Guest guest Posted September 18, 2009 Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 Hello Group members, I am really bothered by my sister-in-laws interference in my married life since day one. Could you tell me if she is the cause? Her details and my husbands: Paru Mehta (sister-in-law) New Delhi, DOB:9-May-1963. Abhay Dave POB: New Delhi DOB:9-2-1965 TOB:01:10 AM Regards, Manushree ______________________________\ __ Get more done like never before with 7 Mail. Learn more: http://au.overview.mail./ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 18, 2009 Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 Please correct If I am wrong. Hi Manu Shree I hope my Email will give you some energy and hope. GOOD CASES: My mothers case: My aunty always used to interfere in my mothers life from buying a saree to buying a house etc. But when my father and mother was young and married they have no food to eat also .She has given a lot of confidence to my dad both in money and moral support. In this case we have to understand she is my dads sister and sister in law to my mother. But she is like a mother to my father. I hope you can understand. I know that every one will have jealous feeling even I have. If our husband gives more attention to some one that we don't like. If she is your husband's own sister we cannot fight. As a wife no one can take place your position. You just married and came may be few years ago . If she is your husband brother's wife . What's her age and how many years he is with them? May be they helped him in getting a job and allowed to stay in their house for years. All are not bad persons. My husband generally spends a lot of money on their brothers. We have to be intelligent and make our husbnad invest the money on buying plots and aprtments and gold. With good words we can do any thing. It's my personal experience. If you want privacy try jobs for him in different place encourage him in a way that it's good for his future. You have to build confidence in your husband's mind that my wife is truthful , she takes care of my family. Then your husbnad will not do anything with out your notice. It will take 5- 10 years may be but have patience. It took almost 5 years for me. And anothe solution is children. If children are there he will get more affection on family. Call your husbnad in the afternoon lunch time and enquire whether he finished his lunch or not and tell him to call you back once he reaches office and leaves office. this will show your affection towards him. When I was in my mothers place also I will call my husbnad Once in afternoon and night and make an enquiry about him. I also faced many problems with my mother in law and sister in laws . I don't know what exactly your problem is but in my case they used to tell all lies to my husband and he used to believe them. BAD CASES: 1. In my case my inlaws are from village and very god fearing. So I told my husband I will go to any temple and promise on the god that I didn't what ever they are saying. My In laws didn't come. Even though I want to make a promise. ( You should be genuine and true in this case) 2. My friend's case Her mother in law used to abuse her wit bad words. So she arranged a handicam and recorded the video. You have to be very careful in your way. keep the handicam in that place for 7 days and charge the handicam there only and record how they are abusing. But you don't quarrel with them , bcos you also will be recorded. or using a cell phone call your husband and ask him to don't talk and wait on the phone: He can understand if they abuses you. ( But always keep in mind that these things you have to do If there is no other choice and there is a chance of seperation.) Don't follow these 2 things for simple reasons.) Thanks Krithika ________________________________ Manu Shree <manushree Friday, September 18, 2009 3:31:16 AM Sister-in-law is a problem Hello Group members, I am really bothered by my sister-in-laws interference in my married life since day one. Could you tell me if she is the cause? Her details and my husbands: Paru Mehta (sister-in-law) New Delhi, DOB:9-May-1963. Abhay Dave POB: New Delhi DOB:9-2-1965 TOB:01:10 AM Regards, Manushree ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _ Get more done like never before with 7 Mail. Learn more: http://au.overview. mail.. com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2009 Report Share Posted September 19, 2009 Dear friend, 8th cusp is strongly afflicted by Rahu in your husband's chart. Please perform remedial measures to neutralise the effects of rahu. Regards, Mrutyunjay Tripathy (consultancy out of group is not free) , Manu Shree <manushree wrote: > > Hello Group members, > > I am really bothered by my sister-in-laws interference in my married life since day one. > > Could you tell me if she is the cause? > > Her details and my husbands: > > Paru Mehta (sister-in-law) > > New Delhi, > DOB:9-May-1963. > > > > > Abhay Dave > > POB: New Delhi > DOB:9-2-1965 > TOB:01:10 AM > > Regards, > Manushree > > > ______________________________\ __ > Get more done like never before with 7 Mail. > Learn more: http://au.overview.mail./ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2009 Report Share Posted September 19, 2009 Dear krithika madam, I must thank you for this friendly, practical & befitting message. Many a times we find situations blown out of proportions for flimsy matters, which could have otherwise be avoided with coolness & patience. Building