My husband is depressed and may be suicidal. Seek help and guidance.

[Guest guest]

Respected members,

 

I have no intention of being melodramatic to draw your attention. However, it is

the truth and I desperately need help and guidance.

 

My husband, out of his sense of self respect has not posted on these forums

since he refuses to accept any astrological advice free without a dakshina, but

I am at my wits end and hence this post.

 

Please allow me to share the background with you.

 

I am married for the last 14 years to one of the most wonderful human beings on

this earth, a loving and devoted husband and a doting father to our almost 4

year old daughter. Kind, sensitive, highly intelligent, who treats everyone as

an individual and willingly helps everyone, whenever asked.

 

We have been extremely fortunate and blessed in every matter except for one

thing. Our state of finances.

 

Professionally, his life is a roller coaster and a continuos uphill struggle.

Everyones life is a struggle, but, I have seen others and his seems to be

extremely bad. He has become extremely depressed and is losing the will to fight

any more. Says he has grown tired of fighting continuosly. His birth details are

as follows:

 

 

Date of birth : 13.04.1969

 

Time of birth: 15:03 PM

 

Place of birth: Ghatsila

 

Latitude (DMS): 22° 36' 0 N

 

Longitude (DMS): 86° 28' 60 E

 

 

Mine are

 

Date of birth : 10.10.1970

 

Time of birth: 05:50 AM

 

Place of birth: Bokaro

 

Latitude (DMS) 85° 58' 0'

 

Longitude (DMS) 23° 47' 0'

 

Current situation

 

Unemployed since September 2008. All our savings have

eroded and we are currently surviving on the help from one or two

friends. He tried to engage in a business in December 2008 / January

2009 but lost a lot of money due to treachery and deceit, further

worsening the situation.

 

Our current situation is bad. Lot of debts, absolutely no cash inflows since the

last 8 months, lots of commitments (to our parents who are dependent on us, a 4

year daughter) and no ways to meet them.

 

Currently if our financial situation does not improve, in the next two months,

then we will be in extremely dire straits,much worse than what we are in now.

 

Severe fluctuations have been a regular feature of his career.

 

In the recent past (this is apart from the fluctuations before)

 

He lost his job in 1997 and got another only in 2000.

 

Lost his job again end of 2003, only to get another in 2006.

 

(Shri Rohini Ranjan ji had predicted that he would get involved in training

during this period. Although his line was different, opportunities in training

did arise and he took them, which has become his field now.)

 

Now again he is jobless since the last 10 months.

 

Every time, our reserves and savings vanish. During these jobless times,we

struggle to meet our commitments, incur huge debts, liabilities. Then he gets

into a job, we pay back the debts and then when he loses his job again, the

cycle begins anew. This is despite a good professional education, experience and

high skills.

 

We are sick and tired of this endless cycle, denying us the chance to

live with dignity. My husband is extremely depressed most of the time, and I am

running out of hope.

 

His horoscope seems to be really weak. My own observations, plus what we know

(Please correct me if I am wrong)

 

Sun-atmakaraka- swa gandanta, lord of Jupiter in enemy sign, mercury- current

dasha- in enemy sign, saturn in enemy sign, Jupiter conjoined with Ketu, Sun

afflicted by Rahu along with Venus in eighth,mars weak, moons position

inauspicious.,

 

I also have been told that in August his Saturn will become Astama Shani,

further adding on to our misery.

 

What should we do? We are not in a position to afford expensive remedies, nor

pay for expensive stones.

 

My husband is extremely depressed and melancholy. I am witness to his pain and

agony and the sight of a man who helps out people only to get stabbed in return.

He has been a born fighter, but now I see him losing the will to fight. He is so

depressed that he is losing his faith in himself and God. As he says, he does

not want to escape his karma, but only to live life with dignity.

 

Humbly seek advice and guidance. Would any members know of anyone in Hyderabad

where we stay, who can help us perform the sankranthi dosha homam as a remedy

for the gandanta sun? What other remedies can we look at?

 

Seek your help and guidance.

