, 2009 5:00:06 PM

 

> want to take divorce when i will get

 

 

> respected gurujis

 

> i m sunita

 

> my birth details are as follows

 

> birth date - 10/9/80

 

> time 10 pm

 

> place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

 

>

 

> givin latititude and longitude of erandol

 

> lat 20 55 0 N

 

> lon 75 19 60 E

 

 

> actually i m fed up with my husband. he is not good to me.

 

> he is having affair with another lady. may be having children out side..

living out side. No physical relations with me since marrige. we are just living

at one place without any relationship. now i want tio leave hm because after 3

yrs also there is no change in his behavior.

 

> plz help me.

 

 

> last time i furnished wrong details. actually these are the correct one that i

got from my parents.

[Guest guest]

I completely agree, Nari may be Narayani, but even Narayan respects the free

will of human beings. You can never force another person to love you, unless

they feel that way. It is impossible.

 

And all this fear instilled in you about society - where were these elders (I

mean his parents) when they got you married to him, fully aware of the

situation. If they didn't care to sacrifice you then, why will they care now?

Will the society come and help you solve this problem you find yourself in? Have

they?

 

Start thinking practically, and start doing something concrete about it from

now. The astrologers here have given you some very good advice. Strengthen

yourself financially before making any move. We are never as helpless as we

think we are. When God gives us a problem, He also gives us the courage to face

it. Pray to Him, He will show you the way. You don't need to listen to any of us

here. Just listen to that quiet inner voice.

 

 

, Sarita Sharma <sharmasarita67

wrote:

>

> Hi,

>      I am not an astrologer..But I have gone through similar pain as you are

going through right now.He promised he would marry me and fight with the whole

world for me.My heart said " This is the right person for me!!! " .I fought with my

parents,brothers and sisters for him.All memebers in my family told he is not

good.I accepted him inspite of knowing that he goes to strip clubs,drinks,has

bad friends,no job,etc.It's true " Love is Blind " .

>

> But when time came to prove his words,he decided to marry the girl his parents

chose for him.When I confronted him regarding this matter,he abused me verbally

and physically.He hit me a lot and used bad words for me.I was tormented

mentally with his actions.One fine day he went away to his parents for marriage

to another girl.Not only all this but he also spead rumors that I was

characterless among his friends and that anyone could sleep with me and do

anything with me.

>

> But there's a saying " behind every cloud there is a silver lining " ,I got job

in a very good company just one week after he left.I was under the wrong

impression that my life would become hell if he left me,nobody would respect me

in society,everybody would talk about me,etc.But after he left me everything was

quite opposite.Friends and family supported me.Neighbours started coming to my

house and offered me a lot of help.I realised I was so happy without him.

>

> Later I came to know the girl to whom he was about to get married broke the

marriage because he was jobless.He tried to contact me,but I never turned back

and looked at him.

>

> As a woman and as your sister,I have one thing to tell you...It's time to take

your stand!!!

> Try to get a job as teacher in some school..Three years is a long time to wait

for someone.

> Don't let your life stand still.Keep moving forward!!!

>

> Don't let any " dork " take control of your life..Life is very short...Live life

to the fullest...

> In short give him final " Ultimatum " if he doesnt listen then kick his ass and

move on

>

>

> --- On Thu, 4/9/09, Raja <desi.raja wrote:

>

> Raja <desi.raja

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- plz some more queries

>

> Thursday, April 9, 2009, 12:31 AM

>

> Hello Smt. Malhotra ji,

> You must have heard the phrase - " Nari tu Narayani " means nari is a form of

narayani. Nari (Female) is able to do anything of might, reverse the unhappy

marriage and make it happy one is small thing. I will strongly advise you should

do that rather than relying on any advise on cyber forum to break up your

marriage.

>

> Do you know for sure what will be your future after the divorce? No jyotish

can predict that for sure. will you be able to remarry someone who can provide

you every happyness in the world? I strongly doubt it. Divorce in our SAMAJ is a

stigma especially for females and they end up suffering more in post-divorce. If

you yourself will give up then no one will help you. Do not expect any miracle

from your relatives or friends, they are ready to see you divorced so they can

talk about you. Only you will suffer therefor i will say that You must take

charge of situation and improve things.

