Guest guest Posted May 30, 2009 Report Share Posted May 30, 2009 Hello Sir/Madam, I need your valuable advise regarding things which are happening in my personal life. I work as a Telecom engineer from last 2.5 years. I am in relation with a girl from September 2007,with whom even my marriage is almost fixed from family side too.We had a very sweet and intimate relationship till last December 2008. Since DEC 2008( may be from last week)She started behaving very very different, as if her feelings has gone, as if she doesn't love me. On FEB 2009 I have moved out to a very far place due to my Job. It has been 6months she is the same,she tells me that I can get a better girl and she cant keep me happy. But on the other hand her Mom and Sister tels me that she cries out every day(missing me) and just pretends to me like that.Her DAD is also a cancer patient and dont have much time. So they wanted our marriage to be done soon.But I am completely perplexed about her behaviour. She never talk any words of love neither contacts me till I do.Her parents are very supportive and my love for her has kept me patience for 6months.I have been going through severe mental sufferings and tensions because of this.She even tells that she is not going to marry anyone else or can even think.She has changed lots and this month she started saying that she will merry me but she cant change back.She has given so many terms and conditions(kiddish)and need to live like this only with her without any expectations. I am realy perlexed of what went wrong with her?I need to spend my life with her and at this condition I wont be able to.? I have really tried my best and now am not getting any other means of solving this problem, and its not possible for me to live without her. I am hereby giving mine and her personal details.Can you pls suggest me of why all these things are happening in my life? and what should i do?,will there be any marriage problems coming up Sir/Madam ? Please help. *************************************************** ************ ***** PERSONAL DETAILS***** ***** Gender Male Birth Date--->14/07/1983 Birth Time--> 10:20 am Birth Day--> Thursday Birth Place--> KARIMGANJ (Near Silchar,STATE-ASSAM) ) Gender Female Birth Date--> 19/12/1987 Birth Time--> 9:44am Birth Day--> Saturday Birth Place--> SHILLONG,MEGHALAYA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2009 Report Share Posted May 31, 2009 Mr Vishal, This change resulting in change of attitude of the girl was due to ataichara of jupiter transition to Aquarius from capricorn that happene din last month.Jupiter is expected to revert back to capricorn by end of Sept. her lagna lord being saturn and in 12 th house with 3 planets and mars aspecting venus in lagna are isues indicating her high and low feelings. Moon in 11th in Anuradha gives room for inferiority feelings. Also keep in mind ketu in 9th though aspected by jupiter is in the sign of mercury of virgo.Bhagyesh(9th) in 12th with suns and saturn is combust and in gochara also retrograde.These placements of planets may delay the issue of marriage.her change in feelings can be due to her complexity of thoughts.Even father's health might also delay further proceedings in marraige.internally she might be worried and introspecting that the marriage might not happen as per conditions in her house.She might be very sceptical about the progress of events.Also note,currently she is having mercury dasa of of 6th and 9th houses.from 2012 dasa changes to ketu will bring more complications and dissatisfaction to her to settle down in life.Current phse of dasa there is remote scope for the evnt of marraige as seen from her chart.Come No2009 her feelings may revert back. vrkrishnan --- On Sat, 5/30/09, paulvishal143 <paulvishal143 wrote: paulvishal143 <paulvishal143 Personal life problem. please help Saturday, May 30, 2009, 2:40 PM Hello Sir/Madam, I need your valuable advise regarding things which are happening in my personal life. I work as a Telecom engineer from last 2.5 years. I am in relation with a girl from September 2007,with whom even my marriage is almost fixed from family side too.We had a very sweet and intimate relationship till last December 2008. Since DEC 2008( may be from last week)She started behaving very very different, as if her feelings has gone, as if she doesn't love me. On FEB 2009 I have moved out to a very far place due to my Job. It has been 6months she is the same,she tells me that I can get a better girl and she cant keep me happy. But on the other hand her Mom and Sister tels me that she cries out every day(missing me) and just pretends to me like that.Her DAD is also a cancer patient and dont have much time. So they wanted our marriage to be done soon.But I am completely perplexed about her behaviour. She never talk any words of love neither contacts me till I do.Her parents are very supportive and my love for her has kept me patience for 6months.I have been going through severe mental sufferings and tensions because of this.She even tells that she is not going to marry anyone else or can even think.She has changed lots and this month she started saying that she will merry me but she cant change back.She has given so many terms and conditions(kiddish) and need to live like this only with her without any expectations. I am realy perlexed of what went wrong with her?I need to spend my life with her and at this condition I wont be able to.? I have really tried my best and now am not getting any other means of solving this problem, and its not possible for me to live without her. I am hereby giving mine and her personal details.Can you pls suggest me of why all these things are happening in my life? and what should i do?,will there be any marriage problems coming up Sir/Madam ? Please help. ************ ********* ********* ********* ********* *** ************ ***** PERSONAL DETAILS***** ***** Gender Male Birth Date--->14/07/ 1983 Birth Time--> 10:20 am Birth Day--> Thursday Birth Place--> KARIMGANJ (Near Silchar,STATE- ASSAM) ) Gender Female Birth Date--> 19/12/1987 Birth Time--> 9:44am Birth Day--> Saturday Birth Place--> SHILLONG,MEGHALAYA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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