relationship is positive and should be the focus & priority. This is where the essence of life lies and not in breaking it. It is the western culture & thought that a family consists of only husband + wife + children, But this is India and here is husband + his parents + dependants + wife + children - More responcibility and off cource more security. This is the core reason why India still thrives well even this period of recession. Many youngsters who are fed with western family concepts do not think about this. In the west, if you loose your job, you suffer alone. In India, you might still have a chance to survive due to support from the family. I hope higher prudence shall prevail and love and affection among family members is maintained. A.G.Suresh Babu Shenoy , krithikskandan duvvuri <krithikskandan wrote: > > Please correct If I am wrong. > > Hi Manu Shree > I hope my Email will give you some energy and hope. > GOOD CASES: > > My mothers case: My aunty always used to interfere in my mothers life from buying a saree to buying a house etc. But when my father and mother was young and married they have no food to eat also .She has given a lot of confidence to my dad both in money and moral support. In this case we have to understand she is my dads sister and sister in law to my mother. But she is like a mother to my father. I hope you can understand. > > I know that every one will have jealous feeling even I have. If our husband gives more attention to some one that we don't like. If she is your husband's own sister we cannot fight. As a wife no one can take place your position. You just married and came may be few years ago . If she is your husband brother's wife . What's her age and how many years he is with them? May be they helped him in getting a job and allowed to stay in their house for years. All are not bad persons. My husband generally spends a lot of money on their brothers. We have to be intelligent and make our husbnad invest the money on buying plots and aprtments and gold. With good words we can do any thing. It's my personal experience. If you want privacy try jobs for him in different place encourage him in a way that it's good for his future. You have to > build confidence in your husband's mind that my wife is truthful , she takes care of my family. Then your husbnad will not do anything with out your notice. It will take 5- 10 years may be but have patience. > It took almost 5 years for me. And anothe solution is children. If children are there he will get more affection on family. Call your husbnad in the afternoon lunch time and enquire whether he > finished his lunch or not and tell him to call you back once he reaches > office and leaves office. this will show your affection towards him. When I was in my mothers place also I will call my husbnad Once in afternoon and night and make an enquiry about him. > > > I also faced many problems with my mother in law and sister in laws . I don't know what exactly your problem is but in my case they used to tell all lies to my husband and he used to believe them. > BAD CASES: > 1. In my case my inlaws are from village and very god fearing. So I told my husband I will go to any temple and promise on the god that I didn't what ever they are saying. My In laws didn't come. Even though I want to make a promise. ( You should be genuine and true in this case) > > 2. My friend's case Her mother in law used to abuse her wit bad words. So she arranged a handicam and recorded the video. You have to be very careful in your way. keep the handicam in that place for 7 days and charge the handicam there only and record how they are abusing. But you don't quarrel with them , bcos you also will be recorded. or using a cell phone call your husband and ask him to don't talk and wait on the phone: He can understand if they abuses you. > > ( But always keep in mind that these things you have to do If there is no other choice and there is a chance of seperation.) Don't follow these 2 things for simple reasons.) > Thanks > Krithika > > > > > > ________________________________ > Manu Shree <manushree > > Friday, September 18, 2009 3:31:16 AM > Sister-in-law is a problem > > > Hello Group members, > > I am really bothered by my sister-in-laws interference in my married life since day one. > > Could you tell me if she is the cause? > > Her details and my husbands: > > Paru Mehta (sister-in-law) > > New Delhi, > DOB:9-May-1963. > > Abhay Dave > > POB: New Delhi > DOB:9-2-1965 > TOB:01:10 AM > > Regards, > Manushree > > ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _ > Get more done like never before with 7 Mail. > Learn more: http://au.overview. mail.. com/ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2009 Report Share Posted September 19, 2009 Dear Friends, In navmsa of Mr Abhay,in 8th mars an d ketu togehther in kumbha too need some propitation.In this case lagna lord mars is retrograde and in enemy's house in 11th.saturn's aspect on moon and jupiter in 6th indicate his cold nature and indifference.His regard and respect to his spouse seems to be not equal.Problems in their relationships could also felt from 7th from sun sign ruled by moonProbably remdies done by spouse will benifit husband.if not the whole family Vattem Krishnan Cyber Jyotish Services (For all counseling services) --- On Sat, 9/19/09, jyotish <astrologer_mrutyunjay wrote: jyotish <astrologer_mrutyunjay Re: Sister-in-law is a problem Saturday, September 19, 2009, 5:58 AM Dear friend, 8th cusp is strongly afflicted by Rahu in your husband's chart. Please perform remedial measures to neutralise the effects of rahu. Regards, Mrutyunjay Tripathy (consultancy out of group is not free) , Manu Shree <manushree@. ..