>

> As an elder brother, I would strongly advise against this divorce. Yeh khayal

hi dimag se nikal de aap. You should clean your mind of any doubts, sit down

with your husband, communicate with each other, take a week vacation with him,

do things that he likes, cook food he loves, help your in-laws, invite them to

your house often, patch up with him to the best, create circumstances such that

he has to feel good about you and he'll be back to you, create an environment of

trust and love, talk to him about starting family - having kids etc and

everything will work out for good.

>

> There are no established formula for divorce, no predictions are sure

prediction. Marital ups-downs were there even for Mahadev and Narayana, we are

mere humans. As a woman, you should be able to control circumstances and your

husband too. I am trusting you to convert this situation and reverse whole thing

in your happy marital favor. Please rethink whole thing.

>

> Pray to Ma Durga and your marriage will be a success, one day you will thank

me.

>

> May Ma Durga bless you.

>

> -Raja

>

> , Honey malhotra <lotus7755@ ...>

wrote:

>

> > thanks vatteji , prashant ji , harry nathani ji,

>

> > thank u for spending valuable time for me. but some final queries plz help

me.

>

> > kya mera divorce destined hai. yani hone he wala hai. yani ho jayega.  kyoki

mere parents are not supporting neither my in laws are not taking interst in our

matter. aab mai to sirf ek ek din nikal rahi hoo as i m fully dependent

finacially. so main steps nahi le sakti. so what i want to know ki kya mera

divorce hona likha hai kya. jaise kayi ghatnaye hum na soche ya kuch na kare to

bhi ho jata hai. usi tarah doivirce bhi use duartion main hona hi hai kyo graha

dasha supportive hai is liye ho jayega kya.

>

> > i think meri mental situation and real situation aap log samaz rahe honge.

aur main kya jana chati hoon woh bhi aap sab samaz rahe honge. abt my husbands

contact with that lady it is confirmed that he is still having physical

relations with that lady and they are committed to each other. and he is take

all responsibilities of that lady just like husband.

>

> > they had done abortion 4 yrs back before our marriage. due to family matters

and problems that girl was not accepted by my in laws.

>

> > but now they are still having relations. he is living here but he is

investing his mony and time with that girl only. so

>

> > i dont think i will get back him . so i m worried abt my future. but meri

himmat nahi kadm uthane ki. aab karan jo bhi ho. isliye mai chati hoo ki ye

ghatna ghat jaye aur situation aisi ho ki hamara divorce ho jaye.

>

> > aap sab plz samazne ki koshis karen main kya kahana chati hoo. 

>

> > --- On Tue, 7/4/09, vattem krishnan <bursar_99@ ..> wrote:

>

> > vattem krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

>

> > Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> >

>

> > Tuesday, 7 April, 2009, 12:16 AM

>

> > Honey ji,

>

> > if we analyse the chart of your husband we find:

>

> > his maraigw ith you is by choice and in his 7th there is jupiter 7th as lord

of 5th in retrograde state.

>

> > An agressive approach and with sun in lagna in own sign and mars along with

mercury.

>

> > lagna raising in venus nakshtra and with venus posited in 12th he has his

own ways of finding pleasure and has no holds for him.

>

> > Lord of 7th is aspecting saturn in dhana sthana in an airy sign.For him

money is not an issue and can get along with any body easily.

>

> > His moon in dhanishta in 6th and venus in 7th too indicates that his spouse

will be for sake of havin pleasent time.

>

> > About his having child,I have my own doubts as his 5th is aspected by saturn

and dispositor jupiter in 7th.

>

> > Iam not sure whether you have verifed his contacts and proximity to other

woman and he certainly belongs to a different class and community.

>

> > Now about your taking divorce,I do not think he will have any objection.and

by all means by the end of sept 2009,you can get divorce.