 

With respect and regards,

 

Shruti

[Guest guest]

Shruthi,

 

for a start u can visit the groups database section and will find several

Astrologers who will undertake paid readings so it is a option under YELLOW

PAGES, this is after u feel u don't know anyone in ur known circles of friends,

relatives as a face to face sitting is possible with them can cover many

unexpected areas well.

 

now will deal with HIS CAREER/FINANCES

 

SIMHA LAGNA BORN HIS 10TH lord sukra is uccha but in the 8th in D1, but in 5th

in D9 with Kuja and Guru, but Sukra himself is in Budha the 2nd and 11th lord

Budha placed in the 9th with sani and ravi, sani is neecha and Budha is in the

8th in D9 with Sani so the roller coaster ride u just said is part of his life

as and when these periods, sub periods run right now he is in Budha-Sukra from

23/3/07 to 20/1/10 where it cud have been at its lowest ebb may have travelled

overseas on work too. or worked with them but as said the 8th placed period so

will be more out of work, hidden and unexpected losses, some deaths in in-laws

families too but can give some unexpected gains also in this period in a small

way.

 

uhave rightly analysed th Ashtamasani too.

 

Prayers to Lakshmi will hel

Budha-ravi will see a change of place and financial strenght improves as it is

lagna lord ravi's period

 

 

THE PERIODS FROM 20/1/10 TO 23/4/13 is v progressive and will make up for a

lotof lost times and around the time it ends a change of sorts is expected with

some short period of joblessness for min 5 months. later will be good again.

 

u can recite Runavimochana stotra of Narishma daily, aditya hrudayam will help u

a great deal

 

r u working, if i have to read utrs?

 

Best wishes

 

prashant

 

I use B V Raman's Ayanamsa only so Dasa, Vargas, Dates will differ from non

Raman's. Pl provide important dates in ur life while posting to verify ur birth

data and to help Lagna verification provide a picture in the Pictures folder in

the group either in the Lagna/rasi one or unknown folder. Consultations outside

the group or to my personal ID are chargeable. see Database section in the group

for more.- G B Prashant Kumar Life Member ICAS.

/database?method=reportRows & tbl=6

 

 

 

 

 

________________________________

shruti.veda <shruti.veda

 

Wednesday, July 15, 2009 10:18:18 PM

My husband is depressed and may be suicidal. Seek help and

guidance.

 

 

 

 

 

Respected members,

 

I have no intention of being melodramatic to draw your attention. However, it is

the truth and I desperately need help and guidance.

 

My husband, out of his sense of self respect has not posted on these forums

since he refuses to accept any astrological advice free without a dakshina, but

I am at my wits end and hence this post.

 

Please allow me to share the background with you.

 

I am married for the last 14 years to one of the most wonderful human beings on

this earth, a loving and devoted husband and a doting father to our almost 4

year old daughter. Kind, sensitive, highly intelligent, who treats everyone as

an individual and willingly helps everyone, whenever asked.

 

We have been extremely fortunate and blessed in every matter except for one

thing. Our state of finances.

 

Professionally, his life is a roller coaster and a continuos uphill struggle.

Everyones life is a struggle, but, I have seen others and his seems to be

extremely bad. He has become extremely depressed and is losing the will to fight

any more. Says he has grown tired of fighting continuosly. His birth details are

as follows:

 

Date of birth : 13.04.1969

 

Time of birth: 15:03 PM

 

Place of birth: Ghatsila

 

Latitude (DMS): 22° 36' 0 N

 

Longitude (DMS): 86° 28' 60 E

 

Mine are

 

Date of birth : 10.10.1970

 

Time of birth: 05:50 AM

 

Place of birth: Bokaro

 

Latitude (DMS) 85° 58' 0'

 

Longitude (DMS) 23° 47' 0'

 

Current situation

 

Unemployed since September 2008. All our savings have

eroded and we are currently surviving on the help from one or two

friends. He tried to engage in a business in December 2008 / January

2009 but lost a lot of money due to treachery and deceit, further

worsening the situation.

 

Our current situation is bad. Lot of debts, absolutely no cash inflows since the

last 8 months, lots of commitments (to our parents who are dependent on us, a 4

year daughter) and no ways to meet them.