> wrote: > > Hello Group members, > > I am really bothered by my sister-in-laws interference in my married life since day one. > > Could you tell me if she is the cause? > > Her details and my husbands: > > Paru Mehta (sister-in-law) > > New Delhi, > DOB:9-May-1963. > > > > > Abhay Dave > > POB: New Delhi > DOB:9-2-1965 > TOB:01:10 AM > > Regards, > Manushree > > > ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _ > Get more done like never before with 7 Mail. > Learn more: http://au.overview. mail.. com/ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2009 Report Share Posted September 19, 2009 Kritika good words from experience, and surely must help has a good mix of ideas which I have also advised women from time to time it is a matter of time that relationships will evolve BOTH SIDES. when even siblings takes yrs to gell together a spouses is even more difficult, unless they mean harm like dowry, violence, abuses, insults too often can take it easy and also do what u said instead of reactiong just show their husbands what is happening with NO COMMENTS from their side. rest will happen naturally. prayers, meditaion, some social service can life her image, confidence level in society and surely with her in-laws. u get recognition from outise the best strenght to the family itself prashant ________________________________ krithikskandan duvvuri <krithikskandan Friday, September 18, 2009 8:05:09 PM Re: Sister-in-law is a problem Please correct If I am wrong. Hi Manu Shree I hope my Email will give you some energy and hope. GOOD CASES: My mothers case: My aunty always used to interfere in my mothers life from buying a saree to buying a house etc. But when my father and mother was young and married they have no food to eat also .She has given a lot of confidence to my dad both in money and moral support. In this case we have to understand she is my dads sister and sister in law to my mother. But she is like a mother to my father. I hope you can understand. I know that every one will have jealous feeling even I have. If our husband gives more attention to some one that we don't like. If she is your husband's own sister we cannot fight. As a wife no one can take place your position. You just married and came may be few years ago . If she is your husband brother's wife . What's her age and how many years he is with them? May be they helped him in getting a job and allowed to stay in their house for years. All are not bad persons. My husband generally spends a lot of money on their brothers. We have to be intelligent and make our husbnad invest the money on buying plots and aprtments and gold. With good words we can do any thing. It's my personal experience. If you want privacy try jobs for him in different place encourage him in a way that it's good for his future. You have to build confidence in your husband's mind that my wife is truthful , she takes care of my family. Then your husbnad will not do anything with out your notice. It will take 5- 10 years may be but have patience. It took almost 5 years for me. And anothe solution is children. If children are there he will get more affection on family. Call your husbnad in the afternoon lunch time and enquire whether he finished his lunch or not and tell him to call you back once he reaches office and leaves office. this will show your affection towards him. When I was in my mothers place also I will call my husbnad Once in afternoon and night and make an enquiry about him. I also faced many problems with my mother in law and sister in laws . I don't know what exactly your problem is but in my case they used to tell all lies to my husband and he used to believe them. BAD CASES: 1. In my case my inlaws are from village and very god fearing. So I told my husband I will go to any temple and promise on the god that I didn't what ever they are saying. My In laws didn't come. Even though I want to make a promise. ( You should be genuine and true in this case) 2. My friend's case Her mother in law used to abuse her wit bad words. So she arranged a handicam and recorded the video. You have to be very careful in your way. keep the handicam in that place for 7 days and charge the handicam there only and record how they are abusing. But you don't quarrel with them , bcos you also will be recorded. or using a cell phone call your husband and ask him to don't talk and wait on the phone: He can understand if they abuses you. ( But always keep in mind that these things you have to do If there is no other choice and there is a chance of seperation.) Don't follow these 2 things for simple reasons.) Thanks Krithika ____________ _________ _________ __ Manu Shree <manushree (AT) y7mail (DOT) com> Friday, September 18, 2009 3:31:16 AM Sister-in-law is a problem Hello Group members, I am really bothered by my sister-in-laws interference in my married life since day one. Could you tell me if she is the cause? Her details and my husbands: Paru Mehta (sister-in-law) New Delhi, DOB:9-May-1963. Abhay Dave POB: New Delhi DOB:9-2-1965 TOB:01:10 AM Regards, Manushree ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _ Get more done like never before with 7 Mail. Learn more: http://au.overview. mail.. com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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