>

> > It is doubtful he goes in for another marriage.and even he is not having any

contentment in his own house

>

> > vrkrishnan

>

> >

>

> > --- On Mon, 4/6/09, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote:

>

> >

>

> > Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

>

> > Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> >

>

> > Monday, April 6, 2009, 1:08 PM

>

> >

>

> > for replying me soon.

>

> > more that i want to tell

>

> > my husbands details are

>

> > 31/8/1974

>

> > time - 6.35 am

>

> > latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

>

> > he is already having his relations with other lady since last 7 yrs. had

abortion done. cares nothing abt me . he even doent expect me to do . not even

talks with me ask nothing. no outing. he never comes with me out at my parents

place or any other place. he never talked  with be even not at the time of

marriage or before marriage.

>

> > i think he was forced to do so.

>

> > please study our kundali and suggest

>

> > for reference my details are

>

> > my birth details are as follows

>

> > birth date - 10/9/80

>

> > time 10 pm

>

> > place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> >

>

> > givin latititude and longitude of erandol

>

> > lat 20 55 0 N

>

> > lon 75 19 60 E

>

>

> > --- On Mon, 6/4/09, Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > wrote:

>

>

> > Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar >

>

> > Re: want to take divorce when i will get- 6/4

>

> >

>

> > Monday, 6 April, 2009, 6:37 PM

>

> >

>

> > Malhotra,

>

> > I remember ur post and good u said that data was wrong, but hope this is the

right one also.

>

> > the period between 14/4/09 to 13/4/09 is the earliest u can think of

seperation in this 9/3 to 11/5/10 is best suited for it, so till then be patient

and try to win him back-give him a chance as u have for the past 3 yrs,,,!

>

> > prayers to any form of shikthi will pave the right direction for u,

>

>

> > Best wishes

>

>

> > Prashant

>

>

>

> > I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non

Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth

data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in

the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside

the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group

for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

>

> > http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database?

method=reportRow s & tbl=6

>

> > ____________ _________ _________ __

>

> > Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

>

> >

>

> > Monday, April 6, 2009 5:00:06 PM

>

> > want to take divorce when i will get

>

>

> > respected gurujis

>

> > i m sunita

>

> > my birth details are as follows

>

> > birth date - 10/9/80

>

> > time 10 pm

>

> > place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> >

>

> > givin latititude and longitude of erandol

>

> > lat 20 55 0 N

>

> > lon 75 19 60 E

>

>

> > actually i m fed up with my husband. he is not good to me.

>

> > he is having affair with another lady. may be having children out side..

living out side. No physical relations with me since marrige. we are just living

at one place without any relationship. now i want tio leave hm because after 3

yrs also there is no change in his behavior.

>

> > plz help me.

>

>

> > last time i furnished wrong details. actually these are the correct one that

i got from my parents.

>

[Guest guest]

Alpana Ji,

Excellent piece of suggestion.Infact it is the inner voice is more accurate than

the jyotish and it will put you always on best pedestal.it is true that some

times we have upa and downs,we may go wrong but need conviction to correc the

course and come out of the rut.Lagna is the most inspiring point of time that

has to be strengthened from time to time

vrkrishnan 

 

--- On Sun, 4/12/09, Alpana Agarwal <alpsice wrote:

 

Alpana Agarwal <alpsice

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- plz some more queries

 

Sunday, April 12, 2009, 2:15 AM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I completely agree, Nari may be Narayani, but even Narayan respects the free

will of human beings. You can never force another person to love you, unless

they feel that way. It is impossible.

 

And all this fear instilled in you about society - where were these elders (I

mean his parents) when they got you married to him, fully aware of the

situation. If they didn't care to sacrifice you then, why will they care now?

Will the society come and help you solve this problem you find yourself in? Have

they?

 

Start thinking practically, and start doing something concrete about it from

now. The astrologers here have given you some very good advice. Strengthen

yourself financially before making any move. We are never as helpless as we

think we are. When God gives us a problem, He also gives us the courage to face

it. Pray to Him, He will show you the way. You don't need to listen to any of us

here. Just listen to that quiet inner voice.

