Problems from all angles

[Guest guest]

Pranam Guruji,

 

I am a 52 year married woman with husband and children. Ever since I have been

married I have had some problem or the other. I married a very intelligent man

(Arranged marriage) who is Engineer and MBA. He till today is not settled in his

profession so can not provide for the family. He had Bells Palsey about 4-5

years into marriage. Each time he joined a company he would loose his job.

Son was born with heart problem.

We have twin girls and a son.

The girls are both engineers.

2004 I had a major surgery and my father-in-law died. 2007 my mother-in-law fell

sick and died in Jan 2008.

2005 my husband had a massive heart attack and that is the year our daughter got

married.

One got married to a boy of her liking. We had a good wedding but he hates us

and does not talk to us.

Second twin does not want to get married or atleast that is the impression we

get as who ever we suggest she does not even meet. She says she does not have

anyone in her mind.

 

Son was doing fine in College but all of a sudden he was thrown out of college

as he failed. He is rebelling and blaming me for everything. I am concerned

about his future.

 

My husband does not have a job and I am doing a small job so I can run the house

and pay for health care.

It seems the sky has fallen on us and there is no light at the end of the

tunnel.

 

My concern is -

1.Is there really a light for my family at the end of the tunnel?

2.Will my son study and learn from his mistakes then become something.

3.Which study line is good for him?

4.Will mu husband who is 55 yrs will ever settle in his job/work or give us some

stability in life.

5.Will my daughter settle and get married.

6.Will my children and son-in-law ever love us.

7.Is there any happy contented life ahead or there are struggles only.

8.Will my husband's health be alright and will his younger brother give my

husband a share of inheritance?

 

My

DATE OF BIRTH Sept 19, 1957

Place of Birth-ROHATAK, Haryana

Time 22 hrs (10 PM)

 

Thanks and appreciate some remedies to my situation.

 

If you suggest I can email you my husband and son's particulars as well.

 

I need all the help to get out of this mess. 29 years have been too long to bear

one problem or the other concerning job or health or both and now studies. I

feel sorry for my husband also. But my power to bear anymore is shaky.

 

My warm regards,

Kiran