 

Currently if our financial situation does not improve, in the next two months,

then we will be in extremely dire straits,much worse than what we are in now.

 

Severe fluctuations have been a regular feature of his career.

 

In the recent past (this is apart from the fluctuations before)

 

He lost his job in 1997 and got another only in 2000.

 

Lost his job again end of 2003, only to get another in 2006.

 

(Shri Rohini Ranjan ji had predicted that he would get involved in training

during this period. Although his line was different, opportunities in training

did arise and he took them, which has become his field now.)

 

Now again he is jobless since the last 10 months.

 

Every time, our reserves and savings vanish. During these jobless times,we

struggle to meet our commitments, incur huge debts, liabilities. Then he gets

into a job, we pay back the debts and then when he loses his job again, the

cycle begins anew. This is despite a good professional education, experience and

high skills.

 

We are sick and tired of this endless cycle, denying us the chance to

live with dignity. My husband is extremely depressed most of the time, and I am

running out of hope.

 

His horoscope seems to be really weak. My own observations, plus what we know

(Please correct me if I am wrong)

 

Sun-atmakaraka- swa gandanta, lord of Jupiter in enemy sign, mercury- current

dasha- in enemy sign, saturn in enemy sign, Jupiter conjoined with Ketu, Sun

afflicted by Rahu along with Venus in eighth,mars weak, moons position

inauspicious. ,

 

I also have been told that in August his Saturn will become Astama Shani,

further adding on to our misery.

 

What should we do? We are not in a position to afford expensive remedies, nor

pay for expensive stones.

 

My husband is extremely depressed and melancholy. I am witness to his pain and

agony and the sight of a man who helps out people only to get stabbed in return.

He has been a born fighter, but now I see him losing the will to fight. He is so

depressed that he is losing his faith in himself and God. As he says, he does

not want to escape his karma, but only to live life with dignity.

 

Humbly seek advice and guidance. Would any members know of anyone in Hyderabad

where we stay, who can help us perform the sankranthi dosha homam as a remedy

for the gandanta sun? What other remedies can we look at?

 

Seek your help and guidance.

 

With respect and regards,

 

Shruti

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Dear Sruti,

 

As mentioned by you & Shree Prasanth, There are many malefic influences in his

horoscope.

 

Notable:

Lagna lord is in Gandantha

Chandra lagna lord Neecha

Venus & Jupiter Retrograde

Jupiter with Ketu & Gulika

 

The reason for these positions are many and need to be analized with patience

and face-to face sitting including a prasna.

 

However, his ups & downs are mainly caused by saturn & its transit.

 

Your chart also does not add to the support much with his moon in the dhana

sthana from yours.

 

His yoga Karaka planet Mars from lagna is very strong. This is one of most

dependable positive aspect in his chart. This planet also causes neecha bhanga

of Saturn. In fact, you look at the dasa, the Anathara period of Mars should

have been good. You may have to hold on some how for a few more months.

 

As for a long term solution, this will require some serious remedies and I do

not think you will be able to do them at present.

 

As for remedies, can you tell me what have you done so far?. are you/ husband

doing any daily poojas or prayers?.

 

 

A.G.Suresh Babu Shenoy

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " shruti.veda " <shruti.veda wrote:

>

> Respected members,

>

> I have no intention of being melodramatic to draw your attention. However, it

is the truth and I desperately need help and guidance.

>

> My husband, out of his sense of self respect has not posted on these forums

since he refuses to accept any astrological advice free without a dakshina, but

I am at my wits end and hence this post.

>

> Please allow me to share the background with you.

>

> I am married for the last 14 years to one of the most wonderful human beings

on this earth, a loving and devoted husband and a doting father to our almost 4

year old daughter. Kind, sensitive, highly intelligent, who treats everyone as

an individual and willingly helps everyone, whenever asked.

>

> We have been extremely fortunate and blessed in every matter except for one

thing. Our state of finances.

>

> Professionally, his life is a roller coaster and a continuos uphill struggle.