 

, Sarita Sharma <sharmasarita67@ ...>

wrote:

>

> Hi,

>      I am not an astrologer.. But I have gone through similar pain as you are

going through right now.He promised he would marry me and fight with the whole

world for me.My heart said " This is the right person for me!!! " .I fought with my

parents,brothers and sisters for him.All memebers in my family told he is not

good.I accepted him inspite of knowing that he goes to strip clubs,drinks, has

bad friends,no job,etc.It's true " Love is Blind " .

>

> But when time came to prove his words,he decided to marry the girl his parents

chose for him.When I confronted him regarding this matter,he abused me verbally

and physically.He hit me a lot and used bad words for me.I was tormented

mentally with his actions.One fine day he went away to his parents for marriage

to another girl.Not only all this but he also spead rumors that I was

characterless among his friends and that anyone could sleep with me and do

anything with me.

>

> But there's a saying " behind every cloud there is a silver lining " ,I got job

in a very good company just one week after he left.I was under the wrong

impression that my life would become hell if he left me,nobody would respect me

in society,everybody would talk about me,etc.But after he left me everything was

quite opposite.Friends and family supported me.Neighbours started coming to my

house and offered me a lot of help.I realised I was so happy without him.

>

> Later I came to know the girl to whom he was about to get married broke the

marriage because he was jobless.He tried to contact me,but I never turned back

and looked at him.

>

> As a woman and as your sister,I have one thing to tell you...It's time to take

your stand!!!

> Try to get a job as teacher in some school..Three years is a long time to wait

for someone.

> Don't let your life stand still.Keep moving forward!!!

>

> Don't let any " dork " take control of your life..Life is very short...Live life

to the fullest...

> In short give him final " Ultimatum " if he doesnt listen then kick his ass and

move on

>

>

> --- On Thu, 4/9/09, Raja <desi.raja@. ..> wrote:

>

> Raja <desi.raja@. ..>

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- plz some more queries

>

> Thursday, April 9, 2009, 12:31 AM

>

> Hello Smt. Malhotra ji,

> You must have heard the phrase - " Nari tu Narayani " means nari is a form of

narayani. Nari (Female) is able to do anything of might, reverse the unhappy

marriage and make it happy one is small thing. I will strongly advise you should

do that rather than relying on any advise on cyber forum to break up your

marriage.

>

> Do you know for sure what will be your future after the divorce? No jyotish

can predict that for sure. will you be able to remarry someone who can provide

you every happyness in the world? I strongly doubt it. Divorce in our SAMAJ is a

stigma especially for females and they end up suffering more in post-divorce. If

you yourself will give up then no one will help you. Do not expect any miracle

from your relatives or friends, they are ready to see you divorced so they can

talk about you. Only you will suffer therefor i will say that You must take

charge of situation and improve things.

>

> As an elder brother, I would strongly advise against this divorce. Yeh khayal

hi dimag se nikal de aap. You should clean your mind of any doubts, sit down

with your husband, communicate with each other, take a week vacation with him,

do things that he likes, cook food he loves, help your in-laws, invite them to

your house often, patch up with him to the best, create circumstances such that

he has to feel good about you and he'll be back to you, create an environment of

trust and love, talk to him about starting family - having kids etc and

everything will work out for good.

>

> There are no established formula for divorce, no predictions are sure

prediction. Marital ups-downs were there even for Mahadev and Narayana, we are

mere humans. As a woman, you should be able to control circumstances and your

husband too. I am trusting you to convert this situation and reverse whole thing

in your happy marital favor. Please rethink whole thing.

>

> Pray to Ma Durga and your marriage will be a success, one day you will thank

me.

>

> May Ma Durga bless you.

>

> -Raja

>

> , Honey malhotra <lotus7755@ ...>

wrote:

>

> > thanks vatteji , prashant ji , harry nathani ji,

>

> > thank u for spending valuable time for me. but some final queries plz help

me.

>

> > kya mera divorce destined hai. yani hone he wala hai. yani ho jayega.  kyoki

mere parents are not supporting neither my in laws are not taking interst in our

matter. aab mai to sirf ek ek din nikal rahi hoo as i m fully dependent

finacially. so main steps nahi le sakti. so what i want to know ki kya mera

divorce hona likha hai kya. jaise kayi ghatnaye hum na soche ya kuch na kare to

bhi ho jata hai. usi tarah doivirce bhi use duartion main hona hi hai kyo graha

dasha supportive hai is liye ho jayega kya.

>

> > i think meri mental situation and real situation aap log samaz rahe honge.

aur main kya jana chati hoon woh bhi aap sab samaz rahe honge. abt my husbands

contact with that lady it is confirmed that he is still having physical

relations with that lady and they are committed to each other. and he is take

all responsibilities of that lady just like husband.

>

> > they had done abortion 4 yrs back before our marriage. due to family matters

and problems that girl was not accepted by my in laws.

>

> > but now they are still having relations. he is living here but he is

investing his mony and time with that girl only. so

>

> > i dont think i will get back him . so i m worried abt my future. but meri

himmat nahi kadm uthane ki. aab karan jo bhi ho. isliye mai chati hoo ki ye

ghatna ghat jaye aur situation aisi ho ki hamara divorce ho jaye.

>

> > aap sab plz samazne ki koshis karen main kya kahana chati hoo. 

>

> > --- On Tue, 7/4/09, vattem krishnan <bursar_99@ ..> wrote:

>

> > vattem krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

>

> > Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> >

>

> > Tuesday, 7 April, 2009, 12:16 AM

>

> > Honey ji,

>

> > if we analyse the chart of your husband we find:

>

> > his maraigw ith you is by choice and in his 7th there is jupiter 7th as lord

of 5th in retrograde state.

>

> > An agressive approach and with sun in lagna in own sign and mars along with

mercury.

>

> > lagna raising in venus nakshtra and with venus posited in 12th he has his

own ways of finding pleasure and has no holds for him.

>

> > Lord of 7th is aspecting saturn in dhana sthana in an airy sign.For him

money is not an issue and can get along with any body easily.

>

> > His moon in dhanishta in 6th and venus in 7th too indicates that his spouse

will be for sake of havin pleasent time.

>

> > About his having child,I have my own doubts as his 5th is aspected by saturn

and dispositor jupiter in 7th.

>

> > Iam not sure whether you have verifed his contacts and proximity to other

woman and he certainly belongs to a different class and community.

>

> > Now about your taking divorce,I do not think he will have any objection.and

by all means by the end of sept 2009,you can get divorce.

>

> > It is doubtful he goes in for another marriage.and even he is not having any

contentment in his own house

>

> > vrkrishnan

>

> >

>

> > --- On Mon, 4/6/09, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote:

>

> >

>

> > Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

>

> > Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> >

>

> > Monday, April 6, 2009, 1:08 PM

>

> >

>

> > for replying me soon.

>

> > more that i want to tell

>

> > my husbands details are

>

> > 31/8/1974

>

> > time - 6.35 am

>

> > latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

>

> > he is already having his relations with other lady since last 7 yrs. had

abortion done. cares nothing abt me . he even doent expect me to do . not even

talks with me ask nothing. no outing. he never comes with me out at my parents

place or any other place. he never talked  with be even not at the time of

marriage or before marriage.

>

> > i think he was forced to do so.

>

> > please study our kundali and suggest

>

> > for reference my details are

>

> > my birth details are as follows

>

> > birth date - 10/9/80

>

> > time 10 pm

>

> > place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> >

>

> > givin latititude and longitude of erandol

>

> > lat 20 55 0 N

>

> > lon 75 19 60 E

>

>

> > --- On Mon, 6/4/09, Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > wrote:

>

>

> > Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar >

>

> > Re: want to take divorce when i will get- 6/4

>

> >

>

> > Monday, 6 April, 2009, 6:37 PM

>

> >

>

> > Malhotra,

>

> > I remember ur post and good u said that data was wrong, but hope this is the

right one also.

>

> > the period between 14/4/09 to 13/4/09 is the earliest u can think of

seperation in this 9/3 to 11/5/10 is best suited for it, so till then be patient

and try to win him back-give him a chance as u have for the past 3 yrs,,,!