Everyones life is a struggle, but, I have seen others and his seems to be

extremely bad. He has become extremely depressed and is losing the will to fight

any more. Says he has grown tired of fighting continuosly. His birth details are

as follows:

>

>

> Date of birth : 13.04.1969

>

> Time of birth: 15:03 PM

>

> Place of birth: Ghatsila

>

> Latitude (DMS): 22° 36' 0 N

>

> Longitude (DMS): 86° 28' 60 E

>

>

> Mine are

>

> Date of birth : 10.10.1970

>

> Time of birth: 05:50 AM

>

> Place of birth: Bokaro

>

> Latitude (DMS) 85° 58' 0'

>

> Longitude (DMS) 23° 47' 0'

>

> Current situation

>

> Unemployed since September 2008. All our savings have

> eroded and we are currently surviving on the help from one or two

> friends. He tried to engage in a business in December 2008 / January

> 2009 but lost a lot of money due to treachery and deceit, further

> worsening the situation.

>

> Our current situation is bad. Lot of debts, absolutely no cash inflows since

the last 8 months, lots of commitments (to our parents who are dependent on us,

a 4 year daughter) and no ways to meet them.

>

> Currently if our financial situation does not improve, in the next two months,

then we will be in extremely dire straits,much worse than what we are in now.

>

> Severe fluctuations have been a regular feature of his career.

>

> In the recent past (this is apart from the fluctuations before)

>

> He lost his job in 1997 and got another only in 2000.

>

> Lost his job again end of 2003, only to get another in 2006.

>

> (Shri Rohini Ranjan ji had predicted that he would get involved in training

during this period. Although his line was different, opportunities in training

did arise and he took them, which has become his field now.)

>

> Now again he is jobless since the last 10 months.

>

> Every time, our reserves and savings vanish. During these jobless times,we

struggle to meet our commitments, incur huge debts, liabilities. Then he gets

into a job, we pay back the debts and then when he loses his job again, the

cycle begins anew. This is despite a good professional education, experience and

high skills.

>

> We are sick and tired of this endless cycle, denying us the chance to

> live with dignity. My husband is extremely depressed most of the time, and I

am running out of hope.

>

> His horoscope seems to be really weak. My own observations, plus what we know

(Please correct me if I am wrong)

>

> Sun-atmakaraka- swa gandanta, lord of Jupiter in enemy sign, mercury- current

dasha- in enemy sign, saturn in enemy sign, Jupiter conjoined with Ketu, Sun

afflicted by Rahu along with Venus in eighth,mars weak, moons position

inauspicious.,

>

> I also have been told that in August his Saturn will become Astama Shani,

further adding on to our misery.

>

> What should we do? We are not in a position to afford expensive remedies, nor

pay for expensive stones.

>

> My husband is extremely depressed and melancholy. I am witness to his pain and

agony and the sight of a man who helps out people only to get stabbed in return.

He has been a born fighter, but now I see him losing the will to fight. He is so

depressed that he is losing his faith in himself and God. As he says, he does

not want to escape his karma, but only to live life with dignity.

>

> Humbly seek advice and guidance. Would any members know of anyone in Hyderabad

where we stay, who can help us perform the sankranthi dosha homam as a remedy

for the gandanta sun? What other remedies can we look at?

>

> Seek your help and guidance.

>

> With respect and regards,

>

> Shruti

>

[Guest guest]

dear shruti ji

 

there are very worse position of planets in your husband kundali

 

1. lord of bhagya is his enemy

2. lord of karm is his enemy

3. lord of profit is his enemy

4. lord of knowledge is also weak but due to being in centre it will help

always. this have to do strong .

 

5. lord of wealth is in self house want to help but in impression of sun,

murcury and moon all three enemies.

 

u dont need to do costly remadies

1. he should worship by mantra jap. take a rudraksh mala of 108 seeds.

on sitting on a non conductive mat.

om gan ganpatye namha 1 mala

om guru gurve namah 5 mala

om namah shivay 1 mala

om budh budhay namah 4 mala

om indraye namah only one time

and touch the earth.

jap till 41 days. this will give you relief. after that tell me and i will

advice what to do next. the result is guarnteed in 9 months after all remadies.

the life will be changed as we will bring all planets in favour.

 

anil sharma

09899507373

also tell me the direction of your house you are living and your date of

marrige.