>

> > prayers to any form of shikthi will pave the right direction for u,

>

>

> > Best wishes

>

>

> > Prashant

>

>

>

> > I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non

Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth

data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in

the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside

the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group

for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

>

> > http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database?

method=reportRow s & tbl=6

>

> > ____________ _________ _________ __

>

> > Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

>

> >

>

> > Monday, April 6, 2009 5:00:06 PM

>

> > want to take divorce when i will get

>

>

> > respected gurujis

>

> > i m sunita

>

> > my birth details are as follows

>

> > birth date - 10/9/80

>

> > time 10 pm

>

> > place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> >

>

> > givin latititude and longitude of erandol

>

> > lat 20 55 0 N

>

> > lon 75 19 60 E

>

>

> > actually i m fed up with my husband. he is not good to me.

>

> > he is having affair with another lady. may be having children out side..

living out side. No physical relations with me since marrige. we are just living

at one place without any relationship. now i want tio leave hm because after 3

yrs also there is no change in his behavior.

>

> > plz help me.

>

>

> > last time i furnished wrong details. actually these are the correct one that

i got from my parents.

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

To Smt Malhotra :

Your horoscope is better than your husband's. Start a Shani-vaara-vrata from

next Saturday for propitiating Rahu, for 6 years from now ; and ask someone near

and dear to have a Shukra-vaara-vrata for you, for 30 months from now. Read

REMEDIES for further hints.

 

Make your lifestyle, food habits, company, etc as much saatvika as possible.

Read Gita daily, and and try to practise it. Good things will come. I never

advocate divorce, but you husband is really bad. Try to rectify him through

changing yourself. Either he will reform, or leave you.

-VJ

 

 

 

 

________________________________

Alpana Agarwal <alpsice

 

Sunday, April 12, 2009 11:45:34 AM

Re: want to take divorce when i will get- plz some more queries

 

 

 

 

 

I completely agree, Nari may be Narayani, but even Narayan respects the free

will of human beings. You can never force another person to love you, unless

they feel that way. It is impossible.

 

And all this fear instilled in you about society - where were these elders (I

mean his parents) when they got you married to him, fully aware of the

situation. If they didn't care to sacrifice you then, why will they care now?

Will the society come and help you solve this problem you find yourself in? Have

they?

 

Start thinking practically, and start doing something concrete about it from

now. The astrologers here have given you some very good advice. Strengthen

yourself financially before making any move. We are never as helpless as we

think we are. When God gives us a problem, He also gives us the courage to face

it. Pray to Him, He will show you the way. You don't need to listen to any of us

here. Just listen to that quiet inner voice.

 

, Sarita Sharma <sharmasarita67@ ...>

wrote:

>

> Hi,

> I am not an astrologer.. But I have gone through similar pain as you are

going through right now.He promised he would marry me and fight with the whole

world for me.My heart said " This is the right person for me!!! " .I fought with my

parents,brothers and sisters for him.All memebers in my family told he is not

good.I accepted him inspite of knowing that he goes to strip clubs,drinks, has

bad friends,no job,etc.It's true " Love is Blind " .

>

> But when time came to prove his words,he decided to marry the girl his parents

chose for him.When I confronted him regarding this matter,he abused me verbally

and physically.He hit me a lot and used bad words for me.I was tormented

mentally with his actions.One fine day he went away to his parents for marriage

to another girl.Not only all this but he also spead rumors that I was

characterless among his friends and that anyone could sleep with me and do

anything with me.

>

> But there's a saying " behind every cloud there is a silver lining " ,I got job

in a very good company just one week after he left.I was under the wrong

impression that my life would become hell if he left me,nobody would respect me

in society,everybody would talk about me,etc.But after he left me everything was

quite opposite.Friends and family supported me.Neighbours started coming to my

house and offered me a lot of help.I realised I was so happy without him.

>

> Later I came to know the girl to whom he was about to get married broke the

marriage because he was jobless.He tried to contact me,but I never turned back

and looked at him.

>

> As a woman and as your sister,I have one thing to tell you...It's time to take

your stand!!!

> Try to get a job as teacher in some school..Three years is a long time to wait

for someone.

> Don't let your life stand still.Keep moving forward!!!

>

> Don't let any " dork " take control of your life..Life is very short...Live life

to the fullest...

> In short give him final " Ultimatum " if he doesnt listen then kick his ass and

move on

>

>

> --- On Thu, 4/9/09, Raja <desi.raja@. ..> wrote:

>

> Raja <desi.raja@. ..>

> Re: want to take divorce when i will get- plz some more queries

>

> Thursday, April 9, 2009, 12:31 AM

>

> Hello Smt. Malhotra ji,

> You must have heard the phrase - " Nari tu Narayani " means nari is a form of

narayani. Nari (Female) is able to do anything of might, reverse the unhappy

marriage and make it happy one is small thing. I will strongly advise you should

do that rather than relying on any advise on cyber forum to break up your

marriage.

>

> Do you know for sure what will be your future after the divorce? No jyotish

can predict that for sure. will you be able to remarry someone who can provide

you every happyness in the world? I strongly doubt it. Divorce in our SAMAJ is a

stigma especially for females and they end up suffering more in post-divorce. If

you yourself will give up then no one will help you. Do not expect any miracle

from your relatives or friends, they are ready to see you divorced so they can

talk about you. Only you will suffer therefor i will say that You must take

charge of situation and improve things.

>

> As an elder brother, I would strongly advise against this divorce. Yeh khayal

hi dimag se nikal de aap. You should clean your mind of any doubts, sit down

with your husband, communicate with each other, take a week vacation with him,

do things that he likes, cook food he loves, help your in-laws, invite them to

your house often, patch up with him to the best, create circumstances such that

he has to feel good about you and he'll be back to you, create an environment of

trust and love, talk to him about starting family - having kids etc and

everything will work out for good.

>

> There are no established formula for divorce, no predictions are sure

prediction. Marital ups-downs were there even for Mahadev and Narayana, we are

mere humans. As a woman, you should be able to control circumstances and your

husband too. I am trusting you to convert this situation and reverse whole thing

in your happy marital favor. Please rethink whole thing.

>

> Pray to Ma Durga and your marriage will be a success, one day you will thank

me.

>

> May Ma Durga bless you.

>

> -Raja

>

> , Honey malhotra <lotus7755@ ...>

wrote:

>

> > thanks vatteji , prashant ji , harry nathani ji,

>

> > thank u for spending valuable time for me. but some final queries plz help

me.

>

> > kya mera divorce destined hai. yani hone he wala hai. yani ho jayega. kyoki

mere parents are not supporting neither my in laws are not taking interst in our

matter. aab mai to sirf ek ek din nikal rahi hoo as i m fully dependent

finacially. so main steps nahi le sakti. so what i want to know ki kya mera

divorce hona likha hai kya. jaise kayi ghatnaye hum na soche ya kuch na kare to

bhi ho jata hai. usi tarah doivirce bhi use duartion main hona hi hai kyo graha

dasha supportive hai is liye ho jayega kya.

>

> > i think meri mental situation and real situation aap log samaz rahe honge.

aur main kya jana chati hoon woh bhi aap sab samaz rahe honge. abt my husbands

contact with that lady it is confirmed that he is still having physical

relations with that lady and they are committed to each other. and he is take

all responsibilities of that lady just like husband.

>

> > they had done abortion 4 yrs back before our marriage. due to family matters

and problems that girl was not accepted by my in laws.

>

> > but now they are still having relations. he is living here but he is

investing his mony and time with that girl only. so

>

> > i dont think i will get back him . so i m worried abt my future. but meri

himmat nahi kadm uthane ki. aab karan jo bhi ho. isliye mai chati hoo ki ye

ghatna ghat jaye aur situation aisi ho ki hamara divorce ho jaye.

>

> > aap sab plz samazne ki koshis karen main kya kahana chati hoo.

>

> > --- On Tue, 7/4/09, vattem krishnan <bursar_99@ ..> wrote:

>

> > vattem krishnan <bursar_99@ ..>

>

> > Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> >

>

> > Tuesday, 7 April, 2009, 12:16 AM

>

> > Honey ji,

>

> > if we analyse the chart of your husband we find:

>

> > his maraigw ith you is by choice and in his 7th there is jupiter 7th as lord

of 5th in retrograde state.

>

> > An agressive approach and with sun in lagna in own sign and mars along with

mercury.

>

> > lagna raising in venus nakshtra and with venus posited in 12th he has his

own ways of finding pleasure and has no holds for him.

>

> > Lord of 7th is aspecting saturn in dhana sthana in an airy sign.For him

money is not an issue and can get along with any body easily.

>

> > His moon in dhanishta in 6th and venus in 7th too indicates that his spouse

will be for sake of havin pleasent time.

>

> > About his having child,I have my own doubts as his 5th is aspected by saturn

and dispositor jupiter in 7th.

>

> > Iam not sure whether you have verifed his contacts and proximity to other

woman and he certainly belongs to a different class and community.

>

> > Now about your taking divorce,I do not think he will have any objection.and

by all means by the end of sept 2009,you can get divorce.

>

> > It is doubtful he goes in for another marriage.and even he is not having any

contentment in his own house

>

> > vrkrishnan

>

> >

>

> > --- On Mon, 4/6/09, Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in> wrote:

>

> >

>

> > Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

>

> > Re: want to take divorce when i will get- with my husbands

details

>

> >

>

> > Monday, April 6, 2009, 1:08 PM

>

> >

>

> > for replying me soon.

>

> > more that i want to tell

>

> > my husbands details are

>

> > 31/8/1974

>

> > time - 6.35 am

>

> > latitude,longitude - 21 10 n 75 34

>

> > he is already having his relations with other lady since last 7 yrs. had

abortion done. cares nothing abt me . he even doent expect me to do . not even

talks with me ask nothing. no outing. he never comes with me out at my parents

place or any other place. he never talked with be even not at the time of

marriage or before marriage.

>

> > i think he was forced to do so.

>

> > please study our kundali and suggest

>

> > for reference my details are

>

> > my birth details are as follows

>

> > birth date - 10/9/80

>

> > time 10 pm

>

> > place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> >

>

> > givin latititude and longitude of erandol

>

> > lat 20 55 0 N

>

> > lon 75 19 60 E

>

>

> > --- On Mon, 6/4/09, Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar > wrote:

>

>

> > Prashant Kumar G B <gbp_kumar >

>

> > Re: want to take divorce when i will get- 6/4

>

> >

>

> > Monday, 6 April, 2009, 6:37 PM

>

> >

>

> > Malhotra,

>

> > I remember ur post and good u said that data was wrong, but hope this is the

right one also.

>

> > the period between 14/4/09 to 13/4/09 is the earliest u can think of

seperation in this 9/3 to 11/5/10 is best suited for it, so till then be patient

and try to win him back-give him a chance as u have for the past 3 yrs,,,!

>

> > prayers to any form of shikthi will pave the right direction for u,

>

>

> > Best wishes

>

>

> > Prashant

>

>

>

> > I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non

Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth

data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in

the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside

the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group

for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

>

> > http://groups. / group/Jyotish_ Remedies/ database?

method=reportRow s & tbl=6

>

> > ____________ _________ _________ __

>

> > Honey malhotra <lotus7755 (AT) (DOT) co.in>

>

> >

>

> > Monday, April 6, 2009 5:00:06 PM

>

> > want to take divorce when i will get

>

>

> > respected gurujis

>

> > i m sunita

>

> > my birth details are as follows

>

> > birth date - 10/9/80

>

> > time 10 pm

>

> > place village near erandol in maharashtra (salva)

>

> >

>

> > givin latititude and longitude of erandol

>

> > lat 20 55 0 N

>

> > lon 75 19 60 E

>

>

> > actually i m fed up with my husband. he is not good to me.

>

> > he is having affair with another lady. may be having children out side..

living out side. No physical relations with me since marrige. we are just living

at one place without any relationship. now i want tio leave hm because after 3

yrs also there is no change in his behavior.

>

> > plz help me.

>

>

> > last time i furnished wrong details. actually these are the correct one that

i got from my parents.

>